Preparation, Articles, Traditions and entertainment December 10 The Bride
The mood of a wedding dinner is made up of details and little things that are not always noticeable at first glance: ironed tablecloths, proper lighting, and stylish printing. In the first part of our article, we have collected for you the main details and rules for a successful wedding table setting.
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Serving a wedding dinner is not just about dishes, textiles, furniture and decor, it is also about the atmosphere! Therefore, be sure to take care of music, lighting and surprise compliments that will not leave even the most biased guests indifferent.
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Decor features
It is important that the decorations you choose are something you like, have some meaning for your couple, and resonate with the theme of the wedding. The newlyweds' table will be the main focus of the banquet, so it should be in harmony with the overall style, but at the same time stand out as the main part of the hall. Advice! If you have ideal taste and have long wanted to try your hand at design, then decorating your own wedding can be a good start for discovering your talents.
But if you don’t want to take risks, then it’s better to invite professional decorators and florists. A real specialist will definitely find out all the details, take into account your wishes, maybe even the history of your relationship, and reflect all this in unique compositions.
What can be used to decorate the newlyweds' table?
- Flowers – fresh and fragrant or more durable artificial;
- All kinds of fabrics from which intricate draperies are created;
- Lighting , regardless of what you prefer - an antique candelabra with real wax candles or a sheet of flickering LEDs;
- Other cute decorations, be it stones, fruits or rose petals .
Bright citruses
An unusual solution for wedding serving: acid yellow lemons against a rich green background look incredibly cheerful. Notice how the “wall” of leaves separates one part of the table from the other, and long cloth napkins peek out from under the guests’ plates.
Decor: Larisa Preobrazhenskaya
Rules
- It is best to place the table for the newlyweds in the center of the hall , on a dais or at another advantageous point - all those present should be able to see the newlyweds from their seats;
- Decorative compositions should not be made too high. The bride and groom, having difficulty peeking out from behind huge bouquets, is not a very good solution;
- The design of the newlyweds’ table should echo the general decor of the hall , as well as the guest tables, but at the same time be different - for example, be more magnificent or brighter;
- An interesting idea is to link the design to the selected menu;
- Decorations should be distributed not only along the tabletop, but also along the front of the tablecloth, as well as on the backdrop. This will allow the photographer to find more good angles for shooting during the feast;
- Even if there is a buffet, you can make a separate table for the young people. The wedding day is long, and sooner or later you will need a snack.
Surrounded by flowers
The light aroma of roses and the soft flickering of candles, which is reflected in the glasses - it seems that this is exactly what a romantic wedding dinner should be like. Notice how the pattern on the plates matches the pattern of the tablecloth.
Decor: Lid's Eventhouse
Ideas on how to beautifully decorate the table of the bride and groom with photos
Wedding arrangements made from fresh flowers
Flowers are a time-tested classic. Delicate, fragrant, fragile and beautiful, they are a wonderful metaphor for a new life emerging.
It is best to choose short-cut stems in small vases - round or wide. The buds look good if they float freely in small bowls or original containers - jars, teapots, porcelain tea cups.
You can decorate the newlyweds' table with bouquets or garlands that echo the overall design of the room. At the same time, the flowers should not be too tall, no higher than 40 centimeters, so as not to cover the main heroes of the occasion. If you really want tall stems, then create narrow bouquets in thin vessels, literally for one branch.
Think carefully about how and where you will install them, because the flowers should not block you or spoil the angle for photographs. The best solution is to place such compositions on the backdrop. When choosing specific colors, base your wedding theme on your theme. A rustic celebration involves wildflowers, a Provencal wedding - lavender, a retro - large burgundy roses.
Remember that there should not be too many bright colors, otherwise they will begin to compete with each other, turning a harmonious ensemble into chaos. If you really want a riot of colors, then let it be moderate in the form of bright splashes in the overall monochrome. For example, small flowers in a lush green mass of grass or moss. Try not to use flowers with a very strong smell - they can cause a headache or allergies. You can make various figures from flowers - a heart made of roses of several shades, rings, the names of the newlyweds. Small flower baskets will also add solemnity and charm.
Advice! Fresh flowers fade very quickly, so purchase and arrange them as close to the ceremony as possible, and do not place them near lighting fixtures - cut flowers do not like heat.
Flowers and petals, decorative stones, candles
Petals scattered on the tablecloth are a symbol of romantic tender love. It doesn't have to be roses. You can use any other plant, as long as you like the shape and color. This decor adds accents, but does not overload the overall appearance of the table. You can make inscriptions or drawings from the petals, for example, a big heart.
Decorative stones will give the celebration an atmosphere of magic.
They can be used as separate elements reflecting the specifics of the holiday. For example, huge raw crystals are suitable for a medieval-style wedding, and round cobblestones are suitable for an eco-ceremony. Beads or a scattering of multi-colored stones on the tablecloth look interesting. You can also use them to lay out any drawings or names of the newlyweds or scatter them in a creative mess.
Decorative stones combine very well with airy fabrics and delicate flowers.
Candles can be regular or scented, or electronic, with LEDs. If the overall decor uses a lot of flammable materials, for example, synthetic fabrics, then it is better to choose the second option, especially since such candles are difficult to distinguish from natural ones unless you look inside. If you are sure that fire safety is under control, the size of the hall allows and you want to create an intimate, cozy atmosphere during the banquet, it is not prohibited to use wax or paraffin candles. In this case, make sure that they have a stable candelabra, candle holder, or other platform and that they do not drip onto the tablecloth, food, or other decorative elements.
Scented candles smell enchanting, but you should choose them carefully, as strong unnatural odors may well cause allergies or simply get boring quickly in a closed room. It is better to light them for a short time, only at the most important moments.
Fabric
A tablecloth made of luxurious flowing or airy fabric is another decoration for the main table. It can be complemented with embroidery, bows, and lace.
Voluminous flounces falling from the front edge of the tabletop will be a wonderful stylistic solution, elegant and sweet. If desired, add decorations by creating textured, voluminous compositions. Typically, weightless fabrics such as chiffon, organza, and nylon are used for this. More dense materials are placed under the bottom, for example, shiny satin, natural cotton or heavy royal velvet. The combination of materials of different textures allows you to elegantly play out the most complex design.
Remember that thin and light fabrics require careful handling, as they can easily form snags. Use a steamer for ironing.
Lace
An entirely lace tablecloth on the newlyweds' table looks luxurious and incredibly delicate. The color can vary from snowy white and related shades to any color that matches the theme of the wedding. Light openwork patterns will look great in any case. Since the lace has holes, it is better to lay it on some thick lining of a suitable shade. However, this rule does not work if you want to play up the translucent wood of the table. For those who find an entire lace tablecloth overkill, you can offer separate lace ribbons. They can decorate fabric or flower arrangements, braid baskets or vases, and become decorations for glasses.
Idea! A classic option - lace napkins on a contrasting bright tablecloth create an atmosphere of luxury and elegance.
Fruit decoration
A very fresh, tasty and unusual solution is edible decor in the form of pyramids, columns or fruit baskets. This design is perfect for a wedding in eco-style, rustic, as well as for lovers of youth minimalism, naturalness, and unusual surprises.
For example, a huge pyramid of ripe apples on a checkered tablecloth will create an atmosphere of rustic, peaceful comfort, and cut watermelons with their refreshing pink-green hue will make everyone believe that they are on the Hawaiian coast.
A variety of citrus fruits will cause no less delight : lemons will give bright sunny colors and a magical aroma, but the rows of tangerines or oranges will most likely thin out greatly by the end of the holiday, even if the newlyweds’ table is vigilantly guarded. Tangerines look especially good when decorating a winter celebration.
For fruity decor for a summer wedding, you can’t find anything more romantic than strawberries or seasonal berries.
The pyramid is a classic, but not the only option. You can make other figures from the fruits - a heart, rings, doves, and even a sketchy caricature of the bride and groom. Another idea is to arrange small baskets. They can be wicker, colored, decorated with lace, ribbons or other decor.
It is important to remember: not all gifts of nature have good shelf life. Some can release juice, which means this point should be thought through in advance, for example, by adding waterproof stands or draping the bottom of the composition with greenery. The easiest option is to choose fruits with thick skin.
Glasses
You also need to take the menu into account when choosing glasses, because etiquette provides for a separate glass for each drink. If guests are offered champagne, there should be tall glasses on the table. Red wine is drunk from large pot-bellied glasses, and white wine is drunk from narrow glasses. Whiskey is poured into large diameter glasses with a thick bottom. It is customary to drink vodka in one gulp, so small glasses are placed on the table for it. Small round glasses with a short stem are designed for liqueurs and cognac, but for vermouth, medium glasses that slightly widen at the top are suitable. All glasses should be located in the upper right corner. Moreover, the glass that will be needed first is placed closest to the plates. As a rule, the closest one is a glass of water.
Table setting for a wedding at home and in a restaurant
Of course, a lot depends on the chosen topic and personal preferences, but it is better to take into account some points when setting the table:
- The tablecloth must be thick enough so that the sound of the appliances being rearranged is inaudible;
- It is better to choose textile napkins rather than paper ones. An exception is possible only when organizing a decidedly informal wedding;
- Knives are placed on the right, forks on the left, teeth up. The dessert spoon is left above the plate;
- If several pairs of devices are laid out, then those that are to be used first should be placed outside;
- It is advisable that the glasses or glasses match the drinks being served;
- No decorative elements should be placed close to the plates - delicate fabric stained with food greatly spoils the overall appearance and mood.
In muted shades
Weightless translucent fabric on the table and covers on the chairs, the absence of saturated colors and a lot of white - all this makes this serving option casual and clean. The tables were decorated only with magnolia flowers and ceramic figurines of underwater reefs.
Decor: Styled By Her
DIY backdrop decoration
The backdrop is no less important, because it will become the main background of wedding photographs.
The classic option is a flower arrangement in the form of an arch, a heart, or just a carpet of greenery and buds. It is not necessary to use fresh flowers; artificial ones will look no worse, and they will definitely not begin to fade during the day. Moreover, delicate petals from fabric, paper, felt or polymer clay can be made independently, putting a piece of your soul into the celebration. All necessary materials can be purchased at any art store.
Fabric decorations that echo the design of the tablecloth are also used. An excellent choice for a loft-style wedding or a winter celebration is an LED canvas, which immediately attracts attention and creates an interesting play of light. But don’t forget to consult with the photographer: perhaps the shimmering beauty will make photography completely impossible or require additional equipment.
What wedding would be complete without balloons?
Light, fragile, beautiful - they will perfectly decorate the backdrop both solo and in combination with other elements. You can create an arch, a garland or designs from balloons, use monochrome or several shades.
Idea! Aerodesign also allows for unusual compositions, for example, helium-filled balloons of irregular shape hanging from the ceiling and lowering a wavy ribbon or a garland of flowers onto the table.
Total White
A snow-white tablecloth, the most laconic tableware, simple white flowers in transparent vases and even white candles in candlesticks. All together creates an atmosphere of solemnity without unnecessary pathos.
Organization and decor: Wedding's Italy
Decorator tips
- To make the table design perfect, determine one of the main parts - the backdrop, tabletop or front side of the tablecloth. This will be the place to create the brightest accent. Everything else should frame it, add details, but not compete in brightness;
- Do not forget that the table should be combined with the decoration of the hall, guest tables and the dresses of the young people. Moreover, complement and repeat accents, and not be completely identical;
- When choosing fresh flowers or ripe fruits, make sure that they remain in perfect appearance for the entire duration of the ceremony;
- Don't use too many bright colors. There should be 2-3 leading shades, because it is extremely difficult to elegantly play off excessive colors;
- Choose not very tall plant stems for table decoration, and do not cover the entire tabletop with decor . With all the beauty of the decoration, the newlyweds should be comfortable.
Sun and sea
Orange and blue accents on a white tablecloth create the perfect color scheme for a summer outdoor family dinner.
Decor: Yulia Shakirova
Decoration for children's parties
Serving for children on a birthday or for another event has its own characteristics and rules. To give your child and his guests a fun, bright holiday, take care to create a solemn, friendly atmosphere. At the same time, it is necessary to ensure the safety of the invited children and check with their parents about undesirable products for consumption.
Let's arrange a bright holiday
Decoration begins with choosing a theme for the feast. It determines the color scheme of dishes, textiles, accessories, as well as the list and decor of dishes. Come up with the theme of the event together with the hero of the occasion or taking into account his preferences.
We decorate the table according to the theme of the holiday
Popular options include:
Holidays based on your favorite cartoons, films or books. You can choose such classic works as “Cinderella”, “Little Red Riding Hood”, or modern ones: “Frozen”, “Cars”, “Toy Story”, etc. To decorate the table, use figurines of your favorite characters and the colors of their surroundings.
We use our favorite characters for decoration
Feasts with an emphasis on an unusual profession or field of activity. Exactly what topic depends on your child’s interests and passions. His hobbies can be played up with accessories and decorations in a suitable style. Celebrations with an atmosphere of different eras or cultures. A holiday surrounded by medieval knights or pirates, magical fairies, princesses will be remembered for a long time, you will enjoy it more than an ordinary lunch or dinner. You can emphasize the theme by decorating the room with a strictly consistent color scheme.
pirate Party
When serving for teenagers, you can focus on your favorite colors or decorate the feast in the style of the country whose culinary delights are especially liked by the hero of the occasion. For a Japanese dinner, it's sushi, an Italian evening is unthinkable without pasta and pizza, and to create the atmosphere of a sultry Mexico at a holiday, you will need tacos with burritos.
Wedding service: special subtleties
After arranging the furniture, you can begin to decorate the wedding reception table. The first step is choosing a tablecloth . Most often, snow-white linen is laid. However, table linen with a pattern that matches the decor and general style of the dishes would also be appropriate. A tablecloth that matches the design, style, and color to the wedding theme looks good. A traditional white accessory can be “revived” with the help of tulle draperies, multi-layered napkins and colored ribbons.
It is important not to overdo it when choosing a color scheme for decor.
. It is best to use no more than 2-3 tones that are harmoniously combined with each other, or different shades of the same color. Etiquette requires that the tablecloth be perfectly ironed and hang 20-30 cm from the edge of the table. A fleece must be placed under it. This is the name for a kind of backing made of soft thick fabric that exactly matches the width of the table. It absorbs sound well, so appliances do not make noise and do not distract guests.
In any photo, the wedding table setting is distinguished by the precise arrangement of dishes . There should be two plates in front of each guest. The small dining room, intended for the main course, is placed first. On top is a small snack bar into which snacks will be placed. A cloth napkin folded in a special way is placed on the top plate. To the right of the plates are a tablespoon and beautiful knives. They are laid out in this order: the knife for the main course is closest to the dish, followed by a soup spoon, and then a knife for appetizers.
To the left of the plate, forks are placed in a similar order. A simple rule applies here: the closest devices are those that are used last. Finally, glasses for drinks are placed. four glasses for each guest.
: wine glass, glasses for champagne and wine, glass for vodka. Please note that glasses for white and red wine are different. The first are small in volume, the second are larger and wider.
It is appropriate to serve champagne both in special bowls and in tall dishes, in which the wine “plays” very beautifully. The glasses are placed in two rows as a block. It can be a straight line or a small semicircle. The distance between the vessels should be about a centimeter. To make it convenient for guests, glasses are placed exactly opposite the cutlery, and not to the right or left of them. You should also not place crystal glassware close to the edge of the table.
