There is nothing more important than a happy and strong family, when love lives in hearts for a long time, and husband and wife, despite the number of days they have lived together, continue to love and appreciate each other. Today we will talk about what a wedding will look like after 15 years of marriage, namely the third round date for every married couple - the crystal anniversary.
From the history of the name
For a long time, the anniversary in question was called glass, but after crystal was invented, this wedding received another beautiful name - crystal. It is a particularly brittle type of glass that is mixed with lead oxide.
Crystal glass is clean, beautiful and transparent, similar to the relationship of the spouses at this time. All the smallest details are visible through the glass, which means that there are no secrets between husband and wife, their marriage is beautiful, like crystal wine glasses or exquisite figurines.
However, as we know, crystal is very fragile and can break into thousands of fragments with any awkward movement. This means that although the family has lived to see such an impressive milestone, it still continues to remain quite fragile. Consequently, the heroes of the day, despite so many years lived together since the wedding day, must continue to cherish their union. Make compromises, listen to each other, support, care and respect your other half, so that no conflicts or troubles can destroy the marriage.
Long traditions
- In the morning, the “newlyweds” went to the cool spring to wash. It was believed that all troubles, sorrows and misfortunes go away with cold spring water. The spouses were thus cleared of bad thoughts.
- Shortly before the anniversary, the couple had to purchase some new glass or crystal item for the house. Such a purchase not only brought joy, but also promised a new family life without quarrels, conflicts and resentments. In the modern world, this could be a figurine, wine glasses, a chandelier, a set of dishes, a glass table, etc.
- Another long-standing tradition is to drink champagne or wine from wedding glasses, the same ones that were on your festive table 15 years ago. At the end of the feast, the “young people” broke them up. It was believed that the melodious clinking of glassware drove away all negativity, sadness and troubles, and attracted even more love and happiness into married life.
- It was also customary to eat from symbolic dishes, so the tables were set with crystal.
- Well, the last rite - on the 15th wedding anniversary you need to break the old mirror. But many people do not recommend breaking such a thing, because according to a completely different sign, those who break a mirror will face seven unhappy years. According to psychics, many mirrors, especially ancient ones, have their own powerful unfavorable energy and, by breaking such a canvas, you can do very bad things for yourself. If you are afraid to take risks, then limit yourself to breaking glasses.
If you also want to repeat this ancient ritual, then simply pour water into any container, throw ice into it, and then wash your face.
If you didn’t keep the glasses from your wedding, it doesn’t matter, just buy a brand new set.
Glass wedding: symbols
Crystal was deservedly chosen as a symbol of the first impressive anniversary in the lives of “yesterday’s” brides and grooms. A glass wedding means how many years have been given to each other! If you handle a crystal product with care, it will never deteriorate and will remain flawless and beautiful. However, the material can easily break if its owners are not careful.
The description of the crystal clearly tells about family relationships during this period. If spouses perceive their happiness as a gift that must be treated with care, it will remain unchanged. Quarrels, insults, betrayal are factors that can break an alliance like glass. A glass wedding becomes not only a holiday, but also a reminder to the “newlyweds” of how important it is to take care of each other.
Foreign rituals
- On such a day, guests presented British “newlyweds” with a crystal button. It symbolized financial well-being and prosperity for a married couple. And the holiday was usually celebrated right on the lawn, near the house of the husband and wife.
- The French have been celebrating glass weddings since the reign of Louis XIV, that is, since 1643. Aristocratic couples always paid great attention to this marriage anniversary: they partied in grand style, did not count expenses, dressed in wedding dresses, and invited close and distant relatives, as well as friends and even neighbors, to the celebration. An obligatory part of the anniversary was the release of two white doves into the sky, because they are symbols of fidelity, peace, family well-being and eternal love. It was considered a good omen if birds flew overhead for a long time; this promised the husband and wife a happy future together and meant that they would definitely live to see their golden wedding.
- In ancient times, the Germans celebrated the date in question on a grand scale and with a large number of people. They celebrated with songs and dances, at least 15 different dishes and vases with live violets were present on the tables, and the heroes of the occasion were showered with the same flowers. That is why such a wedding in Germany is also called a violet wedding.
Surprise for the other half
What do husbands give to their wives for a glass wedding? A special occasion is a great occasion to decorate the ears, neck or wrist of your better half with a stylish accessory made of crystal. Necklaces, bracelets, pendants - 15 years is enough time to learn each other's preferences.
It is not at all necessary to tie the gift to the anniversary symbol if we are talking about your beloved wife. It is possible that the spouse will more appreciate a romantic vacation spent at sea together. If you don’t have time or money for long trips, you can replace them with a ride in a limousine or a hot air balloon. A glass wedding offers so many opportunities to impress your other half!
Gifts that can be used to transform your home interior are also relevant. Your wife may like stylish items made from Bohemian crystal, beautiful paintings with an exclusive inscription.
How to mark?
Scenario and location
Outdoors
Most couples in the modern world celebrate anniversaries, especially anniversaries. If your holiday is in the warm season, then a great idea would be to rent a house outside the city, grill steaks or barbecue there with your loved ones, perhaps even invite a host and DJ, turning the event into a real party in the fresh air. And the main advantage of such an idea is that you can sing and dance even until the morning, because in such a place you will not disturb anyone.
You can organize a small photo session somewhere on the edge of a forest or near a pond.
Some couples even arrange a ceremony with vows and a photo zone. This is especially true for those who did not have a beautiful wedding celebration fifteen years ago. You can order an arch or make it yourself, say romantic vows, lay a time capsule, and let your children bring the rings, and you will exchange them again in front of your nearest and dearest.
Advice. The arch can be decorated with glass droplets and beads that will remind you of the symbol of the anniversary in question.
Such a celebration will definitely be remembered for a long time, and you will once again remind each other that feelings have not faded away, and love lives in hearts with the same force as on the wedding day.
At the restaurant
The most common celebration idea is a restaurant. Book a table in advance and it is better if it is a separate banquet hall so that you are not disturbed by strangers. In this case, the main advantage is that you don’t have to cook and decorate the room yourself. All that remains is to find a place with a suitable interior. In such establishments there is often music playing, so you definitely won’t get bored.
Homely
Well, the third option is home gatherings with the family. The most budget-friendly idea, but it will require careful preparation from you so that the festive event does not turn into a banal tea party. Think in advance about how you will entertain the guests, perhaps it will be some kind of competitions, games, or maybe karaoke songs, or even show a film with your participation. Such a video can be made from family photos, adding footage from the wedding with guests; they will certainly be pleased to be involved in your holiday.
Decorate the reception room in light colors, not necessarily snow-white; cream, ivory, ivory or, for example, champagne are quite suitable. Replace the dark accessories with the necessary ones, these could be: light curtains, decorative pillows, a blanket, a tablecloth on the table, and a completely different atmosphere will reign, the one we need.
The festive table must have beautiful crystal and glassware - wine glasses, plates, salad bowls, vases, candlesticks and figurines. Choose classic dishes that all guests will definitely like, and for dessert, of course, a wedding cake.
Who to invite
The anniversary in question is, first of all, a family holiday, which means the main guests at it will be the parents and children of the “newlyweds.” The first is a tribute to traditions and respect for elders, and the second is our continuation.
And also invite only those relatives and friends who have supported you and been there for the last 15 years. Remember, it is sincere people and good company that are the key to a sincere and warm holiday, which everyone will definitely remember with good moments and impressions.
What to wear for young people
A glass wedding is a round and important date, so it is recommended to dress festively. Light shades are preferred, as are anniversary symbols. A man can choose a classic suit or a smart shirt and trousers. It is appropriate for a woman to wear a delicate mid-length dress, a skirt combined with an elegant blouse, or even a fashionable trouser suit. The main thing is that the couple’s clothes are not only beautiful, but also comfortable.
It would be good if the “bride’s” outfit included stones, sequins or rhinestones that are associated with glass.
Present
One of the most exciting events at any holiday is, of course, receiving gifts; an anniversary, of course, is no exception. It’s easy to guess that for this “wedding” it is customary to give things made of glass or crystal. Friends and relatives can present the heroes of the occasion with:
- a set of dishes, for example, wine glasses, salad bowls, etc.;
- figurines or figurines;
- crystal decanter with expensive alcohol;
- chandelier or lamps;
- a tea set;
- paintings on glass;
- good oils or perfumes in a glass bottle;
- photo or painting of the “newlyweds” in a glass frame;
- crystal vase.
Parents give their children especially worthwhile and memorable gifts on their wedding anniversary, for example, household appliances, a trip abroad, or an impressive amount of money.
On the crystal wedding anniversary, a spouse can please his beloved with jewelry, a jewelry box, good perfume, or a certificate to a beauty salon or spa. And, of course, don’t forget about the gorgeous bouquet of flowers that will please any representative of the fairer sex.
For women who like to cook, crystal glassware would be an excellent gift.
A wife can give her husband a set of glasses/beer glasses, an ashtray, cufflinks, or something that the man is interested in. If he plays sports, then a punching bag, snowboard, or exercise bike will be suitable as a gift. Fans of fishing will certainly like the gear or fishing rod, and fans of football will definitely like a ticket to the match.
Statuses
- “Our crystal is stronger than metal! 15 years together!!! I love you more than life!";
- “We are 15 years old today! So much has happened since the wedding day... and ups and downs, but we have always supported each other. We will definitely succeed, the main thing is that we are together. Love you, dear!";
- “Fifteenth anniversary of our union. An interesting observation is that crystal is very fragile and easy to break. But at the same time it is very transparent and crystal clear. It’s very symbolic of our relationship”;
- “It all happened just recently! And it’s as if yesterday there were 10 more. And today we’ve already been together for 15 years! I love, hug, kiss!”;
- “15 years in both joy and sorrow... I love you, my soul!”;
- “Today is our holiday! Fifteen years of marriage. I love my husband and my family! Happy glass anniversary to us, hurray!!!”;
- “5475 days flew by as one! Today is our family's anniversary! Congratulations on your crystal anniversary, my dear and beloved husband!”;
- “- Dear, guess what day it is today... - Tuesday... - No... - Friday? “Today is our glass wedding anniversary!”;
- “The years since the wedding flew by unnoticed - and now it’s been 15 years since we started a family! This means that during this time we have learned to listen and understand each other, to look after and care, to support and forgive. There are many quarrels and conflicts, grievances and forgiveness behind us... These are all the little things in life, the most important thing is ahead of us! This is the future of us and our children!”;
- “Fifteen years together! Just think... it’s already a whole story...";
- “15 years ago we made the right choice!!! And we do it every day towards each other! Every year it becomes easier and more interesting!!!”;
- “Today is our little anniversary! Congratulations to you, my dear and dear husband, on our anniversary. May all our hopes come true, may fate love and protect us! And may love always live in our home! I love you very much!";
- "Just together! Just nearby! And it’s been like that for 15 years!”;
- “They say that spouses become similar to each other over the years. And we were similar from the very beginning... So we got to the crystal anniversary. How it was? The first 15 years are the most difficult, but then you get used to it! Thank you for everything I have! Our main anniversaries are yet to come!”;
- “15 years...seriously? I can’t even believe it... both in sorrow and in joy, as promised. I loved, I love and will always love!”;
- “Our family turns 15 today! The date is big, but so fragile! I know one thing for sure: “Patience and work will lead to happiness!””;
- “There is only one happiness in life - to love and be loved. Happy crystal anniversary to us!”;
- “Another peak has been reached - the glass anniversary! Hooray!";
- “My beautiful and sweet husband, I congratulate you on our fifteenth wedding anniversary! I love and appreciate you very much! For me, you are still the same prince who holds my glass slipper in his hands. May our tenderness and love live forever, may every day give us family happiness, comfort and good luck!”;
- “We are a gang, we are a family, we are love, we have been together for 15 years!”
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Now you know that 15 years after the wedding they celebrate a glass anniversary or a crystal anniversary, you have become acquainted with the long-standing traditions of different countries, scenarios, gift options and romantic statuses. We wish you a beautiful celebration that both you and your loved ones will remember!
Is it worth giving money?
The question is not whether you should or should not give money. There is nothing wrong. It’s better to hand over some money than something that will gather dust in the corner on the far shelf.
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The main thing here is how to arrange a cash gift:
- If you just hand it over, even in a beautiful envelope, that’s one thing, but if you use your imagination, it can turn out quite original.
- A bouquet of banknotes of different denominations is the most common option, but it can also be made extraordinary if you approach the matter creatively.
- A bag filled with sweets and money looks interesting.
- A crystal casket with money embedded inside is a themed gift for a fifteen-year wedding anniversary.
