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A wedding is one of the most joyful and important events in the life of every person. In the old days, many folk signs and superstitions were associated with it, which actually came true. Even the modern generation is accustomed to live with an eye on centuries-old traditions. Let's talk about wedding signs and what they promise the newlyweds.

Signs for a wedding

Season

Depending on the time of year and month, there are different wedding signs for the bride and groom.

in winter

According to popular wedding signs, getting married in winter, in December, promises the newlyweds a strong, long-lasting and passionate family life. Such relationships will grow stronger year after year. The spouses will be happy and faithful to each other until the end of their days.

Forecasters do not recommend newlyweds to get married in January. Wedding signs foretell the loss of one of the other half almost immediately after the wedding. The cause of death can be anything: an incurable disease, a car accident, etc.

Folk signs for a wedding in February promise the newlyweds long, happy and peaceful years. Historical facts confirm that most of the weddings of our ancestors took place in February, on the last days of the month. Just these days preceded Great Lent, and on the eve of it the people celebrated Maslenitsa. It was this period that was considered the best for establishing relationships between lovers, matchmaking and bride viewing. If everything went like clockwork, the wedding day was set for Krasnaya Gorka - the first Sunday after Easter.

According to wedding signs and superstitions, a Maslenitsa wedding promised the young people a life of peace and prosperity. If it also snowed on this day, the young family will live in wealth and without need.

in spring

Wedding omens claim that marriage in March promises the newlyweds life in a foreign land. Most likely, after the wedding they will have to move far from home.

An April wedding foretells an unstable family life for the newlyweds, just as the weather is fickle and changeable in this month of spring. If it starts to rain on one of the April days for the wedding, the couple can count on a rich and carefree life.

Folk wedding omens say that a May wedding predicts betrayal and constant distrust of each other for young spouses. Also, wedding omens have another meaning associated with this time: the newlyweds will have to suffer all their lives.

In summer

If you believe wedding signs and superstitions, a June wedding promises the newlyweds great happiness and strong love. Married life for the bride and groom will be a continuous honeymoon. The only exception is the holiday of Trinity. You cannot get married on Trinity Sunday, since the church does not hold a wedding ceremony on the eve of any church holiday. It is also not recommended to get married during Lent before Trinity: for newlyweds this marks a sinful life in poverty and need.

According to Russian traditions, the best day for marriage was the holiday of Ivan Kupala. Using centuries-old traditions, on the night of the full moon (6th), girls read their fortunes in order to find their betrothed. It was believed that only on this night can you meet your destiny. A wedding on this day for the newlyweds was a harbinger of a rich and happy life.

The meaning of wedding signs for July is double-digit. A couple who gets married this month will experience both joyful and unpleasant events.

If the wedding is planned in August, life will be full of happiness, romance and harmony. August 19 is considered a special day for Orthodox Christians. On this day the Apple Savior (Transfiguration of the Lord) is celebrated. It was believed that marriage on a Great Church holiday promised the head of the family strong protection from poverty, ruin and poverty.

in autumn

A wedding in September promises happiness

According to wedding signs, a wedding in September foretells a calm, measured life for the newly-made spouses. Such a union will be strong and happy. If you believe in ancient rituals, the wedding, which took place between the end of August and the beginning of September, promised the newlyweds harmony and understanding in the family, because this period is popularly called Indian summer. With the onset of autumn, women finished all their work in the garden, and the opportunity arose to devote more time to their family, in particular to their husband. If any disagreements arose in the young family, the wise wife could always smooth them out and eliminate them.

Signs for a wedding in October do not bode well. Husband and wife getting married this month will face difficulties. There is another meaning of the signs before the wedding in October. It was believed that this particular month was favorable for a wedding, since the wife had the opportunity to improve comfort and well-being.

In the old days, the wedding season in Russia opened on the Great Church Feast of the Intercession. It was on this day that the girls hurried to the church to light a candle to the heavenly saints and ask them for a speedy wedding. If you believe in folk customs, whoever comes to church on this day before all the girls will be the first to know about the upcoming wedding for themselves.

If it snows on Pokrov during the wedding, the family will have a long and happy life. The November marriage foreshadowed the young people's long, stable and prosperous life.

Saturday and Sunday

Dry, emotionally stingy Saturn is not the best satellite for newlyweds. This is the planet of self-sacrifice. Harmony in marriage can be achieved by giving up some of your own aspirations.

Signs say that after the Saturday celebration, spiritual intimacy between partners disappears. You should not expect harmony, conversations about lofty matters, or the composition of poetry. This is a marriage of convenience, with the signing of a contract and payment of a penalty in the event of a breakup. But this approach guarantees the reliability of the union.

Sunday, as you might guess, is a Sunny day. This means that the family hearth will always burn, and the partners will always warm each other. A wedding on Sunday, according to superstition, is a guarantee of harmony and mutual understanding. There will definitely be many children in the family.

The science of stars helps to understand the reasons for what happens in life. But it is better to remember that the key to a happy marriage is love, work and mutual respect. Without them, even Venus and the Sun will not be able to help.

Signs by day of the week

Before the wedding, it is important to find out not only the signs by month. It turns out that not all days are favorable for such an event:

1. Monday is the day on which most registry offices are closed. It is considered moderately favorable and can foreshadow an unstable family life for newlyweds.
2. On Tuesday, according to church canon, it is forbidden to conduct a wedding ceremony. In addition, this day for newlyweds foreshadows a complex and difficult family life with conflicts, quarrels and constant disagreements.
3. Wednesday is considered a lucky day for marriage and marriage. An atmosphere of comfort, mutual understanding and warmth will always reign in a newly-made family.
4. On Thursday after the wedding, the young family will face great difficulties and trials, since the church canon prohibits wedding ceremonies on such days. Not every family can cope with such trials; marriages often break up.
5. Folk signs associate great wealth and financial well-being in the family with marriage on Friday. But such stability is only possible if both spouses sacrifice everything to preserve the family.
6. On Saturday, folk signs for a wedding for newlyweds foretell a lack of luck, dryness in mutual feelings, while there is a high probability of stability in financial affairs.
7. The wedding can also be held on Sunday. On Sundays, marriages, according to pre-wedding beliefs, are strong and lasting.

Having familiarized yourself with the signs for a wedding by month and day, you can set the most favorable date for the ceremony. Folk signs will help with this.

Submit an application: days and deadlines

You can submit an application for further marriage registration on any working day

this structure. If you have chosen one specific date to submit your application, then it is worth checking in advance what time registration begins on the day you have chosen.

State registration, as well as marriage, occurs after the expiration of thirty days from the date when the application for marriage was submitted. It is possible to register a marriage earlier or later than this period, if there are good reasons. It is important to know that you can defer the conclusion for no more than one month.

Registration and marriage is possible on the day of filing the application, but in exceptional cases and in the presence of important or special reasons: the birth of a child, pregnancy or a threat to the life of one of the future spouses, and others.

Thus, having decided to register and enter into a marriage, you must first clarify the work schedule of the registry office in your city, especially if you decide to solemnly celebrate your marriage.

Remember that in some cities there is a long queue , so it is worth agreeing in advance with the registry office staff about such an important event in the life of the newlyweds.

Marriage registration: days

Except for Sunday and the first day of the week - Monday, you can sign with your future spouse or wife on any day. The ceremonial registration of marriage takes place on Friday and Saturday, but you must first check with the specific registry office for exact information.

It will not be possible to sign on the last Thursday of every month due to the fact that this is a sanitary day.

What documents are needed at the registry office to register a marriage?

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Beliefs by numbers

According to predictors, you can get married on any day of the week, be it the 1st or the 31st. It is especially good if such a day falls a week before the Great Church Holiday. You can also get married a week after. The most favorable dates are 3, 5, 7, 9.

The main thing is that the wedding date does not fall on the 13th, which promises failure and misfortune in family life. It is also not recommended to marry on February 29 in a leap year and on February 28 on the last day of the month. Holding a wedding on such days will not bring happiness to the newlyweds. Some signs say that you cannot have a wedding on the birthday of the bride or groom. You shouldn’t expect happiness and prosperity if you are getting married on such a day.

Favorable days for marriage: nakshatras

Traditionally, muhurta is calculated using the lunar Vedic panchanga calendar, which takes into account nakshatras and lunar days, as well as other factors. To find out what nakshatra and moon phase will be on your expected wedding day, use any online nakshatra calculator on the Internet.

When the nakshatra of the date is determined, see how favorable it is for marriage. In Vedic astrology, the following nakshatras are considered favorable for marriage:

• Rohini (4th Nakshatra)
• Mrigashira (5th Nakshatra)
• Magha (10th Nakshatra)
• Uttara Phalguni (12th Nakshatra)
• Hasta (13th Nakshatra)
• Swati (15th Nakshatra)
• Anuradha (17th Nakshatra)
• Mula (19th Nakshatra)
• Uttara Ashadha (21st Nakshatra)
• Uttara bhadrapada (26th Nakshatra)
• Revati (27th Nakshatra)

There is an important clarification: the last quarter of Revati and the first part of Mula and Magha are extremely unfavorable for marriage. All nakshatras are divided into quarters, and only a specialist - an experienced astrologer - can calculate the quarter of a nakshatra.

Read more about nakshatras in our material at this link.

Outfits, shoes and accessories

There are other important and effective signs for a wedding (what you can and cannot do). Let's look at them in detail.

Old Slavonic beliefs

Many signs for a bride on her wedding day are related to her clothing. For a wedding ceremony in Rus', two outfits were used. The bride wore her first modestly tailored black clothes before the wedding. The girl put on the second outfit directly to the celebration. The color red was considered a symbol of happiness and joy in future family life. But there are no restrictions in this matter. The bride could wear a blue, lilac, yellow or green outfit before the wedding. The groom's suit could also be not only black, but also yellow, blue, and purple. It was believed that wearing bright clothes, spouses would live a bright and happy life together.

The bride and groom were required to wear long sleeves. It was inappropriate to touch each other with bare hands at a wedding.

It is not recommended to get married in new shoes

Folk signs associated with weddings say that brides should wear old shoes for the wedding ceremony. If you believe in popular superstitions, a wedding in old shoes promises the young a strong and strong family. Before the wedding, they bought new shoes, walked them around, and then wore them to the ceremony. It was believed that a broken heel at a wedding is evidence that family life will go awry. If a bride wears sandals to her wedding, she risks marrying a flighty husband.

Superstitions of our time

According to popular belief, in order for the marriage to be happy and successful, the bride needs to wear old, new and other people’s things. Alternatively, you can wear someone else's bracelet, old stockings and new underwear. Those who long for the birth of a son need to wear something blue.

Other signs say that brides should wear white underwear for their wedding celebrations. White color is a symbol of purity, innocence and purity.

Family life will be happy, prosperous and rich if one of the married ladies wears jewelry for the wedding. Jewelry can be worn by the witness if she is married.

For any bride, a dream at night in which the groom saw a wedding dress is a bad sign, foreshadowing trouble. If you believe in popular superstitions, you can get rid of the evil eye of wedding guests with a simple pin. It is pinned on the bride's veil or on the hem of the dress with the head down. The groom can pin a pin on his jacket.

To see jewelry made of turquoise in a dream means a happy marriage, and jewelry made of pearls - unlucky.

According to important signs for the bride before the wedding, she was not allowed to look in the mirror in a veil and wedding dress.

Favorable days for marriage: choosing a wedding date using numerology

You need to calculate the number of fate, the number of the name, and the date that you have planned for the wedding. You can read how to do this in the article “Numerology of the day“. Each number has its own meaning, it will show whether you have chosen a number for marriage successfully or not. The numbers 1, 6, 8 and 9 are favorable for marriage.

Happy marriage according to the Vedas:

• Just one well-chosen date is just the beginning of the journey. The Vedas say that a wife should be ready to follow her husband in everything, sharing all his aspirations and principles, then their life will be happy. Support, attention and care - this is what will help your marriage be harmonious and happy.
• Read mantras for a happy marriage. For example, OM SRI MAHA LAKSHMIYAY NAMAHA. This mantra is a veneration of Goddess Lakshmi. She is the one who will give your marriage health, wealth, happiness and wisdom.
• Remember that joint spiritual development unites and strengthens the marriage bond. Develop and enlighten yourself together, spiritual closeness is what you need to strive for.

How to find out compatibility using astrology, read here

Wedding rings

You need to buy rings for a wedding from one precious metal. It is recommended to opt for smooth products without stones or engraving. It is with such decorations that family life will be harmonious, happy, without a single obstacle on the way.

Only the groom should buy rings, and he should be given this choice, since he will become the head of the family in the future. You need to keep the rings together, then the future family will always be inseparable and strong. Some people manage to freeze rings until the wedding and store them in the freezer.

You cannot use wedding rings melted down from other products for a wedding, even if they are jewelry from your parents. It was believed that in this way the karma of the parents is transferred to the children. You can only use new rings, since they do not store any negative energy.

When exchanging rings during the ceremony, it is very important not to drop them on the floor or table. If this happens, the family will fall apart after some time. In this regard, you need to ask the witnesses to prepare the thread in advance. A thread is pulled through the dropped ring, thus getting rid of bad signs. Witnesses must be asked to perform this procedure; they do not touch the thread or ring themselves.

Those who have lost their wedding ring face separation. To let someone try it on is to give your destiny into someone else’s hands.

Signs of astronomers

Based on the views of professional astronomers, in order for a marriage to be strong and long-lasting, and the passion between wives to flare up more strongly with age, you need to get married on the 4th, 5th, seventh, tenth or eleventh month from your birth. So, if a person was born in January, it is better for him to get married in May or August.

If a couple believes in astrological signs for marriage, by month they will be able to simply calculate the best date for the celebration, using their birth dates for this.

For example, for a groom who was born in February and a wife who was born in early autumn, the best months will be June or December.

In addition, if you know the astrological calendar, you can simply identify the months when Venus will be powerful. This particular planet is the patroness of lovers, so it will help newlyweds find happiness.

Signs on your wedding day

Whether or not to believe in wedding omens is a personal matter, but they are still observed.

1. In Rus', it was believed that what the weather would be like for a wedding, this would be how family life would be. If it starts to rain, thunder or snow on your wedding day, this is a sign of happiness and prosperity. Popular beliefs say that if there is a strong wind at the wedding, it means that one of the spouses in the relationship will be windy. The same meaning of the sign applies to a paper, wooden or silver wedding. Cheating can occur at any stage of family life. The sun is a sign of a warm, cozy and happy family life.
2. If the bride cries during the ceremony from the parting words of her parents, this is a good omen for her. If the bride does not cry during the wedding or at the table, it was believed that she would cry about her family life.
3. From time immemorial, newlyweds were showered with coins. This sign remains popular to this day. By showering money on the newly-made spouses, relatives attract prosperity and wealth to their family.
4. On the day of the celebration, when cutting the loaf, it is customary for the bride and groom to take the first pieces for themselves, and only then invite the guests to feast on it. In this way, it is possible to preserve feelings and love until the end of your days.
5. In order for children to appear in a family, the young need to be sprinkled with grain or millet. For the sweet life, sweets are thrown at the feet of the newlyweds; for romance and passionate love, the bride and groom are showered with rose petals.
6. Two bottles of champagne are tied with a ribbon and left for the wedding anniversary. This sign promises the young a strong marriage and the early birth of their first child.
7. There is one more sign on your wedding day. The bride and groom are seated on a fur coat turned inside out. It is believed that after this the young people will live in abundance. The popular belief has the same meaning if the bride’s left palm is itchy. Scratching the right palm promises a young couple constant waste in marriage. Most likely they will have many guests in their house.
8. In order for the union to be strong and pure, the parents of the newlyweds greet the newlyweds with the image of the Blessed Virgin Mary. It was believed that it was the image of the Mother of God that would help young people find harmony and mutual understanding. For such a ritual it is best to use the Kazan icon.
9. It was believed that the main one in the family would be the one of the newlyweds who would tear off a larger piece of the loaf presented by the mother-in-law or father-in-law.
10. You cannot give artificial flowers for a wedding: this is a bad sign that foretells dry feelings and indifference to each other after the wedding. It is also not recommended to give calla lilies. This flower foreshadows sorrows and sorrows for the young.
11. It is not recommended to take divorced witnesses to a wedding: this will lead to separation of the newlyweds.
12. If there is a frame with a photograph of the newlyweds on the table, taken before the wedding, it is a bad sign: life will be full of unpleasant troubles.
13. If a bride's dress is rented, the omen does not bode well. But if a purchased dress is worn to a wedding, you cannot sell it, no matter how much it costs. This is a bad omen: a woman gives her happiness to such people.
14. The wedding cannot be postponed. According to the signs associated with such an event, the transfer is a sign that many troubles will be encountered along the family path.
15. A wedding cortege is a luxury these days. But if you have the opportunity to order it, you should try to choose a beautiful and expensive product, decorated with fresh flowers. As family life begins, this is how it will be in the future.

What awaits after the wedding on Tuesday

This day is patronized by the red planet. Astrologers advise refraining from making serious decisions under the influence of a militant god. His uncompromising and hot temper will bring conflicts, misunderstandings and aggression into the union.

Mars cannot be appeased; it does not negotiate and does not make concessions. No warmth, harmony or peace. Spouses will strive to dominate the marriage, regardless of possible losses. Tuesday is suitable for those who agree to turn family life into a battlefield.

In rare cases, when both partners have a tough character and are prone to showdowns, they will passionately quarrel and make peace throughout their lives. But, according to many years of observations, couples quickly separate, having exhausted their emotional reserves. Mars prefers to destroy rather than unite.