About the copper wedding in married life: how many years of marriage is it, what does it mean and gifts

Copper wedding
- 7 years of marriage after the wedding. Another name for the anniversary is a wool wedding.

The symbol of the holiday is copper. Copper is a noble metal. It symbolizes the strength and value of a marriage relationship. At the same time, it is a plastic material that can be given any shape, just like the feelings between spouses. Copper is far from valuable metals such as silver and gold. And this is a hint that the spouses still have work to do.

In Rus', on this day, spouses gave each other copper coins so that the family would prosper. They hung them around the necks of children as a talisman. Guests also took part in the traditional celebration. They showered the family with change “for good luck.” On this day, the wife wore as much jewelry as possible. According to legends, the metallic ringing of bracelets, beads and earrings scared away evil forces from the family and protected it.

The couple traditionally celebrates their seventh anniversary with family and friends. Single and unmarried friends are invited to the celebration. It is believed that after attending a copper wedding, they have a high chance of meeting their other half, because the number 7 is a lucky number. There are no special requirements for the place of celebration.

Designations

The seventh anniversary has two names:

1. Copper . Copper is a beautiful metal and although soft and ductile, it is still quite strong, but can easily be smelted into something more beautiful and worthwhile. So the marriage of husband and wife at this stage is already quite strong and stable. The grinding of characters, arguments and quarrels over trifles are behind us; the spouses already know each other well, have learned to negotiate and compromise. But, despite this, precious metals are still far away, and there is a long road ahead to a golden wedding.
2. Woolen . Wool is, of course, warmth, comfort, tenderness, just like the relationship of lovers. But it is worth remembering that woolen products can be “prickly” and even “prickly”, thereby symbolizing some jealousy and misunderstanding in the family. Therefore, you should not forget to take care and protect your soulmate, because this is the key to a happy marital bond.

Ancient traditions

• it was believed that copper could bring material well-being to a married couple, so a horseshoe made from it was hung above the front door;
• copper coins were also pushed through the doorway, and then they were laid out in the corners of the house to attract wealth;
• On this wedding day, the spouses wore clothes with copper inserts; it was believed that such details warded off all evil spirits, envious people, and indeed all troubles, and attracted good luck and wealth;
• the festive table was served with copper utensils, and hot food was served on a large tray;
• the relatives had to give the heroes of the occasion drink mead, which was poured into copper goblets. This was done so that the married couple could preserve everything acquired and acquired over the years of marriage;
• lovers exchanged copper rings. It doesn’t matter what they looked like or how much they cost, the main thing is that they were given from the heart and with a pure heart. It is also not necessary to wear them, you just need to store them;
• Also, on the seventh anniversary of marriage, husband and wife gave each other copper coins, which were considered a family amulet. They, like rings, also need to be protected and stored.

Copper wedding symbol

Since ancient times, metal has been the symbol of a copper wedding, and this is no coincidence. The guarantor of a happy future marriage was copper coins, also known as copper coins in common parlance. The married couple had to exchange coins, and thereby introduce new notes of love, happiness and prosperity into their life together.

Those who are going to visit a couple on a holiday should think about the hidden meaning of the gift, which should carry hints of a happy and cloudless future for the family nest.

Copper works of art, any devices and things that help create a certain interior style are perfect as gifts for a copper wedding.

How to celebrate?

such a wonderful marital date on a grand scale . From this holiday you can even arrange a second wedding with congratulations and toasts, shouts of “Bitter” and toastmaster. Invite your family, godparents, witnesses, work colleagues and best friends. It would be good to come up with some kind of entertainment program: competitions, games, if celebrating outdoors, a good idea would be to barbecue or barbecue.

It is worth taking care of the holiday decoration . Since our main number is “Seven,” everything should be in this quantity, be it candlesticks on the table, bunches of balloons, bouquets of flowers or collages of 7 photos of the “newlyweds.”

Advice. If the holiday is planned outdoors, then in case of bad weather, prepare woolen blankets for guests.

As for style , you must, of course, take into account the symbolism of the holiday, focusing on copper and wool elements, you can choose:

• rustic - treat guests to tea from a samovar and jam from bowls. Also, Ukrainian and Belarusian dishes will fit perfectly on such a table: lard, potato pancakes, dumplings;
• English – a room with a fireplace or veranda is suitable for this theme.
  And warm things such as stoles, sweaters and blankets will emphasize the comfort of your wedding. The menu must include cheese, bacon and wine; This option is suitable for the cool season.
• Scottish - the highlight of such a party will be the national clothes of the Scots, which everyone present can wear.
  Such a day will definitely be remembered by both guests and spouses, because it’s not every day that you see so many men in skirts. Treat your guests to lamb, beef, seafood and whiskey. To further convey the style in question, do not forget to use tartan in the decor - the famous checkered pattern.

If you want to spend this day just the two of you, then come up with something non-standard:

• love art - go to listen to classical music, to the theater or gallery;
• music - go to a rock concert or dance in a club, depending on what you like best;
• there is not enough privacy and romance - it would be great to fly together to a warm country or Europe and have a second honeymoon;
• For people with a frantic pace of life, the format of a quiet, relaxing dinner at home is perfect.

What to give?

Traditionally, gifts corresponding to the symbol of the date are given on wedding anniversaries; in our case, these are copper and wool. Parents and friends can give the couple one of the following things:

• dishes - tea or coffee set, samovar, cutlery, coffee pot, tray, fruit dish, and so on;
• interior items - horseshoe, vase, candlesticks, figurines, casket;
• knitted clothes and accessories - woolen hats, mittens, scarves, blankets, snoods, furniture upholstery, car covers, paired sweaters, slippers, bathrobes, shawls and the like.

If you come up with a good gift, but it is not copper and has nothing to do with the anniversary symbols, then don’t hesitate and give it. After all, the main thing is that the recipients like it and find it useful. And if, on the contrary, you don’t know what to present for such a wedding, then give the spouses money, because this is the option that they will definitely appreciate and buy the thing they like.

Advice. Another good gift idea is certificates for clothing, cosmetics, household appliances stores, and so on.

A husband can give his wife a wallet with coins inside, made of the appropriate metal or jewelry made from the same metal (beads, ring, earrings, pendant, hair clip) and even a soft toy; this option is good for romantic and spontaneous wives who, deep down, remain child.

The wife also has a lot of options on how to please her husband in return, and since we are considering the seventh anniversary, copper and woolen products will come to her aid. You can surprise your loved one:

• belt with buckle;
• wine cup;
• collectible souvenir coins;
• flask;
• pot;
• pocket watch;
• ashtray;
• a set of stacks;
• hookah with suitable elements;
• hand knitted sweater or mittens.

Tandem of copper and wool as a gift

Since not only copper, but also wool is considered a symbol of the seventh wedding anniversary, a combination of these completely different, at first glance, materials would be an excellent solution. You can give your spouse:

• Beautiful scarf made of natural wool with an original copper brooch
• Original woolen mittens with copper decorative elements
• The handicraft wife will love the malachite box with a set of woolen threads for knitting inside
• A wool blanket and a copper horseshoe - this set will fill any bedroom with homely warmth and comfort, and at the same time keep you both warm in the winter cold
• A fluffy furball would be a very original idea - especially if your wife has long dreamed of a four-legged pet.
• Master class on wool felting

A copper or wool wedding is perfect for gifts for couples - these could be identical woolen socks for the two of you, symbolic pendants in the form of a key and lock, paired copper keychains, woolen mittens for lovers or warm and cozy winter sweaters.

If there has not yet been a new addition to your family, a copper wedding is an excellent occasion to hint to your wife about your desire to become a father - you can put baby knitted socks in a copper or malachite box. In the future, they will become a talisman for your family and a symbol of its prosperity.

Beautiful statuses for social networks

• “Seven years have already flown by, and I love everything more and more! Happy wedding day to us!”;
• “Today is our 7th anniversary! Behind us are years full of happiness, love and harmony! Thank you for them.”;
• “The 8th year of our family happiness has begun! Love you!";
• “It’s my family’s birthday, today is already 7. I didn’t even notice how quickly these years flew by. We walk through life hand in hand and enjoy every moment spent together, let it always be that way!”;
• “Exactly 7 years since we became the official unit of society for the state.”;
• “And today is our family’s holiday! 7 years officially married.”;
• “Happy wedding day to us! Today is the seventh anniversary of our marriage, and I am still in love with you like a teenager! My dear, I wish you and I to always be in 7th heaven with happiness, but let all adversity be covered with a copper basin!!! They say that if a family has lived together for so long, it means it’s forever! I promise to love you forever!”;
• “Today is our seventh wedding anniversary, thanks to my beloved husband for everything, and most importantly for our children.”;
• “7 whole years have already passed, full of happiness, love and harmony! Thanks to my husband for them, happy day!”;
• “Seven years of love, joy, sorrow and loyalty. I love you more than anyone!”;
• “7 years, great result! I love everything more!”;
• “Seven years are like one day. Without routine, everyday life and everyday life. Every day is a holiday. Darling, thank you for existing!”;
• “7 happy years we have been married! I love you and will never stop thanking you for everything you do for me!”;
• “Seven years... a lot or a little... I think it’s not enough... because being with you is never enough for me. Adore you!";
• “Happy seventh anniversary of our union! No matter what, we are together, we are close, and nothing more is needed!”;
• “7 years have passed, a lot has changed, but we haven’t! I love you as before and even more. The best is yet to come. I would like to wish us good luck and even more joyful events!”

If desired, your beautiful words can be accompanied by the wedding date and hashtags, for example: #CopperWedding, #WoolWedding, #7Years of Marriage, #SevenYears ofMarriage, #WeddingAnniversary, #SevenYears, #HusbandWife, #Family, #LoveIs, #Love, #ThisisLove, #TogetherForever, #SeventhAnniversary, #HappinessForTwo, #MarriageAnniversary, #HappyTogether, #Relationships, #Marriage.

Now you know what kind of wedding is celebrated after seven years of marriage. We wish you a wonderful celebration of your copper anniversary and, of course, that it will not be the last for your family!

Pictures and cards suitable for the event

Pictures and cards on the theme “Happy 7th wedding day” usually depict:

• medallions with an inscription;

Or a themed keychain

• gift glasses;

In addition, it can be any kitchen utensil made of copper

• stacks of copper coins;

For example, a picture like this

• wedding rings on a background of flowers and the number 7;

Or a stylish copper jewelry

• hearts woven from copper wire;

Instead of hearts there may be an inscription

• copper horseshoes “for luck”.

Copper horseshoe for good luck
Pictures are convenient for congratulating a family on their 7th wedding anniversary on the Internet; original or comic wishes are often written on them; you can choose any one, taking into account the preferences of those being congratulated.