@wedding_magazine_russia A wedding is one of the key events in the life of every person. But it is such not only for newlyweds. To create a happy family, the bride and groom need the blessing of the people who gave them life - their parents. Many people are interested in the question of congratulating a father at his daughter’s wedding - what should be emphasized and what is better not to say in a congratulation.
Father's responsibilities at a wedding
The father, like the mother, plays a significant role in the daughter’s life. As for the wedding, he can take on a significant part of the organizational and financial issues.
The father has the responsibility of moral support for his daughter and blessing the groom.
In many families, it is customary to support the newlyweds in preparation for this festive event. First of all, this is financial assistance, and if the young people cannot cope, finding a place, a leader and other organizational issues.
On the wedding day, dad must conduct a blessing ceremony, and can also help in maintaining the schedule of all key events and seating the guests in the reception hall.
But the main task awaits from the moment the celebration begins - giving a speech to the father at his daughter’s wedding. Since dad makes the very first toast, his words and sincerity influence the further mood of everyone present.
Also, due attention should be paid to the preparation of the father-daughter dance.
Rite of blessing
Despite the fact that the blessing ceremony is not mandatory, newlyweds continue to support this tradition. It occurs after the bride is bought by the groom at her home. The only condition is that the young people and parents must be baptized.
During the blessing, the bride and groom kneel. Parents take with towels the icons of Christ the Savior for the young man and the Mother of God for the young man. When giving a parting speech, parents must baptize their children three times.
Parting words
The main thing in the speech is the sincerity of what is desired for the future family. The main attention should be paid to what accompanies family happiness and home comfort.
Example of parting words:
“Dear newlyweds! Advice and love to you! You have made an important and wonderful decision in your life - to build a family. We wish you love, patience, great happiness. May you be able to create home comfort and share the brightest emotions and feelings. And may there always be a place for care, understanding and children’s laughter in your home.”
Congratulations to his son on his wedding from his father
Our dear, beloved children! On this wonderful day for you and us, when you have become one family, husband and wife, accept congratulations from your father, who wishes you mutual patience, harmony, peace and respect. Create a strong couple that will not be afraid of any problems. Be one, find out what real family happiness is and let your love become stronger and stronger over the years!
Wedding congratulations from the bride's parents in verse and prose
Example No. 1
My dear, for me there is no greater joy in life than your wedding! What are we talking about, because seeing you, my child, happy as an elephant, glowing with overwhelming emotions - this is happiness. You have chosen your path and I am happy for you. I’m letting you go on a family voyage with a smart, beautiful, kind girl, who else you need to look for, without regrets. I am happy, cheerful and sincerely supporting your couple. You make me smile the way a child does - childishly, absurdly. I wish my son and his chosen one to experience the same sensations all their lives, so that your love does not fade away for a minute, but only grows stronger. Happy wedding day to you!
Example No. 2
You are our loved ones! Today you have embarked on the path of family harmony, happiness and love. Let nothing darken your life, trust each other, help, support. Know that we are always with you, and you can turn to us for advice at any moment.
Example No. 3
Son, you have a wonderful wife, you are a great couple, of whom I am proud. Today is an important day for you and your mother and me. You are turning a new page in your life, and I wish that everything that is written further in the book turns out to be only positive, bright, kind, and pure. Create a family that can be called that with a capital letter. Please us with your grandchildren, and we will love and spoil them. Don't disappoint us and yourself, live happily ever after!
Example No. 4
I am so happy for you that you decided to take such a responsible step! A wedding is an important event, and since you have become husband and wife, be fruitful and multiply, give me a sweet granddaughter or grandson, become a full-fledged family. From today I cannot interfere in your life, but this does not mean that you cannot contact me if you need anything. I wish you to listen, take into account the interests of your soul mate, let the guiding star illuminate your path. Advice and love to you, dear newlyweds!
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In principle, it doesn’t matter what kind of congratulatory speech will be delivered for your son, the main thing is to say the parting word sincerely, with your soul!
Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Examples
A father's speech at his daughter's wedding can be prepared using poetry, prose, or his own words.
Congratulations in verse
My dear daughter and son-in-law! Congratulations! I would like to read you Simple Instructions in verse. Once upon a time it is worth remaining silent, And this is better than shouting. But you set out to know love, the road to it is long. And let your whole life bloom for you, And you keep it, And in every joyful dawn, take care of each other.
Congratulations in prose
Example #1:
Daughter! My mother and I are happy on this holiday because we were able to raise not just a girl, but a person with a capital “P.” We taught you a lot, and you taught us. I didn’t think that I would ever be able to come to terms with the fact that you already have another home and your own family, and our meetings will be joyful celebrations of life. But you fell in love and fell in love with the best man. I am happy for you and wish you as much love as you are capable of.
Example #2:
Dear! How quickly time passes. First I met you from the maternity hospital, then there was kindergarten, school, the first long separations during the holidays and admission to university. We took many steps together and towards each other. Now my mother and I are happy to see how you are already taking this step. A step towards, after which only together, towards life. Love each other, believe, support, dream, travel, fill your common life with bright colors. Bitterly!
Example #3:
My dears. With all my heart I congratulate you on your wedding day. My dear, your mother will not let you lie that I have always dreamed of such a beautiful daughter, which you have become for me. Although we sometimes seemed strict, we always wanted the best for you, and you could always count on support for your decisions. When you introduced us to your husband, it was a joyful occasion. You were in good hands, and 2 wonderful people found each other in this world. Let this world be bright, cheerful and beautiful for you. Love to you!
Example #4:
My dear ones! This significant day already shows us all a lot. All your life, we and others have taught you the most important things - to love, share, believe, empathize, build, support. Without all this work, it is difficult to count on a feeling of family happiness. And you are ready for it. Even my mother and I can learn all this from you. We are happy for you, and may every day be like a holiday in your family.
Example #5:
Our dear children, newlyweds. You have come to a wonderful point in the relationship, from which it seems to restart. But at the same time, you have your own baggage of shared experience. I wish you to use this new surge of feelings and romance for the most favorable purposes for your new family. Love you. And you love as if for the first time.
Example #6:
My dear. Today you will be told many wishes for your future family life. Groom, I want you to continue to take care of and protect my daughter from various troubles. I am confident in you as if I am confident in myself. And in return you will receive a whole sea of love from my daughter. Be happy!
Congratulations in your own words
Example #1:
Daughter. Now you have wedding rings on your hands, which are a symbol of all that light and beautiful that you already feel between you, and that you will certainly feel. Love is the most important thing that can happen to us. Mom and I learned to give you parental love and accept childish love. New discoveries, new roles, new colors of feelings await you. Be proud that you are together and love each other.
Example #2:
Favorite daughter! Every parent should be prepared for the fact that their child will go into this world to build his own home, family and comfort. As a father, it’s nice that you and your husband are going not just into the world, but into a life fairy tale. I remember your every smile when you are together. And now you will have more opportunities to love and laugh, give and share, build what you could only dream of before. Bitterly! Happy family life to you!
Example #3:
Recently we read fairy tales together, and more than anything else, you dreamed of being one of the princesses of the fairy tale world. Today you have written an important part of the fairy tale, which is constantly followed by a long and happy life. Give yourself to your family and be loved and happy.
Example #4:
Daughter. At this exciting moment, I am calmer than ever before. Nice to see such a couple. Take care of yourself, take care of your feelings and only increase them. We all came to share this wonderful day, and let it be the beginning of a happy family journey.
Example #5:
Daughter, perhaps I wasn’t always able to give you as much attention as you deserved. But I was always there for you and wished you all the best. Life sometimes poses difficult challenges, so may you be able to solve them without negative consequences. Love and believe in each other and in the family you have begun to build.
Wedding congratulations from parents in prose
Dear children!
You are standing on the threshold of a new life together, in which there will be everything: joy and sorrow, good luck and disappointment. And the reason for everything is love. Love is always patient, not jealous, not boastful, not vain, does not act basely, does not seek personal interests, is not irritated, does not remember evil, does not rejoice at injustice, but delights in the truth. Love always forgives, believes everything, always waits and endures everything. Love never gives up. Let these words always be present in your marriage and become its foundation. And may your love grow and prosper every year. Endless congratulations. Our dear, dear, beloved children, we congratulate you on your wedding day. We wish you peace and prosperity, fidelity and love, happiness and good luck. May your family become stronger and stronger every day, may understanding and respect always triumph in your home, may your joint path never diverge and always lead to joint success.
Our dear children, we congratulate you on your wedding day. May your journey together be long, joyful, bright and kind, may your family be the happiest. We wish you to always understand each other, cherish, appreciate and pamper each other, we wish you to sincerely believe in your strengths and dreams and certainly achieve everything you want together. Peace to you, children, eternal and true love!
Dear children! Our loved ones, grown up, almost independent, but still so dear and the best in the world! Congratulations on your wedding day! We wish you to live a long, good, rich life as a couple! We wish your love to be tender, devoted and very patient! Let it become the core on which the peace of your friendly family will rest! Let there be no disagreements and omissions, live openly, joyfully and be a support for each other until your very old age!
Our dears, congratulations on your marriage registration! First of all, we would like to wish you understanding and trust. This is the best cement for the foundation of a strong family. Let your mutual support be walls and reliable protection from all troubles and misfortunes. The roof from the downpours of life's troubles and minor troubles will be tenderness and trepidation. And let your strong love become decoration and home comfort. May your home always be filled with wealth, happiness and the laughter of our grandchildren.
Our dear and wonderful children, we congratulate you on your wedding day. We would like to wish you one bright and great happiness for both of you. May the Lord protect your family, may your house never be empty, may cheerful and sonorous children’s voices appear in it, may good luck and fortune be your guests every day.
Dear children, we congratulate you on this important event! Now you are family. I wish you to be a support and support to each other. Forget the word I, now constantly say “WE”. Give in, help and listen to each other. Let there be a healthy and happy atmosphere in your home. I would like to soon hold your heirs in my arms, but now we are so “Bitter!”
Dear children, we congratulate you on this wonderful event! We wish you to always live in harmony, be able to compromise, give in to each other and be wise! So that your union becomes stronger every day, and you are each other’s support and support!
The goal of every parent is to raise healthy and happy children and to make sure that they have a better life than their parents. I wish you a strong family, cute children, so that you can be a role model for them. We wish you a reasonable distribution of household responsibilities, but do not forget to help each other. Create individual traditions in your family, trust each other and provide support. We are very happy for you.
Our dear, beloved children! We are so glad that you have united your destinies and will now go through life together! We wish you heartfelt kindness towards each other, warmth of the family hearth, great patience and compliance in relationships and great, simply immense love! May God always be with you and guide and accompany you through life! Be friendly, help each other, give birth and raise happy children, and be very happy every day, every second!