A wedding is an exciting moment not only for the bride and groom, but also for their parents. Most often, it is they who finance such an important celebration. Most of the responsibilities fall on the mother, who should also have a beautiful appearance on her child’s wedding day.
Newlyweds should make sure that their parents are beautifully dressed on this day, with suitable hairstyles and, of course, charming makeup.
To achieve the desired effect, you need to think carefully about everything. You may decide to send your mother to a salon with an experienced makeup artist. If you want to make your own makeup for your parents, then you should learn some rules.
Discussion of make-up with daughter and son
A mother's wedding look should consist of makeup, styling, and decoration. After all, at such a celebration, a mother is capable of experiencing ambivalent feelings, so makeup plays an important role . With its help you need to hide sadness and fatigue.
Photo of makeup for the mother of the bride or groom for a wedding
When preparing for a wedding event, the young mother should talk to her daughter about all aspects of the image. The newlywed is one of the main heroes of the occasion, so she will be able to explain which makeup will best suit her mother.
It will be good if mother and daughter go to a makeup artist who, taking into account the age and requirements of the ladies, will create beauty in the same style and emphasize their blood ties
Fashionable colors
Color plays an important role in choosing a model for mom. Everyone understands that such an outfit cannot be white, so as not to overshadow the bride. And then you can give free rein to your imagination and choose a color that harmonizes with your personal color type, hair or eye color. It’s just not advisable to choose outfits in green and yellow colors; they will look out of place at this celebration.
Blue
Noble and refined color.
It will suit any woman because it has a lot of shades:
- azure;
- royal;
- light;
- cornflower;
- indigo;
- aquamarine.
A woman of the “winter” type can afford royal blue or azure. Aquamarine is better suited for a “spring” woman.
Red
A bright and energetic color is not suitable for all ladies. He attracts attention to himself so much that the mother risks overshadowing the bride. Therefore, for such a celebration it is better to choose a dark red, muted color.
Burgundy
The ideal color for a woman of advanced age. At a wedding, a mother in a burgundy dress will look elegant and noble.
Crimson
Also a good color for the mother of the bride. It emphasizes femininity, beauty and adds elegance.
Pink
This color is usually chosen by bridesmaids. For his mother he will be naive. But an outfit of muted, pastel pink is possible.
Peach
Not a bad option for the mother of the bride, especially if the woman has a “spring” or “autumn” color type. This color looks noble and gentle.
Lilac
The ideal color for the hostess of such a celebration. Mom will look noble and feminine.
Beige
An excellent option for a plump lady, so as not to be “conspicuous”. Mom looks modest but elegant in this outfit.
Black
It is better not to choose black color for such a celebration, which is considered mourning.
But finishing in this color is quite acceptable, for example, black lace inserts.
Image of the mother of the bride and groom
Wedding makeup for the mother of the groom also needs to be thought out in advance. The young future mother-in-law should talk about her appearance with her son. Most likely, he won’t tell you anything, but he will like the fact that his mother takes his opinion into account.
Since the skin changes with age and begins to look dry, it is recommended to prepare it for such an important event. At the same time, it is worth paying attention to its nutrition (especially in winter), and you will also need to moisturize it. To do this, you need to use age-related nourishing masks and creams.
Photos of makeup for my son's wedding
Most likely, the mother of the bride or groom will not be able to do high-quality makeup at home. And this is not surprising, since the anxiety that is natural during this period will not allow makeup to be done accurately and evenly. Therefore, in order to do wedding makeup for the mother of the bride at the highest level, it is recommended to contact a makeup artist.
Makeup for mothers must withstand the changes in the emotions of this celebration, when tears due to tenderness and melancholy can spoil the work of a makeup artist at any moment
Skin care
Ideal for mature and aging skin:
- soft scrubs for cleansing the skin and micellar (thermal) water;
- masks and tonics with a tightening effect (with hyaluronic acid, coenzymes);
- homemade masks based on gelatin , honey (if there are no allergies), lemon juice (for lightening), fermented milk products and eggs (for refreshing and whitening), aloe vera gel (toning), as well as berry and fruit masks.
All preparatory activities begin no later than 7-10 days in advance . Ideally, such care should be permanent.
Tips for the perfect look
Before applying makeup, take into account the following nuances:
- the shade of cosmetic products must be chosen taking into account the color of the strands, eyes, skin, and decoration;
- you should pay attention to the laconic tone;
- You should not lose sight of the seasonal nuances of makeup: during the heat, use cosmetics in a minimal amount, carefully ensuring that it does not spread;
- The foundation should also be chosen wisely, for example, foam is ideal;
- dark eyeliner and exactly the same shadows are suitable for the outer part of the eyes;
- It is better to choose dark mascara, painting the highest row of eyelashes;
- makeup must be water-resistant;
- Don't forget about the eyebrows.
Considering the nuances of the most ordinary makeup, you need to emphasize either the lips or the eyes. Please note that the makeup for the mother-in-law for the wedding should not be too flashy, since in this case the young woman will not look so impressive.
Discreet makeup for the mother of the bride or groom
A good option is a combination of gray shades and lipstick in a stylish pastel shade. Eye makeup without the use of shadows is considered popular. In this case, makeup artists advise using eyeliners and mascara, as well as cherry or burgundy lipsticks.
What styling can be done?
In principle, there are no special requirements for mother’s hairstyles, and the hairstyle for the mother of the bride may not differ at all from the hairstyle of the groom’s mother. Moreover, there are several general recommendations for both women.
- It is worth avoiding complex high multi-stage structures, so beloved by previous generations. They have long gone out of fashion, and their construction also takes too much time. Such hairstyles are completely impractical. In general, if you want to appear at a party with a high hairstyle, then you should give preference to laconic and simple styling.
- Styling should be accompanied by a minimum number of accessories, or even without them at all. Still, any mother should be associated with wisdom, harmony and simplicity, and an excess of hairpins with stones and barrettes hardly fits this definition. One neat accessory that fits seamlessly into the whole look is appropriate, but an excess of items on the head should be avoided. – – You should choose the simplest possible hairstyles. It is better to leave various weaves and backcombing to the bride - she will have to shine on this day, and mature age is better combined with basic styling. In addition, if the bride has natural curls, and her mother chooses a complicated design, it looks at least strange. It should be remembered that simple styling makes the face softer and younger.
How to do makeup at home?
If the mother of the bride or groom wants to do the make-up with her own hands, then she will first need to even out her face tone, since with age, unwanted pigmentation and wrinkles may appear on the skin. If you cannot mask the stains with the help of cream, then it is recommended to apply a corrector to them under the base, just do not overdo it. Particular care should be taken to work the area of the lips and eyes.
Foundation for mom
As for the foundation, it is recommended to use exclusively warm shades , since the opposite ones focus attention on wrinkles. You should carefully distribute the foundation over your face - you should only apply it in a well-lit room.
Eye decoration
When doing eye makeup, the main thing is to make them open and clear. As for the shortcomings, here it is necessary to lift the corners of the eyes and drooping eyelids, get rid of wrinkles, give the eyes charm and shine . It is better to use natural shades. To do this, choose one color scheme, for example, it could be delicate milky or brown. To make a graceful transition between shades, you need to rub the edges of the tones with a thick brush. Using a pencil - arrows. After which you should use a brush with shadows to shade it. Thus, the eyes will have a spectacular and mysterious look.
Decorating mom's eyes with mascara
To visually lift the upper eyelid, use a brown pencil to draw a line where part of the skin is in the form of a fold, and then blend it, moving from bottom to top. How thick to apply mascara is up to the lady to decide for herself.
Outfit
A few rules
- At its core, the outfit of the mother of the groom and the mother of the bride is no different. Each of these women should look good, and the chosen item should fit perfectly on the figure - highlighting advantages and hiding flaws.
- The image of a mother should be beautiful, elegant and feminine, but not more spectacular than that of a newlywed.
- Choose a dress that is elegant, but not pretentious, too bright or colorful.
- Avoid wearing all-white or all-black clothing. After all, the first option is the color of the bride, and the second hints at mourning. The best idea is calm pastel shades.
- Dress appropriately for your age. After all, if you are a mother, then you are most likely over forty, which means that miniskirts, deep necklines, “naked dresses,” too revealing slits and a bare back are inappropriate. There is no need to try to look young, blindly follow all fashion trends and show off your figure, even if it is impeccable. Also, don't try to look older than you are. Leave “grandmother’s” outfits for the older generation.
- If you are a relative of the bride, then choose a bow model that will somehow echo your daughter’s wedding dress, for example, it could be a similar lace trim, stones, sequins, and so on.
- If the wedding is magnificent, then mothers are always on the move during such an event. After all, they are the ones who help the young people get together, participate in the ransom, go to the registry office for the ceremonial registration, and greet them with a loaf of bread. Therefore, it is recommended to give preference not only to beautiful, but also to comfortable clothes that will be loose and not constrain you.
- The chosen look speaks volumes, including the well-being of the family, so buy a new dress or suit for your children’s wedding.
- The length of your holiday outfit should depend on your height: for tall and average women, floor-length models are perfect, but for petite women it is better to opt for a midi length or just above the knees.
Fabrics
It is necessary to take into account the time of year of the wedding. For summer celebrations, as well as warm spring and early autumn, the following materials are relevant:
- lace is a fashionable and truly festive fabric that will make any mother feminine and elegant;
- satin is one of the most common materials for sewing evening dresses; it is soft, delicate and with a beautiful shine, allowing the skin to breathe in the hot season;
- chiffon is used to make long flowing skirts; it is very light and thin, and therefore it will not be hot;
- silk is another great option for an evening look. Clothes made from it are not cheap, and therefore they turn out to be quite impressive;
- Guipure is also a ceremonial fabric, products from which look great at festive events;
- satin is a light and shiny fabric, also great for an evening look for mom;
- crepe-satin - this fabric has two sides - matte and smooth satin, each of them can be used as the front.
But for winter weddings, cool spring and late autumn, you need to find an outfit made of dense material, which will cope with this task perfectly:
- jacquard is one of the most expensive options, because the relief pattern with which the canvas is decorated is very difficult to produce;
- Taffeta is a dense, soft material with a noble glossy sheen. Ideally fits a slender woman;
- brocade is a rare and therefore expensive material, clothing from which looks sophisticated and feminine;
- velvet - it is currently at the peak of popularity. It produces chic and sophisticated products; wraparound and “case” models are especially common;
- Brokat is a heavy, silk fabric with lurex, that is, with gold or silver thread. Dresses made from it look elegant and festive, which is exactly what we need for a wedding.
Choosing a dress style
Look for an outfit that suits your body shape. If you have an inverted triangle body type , then a skirt with a complex cut, with flounces or bright elements, would be ideal. It is appropriate to wear flashy shoes, because they will attract attention to themselves, which means they will distract eyes from the top. And of course, the pomp of the upper part of the clothing is contraindicated for the figure in question.
Ladies with a rectangular build should emphasize their chest and hips. As for skirts, it would be great to choose the “sun” and “tulip” styles. But it’s better to avoid belts and narrow belts.
To balance out the “triangular” type , take a closer look at models with a dark bottom and a bright top, puffy sleeves or a puffy collar.
For an apple body type, choose a product with a cut that visually lengthens the silhouette. Mid-length outfits with stripes or vertical folds fit perfectly on the figure in question.
The hourglass shape is considered the ideal shape for a woman, because literally any dress fits well on her.
Few people over forty can boast of being slim , but if you are lucky, then you can afford tight models, fitted options with midi length, open arms or with a modest cutout at the back. But for plump mothers, it’s better to look for looser styles for a wedding. It could be:
- A sheath dress is a classic solution that will perfectly suit absolutely every representative of the fair sex. There are a huge number of “cases” on sale - with lace, with sleeves of different lengths, and with belts.
- Empire style - its feature is a high waist, free-flowing skirt, the length of which can start from the knee and below, which means you will emphasize your chest and cover your stomach and hips. A bolero, jacket or stole looks impressive with the Empire style.
- The trapezoid is one of the universal options for an imperfect figure. It expands downward, therefore, it will easily hide all imperfections.
- Asymmetrical - for a plump mother with a belly, this dress is the best solution. After all, all attention is focused on the interesting asymmetrical hem of the outfit.
- Wraparound is another winning model. The smell will emphasize your advantages, namely a large bust, but will hide an imperfect belly and hips. This silhouette will visually create the correct proportions and visually elongate the figure.
- The bat is a great option for ladies with insufficient volume in the upper torso and large hips. It is worth considering that the style in question significantly reduces height and therefore is not suitable for very short women. Typically, such outfits are made of velvet, thick knitwear or corduroy.
- A balloon dress will hide the imperfections of a curvy physique, making the silhouette interesting and feminine.
- With a bell skirt - for mothers who want to hide broad shoulders and large breasts. This dress will correct your proportions and make your figure more refined.
- With a peplum is another great solution. It will help you visually lengthen your legs and hide an imperfect waist. This style is especially relevant for ladies with short stature.
- In the Greek style - probably the most common option for a wedding as a guest. Ideally emphasizes the waistline, emphasizes large beautiful breasts, and thanks to the wide flowing skirt you can easily hide your curvy hips. In addition, it is very comfortable, does not hinder movement and looks quite festive and feminine. Elongated models look most elegant when combined with a chiffon cape or stole.
- With an emphasis on the chest - with the help of such a dress you will emphasize your main advantage and hide your flaws. Almost any neckline will suit, the main thing is that it is not vulgar. It is best for mothers to choose the so-called “false neckline” when it is covered with translucent fabric or mesh. As for the skirt, it can be floor-length, in the form of a bell, a pencil or a sheath.
Costume
In the modern world, this has long been not only office wear, but also formal holiday wear. Nowadays, both trouser options and those consisting of a dress and jacket are very fashionable.
Mature women look great at weddings in suits with skirts. To avoid looking too simple, your outfit should include some decoration, such as interesting buttons or lace inserts. Or it can be sewn from elegant, expensive fabric such as satin, jacquard and the like.
Features of eyebrow coloring
When doing makeup for a mother for her son’s wedding, she needs to shape her eyebrows. For example, for lightened and sparse eyebrows, it is recommended to get a tattoo. Only ladies with the same hair shade should dye them black. Therefore, it is better to use a brown or gray tone. If you plan to paint your eyebrows with a pencil , then use lines similar to them, starting from the outer part to the very end. Then use an eyebrow brush to lightly shade it.
An example of filled eyebrows for the mother of the bride
Choose a timeless classic style
Wedding photos and the wedding day remain in the heart and memory forever, which means that the wedding hairstyle does too.
There's nothing worse than feeling embarrassed when looking at your wedding photos. Stay away from trendy hairstyles. Few trendy hairstyles become classics. For example, at one time the hedgehog hairstyle was very popular, but did not move into the category of ageless hairstyles. Therefore, it is better for the mother of the bride to avoid this type of hairstyle.
Soft natural curls are one of the ageless options; they suit many women.
Lip design
When doing lip makeup, the main thing is to get the contours right. The pencil should be the same shade as the lipstick, but a little darker, about two to three shades. It is recommended to pay attention to colors similar to natural ones.
Mother of the bride makeup: lip design
It is important that the makeup of the mother of the bride and groom is in harmony with the outfit. If the mother’s clothes are shortened, say, a little above the knee, then the makeup should be natural. Thanks to this, mom will look younger and fresher.
And if a woman’s dress is long, then you can apply glitter, foundation and line your eyes and lips
Retro attire will perfectly harmonize with a velvet complexion, arrows and elongated eyelashes. Many layers of makeup on the eyes and eyebrows will not at all bring attractiveness to the image. Makeup, first of all, should be calm and rejuvenating, because the mother should feel comfortable and relaxed.
The wedding event will be remembered for a long time. When preparing for it, you need to think carefully about everything. Of course, the newlyweds are the most important at the holiday, but mothers and fathers, especially mothers and mothers-in-law, should also look good. Wedding makeup for a young mother is an important component of the banquet.
Makeup ideas
The basis of makeup for a middle-aged woman who is tired in the process of preparing a holiday is always the same:
- skin refreshment;
- correction (remove circles under the eyes, spider veins, wrinkles);
- applying the base.
This is followed by adjusting facial features (if necessary) and highlighting details - eyes, eyebrows, lips.
For blondes (or gray hair) with light eyes, a beige-brown color scheme with an emphasis on the eyes is suitable . Shadows and powder are light peachy-milky tones, matte, muted lipstick.
Women with chestnut, reddish hair and brown, green, gray eyes are better off giving preference to earth tones - brownish, greenish-brown, lipstick and blush of a warm peach or berry shade.
For dark-haired ladies or those who prefer to dye their hair in dark, bright colors, you can choose a bronze color scheme to highlight your eyes and lips . In this case, emphasis should be placed on correcting and toning the face, highlighting the desired areas.
