Children are only guests in their parents' house. This is exactly what the famous saying says. This means that all young children sooner or later grow up and leave their homes. They start their own family and build a completely new independent life.
Mothers of sons are often very jealous. After all, previously in the life of their child they were the only main woman. And now another one has appeared who took her son away from the family. It is often difficult for mothers to come to terms with this and calm their jealous feelings.
However, this will have to be done, first of all, for the benefit of your own child. Make up an original congratulatory speech so that your son understands that his mother still loves him, is not jealous and is happy for such a happy turn of events.
Musical congratulations from mom
If a parent wants to express her feelings in a non-trivial way, then it is worth thinking about such an option as singing a song. Even if you don't have a voice or proper hearing, don't despair.
Firstly, in a musical composition for a wedding, what matters is not what voice it is performed, but what feelings it is used with . Secondly, you can choose a song that does not require special vocal abilities to perform.
Groom
Before deciding on a song for your son’s wedding, it’s worth thinking in advance about what feelings you would like to convey.
There are several options:
- Romantic - to express love for the child and pride in the person he has become.
- Humorous - you can sing ditties or other lively songs with funny lyrics. For example, these could be parting words.
- Lyrical is the most touching. It is worth mentioning what love is and how important it is to value each other in a relationship.
It is believed that a mother-in-law is much more insidious and worse than a mother-in-law. And the mother-in-law’s task on the wedding day is to prove that she is ready to accept her daughter-in-law into their family and is happy about her. This means that in a musical composition you need to address not only your beloved son, but also your daughter-in-law.
It will be a very touching moment if the mother-in-law addresses her daughter-in-law using the word “daughter”.
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Brides
The mothers of the bride and groom do not always have good vocal abilities. In such cases, you can call professional musicians. And then there will be two options for the development of events. The first is to perform a musical composition together with musicians. The second is to ask the singers to sing for you .
Then, right before the song itself, the mother will have to stand up, say a few words and, turning to the newlyweds, indicate that now there will be a gift in the form of a musical composition dedicated from you. It will be no less bright and original.
In addition, relatives often get worried while singing songs. But in this case, the nerves can be hidden. After all, you won’t have to stutter or cry while performing the composition. Professional musicians will do this for you.
The task of the parents at this moment is to give flowers on time or send a happy smile and an air kiss to the young married couple.
What words to prepare for congratulations
A mother’s address to her son should convey sincere feelings in words. Avoid callous phrases and hackneyed clichés; congratulations should come from the heart and convey your tender attitude towards your son. Choose parting words that will praise the groom and at the same time contain positive emotions directed towards the daughter-in-law. Effectively emphasize his good taste, which guided him when choosing a bride.
You can insert a few wishes for your son into your congratulations, telling him how you want to see him in his future family life as a mother and mother-in-law. Parting words and wishes with shades of humor are guaranteed to please the young people and leave a pleasant impression on those gathered.
Texts of alterations: parents' song at their son's wedding
The most memorable moment will be if a mother remakes a famous hit especially for her son's wedding.
Before you start changing words, it is worth settling several points at once:
- Song selection.
- Selection of performer.
- Selection of stage roles, costumes and props.
- Dance supply (if necessary).
There are several options that you can do. The most popular style of music lately is rap. It sounds especially original at weddings.
Rap is a composition that newlyweds and their friends will definitely like. It's easy to change words. In addition, even without hearing and voice, you can easily read what you managed to write .
Songs for my son's wedding from his mother.
These words can be taken as a basis when parents write a wedding rap:
- “Hey guys, sit down quickly. Now the heat will come quickly. Today we gathered in the hall with the whole family, and what kind of holiday is this? Dad, answer us all quickly, Why did we gather these guests?”
- “Nikita, Natasha, I love you so much that I sing my song for both of you. Live together, happily, and soon you will give birth to as many as eight children. Let's clap friends quickly. And your life will only be brighter.”
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How to organize a musical gift
Add a song performed by you to your congratulations, superimposing your words on a popular tune. You can perform it using a backing track, choosing the words yourself based on stories about the newlyweds. It would be very funny to sing a song with a story about how the newlyweds met, or to paint a picture of their future life together in the song. The lyrics of the song, filled with humor, will help to charge those present with positivity, and the positive emotions received from the performance will be remembered for many years.
The congratulation will look very original against the background of the video; it should include moments from the life of the newlyweds, which are sung in the song. A large screen with a series of bright, beautiful moments of the newlyweds meeting, mixed with colorful close-up photographs replacing each other, will successfully complement your speech.
The place for musical congratulations must be prepared in advance. If the wedding is planned for the warm season, then it is more convenient to move the stage to an open area, where the performance will be accompanied by festive fireworks, and the youth can be asked to perform an unusual dance. You can prepare and rehearse the dance choreography in advance, before the wedding, so that the dance fits harmoniously into the overall picture. Or arrange a performance in the room where the main wedding reception will take place, but then it is better to refuse fireworks.
A beautiful performance of the speech in addition to the wedding congratulations should be recorded on disk. This can be done at the wedding or beforehand during the final rehearsal. The disc is carefully packaged, signed and presented to the newlyweds along with the main gifts from their parents. It will help preserve the memory of the very first important event in the life of the newlyweds.
Accompaniment options
In addition to the text itself and the dance part, it is worth thinking about who will perform the music. If you choose the ditty option, then it will be easiest for you. All you need is a few spoons and plates.
Ask close relatives to play along with you. Then a whole musical ensemble will appear before the guests. Such numbers always look spectacular and memorable.
There is another, no less interesting option. If there is a musical group at the wedding, you can turn to them for help. To do this, warn in advance by contacting the musicians by phone a few days before the wedding.
Perhaps they don't know the song you chose. Then they will need to prepare for the celebration. When there is also a musician-singer in the group, this simplifies the matter even more. Perhaps he will sing a musical composition with his mother so that she does not get scared and ruin her song.
Well, the simplest, but at the same time popular option is a phonogram. Using it greatly simplifies the work of both the mother and the entertainment staff. You will need to download the backing track to a flash drive in advance and approach the sound director.
Please note that a wedding song for a son from a mother is a great way to express your love . A mother is the only person who loves her child so much that she is ready to forgive him everything.
On the wedding day, it is she who is most worried and happy at the same time for such an exciting event in the life of the child. It would be useful for the son to support his mother and say that he appreciates and loves her very much.
How to avoid disagreements with your son's fiancee
It is no secret that the relationship between the mother of the groom and the daughter-in-law is often not simple and contradictory. This usually happens because women were unable to find a common language. But warm relationships between them are still possible and they are established during the first meeting and subsequent communication. And the behavior of the older woman at the wedding is of particular importance in their construction. How she will react to this event, what parting words she will choose for the newlyweds, how happy she will be for her son and what gifts and congratulations she will prepare.
If fate has given you such a gift as your son’s wedding, do not be discouraged. Such a bold step as creating your own family indicates that your efforts in raising your son were not in vain, and you managed to raise a responsible and reasonable person. On your wedding day, try to get rid of excessive sentimentality and tearfulness as they will spoil the atmosphere of the holiday for everyone present. Wedding congratulations should be without tears and unnecessary excitement, so prepare the words that you want to convey to the newlyweds in advance.
The song is a great congratulations
If you have hearing and a voice, then in such cases you sometimes present your son with a song - a congratulation on his wedding day, which is often given by mothers. When choosing a piece to congratulate the groom, they are guided by their preferences and desires. This could be: some old song by a famous artist, a self-composed piece, or the groom’s favorite track. The best option would be a choice that conveys the mother’s feelings for her son and the essence of the solemn event - the union of two loving hearts. To congratulate the groom on his wedding day from the main person in his life - his mother, a good option would be the song composition “Advice and Love”. The main thing is sincerity and the transfer of all maternal feelings and attitude towards his blood and his future wife, because it is the words of the parents that young people listen to first of all. After execution, you can add a few warm words from yourself.
Congratulations in verse or prose
A mother can congratulate her son by composing a poem with her own efforts, or take a ready-made one, or say a toast in prose. It should be remembered that if there is no creative ability at all, then it is better for the mother to choose ready-made poems (toasts). Very often the finished verse is on large greeting cards, which we often see given to newlyweds at weddings. Mom or dad read these verses directly from it and then pass it along with the gift to the newlyweds. But of course this is an option for the lazy. Don’t think that the main thing is a material gift. And poetry on a beautiful postcard is easy and common. But for example, a poem written specifically for your celebration will be very highly appreciated by both guests and newlyweds. Of course, this requires a little effort. Yes, just a little. You need to find a person (on the Internet, for example, the etxt ru exchange) who will write you poems to order of the required length and taking into account some nuances relating specifically to your family, well, at least the names of the children will be used. All you have to do is memorize or read the poems from a piece of paper. It will definitely be unforgettable! But of course it is important to remember that the verse must be read beautifully. To do this, you can practice, so to speak, on cats. You take a poem, read it first alone in front of the mirror, then look for a suitable company - someone who can really appreciate the degree of beauty and sensuality. If in the end you read the verse and everything is fine. You can order poetry from the author and prepare for the performance.
If it is also difficult to read poetry beautifully, then it is better to take a toast or some other ready-made version as a basis and retell it in your own way in prose. And let it be, since in this case a beautiful syllable and verse are no longer important, but the decisive role is played by those words that will be parting words and from the heart. In all phrases (poem, prose or toast) of congratulations, sincerity and sensuality are important.
Table words of congratulations from mother to son
Option 1. Dear newlyweds! Today is the most wonderful day, because it is your family’s birthday. And we, parents, rejoice at your happiness and are proud that you have made such a necessary and important decision. Remember this moment, children, because now there is no “I”, but there is “we”. You, son, need to become a support for your wife, love her and take care of her. You, daughter, will be the keeper of the family hearth! Take care of each other! Happiness to you, good luck, prosperity! May you live happily ever after. Bitterly!
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Option 2. Dear husband and wife, today you did not just exchange rings and vows, but decided to live as one family. Remember that family is not just a print on paper, it is love, respect and loyalty. Son, it’s scary to realize, but how quickly you have grown! You are no longer a boy, but a man, the head of the family and support for your wife. Be a support for your beloved woman, take care of her and cherish her. Then her heart will remain a beautiful bud and will not be covered with thorns. Daughter, be a faithful companion to your husband, guide him and give him your support. We are sure that if together you will succeed and you will fulfill your desires. Let your home be a full cup, let laughter never cease in it, and love, even after 50 years, burn in your hearts. All the best to you, children! Bitterly!
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Option 3. Dear children! It’s not for nothing that they say “there are no young wise men” and you have yet to experience this life. Your destinies will now be linked, and your journey is just beginning. Son, behave as a man should, be a protection for your young wife, pamper and cherish her, protect her from disappointments and sorrows. Daughter, you have become part of our family, and we are glad to have such a girl next to our son! As a woman, I want to wish you wisdom and patience - you will need them. Let the house be a full cup, and let happiness never leave it. Take care and appreciate each other! Bitterly!
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Option 4. Dear son! Just recently you were running around the house and waiting for dad and me to get home from work. The memory of our evenings together is very dear to me, but the time has come for you to start your own family! I am calm for you, because next to you is a wonderful girl whom you called your wife. Dear children! Please accept our most sincere wishes! Let your home be cozy and happy. Plant trees, raise children that you will be proud of later. Your union is the key to success in life. As long as you have each other, you will not be afraid of any troubles. I wish you happiness, prosperity and goodness! Bitterly!
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Option 5. Dear children! May your happiness and love last for many years! I am proud of the man you have become, son, and what a wonderful companion you have chosen. Family life is a cozy and calm haven, but it cannot avoid storms. Always remember and take care of each other. Then harmony will always reign in your union! Be happy every second, because these moments are unique, and time flies so quickly. I want to raise this glass to you, newlyweds! We wish that love will continue to illuminate your path and warm your family with its rays. Walk through life confidently, holding hands tightly! Bitterly!
