Engagement ring

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16.092020

In Ancient Rus', a man asked his beloved for his hand in marriage and a blessing for marriage from her parents. He performed the ritual of knitting towels, which personified the connection between the bride and groom and the readiness to marry. The parents performed the ceremony of shaking hands, sealing the engagement agreement. After this, the groom put an engagement ring on the chosen one’s finger. She wore the jewelry without taking it off until the wedding ceremony. Then they discussed organizational issues of preparation for the celebration. Termination of this agreement entailed serious troubles, financial and moral costs.

How to choose the right engagement ring

Study your loved one's jewelry preferences. This will help you choose an engagement ring that she is sure to love. If a girl prefers simple silver accessories, an inexpensive silver ring with pearls will do. If she is bright, bold and creative - combined models made of 925 silver (less often - 800) and 585 gold.
Decide on the price. When your budget allows, choose jewelry with precious stones - sapphire, topaz, ruby, emerald. Products with cubic zirconia are cheaper.
Choose from a contemporary gold or platinum design with a massive diamond, or a vintage silver design with platinum.
Select the width of the rim. A win-win option is a narrow, thin and flat ring. It is comfortable to wear and matches with any jewelry and manicure.
Find out your loved one's finger size. Small errors are not a problem. An experienced jeweler will be able to reduce/enlarge the product.
Explore the assortment in stores. Before placing an order, come to a jewelry store in Moscow. Narrow down your options to 2-3 designs you like.

How not to miscalculate the size?

Having finally understood how engagement rings differ from wedding rings, you can begin to act.

Most likely, a man or guy who is about to propose to his one and only wants to present an engagement ring as a gift as a pleasant romantic surprise. How can you find out the size of your beloved's ring finger?

Method one: quietly take the girl’s favorite ring and run with it to the jewelry store. They will help you choose the right product based on the size of this ring. Remember the disadvantages of such actions. Not every girl will be able to correctly interpret such behavior; this is fraught with many unpleasant moments for both of you.

Method two: wrap a thread around the sleeping girl’s finger and then rush to the store with this thread. However, consultants can tell you that such “taking measurements” is not correct. There are anatomical features of the finger joints and many other nuances.

Signs associated with an engagement ring

The ring has long been considered a powerful talisman. When given as an engagement gift, it symbolized sincere, boundless love, swan-like fidelity, gratitude, and affection. There are many superstitions associated with it. The most popular signs:

the loss of engagement jewelry is a harbinger of a quarrel with the groom, a breakup and a canceled wedding;
finding a jewelry gift for an engagement after loss - fate saved the owner from danger or trouble;
finding someone else's engagement ring is a favorable sign of future happiness, prosperity and love. You cannot lift this product from the ground - you can receive negative energy from the previous owner, which will affect your future life;
If a crack appears on the surface, serious health problems may arise. Jewelry absorbs the energy of its owners;
the jewel slipped and fell to the floor - this portends a serious illness;
sudden breakdown of jewelry - an attempt was made to break into the owner’s energy protection. Someone is angry with him, jealous and trying to impose a curse.

Comparison

Engagement in our time is a tribute to tradition, according to which the wedding ritual consisted of several stages. To gain the girl’s consent to become a bride and to express the seriousness of his intentions, the man gave her a ring, symbolically offering to share his fortune with him and enter the house as a full-fledged mistress.

Depending on the wealth of the applicant for the hand and heart of the young lady, the ring could be copper, silver or gold. As a rule, it was decorated with a stone, the value of which was also determined by the material capabilities of the groom.

By accepting the engagement ring, the bride agreed to the terms of the marriage and wore the gift from her future husband until the engagement, and then took it off and kept it as a family heirloom, passing it on to an adult son or grandson.

Between engagement and betrothal, a period of several months to a year was established, during which young people spiritually prepared for marriage. At this time, the girl could return the ring to the groom, thereby breaking off the relationship before marriage. If for some reason a man refused the wedding, he had no right to demand the return of the engagement ring.

Since ancient times, wedding rings have served as a double amulet. It is known that in pagan cults they were credited with magical properties that protected family relationships from the evil eye, damage, and associated diseases and strife. A thread was passed through the mother's wedding ring, which was used to tie the umbilical cord of the newborn baby; wedding rings were placed in water to give it strength, which could enhance the brightness of the intimate relationships of the spouses and strengthen the family bond. Until now, the loss of a wedding ring and the situation when it falls from the hands of the bride or groom during a wedding are considered a bad sign.

With the establishment of Christianity, the exchange of wedding rings began to symbolize a vow of mutual fidelity given before God. In modern wedding rites, this symbolism has been preserved, as has the traditional shape of the ring itself: smooth, not containing any decorations.

Nowadays, along with the traditional form of wedding rings, rings encrusted with stones and decorated with a pattern are popular, which form a set with engagement rings: they are worn in pairs on the ring finger of the right hand.

It is considered good form to give an engagement ring with a large diamond in an elegant thin gold frame. This is an expensive piece of jewelry, so it is usually not worn all the time, but is worn on special occasions associated with family celebrations and official visits.

Do I need to take pictures after the wedding?

There are several decisions that women make after marriage. Most ladies, after their wedding, decide to move their engagement jewelry to their left hand.

If the engagement ring is a different style than the diamond engagement ring, the two will not match on the same hand. Not everyone is comfortable wearing both jewelry on one finger or on adjacent ones at the same time.

Sometimes married women wear their engagement ring on a chain to keep it close to their heart. Brave girls who dress in boho style wear this sign of engagement as a pendant for an earring (usually a congo, that is, round) or a bracelet on their arm or leg.

How is an engagement ring different from a regular one?

The main difference between a wedding ring and a regular ring is that it is used during a marriage ceremony. The exchange of rings is one of the most touching and exciting moments of the entire ceremony. The newlyweds, who have already become spouses, that is, who have signed the corresponding civil status act, put rings on each other’s fingers, simultaneously swearing an oath of fidelity and love.

Russian newlyweds usually put wedding rings on the ring fingers of their right hands. In other countries, “wedding rings” are often worn on the left hands, on other fingers, or not worn at all. For example, in Islam, exchanging rings is not encouraged.

It is assumed that the first wedding rings were made from soft materials such as straw or hemp and were used only during the ceremony. However, the Greek historian and philosopher Plutarch claims that metal wedding rings were known back in Ancient Egypt. And ancient Roman grooms gave rings to their brides' families as symbolic proof of their own financial well-being.

It cannot be said that wedding rings are an obligatory element of the wedding ceremony: the state registrar will sign it without them. However, young people tend to adhere to this tradition. After all, on a modest budget you can get by with gold-plated, rhodium-plated silver, titanium or even steel rings.

In accordance with our traditions, the wedding ring should be perfectly smooth: this marks an infinitely long and happy family life. Allegedly, stones and other decor are obstacles to family happiness.

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The creators of jewelry have a different opinion, offering modern newlyweds “engagement rings” of the most intricate design. When creating them, various design solutions are used:

combinations of gold of different colors;
figure casting;
all kinds of matting;
embossing and engraving;
diamond cutting;
stones and enamel.

Small diamonds and their analogues such as cubic zirconia and carborundum are usually used as inserts. It is not customary for us to create wedding rings in the shape of rings, that is, with pronounced central elements. The engagement ring still retains its round shape, albeit twisted or decorated with ornaments. The stones are usually recessed into the frame. This is due not only to traditions and beliefs about the “smoothness” of married life, but also to considerations of comfort. Often, wedding rings are worn constantly and are not taken off in the shower, gym, swimming pool and at work (including during physical labor), so large stones and all sorts of irregularities are unnecessary complications. And the fastenings of the frame can weaken over time, the stone will fall out and be lost.

Even if the engagement ring is so beautiful that you just want to wear it until the wedding, it’s better not to do this: it’s a bad omen. But you definitely need to try on the ring in a store or when receiving it from an online seller!

How to combine a wedding and engagement ring correctly

Those who plan to wear both products on one finger need to select them so as to create a complete set. For engagement, classic models with a protruding stone, straight and flat base are suitable. For a wedding, it is important that the decorations have a straight edge on at least one side, since they will touch each other when the newlyweds hold hands. It is necessary that their width is not large and does not interfere with bending the finger.

If the engagement jewelry is luxurious, with the addition of precious stones or other decorative elements, and the engagement ring is simple, with a clear engraving, it does not look elegant, but tacky. Ideally, they should be simple and modest - then they look beautiful and elegant.

An engagement ring is a common piece of jewelry that the groom gives to the bride when asking for her hand and heart, that is, during the so-called engagement. If the bride accepts such a gift, then she thereby gives her consent to the proposal. Many people believe that engagement rings should be the same. Not necessary. In addition, there can be only one such ring and it can be intended for the bride. According to European tradition, the engagement ring is worn on the left hand on the ring finger. This decoration is not removed until the wedding day, and after that the girl who has become the wife can wear two rings on one finger at once. This is exactly what many people do today.

Should I give a man an engagement ring?

Any thing that is given from the heart, with pure thoughts, brings benefit and joy. But people believe in prejudices and sometimes create problems for themselves by doing so. There is a sign: if a girl chooses, buys and gives this product to a guy, the couple is not destined to be together. This is nothing more than prejudice. In many countries around the world, women and men choose and give each other paired jewelry as an engagement gift. It is believed that they personify intimacy, harmony, and inform others that the couple’s relationship will soon change dramatically.

For men, it is customary to choose gold or silver models of laconic shapes, with minimal decor, without stones.

Choosing wedding and engagement rings is a task that a jewelry store can help you cope with. You will definitely find what you need in our jewelry stores, of which there are more than 100. We wish all couples that this test becomes the most difficult in their family life!

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Is it possible to wear relatives' wedding rings on your wedding day?

If a married couple lived in love and harmony, why not? But everyone would prefer to protect themselves and not put on the rings of people whose married life was not happy. It is believed that there is a possible chance of transferring the negative energy of the former owners to their couple.

Moreover, fashion is changing and the new generation has its own views on attributes. And it’s so nice and romantic to choose your own wedding rings in a jewelry store together with your partner!

Types of rings

In order not to make a mistake in choosing a ring, you need to understand the specifics, purpose and features of both types. An engagement ring, for example, is a piece of jewelry that the groom gives to the bride long before the wedding in order to communicate his intentions to her, regardless of what decision the girl ultimately makes.

Engagement ring

If the girl agrees to the proposal, she puts on an engagement ring and wears it until the exchange of rings at the wedding ceremony. An engagement ring is a ring in two copies that is exchanged between the newlyweds at the wedding and (ideally) worn for the rest of their lives without taking it off.

Wedding rings

Let's summarize the differences

An engagement ring is worn for some time before the wedding, generally worn much less frequently than a wedding ring.
The appearance of the engagement ring is luxurious. Engagement - practical.
Different purpose . An engagement gift is given in the hope of agreement. The wedding band is chosen and purchased together as a sign of sealing the union.
The engagement ring is worn on the ring finger of the left hand. Wedding ring on the same finger of the right hand. But it is not necessary to adhere to this system.

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How to choose a wedding ring to match your engagement ring

Purchasing an “engagement and wedding ring” set is easier than choosing a model to suit the groom’s choice, but this, of course, is not a reason to give up romance! Finding a long-awaited or completely unexpected surprise in a glass of champagne or cake is a beautiful dream, it’s great if it comes true! All that remains is to find a pair for it. How can I make my task easier?

Watch for stylistic compatibility.
Pay attention to the tavern - the shapes should overlap or be identical.
Choose wedding rings from several types of gold.
Don't buy rings without trying them on in person.

Even if your decision contradicts the tips listed here, that’s okay!
These are just general recommendations. Don't be afraid to experiment, rely on your sense of beauty! Start with a specific design! Well, the fairy consultants of the Wedding Ring Palace will help you choose a set for your engagement ring! Among 1000 models there is sure to be a perfect match! Find the perfect engagement ring

Which hand is the engagement ring placed on?

A marriage proposal can easily be called one of the most memorable events in the life of future spouses. Men are very worried at this moment, and for a woman, a declaration of love becomes a stunning surprise, although so welcome. In preparation for this event, men carefully choose jewelry, which traditionally should be with a precious or semi-precious stone, think over the location and choose a convenient moment, prepare a touching speech and think about which finger they put the engagement ring on.

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When a woman proposes marriage, she puts on a ring as a sign of agreement to link her destiny with this man. This romantic tradition is borrowed from Western countries. American brides wear the ring on their left hand, but in our country it is customary to put it on the right hand. The choice of hand is also associated with religious views; Christians wear it on the right hand, while Catholics wear it on the opposite hand. On the wedding day, some brides remove the ring and place the precious gift in the box, while others continue to wear it as a keepsake.

In Russia, before the wedding, the ring is worn on the right hand on the ring finger; this finger adorns the symbolic ring in all countries, regardless of which hand it is worn on. There are different points of view as to why the decoration is put on it. One version is a simple explanation related to the anatomical structure of a person: from this finger a nerve goes directly to the heart itself. There is a more romantic explanation: if you put both palms together, bend the middle fingers, and press the pads of the remaining fingers tightly against each other, then all the fingers can be separated except the ring fingers. This became a symbol of the inseparability of two loving hearts. There is another version: the right hand is more important and stronger than the left. Here, choose the option that suits you best.

As the wedding approaches, another question arises about how to wear a wedding ring and engagement ring correctly: on one finger, on any finger that is suitable in size, or even remove the jewelry on the wedding day.