The tradition of organizing a bachelorette party before the wedding has come to us a long time ago. Since the times of Kievan Rus, it was customary to spend the bride’s last evening (or one of the last) with her closest friends, sisters or other representatives of the fair sex. True, the holiday scenario has changed significantly. Between us, girls: we offer you a rating of the most interesting ideas for organizing a bachelorette party.
According to tradition, the bridesmaids decide how to spend the bachelorette party. The entire organization, and sometimes also material expenses, is also placed on their shoulders. If you are a groomsman, we recommend giving the bride a surprise. However, it is better to warn the girl in advance that she should carve out a free evening in her schedule.
Remember: this is a holiday for the future bride and you need to take into account her tastes. For example, if a girl is shy, you shouldn’t drag her to a male striptease. And vice versa: a lover of noisy parties will be bored drinking tea at home while listening to a Disney cartoon.
In some cases, both the wedding and the bachelorette party are organized by the bride herself. If you are one of these girls, then you have more opportunities in planning. There are no surprises: you can choose the perfect place, the right time and generally organize everything to your taste.
There is a third option: organize a bachelorette party with the help of organizers. They will help you find the best option: both according to the scenario of the evening and according to the prices of the contractors.
If you still decide to act on your own, then first of all you need to decide on the idea of a bachelorette party. We suggest you do this - read on for the most fun options.
Party in the style of “Oriental fairy tale”
A very effective option, but requiring a lot of decorations and details.
The East is often staged on one’s own territory or in nature. Guests will need clothing made from light, transparent fabrics. A carpet is placed on the floor where everyone will sit, oriental sweets and exotic fruits are used for refreshments, which are placed on a low table.
You can invite a choreographer to learn characteristic dances.
With your future husband
What if, instead of a bachelorette party, you organize a romantic photo shoot with your significant other? Wedding photography is not the only reason to take beautiful photos, take advantage of this great opportunity and tell about your love story so that in the future you can share it with your children.
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Alexander and Marina Santi
The most important thing at a bachelorette party is your cheerful mood
and no talk about organizing a wedding. The bride needs to unwind and enjoy the company of her best friends!
Spa
A great option for all the girls who are coming to the wedding in a week. Celebrating the bride's day at the SPA is not only a pleasant, but also useful idea. Here you can:
- Steam in a sauna, where the skin pores open, making it easier to cleanse the body;
- Give a massage to tone the muscles;
- Refresh your facial skin with healthy masks.
It is necessary to purchase a ticket with a full set of procedures for each participant. And choose a salon so that after turning into beauties there will be a place to celebrate.
Summer, sun, beach
If the bachelorette party and wedding are planned in the summer
, then there is nothing better than going on
a bike ride
or having a beach party!
Tenerezza Wedding offers another summer idea: “Having fun on a yacht is a super scenario for a bachelorette party before the wedding. A disco, tables with light snacks, a chic adventure in an atmosphere of casual luxury - everything you need for a great party.”
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Wedding agency “Caramel”
But perhaps the weather here doesn’t appeal to you? Why not go on a mini trip with your best friends?
offered by
the iMarry agency.
For example, a weekend outside the city or even in another country would be perfect, and the bride will be able to take her mind off the hassle of preparing for the wedding.
“You determine the goal yourself: it could be a picnic by a distant lake or a trip to a nearby picturesque town . Residents of St. Petersburg and Moscow have a wide range of possibilities in this regard, because there are so many beautiful, picturesque and original places in the area. During the journey, you can film a full -fledged road movie so that the memories of the trip on the eve of the wedding do not fade over the years.”
This option is good not only for summer, when you can swim, but also for cooler times, because you can take a photographer with you who will take beautiful photos of you, after which you can go to a cozy cafe and have a wine tasting!
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home party
Everyone needs to look beautiful on home territory - there will be photographs anyway. But this is not as relevant as for going out into public places. You can cook the food yourself or order it at a restaurant.
The most important thing is the script with an abundance of competitions and dance breaks. You can sit comfortably at home or even lie down. For drinks, it is better to choose low-alcohol cocktails in a beautiful design.
For a spectacular ending, you can order a courier who will deliver gifts.
Unobvious, but probable
The NNDECOR team says: “ Bowling. Why not? » Beer and sports at the same time. At least that's how bowling clubs advertise themselves. In addition, you will get a wonderful photo as a souvenir: you in pink tutus, knocking down imaginary enemies with heavy balls... Just don’t forget to stock up on pink tutus!
Oros Wedding invites active and extraordinary girls to consider the option of a quest . If the bride is an active, energetic and determined girl who loves adventures, then why not come up with a custom quest for her around the city or park or in some art space, where you, her friends, will help her solve mysteries and riddles and find a gift , which you prepared especially for her.
Take your adrenaline to the limit: ziplining, paintball, ATVs, gymkhana, go-karting, archery ... these are the plans that will make the bride and her friends feel more adventurous. Be careful with such entertainment! But still, don't forget that this is the bride's "break away" day, so put her wishes first, and if she wants to do any of those things, be with her!
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Warm Events Bureau
How to throw a bachelorette party for a pregnant bride
Many women do not refuse a magnificent wedding and all accompanying events, even while pregnant. In this case, the bachelorette party should be celebrated in a gentle manner with a minimum of alcohol and without extreme sports.
The most democratic option is a pajama or casual party at the bride’s apartment. Such clothes will disguise the non-standard position of the expectant mother, but can be bright and elegant. For entertainment, intellectual quizzes, karaoke singing or watching movies are suitable, which can be chosen by playing the names from each guest in a lottery.
In any of the chosen options, the main thing is that the bride relaxes at the holiday and feels like the hero of the occasion.
Celebration organization
Let's consider the preparation stage. Who should do the planning? Usually the newlywed's girlfriends take care of organizing the holiday . They choose a place, think over the scenario for the bachelorette party, and buy gifts for the bride.
Many people ask the question: who pays for the bachelorette party ? The etiquette of different countries dictates the following options:
- The bride pays;
- Bridesmaids;
- Witnesses;
- Groom.
In Russia, it is customary that the expenses associated with the party are paid by the young woman (if she chooses the place and program). If the preparation process is to some extent entrusted to the girlfriends, then the financial costs can either be partially distributed between them , or lie entirely on their shoulders.
Advice for the bride: Don't be shy about discussing money issues with your girlfriends. They will treat this with understanding, knowing what expenses the newlyweds will face before the wedding.
When to arrange it?
Traditionally, farewell to single life was held before the wedding . However, surviving two holidays in a row while maintaining strength and a beautiful appearance is not easy.
How many days before the wedding ceremony should you have a bachelorette party? The celebration can be scheduled on the weekend preceding the official event .
How to do everything right? What you need to think about in advance:
- Make and send out invitations ;
- Choose a place to celebrate;
- Decide on the start and end time;
- Decide on a dress code ;
- Come up with entertainment ;
- Decide on transport for the evening ;
- Buy accessories for a photo shoot.
Invitations
Decide on the composition of the guests . Think about who you would like to see at the party. A bachelorette party is not just for girlfriends. You can invite one of your young relatives or colleagues with whom you enjoy communicating and whom you completely trust. You shouldn't invite people you don't know.
Selecting a location
Assess the preferences and character of the entire company. What do you prefer: relaxing options, such as a sauna or SPA salon; traditional (bar, restaurant) or active (karaoke, shopping, water park)?
Attention! When choosing a place to celebrate your bachelorette party, also consider the time of year and weather conditions. Read more about choosing a location here .
The choice of venue is a determining factor when planning a budget for a bachelorette party. If you are looking to celebrate this event inexpensively, study the pros and cons of the most interesting places for you and draw up an approximate budget for each option. You can save a lot when going to a restaurant or cafe
- by choosing a budget cafe near your home (at the same time you save on taxis);
- by purchasing discount coupons or taking advantage of a special restaurant offer;
- having discussed the budget with friends (for example, the bride pays for everything except drinks);
- by choosing an establishment where you can bring your own food and drinks or order delivery.
Time
The choice of start time will depend on the bachelorette party scenario and the nature of the event as a whole. Of course, you shouldn't plan to start early in the morning . Even the most intense program will not last a day: it will simply be tiring.
On the day of the event, you may also need time for final organizational matters. If you are planning a trip to a restaurant or nightclub , then it is better to schedule it in the evening hours around 18.00-20.00 .
Options for walks (shopping, picnic, river cruise, water park) should be moved to an earlier time, for example, 12.00-15.00 .
Outfits
By indicating the bachelorette party dress code in the invitation, you will help guests choose appropriate and comfortable clothing for the format of the event.
The location of the party will be a deciding factor in your choice. For example, classic dresses or suits are suitable for visiting a restaurant; cocktail dresses are suitable for a bar or nightclub. In a sauna, spa or water park, chic outfits will not be needed.
Reference! The girlfriends' outfits should be in harmony with each other. For example, for a photo shoot it will be beautiful if all the girls are dressed in mini (or, conversely, maxi), and the clothes are dominated by the same color scheme.
Entertainment
How to mark? You can entrust the creation of a script to a professional from an event agency or do it yourself. It will take a lot of time to prepare on your own , so you should start preparing in advance, at least a month in advance.
Reference! The services of an agency for organizing a turnkey bachelorette party will cost much more than organizing the holiday on your own.
Transport
It’s worth considering in advance how you will get to the celebration site.
- in a limousine will be original and bright . With it you can not only get to the desired establishment, but also have a fun ride along any route;
- Taxi . If the company is small, you can call a taxi. It is better to make a reservation for a specific time;
- Having your own car is a fairly convenient option. But remember, if the party involves alcohol, then you, as the driver, will have to refuse it;
- Friends car . It will be good if one of your friends can help you out and give you a ride. It won’t take much time, and you will be more confident that there will be no problems with transport;
- Public transport . Of course, you can go to a bachelorette party by bus or metro. This trip can also be fun.
Important! Perhaps public transport will not let you down, and you will get to the place quickly enough. However, there is a risk of wrinkled dresses or getting dirty.
- Delimobil . Don't have your own car and don't trust taxis? Call a car. You can choose any model. You don’t have to worry about cleanliness and gasoline - the company will provide a car completely ready for the trip. You will only need to pay for the time of use.
Important! Whatever type of transport you choose, do not forget about possible traffic jams. Plan your departure time based on the intensity of traffic flow.
Accessories
What additional things might be needed? It is appropriate to include elements in the program that unite all guests. For example, signs for a photo shoot, a veil or hat for each friend, ribbons, bows, flowers or hairnets, funny T-shirts.
Nature
If your pre-wedding party falls during the warmer months, then you can throw away all the worries about where to hold your bachelorette party and go outdoors to take a break from the hustle and bustle of the big city.
- “+”: a lot of free space for any holiday program (communication, competitions, games, etc.); the choice of places is quite wide (from a clearing in a forest or park to the bank of a river or lake).
- “–”: the option of a bachelorette party in nature is suitable only for the warm season and depends on the vagaries of the weather; suggests a sports type of clothing; you will have to take care of insect repellent, sun hats and blankets if it gets cold in the evening; requires serious preparation (thinking through seating and tables, purchasing food and drinks, delivering girlfriends to the party site and everything necessary).
Motor ship/yacht
A bachelorette party on a ship or yacht will give you a lot of bright impressions and positive emotions. Moreover, you can throw a party in any style: from cozy chatting with glasses of wine to a themed party in the style of “The Great Gatsby”.
- “+”: your friends will appreciate such an original place for a bachelorette party.
- “–”: not the cheapest option for a place to host a bachelorette party; someone may get motion sickness on a ship; you will have to take care of food and drinks, as well as thematic decoration of the ship (although all these worries can be transferred to the shoulders of professional organizers, spending additional money on this).
Night club
If you and your girlfriends are active and cheerful girls, then why not have a bachelorette party in a nightclub, where you can dance to your heart's content and take a break from boring everyday life.
- “+”: you can have a lot of fun; no need to think about entertainment.
- “–”: treats and drinks will not be cheap; the presence of a large number of strangers nearby; because of loud music it is unlikely to be possible to communicate; Not everyone likes this type of vacation.
