A wedding anniversary is a holiday that causes some nervousness for many husbands. It’s scary to forget the date, to make a mistake with a gift, to congratulate someone in such a way that it becomes a reason not for joy, but for a scandal. As a rule, such an attitude grows out of the idea that a woman is a special kind of person whose logic is impossible to comprehend.
Although in reality this is not at all the case. Love and attention to interests can solve any riddles and, from all the great ideas for a gift, choose exactly the one that suits you.
New family birthday
Usually only anniversaries are celebrated on a grand scale - intermediate anniversaries are a reason for celebration within the family. In order not to forget about them, it would be best to set a reminder on your phone - and not on the day of the celebration itself, but a week in advance, so that you have time to choose a gift suitable for the occasion. Fortunately, there are many options.
Anniversary gifts - traditions and customs
The simplest option, for those who don’t have much time, is to give a traditional gift:
- first year, chintz wedding - everything is made of fabric, from potholder to tablecloth;
- second year, paper wedding - everything is made of paper, from a simple card to money;
- third, leather wedding - everything is made of leather, from gloves to expensive boots;
- fourth, linen - everything is made of linen, from a towel to an old-fashioned dress;
- fifth, wooden - everything is made of wood, from a ladle to a rocking chair;
- sixth, cast iron - everything is made of cast iron, from souvenirs to an antique frying pan;
- seventh, copper or wool - your choice of copper or wool, from a box to a fluffy poncho;
- eighth, tin - everything is made of tin, from dishes to beds;
- ninth, earthenware - beautiful earthenware sets are best;
- tenth, tin - from figurines and soldiers to dishes;
And then you can not deviate from tradition, although sometimes it is costly. For twenty years, give something made of porcelain, for thirty, a pearl necklace, for forty, a ring with a ruby, for fifty, jewelry made of gold.
Despite the tradition, the gift still needs to be chosen in some way in accordance with the character of the spouse. If she hates cooking, even a cast-iron frying pan will not make her happy.
How to guess with a gift: what might your beloved wife want?
If traditional gifts are too simple and you want to be thoughtful and original, you should pay attention to gifts that will never become outdated:
- Delicacies . Everyone likes delicious food - the main thing is not to buy the first candy you come across, but to choose exactly the ones that your wife will like. Or maybe she doesn’t even like candy, but loves expensive meat or rare cheese.
- Certificates . The most universal gift if you want to give something nice, but don’t care about it. Let the wife go to her favorite store herself and choose something to her liking.
- Usefulness based on interests . Does she like to cook? A beautiful and convenient frying pan. Does she go kayaking? Some equipment. The main thing is to carefully ask for what exactly you need, and not give the first thing you come across.
- Consumables . Panties, socks, cosmetics - the main thing is to choose them according to your wife’s taste, and not according to your own.
The main thing in the gift is interest in your wife and the desire to please her.
What is better not to give
However, everyone makes mistakes sometimes - even the most attentive and caring people. To avoid mistakes with a gift, you should not give:
- What the wife doesn't like . It would seem that the idea is obvious, but incidents often happen when the husband brings a gorgeous bouquet, confident that any woman will like it, and the wife is upset because she can’t stand dead flowers.
IMPORTANT! Before giving something from the “any woman will appreciate” series, you need to carefully find out whether your wife is one of the “any women”, so as not to get into trouble.
- What is needed not for the wife, but for housework . Gifts in the spirit of a washing machine, vacuum cleaner or frying pan, which the wife will then use to clean the house all year long or use in cooking, are appropriate only if cleaning or cooking is a hobby for her. In other cases, it is better not to coincide with this kind of practical things for the anniversary - after all, by and large, they are needed by everyone living in the house and will benefit everyone.
- What a husband needs, not a wife . Surprisingly, sometimes gifts are in the spirit of “what I want for myself, but I’m ashamed, so I’d better give it to you and use it.” It would be much more honest to buy yourself a mouse pad than to give it to your wife and then borrow it all year.
And, of course, gifts to which you are allergic are definitely considered bad.
What should not be given to a young wife on her wedding day?
What to give your wife on her wedding day, and what is definitely not necessary? On your loved one’s wedding day, you should not present gifts that could prick or cut. Such gifts bring discord to the future family, and it is believed that the spouses will soon separate.
It is not recommended to give antique jewelry to your significant other. They say that the energy that has accumulated in them during this time will negatively affect family well-being. Also, you should not give flowers in a pot.
Despite the fact that it is a symbol of happiness, it is not suitable as a wedding gift for the future wife. It is believed that such a gift will have a negative impact on the health of the fair sex.
Useful gifts
A good solution would be a gift that will definitely come in handy at work:
- if the wife works as a teacher, a red pen with a name engraving will suit her;
- if the wife works as a cook, a smart white hat with a funny pattern will remind her of her family every work shift;
- if your wife works as a hairdresser, a set of tools in a leather case will definitely please her;
- if the wife works as a saleswoman, comfortable shoes will be very useful for her.
There is such a useful gift for every profession. Even if the wife is a copywriter, sits at home and types articles, a comfortable and beautiful keyboard will be a very useful gift for her.
Joint interest
It's good when a husband and wife have common ground. To continue to develop them, we need gifts that support joint interest:
- a picnic set is suitable for a couple who loves to spend weekends outdoors;
- a bicycle or a modern scooter for easy walks;
- Board games;
- home theater for watching and discussing films together;
Home cinema
- a telescope to look at the stars together at night and then make horoscopes for each other.
The last sentence, of course, is from the realm of romance. But where would we be without her on this significant day? By the way, a woman perceives any gift from a loved one with a degree of romanticism.
Needed gifts
It's funny that useful gifts and necessary gifts don't always overlap. After all, a necessary thing can also be something that is completely useless. For example:
- a funny night light in the shape of a cartoon character - it seems undignified for an adult, but in fact it can bring a lot of joy;
- an original watch - after all, which the wife will not buy for herself, but which can make her workplace much more comfortable;
- candles - it’s a pity to spend money on them, but you can take a bath with them and relax in the twilight;
- pillows with funny photos or pictures - it’s very cozy to relax with them in your arms.
Necessary gifts also include those things that will help the wife in her hobby, and here the scope is fantastic: from tickets to the concert of her favorite band to a warm sleeping bag with which she can go on her next hike
Valuable gifts for your wedding day
What should be a wedding gift for a wife from her husband? The most long-awaited gift for every bride is considered to be the one presented by the groom. She will be looking forward to it, so the representative of the stronger sex needs to think carefully about the surprise for his other half. The most common gifts are jewelry , it can be a ring, necklace or bracelet.
The bride associates a gift with high value with stability and reliability. An expensive gift can be not only jewelry, but also, for example, a telephone.
Think about it: perhaps your woman has long dreamed of a certain gadget that is not so easy to buy. A good and valuable gift is a fur coat or a portrait of the bride. If you wish, you can make a joint painting that will decorate the walls of your home.
Decorations
They are traditionally considered the most feminine gift, but purchasing requires considerable taste and confidence that it matches the taste of the wife. Before you buy something, you need to find out whether she wears gold or silver, prefers a simple design or a fancy one, whether she likes stones or is better off without them, and only then choose:
- ring , possibly with engraving - the most versatile option, since you can wear it every day;
- earrings - of course, if the wife has pierced ears, and always with the type of fastening that she considers most convenient;
- bracelet - but if the wife works with her hands, it should not be too bulky;
- necklace - something too heavy will get in the way and can only be worn when going out, but a simple chain with a medallion can be used every day.
If your wife is original and has piercings, you can give him an earring. And if she loves her ankles and thinks they are beautiful, you can give her an ankle bracelet.
Gifts for a chintz wedding for a wife
Products made from chintz remain a traditional gift for the first year of a wedding. It can be:
- bed sheets;
- pajamas;
- dresses;
- kitchen curtains;
- cute handmade toys.
You can choose any of these products and present it to your beloved wife.
You can also look towards fabric items made from other materials, for example:
- silk blouses;
- suede backpacks;
- jacquard tablecloths.
But you don’t have to follow tradition, because the main goal is to give your loved one a nice gift. Jewelry will be a pleasant and, more importantly, memorable gift from your husband:
- White gold earrings “Diamonds of Yakutia” are a classic and luxurious diamond that never loses popularity, made in a discreet and sophisticated design;
- A silver brooch with cubic zirconia in an unusual design, in the shape of a bird or juicy fruit, will be an original and inexpensive gift.
Important! When choosing a design, proceed from your wife’s existing jewelry, and if in doubt, it’s better to take it with you to the store.
A leather bag from a famous brand will be a great surprise for a lady who follows fashion:
- A set of Baggini bags is a practical set for every day at an affordable price;
- Stylish Pull&Bear belt bag for a young girl or sporty lady;
Advice! A properly selected bag will not go out of style for at least several years. But it’s better not to make such an expensive purchase yourself; buy a gift certificate or give your wife the opportunity to choose the product herself.
A little humor
It is worth giving gifts from this group only if the wife has a sense of humor - and if it coincides with the husband’s sense of humor. Otherwise there is a chance of a scandal.
You can give:
- aprons with funny inscriptions - from the banal “chef’s kiss” to any inscription that your imagination allows;
- panties with funny inscriptions and drawings - you can buy or order;
- a large cake with a funny inscription - from “the calendar is lying, my wife is eighteen” to the love “underwater snake” (although this is an option, of course, for people who understand each other very well);
- an Oscar statuette - you can attach a certificate to it “for the best actress in my life”;
- wooden pistols for politely resolving conflicts - you can write your wife's name or motto on them.
This also includes balls, funny soft toys and postcards with inscriptions.
Why is a green wedding called that?
The history of green weddings goes deep into the past. The ancient Slavs had a tradition - when a girl is born in a family, the parents plant an evergreen tree called myrtle. And when the daughter was married off, myrtle moved to her husband’s house along with her new wife.
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It is the young husband and his family who must look after the tree, because it symbolizes the bride. If the tree is in order, then the wife is treated well in the house.
This tradition has changed and has come to us in a very twisted way: for a wedding, newlyweds must be given a plant in a pot - a flower or a tree.
The first week after the wedding is honeymoon
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This is the unofficial name of such a week, which also comes from antiquity, like the green wedding. For newlyweds, the honey week is very eventful and bright, full of events and festive activities.
- The first day is the wedding day. On this day, newlyweds receive congratulations and celebrate their love with family and friends.
- The second day is the prince's table. The spouses visit relatives and gather them for a festive feast. Be sure to do this as much as possible in person. And in the evening everyone comes to celebrate and have fun.
- The third day is the bride's day. In the morning the young wife cooks for her new family, but in the evening the couple’s friends and neighbors come, and the third merry party begins.
- The seventh day is diversions. The couple prepares a lot of sweets and cakes, calls all their relatives and has a feast to complete the wedding celebration.
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A little romance
The holiday is almost more favorable to it than to other options. What can be truly romantic is:
- a collage with photos from the best moments together - you can make it yourself or order it from a designer, you can give it on paper, or on a pillow or on an umbrella;
- a T-shirt with a romantic inscription - paired T-shirts would be a good solution;
- rings with paired engravings or paired pendants will always remind you of each other;
- a mug with a romantic inscription - you can come up with it yourself, you can buy a ready-made one;
- chocolates “a hundred reasons why I love you” - my wife will probably be pleased to re-read them.
You can also have a romantic dinner with wine, candles and home-cooked food. True, it is unlikely to be considered a separate gift, but it will add beauty to the evening as a whole.
Touching gifts from talented romantics
A wedding is a very romantic event. On this solemn day, the air is simply saturated with only bright feelings. Therefore, even the most serious and pragmatic young people succumb to him and are ready to perform the most unexpected feats for their bride:
- A song or dance in honor of your beloved. You don’t have to write poetry and music yourself; you can simply choose a composition that you both associate with your feelings: for example, it was played on your first date. If the groom is shy enough, you can invite a professional performer or artists to help, and while the song is playing, invite your beloved to dance.
- A humorous commitment to perform various duties in family life: from washing the dishes to getting stars out of the sky and giving up bad habits. This obligation can be fulfilled in the form of a document sealed, or it can be read out in a solemn atmosphere, sealed with an oath on the marriage certificate.
- A romantic clip consisting of cuts from your joint video archive and your most precious photographs.
- Video congratulations from people dear to the girl who are very far away and could not come to the wedding.
- A ride in a hot air balloon or in a carriage drawn by three horses is very touching and romantic. You just need to consider whether this walk will fit into the overall plan of the celebration.
- Portrait of the bride - let it take its rightful place in your family nest!
Such gifts without further ado demonstrate that you are ready to do a lot for your newly-made wife. At the same time, they encourage you to find a new hobby or remember forgotten hobbies.
Options for original gifts
In marriage, originality is the key to interest in each other, therefore the best of the original gifts were and remain events for two. For example:
- A walk through nostalgic places - here we kissed for the first time, here we sat and watched the sunset, here we drank the most delicious coffee in the world. So why not walk along the route and remember everything that happened?
- Leisure . My wife will like it if she loves adrenaline. Skydiving, a trip to the forest for two, a kayaking trip or a real-life quest where two people will have to survive a zombie apocalypse will definitely be remembered for a long time.
- Classic holiday . Going to a restaurant or theater for a premiere is very romantic.
- Joint vacation. It's best if it's in a place where you once honeymooned - although, of course, you can try new things.
All kinds of engraved items are also original: flasks, lighters, rings. Personalized boxes of chocolates and wine. Pillows with your own photo. Things made with your own hands. Congratulations filmed with the participation of other people.
IMPORTANT! A very original gift would be homemade furniture - of course, you will have to spend time, but your wife will be able to remember and show off to her friends for many years.
Cool
A gift for a chintz wedding for a wife can be not only original, but also cute, causing a smile. Since it is customary to give something as a gift on the 1st anniversary, you can give your loved one a home T-shirt with some funny inscription or picture. This type of gift is very popular today, so many companies offer to put any print on clothes, including a photograph. Such T-shirts can be decorated with the inscription “best wife in the world”, “little princess”, “I love my wife” or simply a favorite photograph of the husband.
Options for fashionable cool T-shirts:
How to leave the most positive and lasting memories of a gift
It is important not only what the gift is, but also how it is presented. To make it more memorable:
- Decor . A beautiful box in wrapping paper looks much better than just a box - or just a gift, as it is.
- Additions . It would be nice to add small additions like a bouquet and sweets to a big gift. Everyone loves it when a gift includes a lot of little things.
- Congratulations . You can write it on a postcard, you can tell it out loud - the main thing is that it comes from the heart and is beautifully composed.
- Setting . Giving a gift at the entrance or at work is boring. It’s much more interesting during a romantic dinner or a walk together.
You can make a surprise out of a gift, you can ask friends to deliver it and run away, you can send it by mail, you can give it from hand to hand. The main thing is that it is chosen with love, accompanied by truly warm words and suitable for a specific woman who has interests, dreams and inclinations.
The video is an extremely original version of congratulations on the wife’s wedding anniversary, which was filmed by many people.
How to give impressions for a holiday
Gift for a young wife.
A gift for your wife on her wedding day - how to surprise? To make the girl remember this day for a long time, you can present so-called impression gifts. Mini-honeymoons are popular. The time spent together, in some beautiful place, will be remembered by the fair sex for a long time.
A young wife will be able to take a break from everyday cooking, cleaning, and housework. The wife will enjoy the wonderful place and her loved one.
You can also arrange a short weekend in a country village. The first weekend of a newly formed family will be held in a beautiful place next to a lake or forest. SPA treatments, swimming pool, sauna and dinner outdoors by candlelight. This will be the best gift a man can give his wife.
The groom is recommended to please his bride with a romantic ride on a yacht or horseback. Your beloved will appreciate your efforts.
What gift should I give my husband on his 6th marriage anniversary?
It's been six amazing years of marriage - now it's time to give your husband a gift to show how much you cherish him. Here are some alternative 6 year anniversary gift ideas that he will love. For more traditional sixth anniversary gifts (hello, cast iron), keep scrolling!
Personalized world map . Over the 6 years of marriage, you have probably had great travels. Give a map on which you can use buttons to mark places where you have been together or where you are just going. You can decorate and personalize this gift with your names and wedding anniversary date.
Set of ties with metal clip. Choosing just one tie can be challenging, so we suggest you give him a set with different options so he can decide when to wear which tie. And tie clips will help a man feel more respectable - just in time for the evening of your sixth anniversary.
Wallet. Sometimes the best 6th birthday gift is a practical one. An elegant, timeless wallet for money and bank cards from this series.
Backpack. Upgrade your partner's gear by gifting him a stylish backpack. Choose a versatile option with a waterproof finish and a laptop pocket that's perfect for daily commutes or travel.
Cast iron bottle opener. Looking for a traditional 6th birthday gift that is both practical and symbolic? This wrought iron bottle opener can be engraved with your initials and anniversary date. Every time he opens a beer, he will be reminded of your wonderful wedding day. Bonus: This sentimental sixth anniversary gift is completely inexpensive.
Metal rack for wine bottles in loft style. Another “cast iron” gift idea is a place to store your personal wine collection.
Coinage. Remind your husband of the day your story began with a home decor item. This metal stamping can be personalized with your names, anniversary date and texts of your choice, making him a romantic anniversary gift.
