For a small wedding
For a small company of your closest people, you should not use too formal and solemn competitions. It is much better to emphasize the uniqueness and closeness of the relationship with each invitee. Usually small weddings do without a toastmaster, but in any case it is necessary to remember that:
- competitions for a small wedding should not be longer than 10 minutes;
- it is worth considering the age of all guests: it will not be very easy for older people to dance vigorously or otherwise engage in physical activity;
- No one should be forced to participate, especially at a small wedding, since a chamber celebration requires democracy.
A very good solution would be to turn to family roots, for example, stories about the childhood of the newlyweds or the weddings of older relatives.
Wedding shamers
Judgment day for those who behaved in a completely non-wedding manner yesterday. Based on the voting results, the disgraces of the celebration are determined, for example, who had the least fun and smiled the least - receives the title “Sad Squishy” and, as punishment, must only smile for half an hour, otherwise - a fine (a full glass in one gulp); whoever moved the least and practically did not dance receives the title “Log” and dances a fiery dance as punishment; whoever drank the least and remained sober receives the title “Teetotaler and Parasite” and drinks a bottle of champagne or beer as punishment; whoever did not wait for the cake receives the title “Hurry” and, as punishment, must eat the cake in a minute without using his hands, and so on.
Entertainment for newlyweds
The newlyweds also need to take part in the general fun. For example, the simplest competition for newly-made spouses is “Potato”. The couple is given several potato tubers and a knife; the task is to peel the vegetable as carefully as possible, and at the same time the peel turns out to be long. The one who wins becomes the honorary ruler of the kitchen.
Game about raising children
When you have sorted out the household responsibilities, you can begin to distribute the tasks of raising children. The newlyweds are given a doll; after the presenter's signal, they need to swaddle it, put a cap on their head, and insert a pacifier into their mouth. Instead of dolls, you can invite two male volunteers who can both resist and be capricious. The future parent who handles the “child” faster and more accurately wins.
"Understand me without words"
Newlyweds can demonstrate the mutual understanding that reigns in their family with the help of the “Understand Me Without Words” competition. The rules are similar to the game "Crocodile", so there will be no difficulties. The witness whispers a word or phrase to the bride, which she must explain to her lover without words, only with gestures and facial expressions. When the groom guesses, the witness gives him his word, and the bride has to decipher the message.
House plan and competitions
One of the current options for a cool scenario for celebrating the second wedding day would be to play out situations with a medical bias.
The day before, the guests thoroughly celebrated the beginning of the newlyweds’ life together at an official banquet, so the medical workers who greet them at the doorstep with a large cardboard thermometer will come in very handy.
They use it to measure the temperature of all new arrivals, reporting that it is below 40°. Each patient is offered a glass of vodka and a pickled cucumber as medicine. Guests who have passed such a medical examination are allowed further into the room, where the newlyweds and the festive table are already waiting for them. And this is where the real fun begins.
Surely, every couple has a friend - a joker and comedian with charisma and the ability to organize people.
It is this person who can be approached with a request to become a toastmaster at a home banquet. Fun competitions will help raise the spirit of the holiday. Here are some of them:
A musical competition to diagnose a patient will be a great entertainment.
After listening to lines from popular songs, guests will have to guess what disease they are talking about. For example, these riddles:
When guessing encrypted diagnoses, the funniest and coolest thing will be the issuance of various answer options and their comments.
Undoubtedly, this competition will be enjoyed and remembered for a long time by all those invited.
Having decided to hold the second wedding day at home and using a medical theme as the basis for the holiday, it is advisable to decorate the room following this plan. Labels with the words “potion” or “living water” are stuck on bottles of drinks.
Several beakers will replace the usual shot glasses. You can give out medical caps and gowns to some guests to create an appropriate ambience. In fact, there are quite a lot of fun and original scenarios for celebrating the second wedding day.
The main thing is to choose a suitable topic and stick to it, at least in detail, throughout the entire event. In order for the newlyweds and their guests to be satisfied with the holiday, it should not turn into an ordinary ordinary feast. It is necessary to prepare in advance a variety of competitions both for young people and for invited relatives and friends.
You can arrange a win-win lottery with funny prizes, which will be held by the bride and groom.
Tickets with numbers and the name of the prize are placed in a glass jar (it will replace the drum). Guests are offered to purchase tickets, but not for money, but, say, for singing a ditty, a song, or for a funny joke on a wedding theme. Each prize is accompanied by a humorous saying:
Cute trinkets will lift your spirits and will remind you for a long time of a great time spent in a warm, friendly company.
On the second day of the wedding, the relatives of the young couple get to know each other better, the two families come together in an atmosphere of jokes, fun and funny competitions.
Often, most of them are associated with the appearance of future heirs of the couple. One of the most popular is “Find the Baby.” The newlyweds are given a head of cabbage and told that the one who finds the baby the fastest will win.
When the couple guts both forks, the parents will jokingly notice that they are not looking for children in the cabbage and will ask them not to delay the birth of their grandchildren. In addition to competitions, the celebration program includes rituals aimed at a long and happy family life for young spouses.
The passing of a large, beautiful lit candle from parents to children is precisely such a ritual.
This action symbolizes continuation of the family line, loyalty to family and traditions, as well as a family hearth in which the fire is supported by patience, understanding, love and respect for each other. The couple is instructed to keep the candle as a family heirloom and light it on special occasions, such as every year on their wedding date. The ceremony is performed to the background music, for example, to the melody from the film “The Umbrellas of Cherbourg”, or any other of the young couple’s choice.
Redemption of seats for newlyweds
After the bulk of the guests have already sat down at the tables after a visit to the witness-narcologist, the newlyweds will have to enter the hall. A not very pleasant surprise will await them - the seats at the head of the table intended for them will be occupied by another married couple.
Don’t forget about makeup: the false bride’s makeup should be bright and provocative. The couple who stole the newlyweds' seats must behave believably - hugging, flirting, and so on. Witness: It's bad luck, but we have other newlyweds here too. How will we divide the places? Where did you come from here? Actually, another wedding is being celebrated here. False newlyweds: And we’ve been celebrating our wedding for three weeks now. So yesterday we went through a little bit and wandered into the wrong place. It’s just that it’s not easy to drink for twenty-one days. But here the tables are set and there is alcohol. We’ll sit here, if you don’t mind, we’ll drink vodka and eat salads. And even if you object, then, frankly speaking, we don’t care! Witness: No, it won’t work that way! Let's part ways on good terms somehow? What kind of place are you asking for? False newlyweds: To begin with, let the young people look after us - pour a drink, bring it to us and offer us a snack. The newlyweds look after the uninvited guests, pour them a glass of alcohol and serve them snacks. False newlyweds: Now let's call the fathers of the bride and groom here, let them have a drink with us. Don’t begrudge them vodka, daughter-in-law! Witness: Well, we ate and drank, let's get out of here, stop making a joke here! If you don’t want to, I’ll call the police! A witness pretends to call the police to report a trespass at a party. An employee of the Ministry of Internal Affairs enters the room where the event is taking place. He should look slightly rumpled: his shirt is half unbuttoned, his tie is sticking out of his pocket, his cap is on one side, a cucumber is sticking out of his holster. Policeman: Hello! Give me some vodka. Oh, what am I, give me some vodka, please! Oh, and we sat yesterday... What happened to you? Uninvited guests? We know these, so to speak, spouses... They, so to speak, have been wandering from wedding to wedding for about six years. They drink and eat for free. Come on, gentlemen bandits, let's go.
What to cook? Menu
After the gala banquet, there will probably be a lot of untouched dishes left; you shouldn’t limit yourself to just the remaining products. Eventually, they might just go bad. It is also necessary to think over the menu for the second wedding day. Food should be tasty and satisfying, but at the same time light.
Too fatty and spicy foods should be avoided. It is better to give preference to vegetables, chicken and fish dishes . Drinks should also be light. You need to take care of juices, fruit drinks and water . Dry wine or champagne are suitable as alcoholic drinks .
It is quite possible to arrange a themed feast . For example, if the newlyweds are going to spend their honeymoon in Italy or Venice, then guests can be offered pastas and pizzas traditional for these countries.
If the holiday is planned outdoors, then classic treats can include kebabs, baked fish, chicken wings, even grilled sausages . An excellent addition would be vegetable salads, a variety of canapés and fruits .
Sample menu for the second day:
Mandatory traditions for the second wedding day
Despite the fact that modern people have moved away from the traditional wedding, the second day of the celebration can be full of customs and rituals that came from antiquity. Since ancient times, on the second day of the event, the bride is forced to sweep and cook, demonstrating her housekeeping skills, and the man is forced to chop wood and hammer nails. Other interesting wedding customs:
- Handing out glasses. The newly-made wife gives her beloved's parents gratitude for their well-educated son, then takes a tray with glasses and serves them to the wedding guests. Having taken a glass, the guest must leave money on the tray.
- Bite off a larger piece of loaf at a wedding. So on the second day of the wedding it will be decided who will be the head of the family.
- Pancake feeding. The bride serves pancakes to the wedding guests, asking for money.
The second day of the magnificent celebration should be light, cheerful, and cozy. The main characters of the wedding should feel at ease, surrounded by their loved ones. In order for the continuation of the celebration to be successful, the next wedding day must be clearly planned and controlled by the newly made spouses or their friends - then everyone will have cheerful, pleasant memories.
Bride's Trials
The second day of the wedding was dedicated to testing the young woman as a housewife. She had to go get water, and the cheerful guests tried to accommodate her in every possible way - they boarded up the well, turned over the buckets.
Another ritual was sweeping the floors. All kinds of garbage were scattered on the floor in the house, and the young woman had to carefully sweep it away. The quality of cleaning was checked by guests. The young wife was subjected to these tests in order to check her readiness for housekeeping.
After all the rituals were observed, the festive feast began. The second day was dedicated to parents. The bride asked permission to call her father-in-law and mother-in-law “dad” and “mom,” and the groom did the same. “Bitterly” was shouted on the second day for the parents who were parting with their child. This mainly concerned the girl’s parents, because Previously, the wife went to her husband's house. When the fun began, the young couple broke the plate. This was done for luck.
In the fresh breeze: competitions on the second day of a wedding in nature
The second day of the wedding no longer implies that officialdom that often fetters guests, preventing full fun from unfolding. In such a situation, it is on the second day that everyone will be able to open up to the fullest, and even more so if the celebration or its continuation will be held in nature, for example, on a lawn or clearing, near a river or lake.
It has recently become extremely fashionable to hold themed celebrations, for example, in the style of a carnival or masquerade, the dashing nineties or little children, half-educated vampires, magical characters and so on, you can come up with anything. Then each guest must come up with his own original costume, according to the theme, for example, put on a diaper and hang a large pacifier on his chest, a crimson jacket, or arm himself with an aspen stake to hunt vampires.
Costume and dress competition
The simplest competition can be called a costume competition if you decide to do a themed event. Guests’ costumes can be assessed according to different criteria, by color and even smell, by their relevance to the theme and the number of details, by simplicity and complexity. Everyone must choose at once, for example, by secret ballot, putting pluses on pieces of paper, and the winner must receive a symbolic prize.
Who is the most caring parent?
Another simple but fun competition is actually called “Caring Parents” and involves the selected guests quickly changing the diaper of a doll baby, feeding him and putting him to bed. But we decided to go further and organize something more fun and interesting. Choose a couple of “children” from among the guests, and let the participants dress them, and they will be capricious and not give in to persuasion. What will come of this, you will see for yourself, but there is no doubt that you will be guaranteed widespread laughter.
Touch your partner or point of contact
Such a competition, by the way, can be held not only outdoors, but also in the hall, but it will be more interesting, of course, to do all this on the grass, and it will be safer. The essence of the game is similar to the popular twister, but it does not use a field, since the playing partner will serve as it. Select several pairs of participants, and pre-write the names of body parts on pieces of paper. What the presenter will call will need to be touched. For example, leg, head, arm, elbow, ear, big toe, stomach, etc. Whoever is the first to get so confused that he can no longer make the next move is eliminated, and the most flexible ones receive a symbolic gift.
The match will take place in any weather
It’s great if there is enough free space to play outdoor games, for example, football, volleyball, basketball or any other team game. However, instead of a regular ball, you need to use a huge fitness ball, or a tiny rattle ball, or maybe even a specially inflated balloon. Set simple rules, and for the winners you will need to prepare special ribbons, which they can then take as souvenirs. It is advisable to assemble female and male teams, youth against mature warriors, children against parents, and so on.
Thus, competitions for the 2nd day of an outdoor wedding can be fun and active, so that guests can get some fresh air and have a good rest from yesterday’s official celebration. But these are not the only options that will definitely appeal not only to newlyweds, but also to everyone else.
Second day menu: how to spend the 2nd wedding day
It’s clear that you won’t be able to do without a treat on the second day, so it’s better to think through the menu in advance so that you don’t frantically run around restaurants, ordering what’s available. It is quite natural that the dishes for the morning treat should not be overly filling and dense, fatty and heavy on the stomach. The guests should have already had a fairly heavy dinner and drink yesterday, so the second day’s menu should be lighter, with a lot of greens, drinks, salads, fruits, and so on. That is, the wedding, day 2 and meeting of guests should be light and relaxed, so that everything is fun and simple.
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Traditionally, it is the young hostess who must show the groom, his family, as well as all the assembled guests how well she can cook. If the bride is ready to bake pancakes after yesterday’s stormy day, then this is wonderful, but taking such rituals very seriously, when the bride herself personally treats everyone with pancakes of her own preparation, is also not worth it, and no one has canceled mother-in-law’s pancakes with honey.
Questions about newlyweds
When guests are a little tired of active entertainment (dancing, singing, energetic competitions), it’s time to play a calm and slightly intellectual game. It is not necessary to call everyone into the hall; guests can easily answer questions about the bride and groom from their seats, because at a wedding everyone wants to relax.
Competition "Who knows?"
- Participants: all guests.
- Props: none.
Questions from guests about the newlyweds are answered by whoever wants to. It often happens that the answer sounds in chorus. Questions could be:
- When did the newlyweds meet?
- Do they have a pet and what is its name?
- Whose last name did the bride take?
- What kind of car does the young man have?
- Where will the newlyweds spend their honeymoon?
- Is it true that the young man agreed to constantly wash dishes in exchange for Friday beer and football?
- Is it true that the groom’s entire salary goes to beauty salons for his beloved?
The more humorous and provocative questions you come up with, the more laughter you will hear.
Competition "Who did this?"
- Participants: friends of young people (2-3 people).
- Props: none.
The host names something that once happened to the bride or groom. Questions are asked to each player in turn, and for the correct answer he receives 1 point. Questions about newlyweds may include the following:
- Who got into a fight with a girl in second grade?
- Who dragged cats and dogs from the yard into the house every week?
- Who ended up in the police department for walking around without documents?
- Who dissected the frogs?
- Who came to the zoo with a file to save all the animals?
To prepare well for such a game, talk to the young people in advance, let them tell you more funny situations from their past.
Competitions
What is the current wedding scenario for the toastmaster? This includes modern humor, popular music, live performances, dancing and a natural atmosphere. And, of course, the modern wedding scenario is not complete without competitions.
Questions and answers
- Participants: guests.
- Props: cards and pen.
To continue the stand-up theme, you can play an interesting game. The presenter needs to prepare numbered cards with questions, behind which he will immediately write the answers.
Dear friends, now I need to restore the story that the groom told me. And I need your help. I will ask questions, and the one I call will answer. Go!
- What do you call autumn weather? (Vile, cold, romantic)
- The most beautiful woman in the world? (Bride, Pugacheva, mother)
- What does the bride look like today? (Romantic, delightful, charming)
- Make a beautiful sound. (Meow, oh, mur)
- What do you do when you see a beautiful girl? (Smile, wink, run away)
- Fastest animal? (Cheetah, turtle)
- What do you most hate to do in the morning after you get up? (Brush teeth, make coffee)
- What happens to wine over the years? (Getting older, getting better)
- What happens to bread over time? (Wanders, grows moldy)
- What could the proposal be? (Which cannot be refused, hands and hearts, profitable)
- How does an SMS about receiving your salary make you feel? (Joy, delight, happiness)
- What would you wish for a person who has everything? (Nothing, appreciate what you have, love)
"Great. Do you remember roughly who said what answer? If there are complaints about the text, you know where to address them. So, let's begin. Groom, come out and read us your story.”
The cards need to be folded one by one with the answers facing up. The groom begins to read the story when he approaches the pass, the host hands him a card with the answer:
“We met when the weather outside was (1 card). I looked at her, you know, the way men look at (card 2). At that moment she was very much (card 3) taking a bite of shawarma and saying something like (card 4). And I (5 card), fell head over heels in love with her.
We started dating, and our relationship developed at speed (card 6). We even promised what we would do to each other every morning (card 7). But time passed. She (8th card), and I (9th card). Apparently this influenced my decision to propose to my beloved (card 10). And what do you think she said?
The presenter takes the floor:
“We know what she answered. And then you all received the cherished invitations and experienced (card 11). And each of us now wants to wish the young (card 12).”
In such competitions, guests usually try to answer with humor, so the story usually turns out to be very funny.
Competition for newlyweds “Who is more economical”?
Witness: And now we will conduct a small test for the newly made spouses. Now you have to live as a separate family. Moms and dads will no longer run after you like little children, and in addition, in the near future you will have your own children that you will have to take care of. The essence of the competition is this: the newlyweds will have to show their skills. The tests can be anything: you can ask them to peel potatoes at speed or wash dishes.
A special highlight of this test is that the spouses will have to learn the basics of caring for babies in a matter of minutes. To do this, you should place two dolls on two tables, which are similar in size to newborn children. The newlyweds are invited to change their diaper, swaddle them and sing a lullaby.
Where is it better to organize: in a cafe, at home or outdoors?
If your wedding is taking place in winter or cold autumn, we definitely recommend choosing a cafe. You can celebrate at home, but just imagine how much cooking and cleaning you will have to do in order to invite all the guests to your home. This kind of work is simply not worth it.
It’s better to order a banquet in a cafe or cozy restaurant. Thanks to this, you will remember only the positive moments of the event, and not how you spent half the night washing the dishes after the reception. In summer, you can also think about celebrating outdoors. This is a good option, especially if you have a lot of guests. This kind of picnic will allow you to save a decent amount of money.
If you want to do everything in nature on a grand scale, rent a cottage or a huge gazebo. Now all these services are available, if only there was a desire and financial opportunity.
Funny competitions on the second day of the wedding for guests at home
Most often, when celebrating the second day of a wedding at home, a thematic background is also created, the so-called gypsies are guests in disguise, who make a lot of noise and talk, and besides, they strive to lead the horses away or simply put away what is lying badly.
This is, of course, very interesting, but there is an alternative to such entertainment, because you can arrange a sultan’s harem, a collective farm of the twenties, a Chinese tea party and a Japanese theater, and indeed whatever your heart desires, since no one except those invited will see you.
Name and character of the invitees: we read and laugh
To conduct such a competition you don’t even need to get up from the table. You need to give everyone two pieces of paper, and you can use the pen in turns. Everyone must write the name of the neighbor on the right or left, and on the second piece of paper describe with a couple of epithets any animal that just came to mind.
For example, on one piece of paper you write Anton, and on the second the characteristics of the lion - brave, fearless, dangerous. Therefore, all this stuff is collected in different hats, thoroughly mixed, and given out in random order, and it is not at all a fact that you personally will get the characteristic of a falcon or a wolf, and not a pig or a sheep. But it will definitely be fun, this has been tested by more than one generation of guests.
Bavarian competition or why people don't drink beer
A funny and cheerful competition can be organized with just glasses and beer on hand, as well as special straws for drinks, which you will definitely find after the wedding. Several holes need to be made in these tubes, and participants must quickly drink a whole glass of foamy drink using them. It will turn out funny enough, but if you offer another glass of beer as a prize, which you have to drink through the same straw, it will turn out to be incredibly fun.
Sweets with a surprise
Such a competition or game would also be best held at a table at home, where there are not large crowds of people, otherwise it may turn out to be difficult. Everyone should know that the competition is starting, and then pass each other a bag of candy you prepared in advance. In each candy wrapper you need to place a piece of paper with a task, but you don’t need to tell the guests about it. Just offer to take as many candies as you want.
When the sweets in the bag run out, invite the participants to see what they now need to do, sing, dance, crow from under the table or even from the window, and so on. The most “greedy” ones will find themselves in the most disadvantageous position, since a colossal amount of special tasks will fall on them.
Home game options
If the celebration continues at home, the newlyweds will also need to think through an original scenario for the second wedding day with competitions.
“Have a fun life young people”
Participants are divided into pairs, one of which can be the bride and groom. The presenter invites the partners to choose a task for themselves among the pieces of paper folded into a hat. They depict scenes from family life, for example, buying a new apartment, seeing off a child to first grade, a mountain of unwashed dishes after a holiday, etc.
The pair’s task is to act out a believable scene according to the assignment. The newlyweds themselves speak first, then at will, and the most original participants are awarded.
"Family Patron"
A “Family Patron” competition is organized for the witness and witness. Participants are given a small hat in which they must collect “gifts” from guests. This can be any personal item, for example, a phone, bracelet, watch, jacket, etc. Only one thing can be given from one person.
At the end of the competition, it is calculated which of the witnesses collected the most items. The host advises the newlyweds to contact the winner when they need something.
"Sale"
Items collected from guests in the previous game can not be returned immediately, but can be used to organize a “Sale” competition. All collected items appear like lots at a flea market, and the owners can get them back if they pay a certain price - completing a task chosen by lot from a hat. This could be a song, a dance, a toast, or any other simple task. If desired, the guest can ask someone present to pay this price instead of himself.
"Pot of Wishes"
There are also calmer competitions for the second day of the wedding. At the end of the evening you can play the game “Pot of Wishes”. It is advisable to find a clay pot for it, but you can use the same hat. Small pieces of paper are folded inside on which letters, words or phrases are written. Music sounds, and guests stand in a circle and pass the pot to each other.
The music stops and the one who has it in his hands chooses a piece of paper for himself. If a letter is written on it, you need to say a short wish to the newlyweds, which begins with it. If the note contains a word or phrase, then they need to be used in a long wish.
Bride ransom
At every wedding there is a ritual of bride price, which has long been famous for serious trials, because representatives of one clan paid another for the bride. Nowadays, everything is much simpler; the ransom scenario is prepared for the groom by the bridesmaids and relatives, giving everyone a positive mood for the upcoming celebration. It all starts with the groom meeting at the house of the bride's parents, where he is tested. In this peculiar game, the groom and the witness bargain, showing miracles of ingenuity and wit, offering various types of “barter”: champagne, sweets, outdated bills, money “dolls”, ridiculous gifts. The point is that the groom should not rush to shell out money. After haggling a lot and agreeing on the “price” with the bridesmaids, they finally buy the bride and go to the registry office.
How to greet guests
The bride and groom must prepare outfits for the second day - after all, it is a continuation of their holiday. Of course, a suit with a tie and a fluffy dress are not required, but the appropriate surroundings will not hurt, for example, you can leave boutonnieres, attach them to the clothes and choose a shirt for the groom to match the bride’s dress.
Mostly close relatives and friends of the young couple gather at home to celebrate the second day of the wedding.
As a rule, in this circle there are entertainers and jokers who are able to come up with and act out funny, witty scenes on the fly, at which all the guests will laugh until their stomachs hurt. Or you can prepare a funny scenario for the so-called “hangover” day. The plots of popularly beloved Soviet comedies are adopted:
- "Prisoner of the Caucasus";
- "Love and pigeons";
- “The Marriage of Balzaminov”;
- "Wedding in Malinovka."
Dress up the most well-spoken and lively relatives as recognizable and colorful movie characters - and you can let out the main group of guests.
He will look gorgeous at the “Meeting of Guests” stage on the threshold of the “Popandopulo” house in a torn vest and red sports trousers, with an accordion on his shoulder and with a bottle of alcohol and a cut glass in his hands, greeting guests with famous phrases from the comedy: “Pan Gritian Tauride with his wife , please love and respect!" And when the arrivals raise a glass at the entrance to the newlyweds’ house, say “To me, to me, everything is to me again!”
Distribute the roles of your favorite characters among friends and relatives: Komarikh and Yashka the Artilleryman are quite capable of playing the parents of the bride or groom. And the rest of the guests will complement this comic ensemble, coming up with jokes and comments during the event, creating a unique and original atmosphere of fun.
If the second day of the wedding is planned to be celebrated at home, then, as a rule, the services of a toastmaster are not resorted to. The groom's witness or a close relative, who can give everyone a positive attitude throughout the holiday, can perfectly fulfill his role. Very often, guests are greeted by the “massed” bride and groom.
The young wife is a friend of the couple, dressed in lace lingerie and stockings.
A veil is thrown over her head, hiding her face, and in her hands there is some kind of broom simulating a wedding bouquet. The pseudo-groom's costume consists of a jacket and trousers, different in style and style, a shirt worn for graduation, and a cap with a flower.
Seeing this luxuriously ridiculous sweet couple, guests will immediately receive a positive charge and the mood for a fun revelry. Guests can also be greeted by noisy, cheerful gypsies singing and dancing. They offer fortune telling to those arriving, ask them to gild their pens, sing songs with a guitar and dance around in circles.
You can ask several close friends or male relatives to play the role of charming and impudent gypsies. It has been noticed that men cope with such assignments much more colorfully and with special enthusiasm than representatives of the fairer sex. Wigs, bright scarves, shawls, colorful skirts to the toes, an abundance of sparkling beads, bracelets and rings - everything you need to create a picturesque group to meet the bulk of the guests.
Having provided the “gypsy camp” with a deck of cards, a guitar and a tambourine, they are sent out into the street to greet the rest of the visitors.
Comic and traditional competitions: the second day of the wedding should delight
We should not forget about folk traditions, since they have been developed and created over years, decades and centuries; this undoubtedly makes sense. Often folk entertainment concerns the parents of the newlyweds, who are honored first of all. You don’t need to invent anything for them, since everything is invented for you, just bring the games and competitions to life, and you will see how fun and entertaining it will be.
Where do babies come from: storks and nuts
In order to give a background to the competition, you need to call the parents of the bride and groom, and then ask them directly where they got their children. They will feel uncomfortable in front of a crowd of slightly tipsy guests, so most likely they will start talking about cabbage and storks, and this is where you need to catch them. This competition is a kind of relay race and requires preliminary preparation - a bag of nuts and two pans.
Place the bag in the center, and next to it are two chairs on which you can sit the parents. Let them take the nuts from the bag, squeeze them with their knees, and then, cooing like storks and flapping their arms like wings, carry them to the pan. Whoever fills the container first wins. Moreover, it is possible for moms and dads to pass the baton arbitrarily, then it will be even funnier.
Where to go for a visit or the upcoming holidays are predetermined
Often, newlyweds just can’t decide where to go for the upcoming holidays, for example, Easter or Christmas, to visit the wife’s or husband’s parents. This usually causes controversy, and sometimes you can even quarrel. To prevent this from happening, you need to immediately act it out using a simple competition, which can be done with a simple thread and two pencils.
Tie two pencils to a long thread at both ends, and tie a knot in the middle. Parents will have to wind the thread around the pencil and not break it, otherwise they will have to start all over again. Whoever gets to the knot the fastest wins, which means he will get the kids for the next family celebration.
Traditions and customs of the 2nd day
In the old days, wedding festivities lasted three days, but could last for a week. Ancient Russia, special significance was attached to celebrations the day after the wedding.
Traditionally, the day began with the bride and groom visiting the bathhouse . They had to take a steam bath with brooms given by the young husband to his betrothed. This rite was a kind of general cleansing from the sins of a previous life.
Then there was a feast , to which relatives and friends of the young people were invited. The newly-made wife showed the groom's family her talents: her ability to cook, spin, and embroider . At this time, the guests were playing funny tricks to prevent her from working. The bride gave her handicrafts to the groom's parents. These could be towels, shirts, belts.
Cheerful guests often hid the young woman, and the groom had to find her. The festivities ended with horse riding and comic performances .
What do modern newlyweds ? They are not required to follow all the rituals. Some generally believe that the second day is not necessary, and those who do arrange it try to spend it having fun. The second day of the wedding is usually celebrated with those closest to you (usually relatives and friends). You don't have to invite everyone who was at the banquet.
Usually the main gifts to the newlyweds are presented on their wedding day . On the second day they are not required, but if you want to make a pleasant surprise, then this is not forbidden. These can be cute little things, for example, themed T-shirts with the words “husband” and “wife”, photo collages, a future family album, etc.
Individual competitions
Competitions for parents of newlyweds can be held separately: only for mothers or only for fathers, so that everyone can express themselves.
The best grandfather in the world
- Participants: father-in-law and father-in-law.
- Props: wooden blocks and planks, electrical tape, scissors, wood marker.
This competition for dads is very popular at weddings. Father-in-law and father-in-law need to make a toy for future grandchildren from improvised materials in 5 minutes. To make it more interesting, guests can try to guess what kind of toys dads made. The winner is determined by applause.
While the match is burning
- Participants: father-in-law and father-in-law.
- Props: strollers, skittles, baby doll and clothes for the child.
Continuing the theme of grandchildren, future grandfathers are invited to dress the child and drop him off at kindergarten on time, doing it all faster than his opponent. The skittles are placed in a chaotic manner on the way to the end point - the kindergarten.
Participants dress up the dolls and put them in strollers, and then run with them through obstacles to the goal. Whoever runs faster will win
But it is also important that the baby doll is dressed correctly. Otherwise, the victory will go to the opponent
Praise me
- Participants: mother-in-law and mother-in-law.
- Props: sheet of paper and pen.
In 3-5 minutes, the mother-in-law and mother-in-law should write as many positive qualities of their son-in-law and daughter-in-law, respectively, as possible. Then they take turns reading what they wrote out loud. Whoever gets the most compliments is the winner.
Fashionista
- Participants: mother-in-law and mother-in-law.
- Props: 2 hats, ribbons, brooches, artificial flowers, feathers, pins, double-sided tape.
Everyone comes to the wedding dressed up. In this competition for mothers, they are encouraged to complement their outfits with fashionable hats for going out. You need to make them from available materials in 5 minutes. Either the newlyweds or the guests can appreciate the beauty. Or you can simply declare a draw.
There are many more interesting competitions for mothers of newlyweds, for example, this one, in which mother-in-law and mother-in-law will show how skillfully they will dress their grandchildren and feed them from a bottle.
Cool, suitable for any place
First, let's list the “universal” games and competitions for the second day of the wedding. They do not require the presence of a toastmaster or any special conditions - that is, they can be held anywhere and at any time - they will always be equally fun. The most popular and funniest “universal” competitions are food competitions.
Coin
The competition is simple and does not require anything other than a sandwich and a coin hidden in it. The mother-in-law and mother-in-law should participate in it. Together they must eat a sandwich and find the hidden coin. The one who found the coin undertakes to financially support the newlyweds, and the one who missed it undertakes to raise their grandchildren.
Note! This competition can be tailored to both a couple of newlyweds and a couple of witnesses. The conditions based on the result of the found coin can be changed
Also, any pair of people can participate in it, playing, for example, for desire.
Candy for neighbors
The conditions are the simplest: guests are given candy, and there are no restrictions on their distribution - everyone takes as much as they want. But the guest who ate the candy must tell some funny or interesting story from the life of one of the young people. In a word, a story is a condition for receiving candy. You can make the competition slightly more complicated by adding additional tasks to the candies - for example, singing or dancing.
Sweet tooth
Anyone is invited, each participant receives a lemon. You need to eat the lemon, and whoever does it faster wins. But you need to eat lemon with a smile on your face, smacking your lips and saying: “How sweet!” How sickly!” The one who conveyed a sour taste with his facial expressions lost.
Chicken Ryaba
Two or three pairs of men and women are called. The leader gives the pairs an egg. The eggs must be hard-boiled, but the presenter is prohibited from mentioning this. The women's task is to roll the egg from one partner's pant leg to the other without breaking it. Whoever does it faster wins.
Best Look
The simplest competition that does not require any preparation. The host calls the guests one by one, and the audience should appreciate his outfit with applause. The winner should have the loudest ovation. Nobody limits the imagination of guests.
Beautiful is far away
Two teams are formed from those who wish, whose task is to make a long strip from any available means (belts, scarves, garlands). The essence of the competition is to depict a long and happy life path for the newlyweds. The winner is the team that makes the longest streak in the allotted time. You can introduce an additional prize “For originality” - who will have the most unusual means at hand.
If only there was a sea of beer
The point of this competition is to drink more beer. But the conditions for drinking are not so simple: participants are given a glass of beer, and as a supplement to it - holey straws. You need to drink through straws. The person who manages to drink the most and spill the least wins a prize - for example, another glass of beer or a wish of their choice.
Attention. Competition conditions can be changed
For example, a participant must drink a glass of beer while standing on a chair with their hands tied. To do this, you need to take care of the cleanliness of guests' clothes and provide them with towels or aprons.
Bottle on your feet
The facilitator divides the participants into two teams, which then sit on chairs in two circles. They are given a plastic bottle. At the presenter’s signal (or when the music starts), guests in each team begin to pass the bottle to each other with their feet. You can come up with several conditions for winning: for example, pass the bottle seven times in a circle, or count how many people will pass it before the end of the music (whoever has more is the winner).
It is not recommended to use a glass bottle as the slippery glass may fall to the floor and break. But if you want a thrill (in the literal sense of the word) and unscheduled cleaning doesn’t bother you, you can easily replace plastic with glass.
Mistress
The participants are the bride and her witness (or bridesmaid). They are given brooms and dustpans, and guests sprinkle coins on the floor. The girls are given sixty seconds to collect all the coins in their scoops. The winner is the one who collects the most (either by face value or by the number of coins). If the bride collects more, she can kiss the groom; if the witness gets ahead of her, the bride gives her a gift.
In the bath
This is a very fun competition that is suitable for guests. You can use from 5 to 10 participants to participate. You can also divide the contestants into two identical teams. The idea is that each of the participants is given identical sets for going to the bathhouse. These can be a wide variety of details. But a sheet, a basin, a broom and a hat must be present. At the signal, participants begin to perform bath procedures accompanied by funny and cheerful music. As soon as the music ends, each participant must quickly put on a hat, wrap himself in a sheet, sit in the basin and pick up a bath broom. The last participant is eliminated from the game.
What are they?
The types of competitions depend on the location of the second day of the holiday, and vice versa. For example, all competitions can be divided into:
- Movable - require a certain minimum of guests and a maximum of free space;
- Intellectual - especially good for home conditions and a small circle of guests;
- Food competitions - in this case, it is worth taking into account the taste preferences of the guests, as well as the possibility of allergies to a particular dish;
- Creative - such competitions are in many ways similar to intellectual ones, but their difference is that they are good for both a home party and an away party.
Competitions for young and active parents
At a wedding celebration, mothers and fathers worry no less than their children, because often some of the organizational issues fall on their shoulders. Fun competitions for parents will allow them to feel more relaxed and free at the wedding, relax and enjoy the holiday. So, we present to you three games for active parents.
"Guess by Voice"
- Participants: two teams of parents, 7 girls, including the bride, and 7 men, including the groom.
- Props: a scarf over the eyes.
Competitions for parents and children always evoke a lot of positive emotions, because they always enjoy spending an extra minute together. Two teams take part in the game in turn - father-in-law and mother-in-law and father-in-law and mother-in-law. The groom's parents are blindfolded first. Seven girls line up in front of them, one of whom is the bride. The girls take turns saying the phrase “My dear, I love you!” The groom's parents have to guess the bride's voice. Next, the competition is held with the bride's parents. They will have to recognize their son-in-law's voice among 7 male voices. The team that guesses the voice the first time wins. This competition for parents can be made even more fun by distributing helium balloons to girls and men. Before saying their phrase, they will need to inhale a little helium: the voice will change beyond recognition, which will complicate the task for parents.
"Dance Battle"
- Participants: two teams of parents.
- Props: not required.
Dance competitions are best suited for young parents who are in no way inferior to their children with their active lifestyle. The game is played in the form of a real dance battle. The presenter turns on melodies from a variety of genres, and the teams begin to dance energetically, trying to match the dance to the genre of music that they come across. Among the dance options there may be folk dances, waltz, polka, flamenco, break dance, oriental dances, hip-hop, R'n'B and many others. The team whose dances are the brightest and most fiery wins!
"Funny compliments"
- Participants: two teams of parents.
- Props: pieces of paper and pens.
Two teams of parents take part in the compliment competition, in each of which a woman needs to write ten compliments to her husband on a piece of paper as follows: “he is kind, like...”, “he is brave, like...”, “he is handsome, like...”, “ he’s smart, like…” etc. The male half of the teams will have to write a list of ten items on pieces of paper: these can be household items, animals or famous people. Then, one by one, the teams read out their compliments, combining the beginning from the spouse and the ending from the spouse. The compliments are very funny, for example, “he’s as kind as a fan,” or “he’s as handsome as a giraffe.” The team whose compliments evoke more emotions in the guests wins.
What to consider?
Celebrating the second day also requires preparation; it should not take place spontaneously. Otherwise, you risk getting only bored guests, fatigue and disappointment. What should you pay attention to?
- Select the person responsible for organizing the holiday . This could be one of your close friends, a wedding coordinator or a host. When ordering a toastmaster, remember that the celebration requires not only an entertainment program: someone must also take care of the accommodation of guests and refreshments. Is a leader really necessary on this day? If your company has creative friends who are capable of holding fun competitions, then you can refuse the services of a host.
- Prepare an event script and entertainment program. A variety of options are easy to find on the Internet.
- How to invite guests? It is not at all necessary to send out new invitations. Information about the upcoming second day can be placed in the invitation dedicated to the wedding, or you can make two invitations at once and present them at the same time. You can use modern means of communication: just call or send a message .
- Transportation of guests . If the holiday is planned outside the city, then you should think about transport that will take everyone to the place.
- Consider a place to celebrate outdoors . Bad weather should not take you by surprise. It is better to organize a feast in a gazebo, under a tent or a stretched awning, and conduct an entertainment program in the open air.
- Do you need a photographer? Beautiful staged photographs will be taken on the first day of the wedding, so you can limit yourself to amateur photography on friends’ cameras.
- Take care of the treats . You can entrust the preparation of dishes to relatives or order ready-made ones.
Advice! If finances allow, it is better to order food to give your family the opportunity to rest peacefully.
Where to mark?
There are many options for places to celebrate your second wedding day. The final choice depends on the mood and preferences of the young people.
Outdoors
In summer this is the most popular option. If the weather is good, you can go to your dacha, to a country hotel, or organize a picnic somewhere in the forest or on the shore near a pond.
At home is a classic option for a small number of guests. You can have a party in an apartment or in a country house. If there are still a lot of guests, then it’s worth renting a cottage.
- You can organize a feast and interesting competitions in the cafe. This raises the question: who should pay the bill? If finances allow, then young people can do it. It is also acceptable if the newlyweds pay for the drinks or the guests pay for their order in full.
- A boat trip will be romantic and quite unusual. There you can also order a small buffet and entertainment program.
- A trip to another city is more suitable for a small group of friends who love traveling.
- An alternative travel option could be a walk around your hometown. It would be interesting to organize it in the form of a quest.
- Parks and squares are also suitable for festivities.
In winter, it is better to choose active types of entertainment:
- Downhill skating, for example, on cheesecakes.
- Visit to the skating rink. A “picnic” on skates with a thermos and light snacks will be memorable for your friends.
- Horseback riding in a sleigh. You can arrange a leisurely walk admiring the suburban landscapes or a fun competition.
- Snowboard. Bravely conquering the snowy slopes with friends will give you only positive emotions.
It is worth considering that in the fall, celebration options may be limited by weather conditions.
- In rainy weather, it is better to organize entertainment indoors: in a cafe, restaurant, country house.
- On fine days there are more interesting activities, such as cycling.
- You can organize a hike in the autumn forest. Admiring nature, colorful leaves, mushrooms, berries, sitting around a burning fire - everything will give you an unforgettable experience.
- Horseback riding. You can visit the equestrian club and arrange horseback riding.
Only double
Tired of the hustle and bustle of the big day, some newlyweds just want to finally be alone.
- Go on a trip. Many newlyweds fly off on their honeymoon immediately after the first day.
- Arrange a romantic evening, for example, dinner for two.
- Do nothing, take a break from everything. This option also has a right to exist. You can just lie on the couch and watch your favorite movie or TV series.
Where can they be held?
Usually the 2nd wedding day is celebrated either outdoors or indoors (the “home” option). The scope of the competition may directly depend on the venue. For example, outdoor competitions that require a lot of free space are best held outdoors.
An indoor wedding, regardless of where it is held (at home, in a cafe, in a rented hall), will in any case be more “homey”. Such weddings are more cozy, and competitions are usually chosen to be creative or intellectual - those that do not involve a large space.
Proof of love
You can also play a little with different objects and show off your most creative side. Both newlyweds and guests can show them. For example, there is a funny competition for newlyweds, which will require fairly simple props - any material. This could be a towel, but a scarf, ribbon or even a simple clothesline will also work.
First, the groom needs to be given the item and asked to tie it very tightly and intricately - the way he loves his young wife. When the groom has had enough practice in making knots, you need to ask him to untie all the knots with the same ease with which he will solve any family difficulties or problems.
Fun scenario for day 2 in the village
Probably the most fun and long-lasting weddings are celebrated in villages. This is what happens today. Only there can you find such a thing as the third wedding day.
Village holidays are always noisy, bright and fun
After the traditional hangover and distribution of gifts to the in-laws by the new wife, the parents should meet the newlyweds with a loaf of bread. According to custom, it is broken off or bitten off by the bride and groom. The one who has the largest piece will be considered the main one in the house .
Another fun tradition is selling spoons. The bride brings the guests to the table, but refuses to feed them for free , saying: “Do you want okroshka, guests? Then buy spoons from me!” Guests symbolically pay for “tools of labor”, which the bride will give them in exchange for coins or banknotes.
If at the wedding there was no traditional finding out who will be born first in a young family , then the celebration of the second wedding day is the time to do this. To do this, sliders of blue and pink colors are prepared in advance, symbolizing a boy and a girl. Each of the guests votes for their option using banknotes, and then everyone calculates the results together.
Pink and blue rompers for the second wedding day
You definitely need to come up with an interesting scene, the purpose of which is to congratulate the parents on their new titles of father-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law and mother-in-law. In this scene, young people can ask permission to call them mom and dad.
It is necessary to prepare medals, badges and diplomas with new titles for parents in advance. You can also order inscriptions on bottles, mugs or T-shirts.
Fun competitions and a lottery are held for guests. Prizes are a must. It can be any little thing: a box of matches, a pen, a lighter, chocolate, a keychain, a refrigerator magnet, etc.
At the end of the celebration, you should thank the guests for the wonderful holiday and communication. This should also be accompanied by the tradition of presenting a hearth. As a rule, the oldest member of the family is invited for this purpose - a grandfather or grandmother, who passes a symbolically lit candle to their children - the parents of the young, and those to their own - the heroes of the occasion. The young wife solemnly undertakes to preserve this symbol of the hearth.
Candle for the second wedding day
Facts about love
- Participants: guests.
- Props: a sheet of paper with questions and answers.
The essence of this comic competition, which can be held at the table, is that guests must guess whether the following facts about love are true or false:
- Love makes food and drink sweeter than it really is (yes).
- In ancient love potions, the main ingredient was the sweat of the opposite sex (yes).
- During a kiss, the lovers' breathing slows down (no, it triples).
- In extreme situations it is easier to fall in love than in ordinary life (yes).
- It takes at least half an hour for a person to fall in love (no, about 4 minutes).
- According to statistics, women (no, men) are usually the first to admit love.
- According to a scientific survey, a beautiful face attracts more partners than a beautiful body (duh).
- A hug from a loved one acts like painkillers on the body (yes).
- The feeling of love makes a person more productive at work (no, less efficient).
- On a biochemical level, love is similar to a mental disorder (yes).
Should we celebrate the third?
Many couples limit themselves to celebrating only the second wedding day. However, if you have the desire and strength to continue the holiday, then why not? Since the first days are usually celebrated with family and close friends, the third day can be dedicated to colleagues and invited.
Also, there will always be people who, for some reason, could not get to your celebration. It is quite possible that they will be able to congratulate you on the third day. The holiday in the new company will be completely different than in the first days.
The first stage in a cool scenario for the second wedding day is meeting the guests
At the entrance to the room where the event will be held, you should place a table with a sign “Narcologist”. It should contain different types of alcoholic drinks, for example, wine for women, vodka or cognac for men.
To meet guests, you will also need doctor's tools - a stethoscope, a hammer and a device for measuring blood pressure. If you can’t find a real instrument, you can use a toy analogue. You can buy a little doctor's set in one of the children's stores. The witness and witness should dress in white coats and caps. For them, you can make badges in advance with the inscriptions “Good doctor, drug addiction specialist” and “Nurse: I’ll give you a hangover in the morning.” Since guests will come to the celebration of the second wedding day in small groups (depending on who wakes up at what time), they should be received in turns. A nurse will meet all participants of the event at the entrance; this can be done with the following words:
Nurse: Well, dear guests, how are you feeling, how did you sleep? Anything bothering you? Uuuuu, I see you are suffering, you are suffering, let's go to the doctor's appointment. What do you mean why? These are our rules! Nowadays, in order to get access to the table, you need to undergo a medical examination by a narcologist. Now let's see how ready you are to continue the holiday. Doctor: Hello, patient, what are we complaining about? Are you seeing double and have been craving water all morning? No problem, now we'll see how good everything is. Sit down please. First, I'll fill out a medical history. So, what are we complaining about, what did we use yesterday, did we have a good snack, did we get home normally, or did we spend the night at the police station? Did you sleep well, no helicopters arrived?
Wonderful, wonderful... Let's take a look at your pupils? So, did you happen to have any Chinese in your family? Well, okay, let's continue the examination. Repeat after me. The doctor points his finger at the table, the wall and his own nose and quickly says their name. After several repetitions of this action, he begins to confuse the patient, calling completely different words. As soon as he gets confused, the doctor shakes his head and makes a diagnosis. Here is a list of cool diseases that guests of the second wedding day may suffer from:
- under-celebration;
- re-marking;
- overeating;
- alcohol mixing;
- re-pivism.
Doctor: Everything is clear, patient! The situation, of course, is neglected, but fixable. You, my dear, have overeating and overeating. Now I will write you a prescription, and the nurse will give you the medicine. You are incredibly lucky today, because it is shareware. Like this? Just donate a certain amount to the newlyweds fund. Sister, give the patient some medicine. Medicines can also be named in a funny way, for example:
- table infusion of wheat in alcohol - vodka;
- decoctions from sunny mountainous countries - cognac;
- tincture named after professor of alcoholic sciences Krasnov - red wine.
The nurse gives the guests a hangover. They should be taken in small groups one at a time. In order for the rest of the people who came to the holiday to not be bored waiting for their visit to a narcologist, you can set up an impromptu waiting room in the corridor of an apartment or house. There should be several chairs there and funny posters hanging with the inscriptions: “If you drink, fight, if you drink, sing!”, “Let’s give a head start to the green snake!” and so on.
Scenario for the second day of celebration without a toastmaster
The newlyweds, celebrating their second wedding day, do not know whether to call for help from the toastmaster, who will definitely amuse the guests, or take the event into their own hands? If the continuation of the wedding is large-scale and there are a large number of guests present, as on the first day, then the toastmaster is a good solution. Most young people spend time after marriage with their closest people, so parents or active friends can take on the role of leader. Several ideas for competitions, entertainment and tasks for the second day of a large-scale event are presented below.
As for the scenario itself, everything depends on the preferences of the young people and their imagination. This could be a simple event without a theme or a real costume show, where guests will be given details of the image upon entering, and friends of the young people will play different characters. The rustic style of celebrating a wedding looks interesting. Watch a funny video of the second day of the holiday in the village:
Meeting with guests
The meeting of wedding guests has a different character - for example, a popular scenario is with gypsies charging an entrance fee, cheerful music, dancing, and riddles for everyone who comes, which must be guessed in order to get inside. An interesting meeting of new arrivals takes place in the style of a medical examination: a doctor and nurses stand at the entrance, they check the pulse, reflexes of the guests on the second day of the wedding, and measure the temperature. If the thermometer shows below forty, those who came to the wedding are given vodka. Watch the video that illustrates this theme of the meeting of invitees:
Sale of spoons and forks
Selling spoons and forks is another option for welcoming guests on the second day. Often, cutlery is not placed on the tables during a wedding, and those who come to the celebration must buy them back - this is a replacement for the classic entrance fee. During the holiday, guests can only have forks, and when the liquid dish “from the newlyweds” is brought, promising happiness to the wedding guests, there will be no spoons at hand. You will have to pay money to try soup or other liquid food.
Sitting down at the table - making toasts
After guests have purchased the right to go inside, they are offered to buy the best place to sit - for example, next to the young people. The rest are charged a symbolic fee - 10, 50 rubles, depending on how much you give. When the wedding guests are seated, the host makes a toast, congratulating the newlyweds on their one-day wedding anniversary - it can be humorous, solemn or parting. Then those present take turns making toasts. Newlyweds at the wedding must say congratulations to their parents.
Wedding competitions and games
Competitions are an indispensable part of a wedding celebration. In order for the guests of the holiday to be satisfied and retain pleasant memories of the wedding, you need to cheer them up well. For this purpose, interesting, original competitions and fun tasks have been invented. Several game options that will delight wedding guests will leave a lasting impression:
- Sultan. A comic wedding competition for unmarried men and women. The gentlemen are given rubber bands, with which the contestants must connect the ring fingers of the women - the more girls ringed, the better. The winner of the competition is the one with the most brides.
- A long way. Guests are divided into teams, each team must form a grip - with their hands, items of clothing, sticks, cutlery - to create a longer line than the other team. The winners and heroes of the occasion are awarded prizes.
- Family captain. This wedding competition will show which of the heroes of the occasion will become the captain of the family boat. The leader draws two circles on the floor, the groom stands in the territory of one, and the bride in the other. Wedding guests are asked to choose a “side.” Where there are more people, the newlywed wins.
Family joining ceremony
Often, at a wedding, a ceremony of twinning families takes place, in which close relatives of the bride and groom take part, along with the main characters of the wedding. The ritual of the second day goes like this: his relatives stand behind the newly made spouse, and hers behind the wife. Two columns stand parallel to each other. Then the music begins to play, the relatives of the newlyweds and the newlyweds play trickle, the wedding host invites them to perform various funny tasks in mirror image to each other - pat on the shoulder, stroke the belly. At the end of the ceremony, everyone kisses and hugs.
Competition for mother-in-law and mother-in-law
For a funny competition in which mother-in-law and mother-in-law participate, you will need two jars of soap bubbles. The wedding guests go to the center of the hall, open the bubbles, and those present ask questions: how many times a month will you come to the newlyweds? How much advice will you give in a week? How much vodka will the father-in-law and father-in-law drink? The answers come by counting the number of bubbles blown.
Fortune telling for young people
The second day is not complete without fortune telling for the firstborn. A classic way to conduct a ceremony at a wedding: make two baskets (pink and blue) and place them at the entrance. Each guest who comes to congratulate the heroes of the occasion must put money in one of them. At the height of the wedding, when everyone has arrived, the amount is calculated. If the guests of the celebration put more money in the pink basket, there will be a girl, and vice versa.
Entertainment for guests
The host should entertain the wedding guests with the help of various competitions, tasks, toasts, lotteries - give gifts/souvenirs for participation. If the wedding is themed, the one who will lead the celebration can be a mummer - this will help create a special holiday atmosphere. Don’t forget about the musical accompaniment - sooner or later the guests will probably want to break into a merry dance; folk music and ditty songs will help with this at the wedding.
Competitions for guests
The main audience of any wedding is guests. To prevent them from getting bored, it is necessary to involve them in various cool competitions at the wedding.
"Pig in a poke"
First, prepare your props. It can be any family clothing of simply incredible sizes. Next, the guests should stand in a circle and pass each other a bag in which all these things lie. All actions are accompanied by fiery music or even dance.
At the toastmaster's signal, the music stops. The player who still has the bag in his hands must pull out the item and put it on himself. The winner is the one who has the least number of clothes from the bag. The rest are dancing a fiery dance.
"Push it into the gate"
Guests at the wedding are given tickets that say who is participating. All participants stand in a row. A bottle of beer is tied to each guest's belt on a rope and hangs to the floor. There is a ball on the floor. The task is to bring the ball to the end (drive it into the goal), loosening the bottle on a string. The player who fulfills the condition first receives a prize: candy or an apple, and the rest read poetry with congratulations.
“Where are my clothespins?”
Try making your wedding guests laugh by playing "Where Are My Clothespins?" This is not just a joke, but a mind-blowing process. Several male-female pairs participate. One of the pair needs to be blindfolded, but the second is attached with 5-6 clothespins. The first one to find all the clothespins wins.
Size matters
For this competition, all men will be needed, as well as various objects reminiscent of manhood, of different sizes, for example, a small cucumber and a large cucumber, eggplant, zucchini, banana and so on. The men are given “items.” They put them in their pocket. And then a participant or several participants take turns walking through a row of men and using their hands to try what is in their pocket. From memory, each participant must determine who had more. Participants who guess correctly receive prizes.
Are they necessary and how much should there be?
A wedding is a long day, consisting of a variety of obligatory rituals.
Painting in the registry office, celebrations, photo shoot, banquet, but each couple chooses their own version of the entertainment program depending on the theme of the celebration and personal preferences. It is important to make sure that guests have something to do at the holiday, because often just pleasant communication or a show program is not enough. Interactivity comes to the rescue - all kinds of competitions
They are good because they allow you to organize an interesting pastime for the maximum number of invitees at the same time: someone participates, someone observes.
Exactly how many competitions you will include in your wedding is a difficult question. Their number largely depends on the richness of the program with other entertainment components. Professionals call numbers from 5 to 10, but it’s better to come up with more and then navigate the situation.
Advice! If guests are having a good time, then there is no need for unnecessary interaction. You shouldn’t distract people from dancing or lively conversation, but if they get bored, then having ideas prepared in reserve will come in very handy.
Gang-watering can
Guests are divided into 2 teams with the same number of people. At the same distance from each team (in the middle) there is a container of water (if the company is already quite cheerful, plain water can be replaced with carbonated water or even alcohol). The teams line up as the game will be played using the relay race method. At the “start” command, the first participants run to the container, take the maximum possible amount of water (alcohol) into their mouths and run to their container, splash out the liquid and pass the baton to the next participants. The game continues until the common vessel remains empty. After which, the winning team is determined, which will be able to transfer more liquid into its container with its mouth.
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Like all other guests, it is necessary to prepare prizes for parents for participating and winning the competition. These do not necessarily have to be practical things that will be useful around the house - most likely, you will like pleasant little things more. For example, you can prepare comic medals or orders in advance. You can make them yourself or purchase them at a gift store.
In most cases, what is important for parents is not so much winning the competition as participation, so even if you make both couples winners in each competition, this will only bring positive emotions. From the moment of the wedding, the father-in-law and mother-in-law and mother-in-law become one family, so all victories and defeats are shared equally, as are their children.
Honeymoon in Thailand
The couple goes straight to Thailand for their honeymoon. And there is a beauty contest going on. Of course, men and boys participate. The competition is held in three stages: the first - a business card (each participant comes up with an interesting female unusual name and introduces himself), the second - a talent competition (each participant comes up with a female hobby, for example, dancing, fitness, cooking, and demonstrates these talents and the third stage - fashion show in swimsuits (swimsuits must be prepared in advance for the participants). By vote of the jury (all guests), the beauty queen of this wedding is chosen and the most artistic, active, cheerful, charismatic man is awarded the crown. Fun is guaranteed!