In addition to the main wedding gift, you can also give bouquets. Before you consider which flowers cannot be brought to a celebration, you need to find out whether or not to bring a bouquet. Esotericists believe that the absence of flowers from guests will not in any way affect the happiness of the newlyweds. The most important thing is that the bride's bouquet is present at the wedding.
If guests nevertheless decide to bring flowers to the newlyweds, then they should familiarize themselves with the preferred and undesirable types of plants for the wedding. It is important to find out not only which inflorescences to include in the composition, but also which shades are best to choose for its design.
What flowers to give for a wedding?
A wedding is considered a bright, clean holiday. The flowers are suitable for her - elegant, delicate, without negative hints. It is recommended to give the bride:
- Roses are a symbol of love, passion, romance. Roses reflect the feelings of the newlyweds. The color of the buds can be anything, but it is better to give preference to light pinkish shades. Roses have a pleasant, unobtrusive aroma and will definitely not cause allergies, which can instantly ruin the whole holiday.
- Peonies are a symbol of youth, femininity, tenderness. Peonies express sympathy and affection. This is a sign of friendship and respect. In addition, peonies look elegant, so they are perfect for such a large-scale celebration. Peonies are recommended to be given to active newlyweds who are making grandiose plans. The shade of plants is red, burgundy, white, pink. In Japan, peonies symbolize joy and vitality, so with such a bouquet you can not only congratulate, but wish all the best.
- Orchids are a symbol of sexuality and modesty at the same time. Orchids are great for a wedding bouquet. At the same time, such a bouquet looks expensive and prestigious. The ideal option would be a combination of different types of orchids (phalaenopsis, cymbidium, cambria). The shades of plants can be very diverse. The main thing is that they harmoniously combine with the bride’s dress, because you won’t want to let go of such a bouquet.
Let's translate flower language
- White lily - virtue, youth, purity of thoughts and innocence;
- Water lily – calm and tranquility;
- Blue lily – spiritual nobility.
- Tiger Lily - is designed to tell a person that you wish him wealth, prosperity and well-being.
- The yellow lily is a call to pay attention to the giver.
- Orange - speaks of excitement, coquetry, hints at flirting.
Even the results of the “translation” provide, without any doubt, an affirmative answer to the question about the appropriateness of giving lilies - after all, this delicate flower has so many beautiful meanings.
What flowers should not be given for a wedding?
It is strictly forbidden to give yellow flowers for a wedding. This shade is associated with separation and sadness. In fact, yellow has no negative connotations. It’s just that this opinion has developed in our country, in particular, thanks to the song “Yellow Tulips”. It is also not recommended to give the bride calla lilies, carnations, or wild plants. Callas are more of a masculine flower, and the rest of those listed look too cheap and uncomplicated.
Chrysanthemums would be inappropriate for a wedding ceremony. It is better to give them to colleagues, co-workers, acquaintances, since this flower is considered formal and purely symbolic. The bride deserves the most luxurious bouquet. It's definitely not worth saving on a wedding gift!
Lilies and Feng Shui
In the teachings of Feng Shui, the lily is practical in nature. She brings harmony and abundance to the home. To do this, it is placed in the southeastern part of the home.
Exquisite dishes will not be translated into the house if you decorate the dining room or kitchen with flowers. The same applies to paintings and photos of lilies.
For single people, Feng Shui masters recommend placing bouquets or potted plants in the eastern part of the building, which is responsible for love.
Flowers placed in the bedroom increase sexual desire.
You can reliably protect your house from evil spirits by planting plants in the garden around the entire perimeter.
Attention! Feng Shui masters warn about the capriciousness of the flower.
While safely protecting home and family, bringing harmony and happiness, the lily can suddenly provoke a major conflict.
How many flowers should there be in a bouquet?
The number of plants in a floral composition must be odd (3, 5, 7, 9, etc.). It is customary to bring an even number of flowers to the cemetery. There are no other restrictions regarding the number of buds in a bouquet. It all depends on the contents of the flower arrangement. Some flowers look self-sufficient and in single quantities, others - only when there are many of them. If you are going to give small flowers (roses with small buds, tulips, lilies of the valley), then it is better to have more of them in the bouquet - from 11 to 25. If you are going to give peonies, then you can limit yourself to 3-5 plants, supplementing them with decorative greenery: leaves fern, ruscus, aspidistra, fatsia. Various decorations (ribbons, wrapping paper, balls) will make the bouquet more voluminous.
Signs about lily flowers
It is generally accepted that lilies are an ideal gift for women and girls.
They facilitate the search for a soul mate and protect the intimate life of married couples.
Purity and innocence are the most common meaning of the flower. It is given a negative connotation by Western countries, where it is considered a symbol of sadness and repentance. They are brought to the grave and decorated with hearses and coffins.
During the Renaissance, the lily served as a mark for harlots. The outline of a flower was stamped on their shoulder to cleanse their soul and flesh from sin.
In France, immoral women were also branded with the image of a fleur-de-lis, and criminals were also marked with it. Out of ignorance or thanks to the successful marketing of tattoo parlors, in the 21st century women get it, believing that this emphasizes their purity.
In the language of flowers, it has only “light” meanings:
- purity;
- innocence;
- sophistication;
- strength of mind;
- motherhood;
- happiness;
- memory.
It is given to spiritually strong people, girls, new mothers, wives, as a sign of love and respect not only for the living, but also for the dead.
Popular signs:
- A lonely girl who grows a flower will soon find a admirer and get married.
- A house lily given to an unmarried lady is a sign of deep affection for her. The donor wishes her happiness.
- According to signs and superstitions, a lily grown independently at home brings financial well-being.
- Those who are having a hard time with a breakup need to decorate their home, use them as decoration for clothes or hairstyles to get rid of melancholy.
- A crack in a married couple's relationship can be easily mended by placing a flower in the shared bedroom. Old feelings will definitely be revived.
- A bouquet of cut flowers placed in the house protects the owner from the effects of magic, witchcraft and bad thoughts.
- A dried lily hidden in a room will reliably protect against the evil eye.
Comment! The Slavs believed that embroidery on clothes protected women's health and promoted conception. A flower embroidered with gold will protect against betrayal, and the addition of a drop of dew on its petal will protect against illness.
Depending on color
According to popular beliefs, the color of lilies symbolizes the true attitude towards a person, therefore great importance is attached to the color of the flower.
Symbolism:
- white - symbolizes innocence and purity of soul, compassion. Suitable for a bridal bouquet, expression of feelings, as a condolence for grief;
- pink – a sign of tenderness, sophistication and romanticism;
- white and pink - a symbol of compassion. They are given to those who find themselves in a difficult situation to emphasize their willingness to help;
- red - speak of love and passion, but some signs claim that this color warns of selfishness and contempt of the giver;
- purple - a sign of love;
- blue - express the seriousness of the donor’s intentions;
- brindle - reflect the ambition and authority of the person who gave them, and promise a quick solution to financial problems;
- yellow ones have a double meaning. In some cases they mean an expression of gratitude, in others they are considered a harbinger of separation, betrayal, tears;
- orange - given with wishes of health.
Depending on the variety and number of flowers
The number of flowers in a bouquet and the varietal variety also matter. If flowers are bought to be placed on the grave of the deceased, then an even number is chosen. For gifts to the living, an odd number is used.
Digital value of a gift bouquet:
- One flower speaks of the strong feelings of the giver, so it emphasizes the value of a person in his life.
- Light compliment or show of respect – 3 pcs.
- Five lilies will help express love.
- The seriousness of feelings can be proven with the help of seven colors. Such a bouquet is regarded as a marriage proposal.
- Nine lilies will be a symbol of gratitude.
- On important family dates, 11 pieces are presented.
- The giver's unspoken strong dislike can be determined by the thirteen flowers.
Attention! When buying a bouquet for representatives of foreign countries, you should remember that an odd number in European countries has the opposite meaning. It is used for burial and remembrance.
Among the varieties, the Amazonian lily, Eucharis, has a special meaning. The Amazons endowed it with protective properties, so to find and preserve a family, women all over the world grow it at home.
A sprig of eucharis woven into a child's hair reliably protects him from the evil eye
A flower in a bride's hair protects her from envious people. A bowl with a flower placed in the nursery stimulates interest in knowledge.
It is customary to express worship and sympathy with the help of Asian varieties
The American variety has a distinctly light character
Such specimens are given to coquettes and accessible women. The bouquet brings clarity to the relationship, characterizing the connection as light flirting.
Apollo lilies are presented to wives. They are a sign of the primacy of the family over other areas of life. Candidum is a symbol of deep respect, so they are usually given as gifts for anniversaries.
How to arrange a bouquet for the bride?
It is better to entrust the design of a wedding bouquet to a professional florist. The specialist will be able to stylishly decorate any plants and offer the best option for the client’s individual preferences. In modern times, there are many ways to design bouquets, which makes it difficult for an inexperienced person to choose.
If you don’t want to bother too much, it’s better to give the bride a classic bouquet that can be placed in a vase. If it is expected that the bride will walk with this bouquet, then it is better to choose flowers in a floral sponge - an oasis (such bouquets do not require a vase with water, since the moisture is retained in the sponge). And if you want to give something exclusive, then pay attention to:
- flowers in a box - stylish and unusual;
- flowers in a basket - luxurious and tasteful;
- bouquets in the form of toys, animals or other figures are fun and romantic.
You can add a congratulations sign or card to the bride's bouquet. You can also carefully insert rolled banknotes into it. Another good option is edible bouquets of sweets and fruits. Don't be afraid to be creative and experiment!
Palette of wedding bouquets
Traditionally, compositions as gifts for newlyweds consisted of white flowers and greenery. The white color symbolized the purity of the relationship and the purity of the bride, and the green leaves symbolized youth and timid blossoming beauty. All pastel colors are also allowed: peach, cream, pink, blue, pale yellow, apricot, light green and light lilac.
Bright colors are used only as accents. Red and burgundy roses, which are associated with passionate love, are best replaced with orange, crimson or hot pink. They also have very mixed feelings about the color yellow. In Europe, yellow flowers are often placed on the table for newlyweds, which means prosperity and fun, but in Russia yellow tulips are still considered harbingers of separation, and tea roses are associated with betrayal and fading.
At themed weddings, the choice of bouquet colors is derived from the plot. As a rule, guests are informed in advance what flowers to give to the newlyweds on their wedding day. Red peonies are ideal for a Chinese-style wedding ceremony, which, according to the teachings of Feng Shui, attract wealth and marital happiness. And at fantasy-style weddings, decorating the newlyweds’ table with flowers is not complete without deep blue and purple tones, otherwise it will be difficult for decorators to create an atmosphere of mystery and magic.
Kenyan roses in a hat box with embossed pattern
Lilac dream wings: composition of chrysanthemums, orchids and hyacinths with genista branches
An original combination of white, golden and green shades in a bouquet of chrysanthemums with spray roses and solidago
Delicate play of fantasy: lilac and green chrysanthemums with pink and white roses
An elegant bouquet of chrysanthemums, blue irises and pink tulips awakens romance in the soul.
Choosing flowers for the bride according to the season
When choosing a bouquet for a wedding, you have to adapt to the season, because it is almost impossible to get spring tulips at the end of autumn, for example. Each season has its own “running”, affordable and relevant flowers:
- winter – roses, phalaenopsis orchids, asters;
- spring – tulips, lilies of the valley, hyacinths, lilacs, snowdrops;
- summer – tea roses, daisies, peonies, poppies, gladioli;
- autumn – gerberas, eustomas, phloxes.
In the cold season, you want colors, so it is advisable to give the most bright, variegated and rich bouquets with predominant shades: red, blue, orange, wine. In autumn, red, golden, and brown tones look harmonious. In summer you can give multi-colored bouquets, and in spring - flowers of any shades of pink, lilac, purple. The color of the plants also affects the semantic message of the bouquet. For example, white flowers will help express admiration and respect. Red - love and protection, care and loyalty. Orange - wishes for family comfort and well-being. With the help of blue flowers you can demonstrate loyalty and devotion.
It is customary to give flowers at a wedding not only to the bride, but also to her parents, the groom's parents, and also the witness. If you are going to please all the listed guests, then choose more modest bouquets for them so that they do not overshadow the flowers of the main “hero” of the occasion. Flowers at a wedding are a mandatory attribute that brings joy and sincere happiness. Give flowers, give impressions!
What else can you give as a present?
Certificates – many boutiques, shops and salons offer to purchase a certificate or voucher for their services. Among them there are even offers that allow you to purchase an interesting product at half the price, and sometimes even less. And by giving the newly formed family a certificate to a store, you will thus give her the opportunity to make her first joint purchase. So, you can present a certificate to a furniture store, to visit a spa or fitness center, to take a hot air balloon flight, tickets to a concert or an invitation to a fashionable nightclub.
Pet food is a specific gift that only the newlyweds themselves can ask for. The wedding invitation may indicate that instead of flowers, it is better to give animal food, dishes for them, or other supplies. It’s just that the spouses may be ardent animal lovers and want to somehow help the most needy of them. Therefore, instead of flowers that will wither in a few days, they prefer to get something that will bring much greater benefits.
Photo of a wedding gift instead of flowers - sweets
Sweets - a chic basket of various sweets will appeal to young people much more than roses and gladioli. Original sweets, cakes and cookies will not go unnoticed, and the bride and groom will remember you with a huge smile when they eat them.
Photo frames – one or more frames for wedding photos will be a wonderful addition to the interior. Young people will definitely find a place for them in their home and will admire the photographs that remind them of such a grandiose event.
Jewelry - earrings for her and cufflinks for him can become a full-fledged gift (and not just a replacement for a bouquet) if it is expensive metal and natural stones.
These are the ideas for a gift instead of flowers for a wedding that you can take into your arsenal and surprise the newlyweds. The choice is yours.
