What is important to know about wishes for newlyweds?
For Tatars, a wedding is a real ritual for which all family members prepare. The bride and groom are congratulated in several stages. The wedding celebration itself begins with a nikah, a Muslim wedding, and ends with a celebration in the groom's house.
Congratulations to the newlyweds are heard after the nikah and end only on the last day.
It should be noted that Tatar weddings follow the following rules:
- Nikah - religious wedding ceremony
- Official registration with the Civil Registry Office
- Feast at the bride's house
- Celebration at the groom's house
As a rule, traditional Tatars divide all these events into several days. Nowadays, there are often cases when all events are united and the celebration ends in the restaurant hall, without going to either the groom or the bride.
Congratulations on the wedding in Tatar.
Only close family members are present at nikah, and most of them are men. After the ceremony, they approach the newlyweds and congratulate them on starting a family. According to Tatar customs, only after nikah can a couple in love remain alone and go to register their marriage.
Since official registration with the registry office is not given much importance, often only a small number of people attend it.
After receiving a marriage certificate and exchanging rings, the spouses are considered registered both before higher powers and before states. At this moment, the bride is congratulated with flowers, and the groom with a strong handshake.
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In the bride’s house, the girl’s mother and sisters both mourn their relative and rejoice for her. By mourning, they thereby wish for a happy family life and grieve over their lost girlhood. All relatives and neighbors are convened for the feast.
The noisy feast continues for a long time. Congratulations are sent to the bride and groom. They are wished many years together and a speedy addition to the family.
The bride and her husband go to the celebration at the groom's house the next day. When meeting, men bow to the girl and throw carpets or soft pillows at her feet .
Thus, they congratulate her on joining their family and wish her life there to be soft and comfortable. The groom's mother and his sisters share a treat with the new relative, showing that they are ready to share everything in this house.
Bashkir congratulations on the wedding
Tuy konө menәn! Happy wedding!
What about the Arala? What was it like? Yshanmai kүңel… Tuy kөnөgөҙ, ulym, ҡotlo bulһyn, Өylәneү ul – uyyn esh үgel.
Yәshlek mөkhәbbәte mәңge bulһyn, Gel ber bulһyn baryr yulyғyҙ. Aҡ bәkhettәr genә yauyp torһon, Ҡotlo bulһyn nikah tuyyғyҙ.
*** Yondoҙ һibә Yyһan, bәhet telәp, Yoҙөgөҙҙә kөn dә nur atһyn. Take care of yourself!
Yәy kөnөndә һеҙҙең tuyҙaryғыҙ, Ysyn kүңеldәn һеҙҙе ҡotlaybyҙ! Tuyҙaryғyҙҙy bergә үtkәrep Һеҙгә atap yyrҙar yyrlaybyҙ. Aҡ bәkhettәr һеҙгә yuldash bulһyn, Kүtәrenke bulһyn kүңelegeҙ, Һaulyҡ, shatlyҡ, ҡyuanystar menәn Үtһen ine botonөn ғүmeregeҙ.
Tui konegez һeҙҙen ҡotlo bulһyn, Kuterenke bulһyn kunelder! Ber ҙә yylmayyp, bekhet, shatlyҡ belen Tigeҙlek utһen gomerler. Tuy baldagyn altyn nurҙary Tormosh kүgegeҙҙen biҙһen. Kүҙегеҙҙе hise soyu Berkaychan da beruk sunmesen.
Bugen һеҙҙен tui konegez, Behetterzen yryҫy, Ғүmer buyy dorlap yanһyn Һеҙҙен yorek ylyҫy. Behetle bulyp yashim tihen, Ber - berene anlau kirek. Kherota һеҙ Bulyғыҙ Ber - beregezge olo terek.
Behet, shatlyҡ, mullѡ yaҙmysh bulһyn, Iҫәn - selemet itemeҙ bik karәkle. Matur ul matur hem kyz usterep, Aҙ tigende yozge itegeҙ. Bugen zhirde Yana Gaile Tyua, Yana Tormosh Bezde Bashlana. Beruk kүrkәm bulһyn, Beruk nyҡ bulһyn! And Allah, uzen tashlama!
Tuy konө menәn! Happy wedding! What about the Arala? What was it like? Yshanmai kүңel… Tuy kөnөgөҙ, ulym, ҡotlo bulһyn, Өylәneү ul – uyyn esh үgel. Shuga, ulym, һin berense kөndәn Khuzha itep toy ҙa үzende, Atayyndan үrnәk alyp raҫla Ғailәlә һәr ber үүzende. Balalaryn bulgyn һau-sәlәmәt, Mal-molkәten bulһyn, altynyn. There was a beat - minen irem tiep, balҡyp, Gorurlanyp torkhon katynyn. Shulay itep matur yәshәһәgeҙ, Beҙ ҙә bik һөөnөp yәshәrbeҙ. Katynyna kilen type tugel, Ҡyҙym tiep һөyөp yәshәrbeҙ. Bөgөn һеҙҙең bik tә iҫtәlekle Һәm bәhetle ҡyҙyl tuyyғyҙ. Komosh, altyn, yaҡut tuylargasa, Bergә bulһa ine uyyғyҙ. Yuldar keүek oҙon ғүmer һеҙгә, Ҡaiғy barely ber ҙә teimәһen. Zaman ҡoraldary sitlәp үtһen, Yәshәү dәrte һis tә һүnmәһen. Yөҙlәrҙә yylmayyu yanһyn, Tabynғa yyr ҡui, әyҙә. Bөton yaҡtan telәk yauһyn, Kilen menәn keyәүgә. Bik teңel yөrөshөgөҙ, Bik par kilgan buyygyҙ. Gөrlәp үtһen tormoshoғoҙ, Gөrlәgәndәy tuyyғyҙ. Һеҙҙең өҫтәлә һәр вакыт Һый-хөрмәт туліп торһон. Һyilaғyҙ duҫty yaratyp, Duҫtar gel kilep torhon. Taҫma telәr menәn һеҙгә Doshmandar һyynmaһyn. Yaҡty nur һүnmәһen өҙҙә, Мәхәбәт һыуынмһын. Par baldaҡtar balҡyshynan Kүҙҙәrebeҙ saғyla, Һеҙ bөгөн – ѣ үзәл par Sәskәlәr ҡosaғynda! Yildar uҙһyn bәkhettә, Taҙalyҡta-һaulyҡta, Shatlyҡta, mәkhәbbәtә, Iminlektaә, mullyҡta!
Let's go to hell! Һеҙгә aldағы көнөгөҙҙә аҡ bәkhet, nyҡly сәләмәtlek, tigeҙ, tynys tormosh, saf mәkhәbbәt telәaybeҙ. Olo yulga һеҙ syғaһyғyҙ bөgөn, Bergә ҡushyp ike yөrәkte. Yul aldynan әityek һеҙгә Ysyn kүңelәn izge telәkte. Beҙ telәaybeҙ һеҙгә Aiyrylmaһyn brake yulyғyҙ. Let's face it! Osrashtyrgan һеҙҙе yҙmysh, Ғashiҡ parҙar bulғanyһығыҙ. Sәste sәskә bәylәshergә Vәғәҙәләр ҡоrғаһығыҙ. Tormosha ayaҡ baҫaһyғyҙ, Par kilganһegeҙ ikegeҙ. Let's go! Beҙҙән һеҙгә зге тиәк: Bergә tipһen һеҙҙең өрәк. Tүrә bulgyn tүregeҙҙә – Mәkhәbbәt ber-beregeҙҙә. Tabrik itәm ҡauyshyu kөnөgөҙ menәn, Ber-beregaҙgә yaҡyn bulygyҙ. Oh it's dead, let's go ahead and stop it. Alda һеҙҙе bәkhet ҡarshy alһyn, Ғүmer yulyn tigeҙ үtegeҙ. Ber-beregeҙҙen ҡәҙerҙәren belep kenә Tigeҙ matur tormosh iteҙ. Yәy kөnөndә һеҙҙең tuyҙaryғыҙ, Ysyn kүңеldәn һеҙҙе ҡotlaybyҙ! Tuyҙaryғyҙҙy bergә үtkәrep Һеҙгә atap yyrҙar yyrlaybyҙ. Aҡ bәkhettәr һеҙгә yuldash bulһyn, Kүtәrenke bulһyn kүңelegeҙ, Һaulyҡ, shatlyҡ, ҡyuanystar menәn Үtһen ine botonөn ғүmeregeҙ.
