What to wear to a fall wedding: style tips for guests

Just don’t try to outshine the bride when choosing what outfit to wear to the wedding ceremony as a guest.
A wedding is a very important event, not only for the bride and groom, but also for their guests, be they relatives or friends. Sometimes some of them spend even more effort and time searching for a suitable outfit than the bride herself.

To avoid such a situation, in our new material we have prepared for you some style tips and win-win formulas on what is best to wear to this special occasion.

Three-piece trouser suit

This set will be the best choice for events of absolutely any scale.
In the now trendy three-piece suit, you will look luxurious both at a friends wedding, at a prom, or just at some party. This image can be complemented at your discretion. For example, you can get by with elegant sandals and a minimal amount of laconic jewelry. Or, on the contrary, “load” the look a little - add a shirt, massive accessories and pumps to the vest.

Winter wedding dresses for guests

When you're planning a winter wedding, it's important to consider the weather and the formality of the celebration. Since most winter weddings take place indoors, there is no need to dress too warmly. Instead, simply add winter elements to your dressy look. To do this, try choosing a dress with sleeves or a maxi length that will cover your legs. Rich tones such as burgundy and navy work particularly well.

Slip dress + oversized blazer

Lingerie-style dresses have been finding their place on the list of major fashion trends for several seasons in a row.
Many designers now offer such options to brides who are more inclined towards practical fashion. If you are invited to a wedding in the fall, feel free to choose elegant slip dresses. Since it will most likely be cool outside, it is better to complement the look with an oversized blazer. This solution will be both stylish and comfortable.

You shouldn't wear a lot of jewelry with a look like this - it's best to stick to a thin pendant and earrings. You can combine it with sandals, pumps or even low-top shoes. Why not.

Choosing clothes for a woman

Adviсe

So, let's start with some simple recommendations that girls and women going to a wedding need to take into account:

• try not to choose a plain white outfit , because after all, snow-white is the prerogative of the bride. Avoid all-black clothing , as it will be associated with mourning. In general, before going to a wedding celebration, it would be good to ask the newlywed what color her dress is planned to be, so as not to wear the same one and not blend in with her;
• everyday looks are not suitable for a festive event , this applies to office and sportswear, sweaters, jeans;
• do not choose overly sexy outfits - leave deep necklines, miniskirts, “naked dresses” and open bellies for going to the club, and they are not entirely suitable for autumn;
• don’t try to attract all the attention to yourself , so avoid the following outfits: fully decorated with sequins or rhinestones, with animal prints (zebra, leopard, tiger), in neon colors. Remember, the queen of such a holiday is the bride, even if she attracts all eyes only on herself;
• be sure to listen to the wishes of future newlyweds . If they ask you to dress in a certain color scheme or style, then do not contradict them and do as they ask. After all, modern brides and grooms spend a lot of money and a lot of time to ensure that the wedding meets their dreams and expectations. Don't let your friends/relatives down;
• consider your own convenience and comfort, and not just beauty and fashion. The wedding celebration lasts from morning to evening, so think carefully about whether you will get tired of walking in high heels all day. This is especially true for older women;
• If you are going to a wedding not alone, but with your husband or lover, then figure out how to dress in such a way as to harmonize with each other . You can go in one style, for example, a girl has an evening or cocktail dress, and a man has a classic suit or an elegant shirt and trousers.

Fashionable options

Now let's look at the most popular outfits in which a guest will look great at a wedding in the fall.

Sheath dress

One of the most common options that will suit absolutely every guest, both young and old. Such a one-piece dress can either fit your figure or be a little wide, but in any case it will emphasize your assets. Its length also varies, but for a wedding it is better to go for midi, floor-length or just above the knee models.

Advice. Overweight ladies are recommended to give preference to “cases” made of thick fabric.

The cutout can be:

• boat;
• V-shaped;
• round;
• square;
• or with a stand-up collar.

As for sleeves, for an autumn celebration it is important to choose options with short, three-quarter or long ones.

Jacket dress

Today one of the most popular models. The spectacular cut in the form of a jacket emphasizes the line of the shoulders and puts emphasis on the girl’s wasp waist. Therefore, it is ideal for young guests of tall or medium height with a good figure.

Modern models can be found in solid colors with or without sleeves. The length is usually just above the knee or midi, which is ideal for going to a wedding.

Fabrics for creating jacket dresses are most often dense, for example wool, velvet, corduroy, cotton. Therefore, in the fall you will be more than comfortable in this outfit.

Long evening gown to the floor

An elegant long dress has a lot of advantages: firstly, it will emphasize the femininity of the guest, secondly, it will fit perfectly at a wedding event, and thirdly, it will suit any representative of the fairer sex, both young and mature, and aged, and even pregnant .

If you are short, be sure to wear heels.

Also, this outfit will easily hide figure flaws, for example, full hips will be hidden under a long skirt, and an imperfect waist can be hidden with a belt under the bust. That is why curvy ladies and pregnant women can easily choose such a floor-length evening wear for a wedding. By the way, it can be called differently the Greek style.

A light chiffon cape will help cover your full hands; it will look airy and gentle.

Well, representatives of model appearance can afford to wear a dress with straps, short sleeves and a slit on the leg.

Asymmetrical

The asymmetry looks very simple and at the same time interesting - his skirt is short in front and long in the back. A great option for young tall and slender girls.

For a cool autumn wedding, an asymmetrical dress made of wool, satin, knitwear or jersey is quite suitable. But in September, when the weather is still pleasant, you can choose a chiffon model.

Cocktail

An elegant short dress, sleeveless, collarless and with a full skirt - the ideal solution for going to a wedding event in early autumn. It will fit perfectly on a long-legged young guest with a good figure.

Costume

Modern suits can easily compete with dresses, because in the right product a woman will also look festive and elegant.

A spectacular trouser option will fit perfectly on a young guest, which, in turn, can be:

• with short, long or flared legs;
• with basque;
• with lace inserts;
• with an oversized jacket.

Older ladies are better off wearing a suit with a skirt, while overweight women are advised to opt for loose-fitting trousers in combination with a tunic or an elongated jacket.

Fashionable models are not only the usual two-pieces, but also three-pieces, that is, trousers, a jacket and a vest. Also, for women over 40, a set consisting of a dress and jacket would be an excellent option for a wedding.

Of course, an important role when choosing the outfit in question for such a celebration will be played by its material, which is relevant for the fall:

• velvet;
• velours;
• fine wool;
• natural silk;
• thick suiting fabric.

Your suit should under no circumstances be a strict office suit.

Fabrics

Let's look at what kind of material a festive item should be made of for going to a wedding celebration in the fall. So, at the beginning of the season, when it is still warm outside, the guest can choose a dress:

• made of natural silk;
• delicate chiffon;
• romantic lace;
• shiny satin;
• light poplin.

But for late autumn you need to find a denser material, it could be:

• interesting jacquard;
• fashionable velvet;
• iridescent satin;
• beautiful shantung;
• glossy taffeta;
• luxurious velor.

How to insulate yourself

In autumn the weather is very unpredictable; the sun can shine in the morning and then rain in the afternoon. In some regions, snow will even fall at the end of the season. Therefore, in order not to freeze during a street photo shoot, it is recommended to throw some warm clothes on yourself.

In September, a light cardigan, thick jacket or stole will be suitable. But if the wedding is in November, then you can’t do without a coat or fur cape.

Shoes

Shoes, just like everything else, will depend on the weather and month of the event. In September, it is quite appropriate to wear open shoes or even sandals, but in October and November it is worth giving preference to ankle boots or ankle boots. If you wish, you can take any light shoes with you and change into them at the banquet.

Sometimes in the fall, guests wear matching boots for interesting, colorful shots.

Color spectrum

Well, the last thing we will look at when choosing a festive outfit for a guest is its color. In principle, the color of your bow can be absolutely any, the main thing is that it suits you and matches the theme of your wedding day. But if you want a shade that will go perfectly with the beautiful autumn nature, then you can safely choose the following tones:

• red;
• burgundy;
• orange;
• brown;
• chocolate;
• yellow;
• mustard;
• gold.

Straight-leg trousers + fancy blouse

Many of us are accustomed, after receiving an invitation to a wedding, to immediately drop everything and run to the stores in search of new things.
But now the whole world, especially the fashion industry, is striving for smart consumption. Therefore, if you are invited to a holiday, do not rush to the boutiques, but rather look into your wardrobe. We are sure there will be many interesting bows there.

A universal solution, in this case, would be a set of straight-cut trousers and a more original top - for example, a fancy blouse with ties or airy sleeves (probably everyone has this option). And most importantly, such an image can be easily complemented with simple shoes and a minimal amount of jewelry. You can limit yourself to a small handbag and a bracelet.

Maxi dresses for wedding guests

In hot weather, long, tight, and restrictive clothing can be a nightmare. So it's no surprise that the maxi dress is a favorite summer style. Long, flowy and breathable, the maxi is everything you need to beat the heat in style. This type of dress is always a good idea as it flatters everyone, is versatile and suits any occasion. Luckily, there are plenty of beautiful maxi dresses available. All you need is to choose the color and style that suits you best.

Tweed suit with skirt

Once upon a time, the legendary Coco Chanel decided to dress all women in soft and stylish tweed.
Since then, tweed sets regularly appear in every collection of the French fashion house Chanel and in all fashion chronicles. They will fit perfectly into our wardrobes. A suit of a jacket and skirt will look stylish, elegant, but not pretentious. Perhaps this is the ideal solution for such a special event as a wedding. You can complement such an elegant look with a laconic handbag and pumps.

About what is “not allowed”

How to dress for a wedding if it's not yours?

Let's remember the simple rules that have never failed anyone in such a situation.

1.

Don't come to the wedding in white, you are not the bride.

2. You shouldn’t dress up aggressively and sexually, unless, of course, you set yourself the task of arousing the hatred of all women present. This is not a provocation of the groom and not an evening of searching for a sexual partner for one night! This is a Love Story between two people, the joy of which they want to share with you.

3.

Avoid bright, toxic shades; they are more likely to show despair in you than joy for your friend.

4.

Your dress should not have a train, even the smallest one. This is the prerogative of the bride.

All of the above can be combined into one rule: do not overshadow the beauty of the bride and respect the celebration to which you are invited

. So, we’ve decided on the “don’ts.”

An image with a corset element

Recently, many of us have actively begun to introduce corsets into our wardrobes.
This technique is, of course, not new. If we talk about a relatively recent period, then in the sensational 90s and 2000s, celebrities were very fond of such images. We bet you're seeing looks like these a lot on your Instagram feed these days. Popular fashion influencers, one after another, demonstrate how to wear corset-type dresses, and also simply mix the usual corsets with trousers or a chintz skirt.

It all looks quite organic, and very stylish. Just what you need for a wedding. You can complement this look with elegant jewelry, shoes or sandals and a blazer.

Author: Anastasia Kurta

Favorable days

When choosing a wedding date, couples are guided by many parameters: day of the week, availability of relatives, free booking at the chosen venue

Pay attention to the forecasts of the church and lunar calendars

Church calendar

In November 2022 there will be several major church holidays, during which it is not recommended to hold weddings or weddings.

1. Celebration of the Icon of the Kazan Mother of God - 4th.
2. From the 28th to the 30th there is a strict Nativity Fast. All entertainment activities are recommended to be carried out before this time.
3. According to the Orthodox calendar, it is recommended to get married on the 1st, 8th, 15th and 20th.

Favorable days for a wedding in November 2022: 10, 11, 12, 17, 18 and 26 of the month.

Moon calendar

Newlyweds should carefully study the lunar calendar for November 2019 to choose a favorable date for their wedding. Having chosen a suitable day for the celebration, the young couple plans their future destiny in advance. Therefore, astrologers believe that the wedding day has a strong influence on the future life together.

Lucky days

It is worth paying attention to the following dates:

Bad days

It is better to postpone the celebration on the following days:

Wedding at the beginning and end of October: choosing a ceremony location

October is perceived as a cold and rainy month. Therefore, for many, the question of choosing a wedding venue is obvious - exclusively indoors. The fear of getting wet or cold deprives young people and guests of the charm of the last warm days.

If your wedding is planned for the end of October, it may not be worth taking risks with the choice of location. But at the beginning of the month, Indian summer is often still going on.

And you shouldn’t miss the opportunity to hold a ceremony surrounded by charming colorful trees.

Therefore, feel free to book a banquet somewhere outside the city. Definitely, variants of forest fairy tales organized in thickets are no longer needed.

But if you have always dreamed of an outdoor wedding, it’s worth taking the risk. You will have to think through options to break the holiday itself into several parts. For example, carry out outdoor painting under the canopy of colorful trees, and then move indoors with the guests.

Or, spend the main part of the banquet under the open sky or on the veranda, and in the evening move to the hall to cut the cake and give compliments to the guests.

Here you can also organize the final wedding ceremonies: modern ones with throwing the bride’s bouquet and pulling off the garter, ancient ones with covering the head with a young scarf.

In addition, you need to be ready to move indoors at any time, since October is unpredictable and plans can be disrupted by heavy rain.

If your wedding at the end of October is organized in an intimate, cozy style, a celebration on a cozy veranda, where guests will sit on wicker chairs, wrapped in warm blankets, will be appropriate.

And feel free to have a picnic-style wedding with friends. Why not combine the sublime sensations of the importance of the event with the opportunity to fully immerse yourself in the charm of autumn nature.

If you don’t like taking risks, initially order a banquet hall, which can be given a colorful look this season thanks to the use of colorful leaves and other natural materials.

Which month to choose

Here everything will depend on the preferences of the future spouses. Do you want a warm summer celebration, a beautiful photo shoot among colorful foliage, a snow-white background, or maybe gentle awakening nature? The choice is up to you.

It is worth knowing that there is a so-called “wedding season”, which falls in the summer months and extends into September. During this period, prices for the services of a photographer, makeup artist, stylist, etc. will be inflated. And the date must be booked in advance.

As for our ancestors, in Rus' weddings most often took place after the harvest, that is, in September and October. The best numbers were days that did not fall during fasting.

According to folk signs, each month promised certain things in marriage, let's take a look at them:

• January unions predicted that one of the spouses would quickly become a widow;
• those getting married in February will have a sea of ​​love, peace and harmony;
• March will bring the husband and wife life away from home, which means rare meetings with relatives;
• April weddings mean constant change;
• people who formalized their relationship in May will experience an unstable marriage with infidelity;
• June is one of the best options for starting a family, because it will bring only happiness, and the whole life together will be like a honeymoon;
• July is similar to April, marital ties are threatened by instability;
• August is wonderful for a wedding; it promises strong, sincere and undying love, as well as trust, respect and mutual understanding. Between husband and wife there will be not only passion, but also strong friendship;
• getting married in September means a long, quiet, measured life together, without conflicts and disputes;
• October is another unlucky month for marriage, because it will bring a lot of problems and lack of money to the couple;
• but November, on the contrary, brings prosperity in the family and boundless happiness;
• the December union will become prosperous, and love will only become stronger and stronger every year.

Wedding 2022: what is the situation in the world?

If you focus not on the lunar calendar and horoscopes, but on the current epidemiological and economic situation in the world, then you should generally postpone the celebration indefinitely. As you yourself understand, a wedding in the era of coronavirus is a risky undertaking due to the danger of spreading infection. Autumn and spring are not favorable periods for planning weddings due to outbreaks of airborne diseases. And 2022 and 2021 are the most dangerous years due to the new coronavirus, the methods of combating which are still imperfect.

Therefore, in this situation, when choosing a wedding date, you should focus on the period of decline in morbidity, and at the celebration itself, observe all precautions. It would be ideal to move the event to the warm season and hold it outdoors to reduce the risk of infection

Another option is a remote online wedding without close contacts.

Beliefs associated with the date

If numerology is not suitable for you, you can listen to other tips. To schedule a wedding, you first need to choose the time of year. This may be the favorite time of the year for both, or one to whom they are ready to give in. Any time of year has its advantages, but each has its own limitations.

The first are restrictions of a religious nature; it is worth listening, even if you are not religious people at all. The Orthodox Church does not approve of weddings on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday throughout the year, as well as before major church holidays, during Lent, on Christmastide and full weeks.

The second are superstitious restrictions. Although you may not believe it, it’s still a good idea to be careful. They believe that the number thirteen is not suitable for a wedding, of the months they warn against weddings in May, although this has been refuted by many happy and prosperous marriages, and by year - a leap year and the two subsequent years after it are considered unfavorable.

Now let’s look at the characteristics of each month:

1. It is believed that a wedding in January will bring early widowhood.
2. A marriage concluded in February will exist under the inscription of harmony, peace and love.
3. If a girl gets married in March, then she will live in a foreign country, far from home.
4. An April wedding promises variable happiness.
5. It is believed that getting married in May foreshadows imminent betrayal in the house.
6. Those who get married in June will live their entire lives as if they were on a honeymoon.
7. July promises to preserve good memories throughout your life and a sweet and sour taste of family life.
8. In August, the husband will become both a friend and a loved one.
9. September promises a quiet, measured and calm life.
10. Those who get married in October will have a hard and difficult life full of problems.
11. November foretells a very rich and happy life.
12. In a family formed in December, love will grow stronger year after year.

I would like to mention that you should not take signs very seriously. What is bad for one is good for another.

There are many examples of happy and long marriages concluded in the most unfavorable times and a huge number of divorces that were concluded in the most prosperous days.

Individuality

But still, before choosing from beautiful dates or just at random, think about your history. It would be more symbolic to choose one of those numbers that means something to you, rather than chasing fashion or popularity. Maybe you have your personal “lucky” number, day of the week, or just your favorite number. There are actually many options. My Chic Wedding agency talks about the couple Sofia and Trevor: “Often couples choose their wedding day based on their special dates - the day they met, the first kiss or the beginning of their life together. We organized the wedding on the day they met and in the country where they met. It was Italy that became beloved and fateful for them, and exactly 3 years later they decided to hold the ceremony in Rome.” Stay who you are - be yourself and everything will work out for the best

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