- September 13, 2018
- Psychology of relationships
- Kira Ifeevskaya
When a man and a woman have been dating for a long time and never want to part, then marriage is an excellent solution. The wedding day is the first exciting and happy event in their future family life. There is an opinion that as soon as a couple legalizes their relationship, their love is broken by everyday problems. This article will discuss whether there is life after marriage and what stages spouses have to go through.
What will change after marriage?
It is the stamp in the passport that does not affect the relationship between two lovers. A marriage certificate cannot change a person in any way. But why then do relationships get worse after marriage?
Of course, if a man wants to live his life with one single woman, then he will not go anywhere without registering his marriage. In modern society, such traditions have developed that relationships must be legitimized.
If a couple lived under the same roof for a long time before the wedding and managed to identify all the pros and cons of each other, then the official marriage will not change anything for them. They will live as before.
A wedding is of greater importance for young people who, up to this point, have spent little time together, and are not yet familiar with everyday difficulties.
Modern newlyweds prefer to test each other's strength before getting a stamp in their passport, to live under the same roof in order to understand whether they are ready to accept and tolerate a partner always. Therefore, the number of years spent together begins not from the day of marriage, but from the moment they lead a common life.
Their parents have a huge influence on the relationships of young people, because they help them financially until the couple is able to provide for themselves, in other words, gets on their feet.
If all accommodation is at someone else's expense, then the relationship is more reminiscent of staying at a resort than ordinary gray everyday life. Such help does not lead to anything good. This deprives the future married couple of the opportunity to overcome life’s difficulties on their own. The guy, in this case, does not consider it necessary to provide his other half with finances, does not take responsibility for anything, so the girl cannot realize how their life will change after the wedding, when their parents stop giving them money.
Early marriage is a very romantic event, when a man and a woman cannot enjoy being together, they do not separate for a minute, but this is only at the beginning, then everything disappears somewhere, and harsh reality comes.
Santorini
Greece is a very romantic country, as evidenced by the mass of love affairs reflected in its mythology. There are many islands, but newlyweds usually choose Santorini. There are unsurpassed red beaches framed by rocks, magnificent snow-white buildings, temples with blue domes.
In Santorini, newlyweds should definitely stroll along the local streets, enjoy Greek cuisine, and try local wine. Here you can hold a wedding ceremony or organize a wonderful photo shoot.
First month after wedding
After the wedding, the first serious event in the life of the newlyweds is a joint vacation. It is called the honeymoon because this is the time when newlyweds can indulge in fun times like before marriage. Such a traditional event, be it a trip to another country or just at sea, proceeds very quickly. During this happy period, the young spouses do not yet think about the fact that gray everyday life awaits them after.
Many couples prefer to collect the money donated at the wedding and go on a trip, because now they only need each other’s company, and no one else. This time is full of romance. Memories of him remain for the rest of my life.
The honeymoon is an established tradition that everyone tries to observe, because no one knows what the future fate of the newlyweds will be. Therefore, you need to make the best use of this period, since memories of it often refresh the relationship between husband and wife when their feelings begin to dull.
The best places for a honeymoon
Are you thinking about how to spend the money you collected at your wedding? It's best to go on an unusual wedding tour! To help you find that unique destination, we want to give you some ideas on where to go on your honeymoon. We offer cheaper and more expensive destinations, and the choice is yours. Maldives White beaches, thatched bungalows, blue water of the endless ocean and clear skies. The Maldives is simply paradise on Earth. If you get tired of a relaxing holiday surrounded by natural beauty, grab a diving kit because the Maldives is one of the best places in the world to do it! The rich underwater world of the majestic Indian Ocean will amaze the imagination of submerged spouses with colorful amazing coral reefs, tropical fish, turtles and stingrays. Koh Tao, Thailand Imagine a small tropical island with crystal clear waters, amazing snorkeling and diving, wild jungle in the center of the island, romantic beaches adorned with palm trees. This is the exterior of Koh Tao, a little gem on the southern coast of Thailand - just off Koh Samui. This tiny Thai island has many beautiful beaches to offer and an ideal diving spot - you can get a diving certificate, which gives you a number of advantages when diving in other countries. It is also worth wandering around the island and discovering the real jungle. If you want to combine a beach holiday and hiking, this is the island for you. Koh Samui, Thailand Beautiful beaches, warm, clear sea and countless tall coconut trees. Undoubtedly, it can be called an island paradise that can pacify even fussy tourists. Here you will find a quiet peaceful bay, for those who love peace and nature, as well as a long beautiful beach with all the attractions and entertainment. Koh Phangan, Thailand The island, compared to neighboring Samui, or other famous Thai resorts (Phuket, Pattaya), is still much less developed in tourism and offers a wide selection of clean, quiet, palm-lined sandy beaches. The world famous mega-party “Full Moon Party” is held every month on the island of Koh Phangan. You will get a lot of impressions and a charge of positive energy. Porto, Portugal Walking along the river bank. Joint tasting of Portuguese wines. Travel by boat through the magical valley of the Douro River. This is a pleasant holiday in Porto. As one of the oldest tourist destinations in Europe, this city knows how to charm visitors at any time of the year. Bora Bora, French Polynesia Bora Bora is the cream of the crop for newlyweds.
Crystal waters, the picturesque Mount Otemanu in the background, a coral reef and bungalows - all this awaits you on an exotic holiday in Bora Bora. Here you are guaranteed a heavenly mood throughout your holiday. London, UK A holiday to London can be just as tempting as a Bora Bora if you're a couple who enjoys enchanted walks through picturesque parks, world-class museums, famous restaurants and a wealth of culture.
Bali, Indonesia A honeymoon in Bali is pure magic, passion and exoticism. It is called the “island of the gods” and for good reason. It is full of culture, art, music, rugged mountains, picturesque landscapes and many temples. Therefore, it is not surprising that it is popular among tourists. If you stay on this island, be sure to visit the elaborate Pura Luhura Uluwatu temple on a cliff overlooking the Indian Ocean and watch the sunset there! The island offers honeymooners pristine beaches, surfing, and snorkeling. There's no better place for coastal bliss. Santorini, Greece Why go there? Behind amazing sunsets and white houses with blue roofs. In addition, the red and black sand beaches and surrounding wine cellars will make a strong impression on newlyweds. Florida Keys, Florida The entire archipelago - about 1,700 islands! The most famous is Key West, where Ernest Hemingway himself came. It offers exciting nightlife, tourist ferries between Key West and Fort Myers, and the longest bridge in the United States, the Seven Mile Bridge. Fiji Island, surrounded by a coral reef and a paradise lagoon, invites you to coral beaches. The picturesque Mamanuca Island is worth visiting for its colorful scenery and diving. While on holiday in the archipelago, you can visit villages, get acquainted with the rich culture of the island and discover the historical side of a fabulous place. Positano, Italy The Mediterranean coast of Almafi is associated with fabulously colorful buildings on the cliff and blue water around them. In addition, the best pizza and Italian coffee are prepared nearby the charismatic town of Naples! In the opinion of experienced tourists, in this country you will spend one of the most romantic and truly honeymoons of your family life. Tulum, Mexico Wonderful beaches, Mayan villages - here you can combine cultural pastime with relaxation on the beach. If you want to see Cancun, you can get there in less than two hours. Fans of caves and diving will also be drawn to Tulum - the Gran Cenote Cave is a must visit if you like that kind of atmosphere and the incredible energy of sacred ruins. Mexico City, Mexico To all aesthetes, art lovers and married couples - welcome to the capital of Mexico. An ideal place to relax. Everything here is top notch: gastronomy, nightlife, galleries, museums, the best hotels.
Baja California, Mexico This is the northernmost state of Mexico.
One of the best peninsulas in Mexico. Authentic Mexican villages, white sand, small coves overlooking the Pacific Ocean and the Gulf of California. This is a simply divine resort with impressive seascapes, a unique atmosphere and dozens of pristine beaches for diving and active recreation.
Maui, Hawaii Hawaii is very romantic. Watching the sunset or sunrise from Haleakala Crater is definitely one of the amazing experiences. The whole Kihei coastline is worth seeing, so it's worth considering a cruise ship. Hawaii will not let you down if you are looking for a tropical destination, crystal waters and green landscapes. Sri Lanka Sri Lanka has a rich tradition and culture. Buddhist and Hindu temples, sandy beaches, green landscapes and tea fields. Sri Lanka is an unusual honeymoon destination on the Indian Ocean. Dubai, UAE Here you will feel the breath of modernity. Breathtaking views of the world's tallest buildings, luxury hotels and impeccable restaurants. During your vacation, you can go to the desert on a jeep safari or fly in a hot air balloon. Kyoto, Japan Japan is beautiful at any time - especially in autumn, when the trees shimmer in color. Kyoto is impressive with temples and beautiful gardens, tea rooms and canals. It's certainly a picturesque honeymoon. Galapagos, Ecuador The Galapagos Islands are truly exotic. Unsurpassed flora and fauna. Wildlife and stunning animals - you will not experience such incredible emotions from your vacation in other places on Earth. Go island hopping and take advantage of diving opportunities - Galapagos is one of the Seven Underwater Wonders of the World! Iceland The landscape of Iceland is so diverse and beautiful that no one can leave this place disappointed - volcanoes, green or lunar landscapes, amazing waterfalls, geysers, lagoons, hot springs and Icelandic horses! Aruba No wonder Aruba is called the happy island. The average temperature does not fall below 27 degrees. The dry, sunny days in the Caribbean on this Dutch island avoid hurricanes. And remember that you can meet magnificent flamingos there! Enjoy the clean white beaches and turquoise waters all around. Papagayo Peninsula, Costa Rica For lovers of eco-style, this is the place. On the peninsula, you can easily combine rainforest adventures with a beach holiday among beautiful trees. This piece of paradise will delight newlyweds with the sapphire waters of the Pacific Ocean and tropical forests, immersing them in an atmosphere of complete harmony. Rovinj, Croatia Croatia is generally a very good country for a honeymoon. This time we recommend heading to Rovinj, adorned with pastel houses, charming streets and a fishing port. Of course, you will be enchanted by the old town and a walk along the sea promenade. Treat yourself to the magical beauty of a fairy-tale town. Gran Canaria, Spain This Canary island has a lot to offer, from green landscapes, picturesque mountains to dunes and deserts, as well as beautiful beaches. You can go on a typical boat trip, but also activate hiking, cycling, jeep safaris and a variety of water sports. Traveling around the area, such as the charming Puerto de Mogán, also requires plenty of time! Austin, Texas Coolest hipster place.
First-class restaurants, life is full of interesting events, amazing music, smiling people, various shows, unusual buildings and a warm atmosphere. This city is multifaceted and inimitable. Mount Bonnell and Lake Travis at sunset will amaze you with incredible beauty.
Kingdom of Bhutan Bhutan is located between Thailand and Vietnam.
This country impresses with its magical nature, individuality, Buddhist monasteries and the attitude of its local people to life. Buenos Aires, Argentina When going on your honeymoon to the capital of Argentina, get ready to perform a super sensual tango.
This city's nightlife is fabulous and vibrant, with people from all over the world coming here to dance. Here you will enjoy a vibrant culture, local grill-centric cuisine and mate tea.
Cartagena, Colombia This magical city is the jewel of Colombia's Caribbean coast, with charming cobblestone streets, brightly colored houses, exotic fruits and live music at every turn. White sand, turquoise water, palm trees - it’s romantic all around, especially at night, when it’s time for Colombian salsa.
Copenhagen, Denmark This is the most visited city in Scandinavia. The famous writer H.H. Andersen lived in this city, so the main symbol of the city is the monument to the little mermaid. The cozy town has many old colorful houses, parks, atmospheric streets, and embankments.
Dominica Fans of eco-resorts will definitely love this kingdom of nature. An island that has preserved its pristine natural purity. Rivers, streams, waterfalls, boiling lakes and the Caribbean Sea - this is not a paradise for water lovers.
Madagascar An African wildlife island that has everything from whale watching to deserted white sand beaches, from lemurs to luxury lodges.
The terrain is very varied and includes rainforest, open savannah, highlands and desert, with a variety of cultures to explore.
Marrakesh, Morocco In this medieval city you can admire the impressive architecture and design, stroll through the colorful labyrinth-like streets, dine on mouth-watering dishes, watch musicians play, and shop in the colorful souks.
Namibia If you want to see real wild Africa, then this is the place for you. It has insanely high sand dunes, vast deserts, and the world's largest free-roaming population of black rhinoceros. You can even track its movements on foot; at a watering hole you can see predatory animals standing nearby. You will get an unforgettable safari experience.
Napa Valley, California The most famous American wine region, where the land still feeds people. The fertile valley is famous throughout the world for its plantations of ideal grapes. A charming resort for couples who love culinary arts beyond imagination. In addition to aromatic wine, here you can relax in numerous spa centers, stroll through red forests and lakes.
North Island, New Zealand The natural beauty of the island is breathtaking. It is known for its lush green landscapes, national parks, cliffs overlooking the Pacific Ocean and Tasmanian Sea, and active volcanoes. Paris, France City of lights and love. If you appreciate romantic walks hand in hand with your loved one, then the French capital is the perfect place for you. It offers its guests incredible culture, architecture, fashion, food and wine.
Portland, Oregon One of the most environmentally friendly cities. It is rich in modern architecture, innovative ideas, countless parks and bike paths, gardens, hip-hop music and art scenes, trendy breweries and cozy coffee shops.
Puerto Rico An island paradise in the middle of the Caribbean, known as the Isle of Enchantment. A luxurious island surrounded by the Caribbean Sea, picturesque beaches, beautiful nature with bird sanctuaries, national parks and the highest level of service. You won't be bored here because of the many activities: golf, kayaking, windsurfing, fishing, hiking in the rainforest.
Rajasthan, India This largest state in India is called the “Land of Kings”. Embark on a journey through the amazing architecture and colorful places of the most mysterious country in the world. Royal castles drive you crazy with their ancient luxury. You can watch a spectacular and unusual performance - the most exotic sport of camel riding.
Rwanda This is the place to go for adventure. A wildlife safari is an impressive sight, but it is much more exciting to see mountain gorillas in their natural habitat. This country offers newlyweds an active holiday, mountain rainforests, a visit to the Volcanoes National Park, participation in excavations and educational craft tours.
Sacred Valley, Peru The Sacred Valley includes magnificent valley towns. A honeymoon in this unique destination is designed for those who live to enjoy nature at its best. Here are impeccable resorts that combine ecological air with breathtaking views of picturesque landscapes, cultural traditions and pure luxury.
Scotland This is the most beautiful place in Great Britain. Magnificent landscapes of green valleys and wild mountains, secluded sandy beaches, fairytale castles and an authentic atmosphere. Here you can play golf, ride a wave on a board (surf), visit the largest distilleries and enjoy the best whiskey in the world.
Sicily, Italy The largest and most mysterious island of the Mediterranean Sea. It is completely imbued with an Italian atmosphere, colorful farmhouses, unique architecture, art and ruins from various phenomena.
Switzerland All the best in the world is concentrated here. Delicious chocolate, countless lakes, the beauty of the Alps, year-round natural attractions, the UNESCO-protected Lavaux wine region, a world-class ski resort. Singapore A fabulously romantic place in Asia 3 in 1: the smallest state in the world, the capital and the city. There is incredibly delicious food, hospitable and welcoming people, a huge number of amazing hotels, a high level of service, clean beaches, interesting sights and entertainment, culture.
Batumi, Georgia Georgia is, first of all, amazing, hospitable people and great nature.
This is a small country, but very diverse - from snow-capped mountains, tropics to semi-deserts reminiscent of the African savannah. Many of the roads are in very poor condition, so it is worth planning your trip in advance so that you can make the most of this time and see as many of the most beautiful places as possible. Batumi is the third largest city in Georgia, right after Tbilisi and Kutaisi. A city of amazing contrasts. Everything shines and “screams.” Crazy exclusive architecture, completely unrealistic ideas, implemented with incredible ease. Well, it's certainly beautiful! The city is vaguely reminiscent of Las Vegas, much more accessible. In Batumi, it is worth visiting the fish market, where the chef will cook the fish on the spot. Slovenia If you love Georgia, then you will definitely love Slovenia, the Central European country of castles, green fields, snow-capped peaks, thermal springs and the greenest city on the continent. This place is still not overloaded with tourists, which means it will be very cozy and calm.
Tahaa, French Polynesia The French Polynesian "Vanilla Island" is famous not only for vanilla - that seductive spice that also flavors the air of the entire island in the most amazing way - but also produces rum and black pearls, which are quite attractive. Insane beauty, ancient temples, small villages, a turtle reserve, snow-white clean beaches and azure water - all this awaits you on this wonderful island.
Tel Aviv, Israel With its sun-drenched Mediterranean coastline and cosmopolitan status, Tel Aviv is perhaps a more surprising choice for a honeymoon. It boasts beaches, incredible nightlife, mouth-watering food often served in open-air cafes, a vibrant promenade and the stunning White City, which is filled with attractive modernist Bauhaus-style architecture from the 1930s.
Turks and Caicos To the southeast of the Bahamas, in the Atlantic Ocean, Turks and Caicos are located, these are not two islands, as one might expect, but a whole 40 coral islands. They're exotic and downright luxurious, with few tourists on the countless white beaches, and the legendary Grace Bay Beach is home to a variety of restaurants, luxury villas and yachting opportunities.
Vancouver, Canada There is no better place for an active honeymoon. Its unique ethnic setting, surrounded by mountains and cool water, makes it popular for many outdoor adventures and scenic shots. Many art, theater and music events take place here.
Vietnam Vietnam has it all: markets, beaches, colorful culture, Buddhist pagodas, temples, rivers, French colonial sites, quaint cities and food. Ho Chi Minh City and Hanoi are major metropolises, while Hoi An, Mui Ne and Hue offer more rural charm along with art and a sandy coastline that is as pristine as any island. The Southeast Asian country is quite large, so you can take a family trip for a wide variety of experiences.
Curonian Spit, Russia / Lithuania A unique place with the largest sand bar in the world. The beginning of the spit is located near the city of Zelenogradsk, Kaliningrad region and ends in Lithuania. The entire territory of the Curonian Spit is included in the UNESCO World Heritage List as being of international importance. Mysterious pine forests with animals and birds listed in the Red Book await you there. Sand dunes and endless water on both sides of the land. At the end of July, the Baltic Sea reaches an acceptable temperature for swimming. The flora of this place is conducive to hiking and cycling through the ecologically clean coniferous forest, and along the paths to taste wild berries, for example, raspberries, blackberries, etc. Meeting forest fox and wild boar is common. Such a vacation is suitable for older newlyweds and couples who prefer a calm, cozy and healthy pastime. In Russia it is inexpensive, and in the Lithuanian Klaipeda region the costs are much higher, but the level of service and care of wildlife is high.
Alakhadzy, Abkhazia We recommend an inexpensive, but tasteful holiday in Abkhazia. To visit this country you do not need a foreign passport; entry is carried out using a passport of a citizen of the Russian Federation. If it is important for you to go on a honeymoon abroad, but finances are limited, then this is the best option. The most beautiful and clean Black Sea coast under the blue sky. Be sure to go on an excursion to the mountains to the magical alpine meadows. This is how local residents nicknamed the green meadow among the Caucasus mountains, with the cleanest air, beautiful vegetation and black tulips. Flowers bloom in spring and early summer. The road to this amazing beauty stretches up along steep slopes and ravines with wild nature, so the trip will be a pleasure for all extreme sports lovers. You will also undoubtedly enjoy pedaling a catamaran on the high-altitude fabulous Lake Ritsa. For a carefree beach holiday, the undisputed place will be the Paradise Beach hotel in the village of Alakhadzy, not far from the famous Gagra. New, modern, four-star hotel on the first line of the Black Sea coast. The best place in this country for a honeymoon at an affordable price and decent service.
Start of a relationship
The beginning of a relationship is the most wonderful time when people begin to get to know each other gradually, discovering new features in their loved one. They are influenced by their feelings and see only the good in their partner. Figuratively speaking, young people put on “rose-colored glasses” that prevent them from seeing each other’s negative qualities. Lovers go to the cinema, cafes, walks, generally have fun, their relationship is filled only with good impressions and they have not yet observed any real problems.
conclusions
A honeymoon is worth it for new experiences that will last a lifetime.
Even people with average incomes can afford to forget about all the household chores for a week or two and relax after a long stressful preparation for the wedding.
In the company of your loved one, any vacation will be unforgettable, you just need to be open to new things, decide where you want to fly on your honeymoon, and try to get the most out of your vacation.
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Family life
Before you decide to move from the candy-bouquet period to the ordinary one, you need to have a clear idea of what “family life” is. And this time will come as soon as the couple begins to lead a life together, rents an apartment for this (if they do not have their own home), and learns to build their relationships in various areas of their family journey.
A person begins to understand the significance of married life only during serious difficulties. It happens that friends turn away at this moment and only the other half goes together to the end. The main thing is to realize this in time.
Only a family person can truly feel happy, because he is loved, cared for and always expected and supported, and one can only sympathize with those who prefer to live their whole lives alone.
If people decided to tie the knot, then they were confident in their soulmate, and that they could always be together. Therefore, family should be a priority between career, entertainment and other things. This is the most important thing in life.
Careerists are most often left alone, or those who benefit from it financially are close to them. And in old age, such people regret that, despite having material wealth, they could not create the most important thing - a family. Finding himself in such circumstances, a person will feel lonely among many servants, colleagues and false friends.
Family life involves enormous responsibility for all members of the new unit of society, so if it is difficult to bear, then you should not get married and make yourself and your children unhappy. Only a sane person looks for a partner for life, has children and becomes truly happy. No money can replace family.
Only in a circle of close people - his wife and children - is a man able to grow and develop, as well as pass on his experience to his child.
For some types of people, family life is commonplace; for others, it becomes a routine. A person getting married must realize whether he really wants to spend his whole life with his chosen one (or chosen one), have his own children and raise them.
Fiji
It was here that the famous film “The Blue Lagoon” was filmed. Fiji is a group of islands - there are about three hundred of them. It has unrivaled beaches and crystal clear water.
In Fiji you can rent a secluded villa with a private pool. During the walks, magnificent views open up; you can see a lot of exotic plants and birds. There are a lot of active entertainments on the islands: diving, snorkeling, watercraft, kayaking.
Dreams and reality
Next, we’ll talk about what crises there are in family life over the years and how to overcome them, since each period of life together has its own difficulties. Let's look at the main stages of a relationship.
When young people have moved to a more serious stage of the relationship, this is followed by their official confirmation. Since childhood, girls dream of a wedding, a chic celebration, a beautiful white dress, how she will go out to meet her lover, and catch the admiring glances of her friends and loved ones. In dreams, it looks like a fairy tale about Cinderella, which did not talk about how she lived with the prince after the wedding. Hence the question creeps in: “Is there life after marriage?” You can answer it only by understanding the main stages of relationships between people. There are only 5 of them.
Hotel facilities
Even with the most intense honeymoon program, the comfort of the hotel is of great importance, because at this time young people so want privacy and romance. In addition to the number of stars and level of service, you should pay attention to the hotel’s infrastructure, the presence of green areas where you can take romantic walks, the presence of a variety of cafes and restaurants where you can spend pleasant evenings. The comfort of the room itself and its interior also play a significant role. The furnishings should create a romantic atmosphere, which consists of certain details: beds, textiles, the style of the room, its equipment with all the amenities of civilization.
The first stage - inspired by love
The newlyweds recently got married, went on a trip, they have many plans for life, and before leaving for work they exchange a passionate kiss. The first stage is the peak of romance and naivety. Its duration varies from one year to the birth of the baby.
Family life at this time is full of all kinds of events and entertainment. The newlyweds are influenced by the flared passion and feelings that once arose between them when they met.
All events that take place are accompanied by lightness and fun - renovations are done with dancing, energetic music, and laughter.
People easily find a compromise in any situation, give in to each other, do not quarrel, and do not see any shortcomings in their loved one. A week passes after the wedding, one, two, three, and so a whole year flies by, which is a small brick in building the foundation of their future family life. Peace between spouses will depend on how life will be structured at this time, how the couple will be able to find solutions to problems, understand and hear each other. It is very important in the first year of living together to learn to give in and find a compromise for both parties.
After the wedding, you cannot relax and let the relationship take its course; they always need to be given a “breath of fresh air.” It is a mistake to believe that a stamp in a passport forever binds people and they are each other’s property. You need to constantly win your soul mate, surprise, delight, and give pleasant gifts. You should always look for the right moments to talk about your feelings.
A man should not forget about compliments and give his wife little surprises not only for a festive event. And a woman, in turn, is obliged to take care of herself and maintain her natural beauty. She should not walk around the apartment in stretched, unkempt or soiled clothes, with greasy hair and lack of manicure. A well-groomed wife will always remain desirable and beautiful. After all, if a woman loves herself and takes care of herself, then the man will do the same for his part. In this case, the husband will not look at beautiful work colleagues, or just ladies he meets, because he knows that his ideal is waiting for him at home.
With the beginning of family life, both spouses have not only their own responsibilities, but also common ones. It is very important to immediately start doing all household chores together, this process unites. After all, it is unlikely that a woman will like such a picture - she is working around the house, and at the same time her husband is lying in front of the TV with a beer.
If any problems arise, they need to be resolved through a calm conversation, and not through shouting and scandal.
It is important to tell your loved one about your goals and dreams, for example, having a child, going to the sea, etc. Perhaps they will coincide and it will be possible to work together to achieve their implementation.
Loire Valley
This is one of the most romantic places in France and the whole world. It attracts primarily with its architecture - there are many magnificent castles here, it seems that they came straight from the pages of fairy tales.
The Loire Valley is good for romantic walks and boat rides. A hot air balloon flight will leave you with a lot of impressions. If you wish, you can go to Paris for 1-2 days. The journey there will take approximately 2 hours.
The second stage is identity disclosure
At the second stage, very often people learn something new about their beloved, most often these are negative traits. A man already knows that his wife doesn’t look as flawless in the morning as she does in the afternoon with a decent layer of makeup, that her eyelashes and hair might be false, and to keep her legs always smooth, she has to shave them every day. In addition, hidden complexes of a woman appear, which she hid so carefully, such as an imperfect figure, fear of gaining extra pounds, and so on.
But many of the husband’s secrets are also revealed to the wife. She understands that for him, spending the weekend in front of the TV is more comfortable than going somewhere, that he is sloppy, his socks are everywhere, he smells of sweat, he does not like guests, and especially her girlfriends, taking out the trash is a great problem for him.
If a child appears at this stage, then the relationship is only worsened by the fact that the woman loses her former attractiveness. They don’t sleep at night, they have to forget about sex for a long time, because they don’t even have the strength for it. At the same time, the child’s constant crying, the woman’s nervousness and irritability due to hormonal imbalances and fatigue. At this time, all romance and passion disappears. Living together becomes unbearable.
As the psychology of family life says, it is extremely rare for a man at this stage of a relationship to turn a blind eye to everything. And also, not to notice his wife’s hysterics, but will begin to carry her in his arms and confess his love. More likely, the opposite will happen: the stronger sex will break under the burden of everyday life, and if they do not leave the woman and the child, then it will be too late to come home, and they will often be late at work.
During this period, it is very important to support each other. You need to understand that the most important thing now is the child. As soon as he grows up, harmony in the family, as a rule, returns to normal.
You cannot run away from problems that have arisen; this will only make the situation worse. All difficulties are temporary, so you need to be patient and do what is necessary. If the woman you love begins to irritate you because she has lost her attractiveness, then you just need to help her with the child so that she finds time for herself. The lack of romance and past passion should not interfere with relationships at this time. It is important to view such changes as absolutely normal.
The best way out of such a difficult period is considered to be diversity in family life. You can leave your child with grandma and go for a walk around the city at night or go out into the world. A woman can try to change her image, dress as attractively as possible, despite the deterioration of her body.
Aruba
This island is located in the Caribbean Sea near Venezuela. Many hotels operate a special program for newlyweds, providing attractive discounts.
Vacations in Aruba are great. There are many beaches with the purest white sand and clear water. There are several islands - you can go from one to another on foot or by boat by water.
A local attraction are pink flamingos. They can often be seen on the beach near the water. If you don't scare the birds away, you can get great photos.
Third stage. Should there be a divorce?
During this difficult time, the problems get worse, the relationship consists only of scandals and quarrels, the husband appears at home less and less. Many couples cannot withstand the onslaught of life's troubles and get divorced. Typically, a breakup occurs between spouses 10 years after the wedding, and old feelings fade away.
It is very important to talk with your spouse; you need to understand that we have gone through a lot together and it is stupid to separate. Another person will not change anything, the problems will remain the same, so why change the woman who once won your heart for someone unknown. All failures in family relationships must be experienced together and turned into advantages. One of the spouses may have to make concessions to the first. The important thing here is to save the marriage and not think about who will remain on the extreme side.
In such difficult circumstances, you need to try to spend time together, remember previous happy moments, then the feelings may return.
Moving method
Where it is better to spend your honeymoon directly depends on the price. However, it is worth thinking about comfort when choosing one or another travel option. It is necessary to take into account the preferences of each spouse, especially if any method, even if it is cheaper, causes inconvenience or fear (for example, the bride may be afraid to fly on an airplane or the groom cannot stand sea cruises due to seasickness). Climate. Of course, lovers of mild climates and those who prefer to “roast” in the sun will choose completely different countries.
Psychology of family life
In order for life to be happy after marriage, you need to adhere to some rules:
- All tasks must be done together, they cannot be transferred to someone else.
- It is necessary to accept each other with all the pros and cons.
- Not everything will always be stable in the family; even the role of head with the birth of a baby can pass to a woman. You need to be prepared for this.
- In a family there is no distribution of job responsibilities, like at work, only love rules everything.
- You need to be able to find time for yourself, everyone has the right to personal space.
- Children should be an expected event, and only bring people together.
Simple rules will help maintain harmony in the family and not destroy the union.
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Husband and wife after the wedding. Who has it more difficult?
Things don’t always work out simply and smoothly for newlyweds, because they just have to get to know each other completely and immerse themselves in their life together. But which of them is more difficult?
Is it difficult to be a husband? A man is the head of the family; he must make all important decisions, but at the same time coordinate them with his wife. It’s just not difficult to be a husband, but it’s difficult to be a good one. It all depends on the character of the man, his position in life, upbringing by parents, and understanding of family values. The main thing is that he takes care of his family, helps in solving everyday issues and with the child. You just need to try for your family, and they will love a man simply for what he is.
Is it difficult to be a wife? After the wedding, all the housework falls on the woman, in addition to cooking, washing, cleaning, she must also take care of herself and raise the child. If a wife also manages to work with all her affairs, then she has no value. The main thing is that the woman knows how to cook deliciously, the house is always in order, the kids are in clean clothes, well-fed and happy. Being a wife is difficult, because she has a great responsibility for the comfort and cleanliness of her home, the health of her children, and at the same time she takes care of her husband.
Reviews of options by budget
If you can allocate a large amount, we recommend the exotic - the Maldives, the Caribbean (Dominican Republic, Cuba), the Thai Islands or the United Arab Emirates.
Thailand is a very convenient option for those planning a wedding in the fall or winter. The islands of this country are especially popular among honeymooners due to their convenient flights and attractive prices. In addition, in Thailand you can find everything: nature, beaches, exoticism and comfort. If your budget is a little more modest, we suggest choosing charming Crete, Majorca and Rhodes - due to the shorter distance and flight costs, these trips are somewhat cheaper. Sardinia and Cyprus are also popular. These are islands where you can not only relax, but also see a lot. Sardinia is famous for its white sandy beaches, traditional local cuisine and sincere local people. And Cyprus will surprise you with its diversity - the islands have mountains, breathtaking cliffs and sandy beaches. Bulgaria is also famous for its sandy beaches. The country has wonderful weather in summer and you can find great hotels at an affordable price. Romance is also popular in Barcelona. Many couples choose Turkey, which has exceptional staffing, rich cuisine and a well-developed hotel industry. Sunny beaches of beautiful Greece, Polish mountains? When the choice of holiday destination directly depends on a modest amount, then Georgia and Abkhazia are ideal options. Georgia is not inferior to European countries in its beauty, modernity and kindness of local residents. In Abkhazia you can enjoy the pristine nature and cleanliness of the sea coast. For older couples who love nature and solitude, a trip to the Curonian Spit National Park will be interesting. The cost of the trip depends on the wishes of the newlyweds: a holiday in the Kaliningrad region will cost much less than on the Lithuanian side. Manicured forests, wild animals and sandy coastlines envelop you in their warmth and charm.
Literature
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Encyclopedic dictionary of Russian life and history. - M.: OLMA-PRESS, 2003. - P. 93. - ISBN 5-224-04008-6. - Honey // Explanatory dictionary of the living Great Russian language: in 4 volumes / author.-comp. V. I. Dal. — 2nd ed. - St. Petersburg. : Printing house of M. O. Wolf, 1880-1882.
- Kovalev V. M., Mogilny N. P.
Honey // Russian cuisine: traditions and customs. - M.: Soviet Russia, 1990. - P. 254. - 229–230 p. — ISBN 5-268-00916-8. - Sheypak A. A.
Medovukha // History of science and technology, part 1. - M.: MGIU, 2009. - P. 224. - 110–111 p. — ISBN 978-5-276-00970-4.
Into the mountains
For a vacation in the mountains, couples should consider not only Altai and the Urals, but also North Ossetia with its unique landscapes, caves, gorges and unique cuisine. A huge number of picturesque places are located in the Caucasus. Here you can organize a leisurely summer holiday with walks in the fresh air, or try to climb one of the mountain peaks. For example, on Kazbek, if you decide to stay in Nalchik or Mineralnye Vody.
In addition to these places, it is worth including on your wish list the Sulak Canyon, the Gimrin Gorge and the Sarykum sand dune in Dagestan, as well as the Elbrus region with blue lakes, the Gedmishkh waterfall, the Circassian and Chegem gorges, and the castle of the Chateau-Erken winery.
Tuscany
This is another city in Italy that is famous for its romance. Newlyweds should rent one of the secluded villas outside the city, where they can fully immerse themselves in romance. The original accommodation option is a hotel located in an ancient monastery.
Tuscany has magnificent nature and architecture - there are many ancient buildings that have witnessed many love stories. Newlyweds should definitely try Italian cuisine and enjoy excellent wine from local vineyards.
Rome
This city is a real legend. Rome is a popular tourist destination, so you can find everything here. There is a high level of service and magnificent architecture.
Rome is great for walking and sightseeing - there are so many of them that you can fill up your entire vacation days. The city has many romantic places: magnificent buildings, fountains. You can find here entertainment for every taste.
