Ten years is an entire era in a person’s life. The first decade of any event is distinguished among other dates and anniversaries. This is the first round anniversary, when the first results are summed up and more serious plans are outlined.
Ten years. For people who united their destinies ten years ago, this is not just another date. This is almost 3650 days of joint joys and anxieties, this is 520 weeks consisting of tireless work and worries, this is 87600 hours of love and tenderness.
But a happy family is not about minutes spent together, which tirelessly count down the hours of eternity.
These are moments and events, actions and deeds that make up life and memories.
Therefore, on the 10th wedding anniversary, it is customary to draw a line, remember all the happy and not so happy moments of life together and outline new grandiose plans.
10 year wedding anniversary: what kind of wedding is it?
Not all couples celebrate annual wedding anniversaries.
Therefore, the discreet names of a wooden wedding, paper, copper or leather are well-known, but for many families they are completely unfamiliar.
Anniversaries are another matter. Every married couple, regardless of their age and existing relationship, highlights among everyday dates the first chintz wedding, the first decade of marriage and, of course, the silver and gold wedding.
According to statistics, more than 90% of couples celebrate their tenth anniversary and they are familiar with the common name Tin Wedding.
Why did such a plastic, but quite durable material appear in a series of wedding anniversaries?
Tin is used more often not as an independent material, but as a component of certain alloys. This is due to its plastic qualities, which any symbiosis of metals can enrich with properties irreplaceable for use.
In addition to plasticity, tin is credited with quite durable and durable qualities. Remember the fairy tale about the steadfast tin soldier.
This story well reflects the essence of family relationships, which, despite all the adversity, are back on track, having overcome the troubles and adapted to new conditions.
Over the course of ten years, the spouses have become so close and have gotten to know each other that they are able to fully convey the essence of their loved one and complement their human qualities with familiar habits and principles that have become familiar.
But not all that glitters is gold.
Likewise, tin relationships without careful handling only seem bright and familiar on the surface.
The dents of grievances, the scratches of misunderstandings, the blows of quarrels can leave an indelible mark, which will have to be corrected only by joint refining, revision of one’s views and restructuring of future plans.
The tenth wedding anniversary is not without a touch of romance, which always has a place in happy families, regardless of age.
A more popular name for the 10th wedding is the Pink Wedding. And this name applies not only to the royal flower Rose, but also to the entire color scheme that accompanies the anniversary.
The rose appeared in the names of wedding anniversaries for a reason. This is the queen among flowers, which symbolizes tenderness, sensuality, romance and nobility.
We can safely talk about the pompousness and pride of a married couple in their experience, patience and feelings carried through a whole decade.
What about the spikes? But what about without reminders of vulnerability and caution.
After all, even the most exalted relationships can be ruined by a caustic word or remark.
But on the other hand, thorns reliably protect from evil external influences, protecting the romance and beauty of a personal, unique destiny.
Bringing traditions to life: how to celebrate a pink wedding?
Any traditions appear thanks to the experience and observation of the people.
Signs and rituals allow you to believe in miracles and add color and mystery to life. The traditions associated with the celebration of the Tin Wedding are romantic and remind the spouses of the importance of family and the unity of the couple.
The wedding day begins with a sweet gift from the husband, who gives his beloved woman a beautiful pink bouquet. It will, of course, be roses. After all, the anniversary is celebrated in Pink.
The number of flowers in the bouquet matters. It is customary to give 11 flowers on the day of the Pink Anniversary.
This number is quite symbolic. Ten red roses should remind of the beauty of each year lived together, and the eleventh flower should be snow-white.
This is a symbol of purity, common thoughts and hope for a cloudless future together.
A wreath was always made of roses. Each flower was woven into the composition with words of hope and a request for protection from unkind people and words.
This unusual wreath was hung on the front door. It is believed that pink thorns can protect against evil spirits and bad people.
Therefore, the wreath is not removed from the door until the flowers dry.
The dry herbarium is carefully stored for a whole year until the steel anniversary.
An interesting tradition associated with the tin spoon. The husband must carry it in his trouser pocket all day. And only in the evening take out the tin symbol and place it under your wife’s pillow.
Such an unusual ritual is associated with the unity of husband and wife, whose fate is inextricably linked and in the future life will go hand in hand for a long time.
Popular rumor says that all thoughts and thoughts that were transferred to a spoon from a man will be recognized by the wife at night, and future life will go easier and happier.
Pliable metal as a symbol of flexibility
If we divide gifts into women's and men's, then, of course, pink shades are a tribute to the wife, but gifts made of metal, for the most part, should be given to the husband. For example, a beer lover will be happy to receive a pewter beer mug as a gift. And cups, wine glasses, glasses and lighters are wonderful gifts from friends for an established personality.
If you want the gift to be elegant and romantic, then elegant candlesticks, trays and stands are suitable. And if they also have pink inclusions of stones, then with a themed gift you can kill two birds with one stone.
To decorate your apartment, you can give a tin figurine or frame, especially if you know the taste of the newlyweds well.
A good gift would be something that can decorate the newlyweds’ home: a box, a painting, a piece of furniture (an original table or bookcase). Ideally, these items will be made of mahogany with tin elements: locks, corners, patterns.
Pink wedding 10 years: decoration
The tenth anniversary is being celebrated on a grand scale.
If possible, all guests who were present at the time of the birth of a new family are invited to the Pink Wedding.
Witnesses and parents of the newlyweds must be present at the celebration.
On this day, the spouses can again wear wedding dresses, but they will not be snow-white, but pink.
Pink and red should be present in everything on this day. Therefore, when preparing the room, tables, and refreshments, the emphasis is on pink shades.
It is better to celebrate the 10th anniversary in a cafe or restaurant. On this day, the newlyweds will have a stormy wedding night: with red linen, pink petals, and glasses of pink intoxicating wine.
The whole atmosphere should remind you of the romance of the wedding celebration, of the love and tenderness of the spouses.
Therefore, it is advisable not to burden yourself with evening cleaning after a home banquet, but to devote time to each other.
Pay attention to the interior of the room and table setting. The main decoration of this holiday will, of course, be roses.
They are used to weave garlands and hang interesting compositions on the walls or in flowerpots.
Small pink bouquets are also placed on tables.
The table setting follows a red-pink color scheme, which can be diluted with white and silver shades.
You can also use a floral theme. Combine pewter and roses, sparkles and reds.
Combinations of red napkins with white dishes will look good. Steel and silver candlesticks, vases, tableware with pink flowers, napkins and candles.
The pink theme continues in the culinary direction.
Guests are usually treated to meat dishes with pink sauce. You can serve chicken cooked whole or in pieces with red berry sauce.
Fish is a must for a Tin wedding.
Fish delicacies should be pink and red, so salmon, salmon, pink salmon, red and other caviar should be displayed on the wedding table.
The central treat will be a cake, decorated with pink fondant, as well as arrangements of flowers or imitation tin figurines of the bride and groom.
Drinks include rose or red wine, compotes, and red tea.
Congratulations and toasts
It is better to prepare in advance for the festive congratulations of the “young people”.
Table speech options:
Dear spouses! A whole 10 years have passed since that happy moment when you decided to link your lives into one. We all watched together how your relationship changed. From unreliable paper, which could ignite from a careless word, they flowed into the hardness of wood. And finally, after the inflexibility of cast iron, they turned into soft tin. So may your love change for the better and further and turn into a shining precious diamond. Be happy!
Dear spouses! We sincerely want to congratulate you on your family’s tenth anniversary. Let your eyes continue to shine as much when looking at your soulmate. Remember to make each other happy every day. Talk about love, don't be silent. May your home always be filled with happiness. Love you for many, many years!
How to celebrate a 10 year tin wedding anniversary?
A pink wedding can be a complete repetition of the most basic formal wedding.
The newlyweds are seated in the center of the festive table, with witnesses and parents next to them.
Be sure to invite a toastmaster who will lead the celebration and entertain the guests.
The holiday begins with wishes and gifts from guests.
Each congratulation on the Tin wedding should emphasize the importance of the anniversary and the efforts of the married couple, who came hand in hand to such a wonderful holiday.
They wish the newlyweds at the Tin Wedding to increase their wealth, never to know troubles and disappointments, and to live together for more than one happy year full of happy events.
At a Tin wedding, it is customary to remember past years and events.
Therefore, it would be appropriate to make a wedding poster, where you can place the most interesting photographs, to which humorous captions are selected.
During the holiday, competitions and quizzes are held. For young people, you can prepare an interesting memory contest.
A husband and wife write on pieces of paper the 10 most important events that happened in their life together over 10 years.
Afterwards, the lists are compared to find out how the spouses’ priorities coincide.
The celebration should be accompanied by dancing and singing. The culmination of the event will be a wedding dance.
The young people will show whether they have not lost their skills over the decade, and maybe they will surprise the guests with unusual new abilities.
Prepare small gifts for guests so that after the holiday they will have a memory of such an interesting, unforgettable holiday.
These could be magnets with photos of the newlyweds, commemorative tin coins or medals.
What do they give for a 10th anniversary Tin Pink Wedding?
When choosing a gift for a Tin wedding, you can stick to both the tin and pink themes.
All guests come to the 10th anniversary wedding with bouquets of roses.
Don't worry about too many flowers. This is a holiday of love, flowers, romance. Therefore, let the bouquets be varied and beautiful.
You can help spouses solve the problem of placing numerous bouquets and give a voluminous vase for their wedding. It does not have to be a tin vessel - a glass, metal or ceramic vase will do.
If you choose a themed gift made of tin, provide it with original packaging with roses.
Tin-oriented presents are not very practical. Rather, these will be souvenirs or comic products. You can choose:
- tin figurines;
- candlesticks;
- photo frames;
- glasses with tin decoration;
- coins or symbolic figurines.
Much larger selection from the pink theme area.
Anything pink or with prints or designs in the form of roses would be appropriate for a 10-year anniversary.
As a gift for a 10th birthday, high-quality bed linen with designs of roses is given. You can choose curtains, blankets, bath or kitchen towels.
Textiles are always appropriate as a wedding gift. Therefore, do not worry that your gift will not please the newlyweds.
Consider tableware with floral designs. It is not necessary to choose standard sets.
Sets for spices, unusual coasters for plates, sets of jars for bulk cereals and other little things are suitable, but always with designs of roses.
If you wish, you can give more expensive non-thematic gifts. Clothes, equipment, paintings, exclusive book collections - add decorations in the form of a composition of roses to the packaging and your gift for a Tin wedding is ready.
Top 5 best gifts for parents from children
Parents whose children are celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary are as puzzled by the gift as anyone else. People who communicate closely know about the needs of the family, hobbies and desires of the spouses. Gifts from parents can be long-awaited and useful.
- Money. They give it if they know that the couple is saving money for something or paying off a loan. You can add part or the full amount for some purchase or loan repayment.
- Certificates for the purchase of building materials, repairs, purchase of new furniture.
- Household appliances, for example, a new TV or computer.
- Car accessories: covers, winter or summer tires, etc.
- Traveling for two.
