Simple rules: how to present your heart to the woman you love
A woman is a refined person who dreams of being unique and hearing a beautiful declaration of love.
Therefore, when proposing marriage to a girl, a man must be prepared for this rather serious and responsible step!
It is worth devoting more time to the preparation and the proposal itself, and he will surprise and make happy his chosen one, who will be able to finally be convinced of the seriousness of his intentions.
If a man is still ready to do this act, he should remember the following:
- In no case should you make an offer “under the influence,” that is, you should not drink first for courage. This will be a disrespectful act towards the chosen one;
- a ring in food is a long-ago topic, and the idea can lead to trouble from a dental point of view;
- bed is definitely not the place where future life together is decided;
- It is necessary to do an important event in private, face to face, so as not to embarrass either yourself or her;
- there is no need to be distracted from what is happening, a man should pay a lot of attention to his girlfriend.
In any case, before you propose marriage to a girl, you need to know her character traits, morals and, naturally, be confident in your choice.
Unexpected package
You will need: balloons filled with helium, champagne, roses, packaging from under the refrigerator and the help of your best friends.
In a businesslike tone, warn the future bride that the courier will deliver her a package from one online store exactly at such and such a time. Stop all questions with the phrase: “Sorry, my love, I don’t have time, I’ll call you back a little later!”
At the appointed hour, there should be a large box outside the girl’s door, which her friends will carry into the house with a serious look.
You will be waiting inside an unusual package, armed with romantic attributes, a ring and your most sincere feelings. Ask one of your friends to capture the entire process: from opening the package to tears of happiness and the cherished “yes.” Unique shots will sincerely delight you and your family.
Preliminary reconnaissance
Before the proposal, the newlyweds need to jointly discuss their future cohabitation, start a conversation about children, and perhaps even share their plans with their parents (it’s enough to just tell them about your decision, and not ask permission to get married).
Both partners must be confident in making this important decision.
A man, for his part, must purchase a ring for matchmaking on his own!
Then make your own original plan, but if you don’t have enough imagination, you can contact a special agency where they will help you make a beautiful and original proposal to the girl.
“Wedding shorts, or a tourist proposal”
“We got married by accident. We had our summer planned out, and it turned out that we had two free weeks in June. We decided to go to Georgia. There was generally an option to go separately - one to the mountains, the other on foot through national parks. But no company was found, so the two of us had to go to Georgia. We read about the sights and decided that I choose places for five days, and he does the other five days. We collected equipment: ropes, burners, tents - heavy backpacks.
There is such a city in Georgia - Sighnaghi, it is a city of love, a city of weddings, a whole brand in the wedding industry. Hoteliers, photographers, registry offices work around the clock - everything is done in one day, no preliminary application. The song “A Million Scarlet Roses” is about the artist Pirosmani, who in the city of Sighnaghi fell in love with a woman and lined her path with flowers. But she did not reciprocate, and he eventually died in poverty. His paintings sell for big money, and the city has become a symbol of love.
But we didn't go there. Our route passed by. The first five days of our tour were mine, I chose the mountains of Tbilisi. While we were acclimatizing and getting used to it, it turned out that in Tbilisi you can get married in one day, and we decided to check if it was true. We were told that yes, it is possible, we only need two witnesses and a translation of the foreign passport into Georgian. And when we were walking around the city in the evening, two guys caught up with us, a girl so ethereal, all in white. They were delighted: “Oh, you are Russians! Do you have an hour of free time? Help!" - “Are you planning to get married?” - “Yes, yes, we need witnesses!” They took us to the Civil Registry Office No. 1 of Tbilisi, such a cozy small room.
Then I say: “And tomorrow, will you come as witnesses to us?” What is there? No rings, casual attire: shorts, sandals. For a wedding, you need to find at least some kind of dress, not shorts. We signed the guys up, we sat talking, waiting for the documents. She took a good look at the groom: he had flip-flops on his feet, his trouser legs were rolled up - as if he had jumped out to the market. There are no rings either. In general, I was delighted with all my heart, I was just so delighted that I thought, why wait until tomorrow, waste a day. There is so much to spend time on in Tbilisi, so much to see - it’s just a magical city, beautiful, you want to live there, you want everything. And when they brought us the documents to sign, we said: “Let’s sign us too!”
Moms got a call, moms were in a semi-fainting state: “What?!” Really? And everything is legal?!” Well, of course! We celebrated with these same guys. Everything is so wonderful! We would have to spend a lot of money, spend a lot of time, organize everything, but here it’s easy, fast and cozy! Shashlik, Georgian wine, swam in the Tbilisi reservoir at night. Very cool! And we already have followers! They also got married in Georgia, guys from Moscow. And now I have wedding shorts.
But there was no offer there; it was there six months before registration in the Baltic. We went to Kaliningrad for the New Year holidays. And on the second of January, before my birthday, to Solnechnogorsk - to the Baltic Sea. We wandered along the shore, looking for amber. “Look,” he says, “what a red pebble!” I made a fuss in advance before the walk. It looked like the moment was captured in a photo.
Choosing a ring is a rather delicate and individual matter.
To avoid getting into trouble, it is better to ask the girl about her tastes and find out the size of the ring itself.
Also, close people can help in the choice: a future mother-in-law or, for example, a sister or friend of the chosen one.
On the roof of the world
You will need: a clear evening, access to the roof of a multi-story building with a good view, a camp table and two chairs, a beautiful tablecloth, two blankets and candles in tall glass candlesticks.
Having climbed to the roof, seat your beloved at the table, cover her with a blanket, light candles, treat her to dinner and only then propose.
For a romantic evening, choose light dessert snacks, fruits and sweets. Canapés, tartlets, small sandwiches are suitable, which you can order in advance at a restaurant, make yourself, or turn to the invaluable experience of the female half of the family. For drinks, give preference to good champagne, and in order to avoid freezing, prepare a thermos with delicious tea or coffee in advance.
The extraordinary setting, coupled with the billions of stars overhead, will make the evening truly memorable.
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"Vegetable"
“There is this type of creativity - carving. A Halloween pumpkin can also be called carving to some extent. In short, the skill of cutting vegetables to decorate the table. This spread from Japan, an art with a centuries-old history. Like ikebana and bonsai.
When no one here had ever heard of any kind of carving, I carved “Marry Me” and all sorts of beautiful patterns on a melon, but just giving it as a gift seemed banal. I decided to surprise him: to find her on the windowsill in the morning.
Second floor. Summer, heat, windows wide open. I got up early, put a melon in my backpack, and climbed a tree. But the trees don’t grow right under the house; I can’t reach the window from the trunk. I crawl along the branch and understand that now it will either go down to the first floor, and I will have to marry my neighbor, or it will break, and I will have to stay in the hospital. But somehow it worked out. He even knocked on the frame and woke him up. I’m hanging and thinking that she wouldn’t knock me on the melon with that melon. But she was happy, accepted the offer and still remembers this story to me, she made me look very funny. Well, let".
Extreme situations
The cruel pranks that lovers inflict on their brides make one question their love (or adequacy). The entertainers themselves claim that this is supposedly a test of the bride’s resistance to stress. The riot police who burst into the restaurant, the bikers who attacked the car, the gopniks who ambushed the couple in the gateway - all of these, of course, are actors playing a role in the production, which at the most inopportune moment turns into flowers, balloons and getting down on one knee.
A Texas woman blew up her wedding dress to celebrate her divorce.
The American woman initiated the explosion with one precise shot from a rifle
There are many such cases - let’s focus on one of them, which occurred in Kazakhstan. The guy, along with his lover and her friend, were driving a car when they were suddenly stopped by the “policemen”. After a bag of alleged drugs was found in the car, “law enforcement officers” in the presence of witnesses began to draw up a detention report. By this point, the girls - especially the bride - were already on the verge of hysterics. Everything was resolved when the handcuffed groom asked his friend to marry him.
At the end of the video, the bride is in seventh heaven. Or perhaps relieved that it was all a joke. “My heart almost stopped,” admitted the girl who was cruelly (let’s call a spade a spade) prank.
