Don’t think that choosing the groom’s suit and accessories will be very simple.
butterfly or scarf. This is the choice we will talk about.
Everyone understands perfectly well that the atmosphere and style of a wedding is created by little things, details and accessories.
When meeting future newlyweds, I always ask all the grooms the same question: “Will you wear a bow tie or a tie?”
I still suggest you sort out these two accessories. And to be more precise with the accessory, since a bow tie is also a tie. And its correct name is "Bow Tie"
Where, when and how to wear
In warm and hot seasons, you can wear a tie with a shirt without a jacket, but for this tandem, they must fit perfectly together and look 100% - they have the ideal size and are ironed.
The bow tie
From the moment of its appearance, it was one of the main signs of aristocracy and a certain romance. Let's remember the standard of male aristocratic style of our time, our favorite and universally recognizable character from films - James Bond. In films with this character, we see that at most social functions, multiple dates and poker games, he appears in a classic tuxedo and a stylish bow tie. I believe that it is the butterfly in the image of the character that emphasizes his high status and gives a certain charm to his hero.
Nowadays, a bow tie can be worn not only with the usual tuxedo or tailcoat; it also goes well with different styles and cuts of jackets or shirts. Modern fashion allows you to wear a bow tie with a cardigan or blazer. It will look special if you use the favorite combination of professors from English universities - a bow tie paired with a tweed jacket.
Pros for a photo shoot
I think you will agree with me that the groom in a beautiful white shirt with several buttons undone, sleeves rolled up and an untied bow tie (hanging from the shoulders) will look very impressive and cinematic in photographs.
Taking into account all of the above, I cannot say with complete confidence that the groom’s wedding look at the wedding must include only a butterfly. It may also happen that a bowtie does not suit the groom’s face and image in principle, while in a tie the groom will look very stylish and impressive. In this case, the choice of accessory is more than obvious. You must remember that the choice of a wedding accessory such as a tie or bow-tie must be taken very seriously and scrupulously, because an incorrectly selected detail, attribute or accessory can completely distort the image, and what’s worse, can completely ruin it.
A tie is an all-time classic
When choosing a tie for yourself, you must remember a few simple rules:
2. A tie can be bright, bold and fun in color and print, but in this case it should resonate with another element of your wedding look.
4. Nowadays, you can choose a tie of any width to match your suit - from ultra-thin (noose tie) to very wide.
History of the accessory
At its beginning, the bow tie looked like a bow, which appeared in the 17th century in Europe. And it received its modern appearance only in 1904 at the premiere of the opera “Madama Butterfly”. It was thanks to the name “butterfly” that the shape of the tie was invented. All the musicians in the orchestra wore it, thereby advertising the performance. This wardrobe item created a real sensation among fashionistas.
Since then, this men's accessory has become very popular. Now every year, men and boys continue to choose these ties for important events.
How to tie a Tie or Bow Tie correctly?
To know all these methods you will need a certain skill and many hard hours of practice. But nowadays, you can still very often find already tied ties and bow ties. They are already attached to an elastic band that fits onto the collar of your shirt without any additional hassle. This type of tie has a separate name - regatta. Despite this, it is generally accepted that a real gentleman should be able to tie a tie.
As for tying a bow tie, everything is easy and simple. There are only two ways to tie a tie - a simple formal one and a classic formal one. Tying a bowtie is not very difficult, but apparently this also causes complications: there are bowties that are already tied and placed on an elastic band! Such butterflies are fastened around the collar of a shirt - there is absolutely no additional inconvenience or hassle: fasten it around the neck in a couple of seconds - and you're done!
The debate over which is better, a tie or a bow tie, is a duel between business people and romantics, between admirers of tradition and dandies.
Deciding on the type of suit
You may often come across the fact that many authors say that you need to start with the choice of fabric, but you must agree that you will not go shopping and re-read all the labels, only after that pay attention to the suit itself.
So, where to start choosing a suit? First, we need to decide on the model of the costume in principle. The following main types of men's suits for weddings can be distinguished:
Classic suit
A classic men's suit is always ideal. It can be in different colors, double-breasted or single-breasted, double or triple.
And here an interesting twist awaits us; in fact, if we consider a three-piece suit, then all possible options for a classic suit will, in a sense, be exhausted. Don't worry, we'll tell you everything now! All possible combinations of a classic men's suit fit into a three-piece suit, whether you want to wear only trousers and a shirt, a traditional two-piece suit of a jacket and trousers, or the entire three-piece, all these options can essentially be put together from a three-piece.
The logical question would be: “Why do I need a three-piece suit if I only need a jacket and trousers?” Of course, if you are sure that you do not want to see yourself in wedding photographs in a different form, then the combination you have chosen in advance will be enough, but now we will tell you what the main advantage of a three-piece suit at a wedding is.
When choosing a wedding date, you will never guess what the weather will be like, and, as a rule, on your wedding day you have to spend a lot of time outside, and here a three-piece suit turns out to be a very universal solution: in hot weather, you will have the opportunity to take off your jacket and leave only trousers with a vest, which will be much more comfortable, or in cold weather you can take off your jacket and warm your spouse with it.
Frock coat
The frock coat resembles a coat, as it is slightly longer than a classic jacket. It features a double-breasted cut, with the bottom two buttons only reaching to the waist. There are also shortened frock coats.
A business card suit is a type of frock coat, in contrast to it; the business card has flaps that diverge in the front and round at the back; the business card is fastened with one button. Quite an elegant option, well suited for such a special day as a wedding.
Tailcoat
The tailcoat is easy to recognize by its cut: it is short in the front and has elongated straight tails at the back. Some models of such suits have trousers equipped with satin stripes. There are many interesting models of tailcoats, from which the groom can choose what will create his ideal style.
The tuxedo
A tuxedo is an evening option that is relevant at any time of the year. By complementing such a suit with a white shirt and bow tie, the color harmonizing with the bride’s dress, the groom can create an impeccable image.
This model is characterized by the presence of satin lapels.
Casual
A wedding in the Casual style is a completely new direction in organizing a wedding. It is most suitable for couples who decide to start their own family, which is based on simplicity and love of life.
Casual style for men for a wedding does not include any usual formal suit. The newlywed's clothing should be in harmony with the companion's outfit and be of the same shades. Important details for the groom are bright accessories: scarves and socks, unusual ties. The groom's casual style look will be ideally complemented by original glasses, a watch or a multi-colored belt. Choose a shirt with a pattern or check. As for trousers or a jacket, there are no restrictions. If the groom feels constrained in it, it is better to do without it altogether. A vest of any style is a must. Sneakers or moccasins are suitable as shoes.
Color
It is an indisputable fact that flashy, bright colors are not suitable for a wedding. But at the same time, the tie should stand out harmoniously against the background of the suit and shirt, without merging with them.
The best option is when the tie is one shade lighter than the suit and one shade darker than the shirt. Or dark - against the background of a light shirt and a dark suit. If the shirt and suit are dark enough, then a lighter model is chosen.
Which tie to choose:
- Any color - with a white shirt.
- Match the tone of the suit - if a light shirt is combined with a dark suit.
- Strict monochromatic - for a light shirt with a discreet pattern.
- Brighter - for a light suit.
- Either plain or with a faint pattern - for a striped or checkered suit.
- A dull, monochromatic one goes with a bright suit with some kind of pattern and a striped shirt.
If you have doubts at the first stage
Many visitors to the wedding portal www.svadebka.ws can confirm that some future husbands simply do not want to wear this important element of the wedding suit. Such naughty whims should be reminded that in the West, a butterfly is worn only on the most festive and solemn occasions, especially when it comes to the groom’s outfit. For example, at meetings with queens and delegates from other countries. What will be worse than your bright and joyful wedding? When the man does not find anything to answer, the question will be completely closed and he can go to the nearest specialized store.
Materials and tools
For sewing a bow tie, fabrics that are practical to use and do not require complex care are suitable. When choosing, seasonality is taken into account. So, for the cold season, tweed and wool are optimal, for the warm season - denim, cotton (canvas, oxford, thin material), satin.
For adult men, solid colors look good: black, burgundy, white, dark blue. Pastel colors are popular: pale blue, peach, milky, gray-silver. Representatives of the stronger sex who like to attract attention should turn to bright colors: yellow, pink, red, purple. There are a variety of prints: polka dots, checks, geometric shapes. Daring fashionistas will appreciate designs in the form of skulls, palm trees, and deer.
Butterflies made from printed fabrics look much more interesting than plain ones. This is a great option for graduation or any other special occasion.
Butterflies for boys are decorated using bright prints. Popular images are hearts, unicorns, flamingos, as well as various inscriptions. Kids will also love models decorated with their favorite cartoon characters.
To sew a bow tie yourself, in addition to the main fabric, you will need the following materials and consumables:
- non-woven fabric or dublerin;
- threads matching the color;
- elastic band or stretch tape;
- accessories for making fasteners;
- decorations - optional.
During the work you will need scissors, crayons or felt-tip pens for marking the material, and a set of needles. If you don't have a sewing machine, you can do the work by hand. To obtain a high-quality result, blind hemming stitches (“fluff”, “back needle”) are used. Regular double-pass running stitches will do.
Model selection
You can make various types of butterflies yourself. First of all, products are classified according to the method of tying:
- Samovyaz. The most creative option that allows you to experiment with knots. Single-color and double-sided models are available.
- On the clasp. To put it on, you just need to fasten the product - the bow tie in this case is already completely ready and does not need any additional manipulations.
- Attached. The model is fixed to the hem of the shirt, next to the top button, using a special clothespin.
The tying method is selected according to individual preferences. The easiest way to make a butterfly is the self-knitting type; making ready-made models is somewhat more difficult.
Depending on the shape, products come in the following types:
- Classic or Butterfly. A traditional version, reminiscent of the wings of the insect of the same name. The width of the bow reaches 6.5 cm, suitable for a man of any build.
- Large Butterfly. The model is relevant for large men with full necks. On a thin figure it will look strange and even comical. Product width - up to 8.5 cm.
- Diamond Point. The bow tie resembles a diamond: the classic shape is in perfect harmony with the angular tips, similar to diamonds. The asymmetrical cut serves to create original looks.
- Rounded Club. A club version of a small size with rounded outlines, suitable for themed events and parties.
- Continental tie. It is a fabric strip with extensions along the edges, fixed with a clasp by placing one tip on top of the other.
The classic model and Large Butterfly are the easiest to sew yourself. The remaining options will be a little more difficult to make at home.
Accessory dimensions
To make the perfect bow tie with your own hands, it would be useful to clarify the optimal parameters of the future product. The size is influenced by the type of accessory. The length of classic models reaches 15 cm, mini - 10 cm, children's - 7 cm.
The width of a traditional tie is 5.5 or 6 cm, narrower models for adult men - 3 cm, for children - 2-3 cm. The length of the adjustable strap reaches 30-45 cm. To accurately determine the parameters, it is necessary to measure the circumference of the neck. Based on the data obtained, the future product is modeled. About 0.5 cm is added to the measurements obtained for an allowance, then the put on bowtie will fit freely without causing discomfort.
With a neck circumference of 36.5 cm + 0.5 cm allowance, the final result is 37 cm. The optimal strap length in this case will be 41 cm or more.
The appropriate size of the product is determined based on the principle: the tie should not be longer than the face. The width is selected in accordance with the parameters of the gate. A large butterfly on the neck is in harmony with a classic collar, a medium one - with soft semi-turndown options.
Some useful tips
The most important rule for a stylish male look is a tie made of good expensive fabric, which will highlight all the advantages of a true gentleman’s appearance. This exclusive accessory is made from natural wool or high-quality silk and has an exquisite range of shades and colors.
Make sure the product is proportional. When tying a tie, the fabric should not slip or twist, and the edges should not curl or twist under any circumstances. If a tie behaves like this, then this indicates that the accessory was cut and sewn without adhering to the most basic rules.
Be sure to try on a tie so that it matches not only the texture of the suit fabric and its color, but also your appearance. Wide or narrow, short or long – there are many options, and each of them will find its owner to whom it will add elegance.
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Groom without platitudes. How to avoid looking stupid at your own wedding
Some grooms choose not a wedding dress, but an ordinary business suit, which, of course, can first be worn to the wedding ceremony. This approach is, at a minimum, unfair to the bride. I don’t want to get too sentimental, but a wedding is still a special event. Girls sometimes spend months preparing for it, and the groom’s “everyday” suit next to the bride’s carefully selected dress is simply dishonest.
If we consider a wedding formally, as an event with its own rules, then the dress code here is between evening and cocktail, perhaps with the prefix “creative”, but never “business”. A groom in a business suit at a wedding looks like someone who has come running after work, or as if this is his only suit, from the category “both for the feast and for the world.”
Of course, items from your wedding wardrobe can serve you well after the big day, so you can buy both a suit and a mismatched jacket and trousers, which can later be used to create both a festive and everyday look. "Combine and mix!" - this is the main motto of modern fashion.
Suit or tuxedo
Instead of a classic business jacket with a triangular blaze, it is better to use a “cocktail” blazer with a pointed blaze, an evening jacket with a shawl collar, or even a tuxedo, depending on the specifics of the wedding. If you are planning a morning registration and an afternoon celebration, then it is better not to wear a classic black tuxedo, maximum blue: black tie looks luxurious in the evening at an elegant dinner in an elegant hall.
A “cocktail” suit is the best option for a “daytime” wedding, which moves from the registry office to a park or any other open space, and from there to a restaurant. Great set: mismatched jacket (or blazer) and trousers, shirt, tie/bow tie, plus derby shoes or brogues. A checkered jacket (not grey-blue) is a good choice. Stop being afraid of color! Gray-pink or brick-coral check, carrot-ash or green trousers. A good wedding style is bold.
When it comes to a formal wedding dinner, elegant, but without the involvement of a decorator with an eight-figure fee, black tie automatically acquires the “creative” tag. Take creative liberties. A belt instead of a sash? Please. Tuxedo and skinny tie? Yes to your health. Sneakers or loafers? Great idea. And instead of a black tuxedo made of woolen cloth, you can choose blue, swamp green or burgundy. The main thing is that without sequins. Leave the glitter to the kings of the stage.
Cotton or tweed
Wherever your wedding takes place, a “silver” jacket is completely excluded. Yes, the same one, with shimmer and shine. If you are not getting married in the steppes of Bessarabia, then there cannot be silver fabrics in your image.
Another general tip: it is better to buy a lightweight jacket, for example, made from pure or fine wool blend. The wool/silk combination is perfect. Pay attention to jackets made from Guabello Wool and Silk, Cerruti Oxygen or Barberis fabrics.
In the summer, especially if you are planning an outdoor ceremony and/or banquet, an unlined jacket - for example, made of cotton - will be very good. But remember that this is very casual. If the wedding is taking place in the format of a friendly party - this is what you need, if the degree of solemnity is off the charts, but the celebration will take place on the street, it is worth purchasing a jacket made of a mixture of wool and linen, elegant and light, but, at the same time, not as wrinkled as from pure linen.
In winter, you can choose a tweed jacket with mismatched trousers. Tweed always looks very respectable and elegant. A tweed jacket will look great in photos, but unfortunately, you'll have to ditch it when it comes to dancing. So either you need to include a vest with a shawl collar in the kit, or your whole stylish “tweed” look will go to the bottom.
Tie or bow tie
More like a butterfly. As I noted above, the groom's suit should emphasize the uniqueness of the moment. In this sense, butterflies are good because they are rarely worn.
A tie can also be present in the image of the groom, but not a business one, but a dandy one, bright, with an unusual pattern, tied with a narrow knot. Add a vest and a contrasting scarf in the breast pocket of the jacket - alle-op! - a tie makes the image no longer official, but dapper.
Which butterfly should I choose? If the shirt is plain, then let your bow tie have a colorful pattern. If the shirt has an ornament on it, or it’s a checkered shirt, take a plain bowtie or one with a neutral texture—you can’t go wrong. It's great when a bowtie matches your socks, but don't match your bowtie to your pocket square: the two should rather contrast.
Boutonniere or brooch
An accent on the lapel turns even the most boring suit into a special and festive one. However, it is important not to get too carried away. Especially when it comes to “floral” boutonnieres. A man's boutonniere should be spare and strict: most often it is one flower or a tiny inflorescence. Alas, I often see entire flower arrangements placed on grooms’ lapels: the “generosity” of florists knows no bounds.
A boutonniere made of fresh flowers can be replaced by a brooch, a pin pin, or a badge. Remember the main thing: the lapel decoration is what unites the groom's suit and the bride's image.
Print or classic
Do I need to buy a special “tails” shirt for a bow tie? Yes, if it is classic black tie according to all the rules: black tuxedo, black trousers, black patent leather shoes and a black bow tie. If the butterfly is colored, the collar can be anything.
Both the jacket and the shirt are all checkered? Theoretically, this is possible, but in either one or the other, the cell must be as neutral as possible. Checkered jacket and striped shirt? Quite if the stripe is not bright. Different textures can also be combined if they are not equally intense.
Shoes or sneakers
There are no shoes more formal than black patent leather shoes. And if you decide to follow black tie according to all the rules, then you cannot do without them. Summer looks with a tuxedo or a dark club jacket can be complemented with patent leather loafers: the style of Italian dandies is an eternal value. And, of course, you can and should also play with the selection of shoes. Complete the look with a jacket/tuxedo and trousers - leather sneakers. What was considered impossible 30 years ago is now the apotheosis of chic.
Don't be afraid to use colored shoes. When else, if not for a wedding? Two-tone monks, wine-colored brogues or loafers, blue derbies - pair with check trousers or jeans. And don’t let your wedding attire be dull.
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