If a chic, luxurious wedding with a large number of guests is not your ultimate dream. And if you want to spend the main budget of the holiday on your loved ones, for example, to fly on a honeymoon or buy something useful, then you will probably be interested in how the non-ceremonial registration of marriage takes place, what documents are needed, how much to apply for such a ceremony, what to wear newlyweds and much more.
Access to the intensive care unit and to information about the patient’s health
Until recently, it was almost impossible to gain access to intensive care legally.
But in 2022, the Federal Law of May 29, 2022 No. 119-FZ “On Amendments to Articles 14 and 79 of the Federal Law “On the Fundamentals of Protecting the Health of Citizens in the Russian Federation” was adopted, which obliges medical institutions to allow visitors to see seriously ill patients. for patients - with restrictions, of course. And close relatives get the most rights to be around. The spouse is included in this number, but the cohabitant is not. The latter patient is a nobody from a legal point of view, so access may be denied. However, at other stages you may encounter problems. For example, a conclusion on the cause of death is issued only by Federal Law of November 21, 2011 No. 323-FZ “On the fundamentals of protecting the health of citizens in the Russian Federation” to close relatives.
What are the disadvantages
None.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
Cohabitants can draw up powers of attorney in advance, which will allow them to find out information about each other’s health. But most likely, simply showing it to the attending physician as a marriage certificate will not work. You will need to write an application addressed to the head physician and wait until it is considered. This will happen within 30 days.
How much time to submit an application and on what days will it be announced?
By law, your application must be considered 30 days from the date of submission, so the ceremony will take place no earlier than in a month. But there are some conditions under which you can be scheduled faster, even on the day of submitting documents, for example:
- if the girl is pregnant, especially in the last months;
- Your couple has already had a child;
- if a guy is drafted into the army;
- one of the lovers is seriously ill or someone is sent on a long business trip.
Advice. On the previously mentioned State Services portal, it is possible to book the date you like six months before the painting.
Non-ceremonial registration most often takes place on weekdays, namely from Tuesday to Thursday. After all, on Mondays most registry offices have a rest, and Friday is reserved for ceremonies.
The right not to testify against a spouse
No one is obliged to testify under the Constitution of the Russian Federation against himself or his close relatives. But if you refuse to testify against those who are not on this list, you can be punished by the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, Article 308 “Refusal of a witness or victim to testify.”
What are the disadvantages
None. The Constitution gives the right not to testify against a spouse, but does not prohibit doing so.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
No way. Unless you are subject to another law that allows you to refuse testimony. For example, a priest cannot be forced to reveal the secret of confession by Federal Law of September 26, 1997 No. 125-FZ “On Freedom of Conscience and Religious Associations.”
pros
More and more couples are not just celebrating an important event, but expressing themselves through a wedding celebration. And in the case of informal registration, too, lovers often choose it quite consciously, because it has a number of advantages:
- allows you to calmly and thoroughly prepare for the celebration - save money, plan, but in the status of official spouses, this is important for lovers who do not accept civil relations;
- makes it possible to formalize a relationship faster, without waiting months for your turn;
- relieves you of a lot of worries and worries, because non-ceremonial registration takes place quickly and calmly, without unnecessary pathos and attention;
- allows you to choose a convenient date at the time of submitting the application, rather than adjusting to the work schedule of official bodies;
- ideal for those who do not want to advertise the creation of a family for any reason;
- suitable for creative newlyweds who come up with entire scenarios for original video clips and play it off coolly;
- This procedure has less strict regulations, which gives more room for imagination in clothes, images and allows you to feel “at ease.”
Larger tax deduction
Some tax deductions can be issued not only for yourself, but also for your spouse - always an official one. For example, it is allowed to return part of the costs of treatment and the purchase of medicines for the husband or wife, pension contributions or life insurance.
Also, in a marriage, both spouses can receive a tax deduction when purchasing an apartment, even if it is registered in the name of one of them. That is, the payment could be 520 thousand instead of 260. Likewise with mortgage interest.
What are the disadvantages
None.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
Two people, even outside of marriage, can buy an apartment in half. In this case, everyone has the right, as an owner, to receive a deduction for their share. With other deductions - no way.
What is non-solemn marriage registration?
The non-ceremonial registration of marriage takes place in an official setting in one of the registry office offices. Only the bride and groom are present at the painting.
Advantages and disadvantages
Non-solemn registration of a marriage has its pros and cons. Let's look at them.
Advantages:
- Great cost savings. You can get officially married without extra costs. The couple needs to pay a small state fee. All other expenses for the wedding celebration are at the request of the future spouses.
- Possibility of quickly registering a family union. Such registrations are carried out on different days of the week and, as a rule, the registry office schedule often has free places for upcoming dates for quick registration.
- The optimal solution for modest people who avoid noisy companies and holiday bustle.
- Lack of regulations. The bride and groom can come in any clothes, without flowers, rings or other wedding accessories.
Flaws:
- Lack of a touching moment. The marriage is registered in an official setting without beautiful words and congratulations.
- You cannot invite guests to the ceremony.
The right not to pay tax on a gift
Gifts are income in intangible form. And a tax of 13% of the cost is paid. This applies to gifts worth more than 4 thousand rubles from legal entities, as well as real estate, transport and securities received as a gift from another person. An exception is made for gifts from close relatives.
If a husband gives his wife, for example, shares from a portfolio that he formed before marriage, he does not have to pay tax. If the boyfriend is a friend, he will have to.
What are the disadvantages
Gifts are considered personal property and are not divided in a divorce.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
Give money.
Price for wedding in one day
Many people who are getting married are concerned about the question: how to get married in one day and how much will it cost? Indeed, if the cost is high, it seems reasonable to wait a month. But unlike other CIS countries, on the territory of the Russian Federation the cost of a wedding for one day is also 350 rubles for the state fee. In this case, you must have a document confirming the need for urgent painting.
A marriage contract is the most important document that will eliminate many disputes in the future
Otherwise, you will have to negotiate at the registry office itself, and here the price will depend directly on the region, the popularity of the registry office, its prestige and other factors. But it is still worth noting that the classic wait of 30 days will only benefit the couple, since during this time they can thoroughly prepare for the celebration and invite their closest ones to celebrate such a memorable event.
Clear division of property
If an official marriage breaks up, everything is more or less clear. What is acquired during the marriage is divided in half, according to a marriage contract or by agreement. In each individual case there are nuances, but at least the starting points are spelled out in the laws. In this case, inheritance, gifts and premarital property are not subject to division.
For cohabitants, all this is not regulated in any way. Of course, we can talk about the highest form of justice: whoever bought what will leave with it. In practice, everything is more complicated. One bought a refrigerator, the other paid for its expensive repairs. And now it is no longer clear who owns the equipment. The man diligently paid the mortgage for the apartment registered to him, but ate entirely at the expense of his partner. As a result, housing officially belongs only to the person to whom it was registered.
What are the disadvantages
If one partner earned much more than the other, dividing the property in half may seem unfair to him. In this case, it is worth drawing up a marriage contract in advance. This can be done at any time after the wedding and even before it. True, there are important nuances:
- Only issues related to property can be specified in the contract. You cannot, say, oblige your partner to meet you in a latex suit on even days and deprive you of part of your savings for failure to comply with this rule.
- The agreement should not prejudice either party. It is a way to divide property in a way that seems fair, not a tool of punishment. So leaving the other side on the street without everything will not work.
In any case, it is better to draw up a marriage contract with a lawyer. A specialist will help you do this so that the court does not have any complaints about the text if the other party during the divorce tries to challenge the agreement.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
Cohabitants can buy housing, a car, and land in shared ownership. Moreover, it is not necessary to divide everything in half; it is quite possible in proportion to the material contribution. Otherwise, the easiest way is to maintain a separate budget and chip in for common products and entertainment. And, of course, keep receipts for purchases such as household appliances and furniture that are not registered as property.
Everything here is like in a marriage: now you have love, but when dividing property, it can easily come to light who ruined who’s whole life and generally sat on their neck.
Pay special attention to documents confirming who paid for the animal when purchasing it. Keeping your beloved dog for yourself if your partner transferred the money can be difficult.
How to celebrate a wedding without a celebration: preparing relatives
For some couples, the real problem is the reaction of relatives to the absence of a banquet and guests at the wedding.
It’s good if the family is modern and loyal enough to understand and accept your decision to get married quietly and modestly. But there are also relatives who will openly express their dissatisfaction and ruin your holiday.
Some couples find it a good idea to keep everything a secret and get married in secret. However, this will not completely solve the problem. During the ceremony you will be calm, but when everything is revealed, resentment cannot be avoided.
It is still advisable to warn friends and relatives in advance that there will be no banquet. If you have to, listen to all the arguments against your decision, and respond calmly and confidently. You shouldn't be led by other people's desires. This is your wedding, you have the right to spend it as you see fit. This is exactly what should be said to indignant relatives.
Ask your friends and family to give you this wedding gift: to let you spend this day together. In order not to offend your parents, you can invite them to register, and then the two of you can go on a trip, a restaurant, a spa, or wherever you want.
Perhaps your guests will be reassured by the fact that some time after the wedding you invite them to dinner or to a cafe to celebrate this event in a close circle. You can separate relatives and friends. Stay at home with your family, and go to a club or cafe with friends, where you will be congratulated.
Right to inheritance
The spouse is the heir of the first priority by default. A cohabitant without a will cannot receive anything.
Let's say a couple bought an apartment in half. If something happens to one of the partners, his share will be divided between his parents and children. And in their absence, brothers, sisters, grandparents will get involved. In general, everything except the roommate.
What are the disadvantages
In the event of death, everything that belonged to the person during his lifetime will be divided among the heirs. And as a result, the process may not go the way the deceased originally wanted.
Let's say the wife received an apartment as a gift from her grandmother. She would like to later give this property to her child from her first marriage. If she dies without leaving a will, and the heirs cannot reach an agreement, then the housing can easily be divided equally between the husband and all the children.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
A will should be written by a person of any age if he has any property. The document can also be challenged. But this is not as easy to do as is commonly believed. In addition, this is an official expression of will, which, at least, will not leave the possibility of speculating on the writings of what a person “really” would like.
You can also bequeath property to anyone, regardless of family ties, including your cohabitant.
Requirements for dresses
The outfit for the Wedding Palace should be:
- laconic, without fluffy skirts and blinding shimmer
- not interfering with movements
- light or pastel shades (although some brides choose bright colors, this is also acceptable)
- matching with the groom's clothes
You can buy a discreet dress of any length you like, a jumpsuit or even a suit. We show suitable options - the pictures and links under them are clickable and lead to the pages of online stores.
Automatic paternity
If a child was born in marriage, the father of the RF IC, Article 48 “Establishing the origin of a child”, is the husband of the woman giving birth. Cohabitants will have to additionally collect documents from the registry office in order to legitimize the rights of the father.
What are the disadvantages
Automatic paternity makes life easier if the child's father is a spouse. But it happens that people have not been together for a long time, but do not register the separation in the registry office. In this case, the man may not be happy with the simplicity of the procedure.
Another nuance is that paternity is assigned by default to the ex-husband if the child is born within 300 days after the divorce. On average, pregnancy lasts 294 days. It is especially inconvenient that such paternity can only be challenged through court.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
If both dad and mom recognize paternity, legitimizing it is quite simple. You need to go to the registry office or MFC and submit the appropriate application.
Average age of marriage in Russia and other countries
If we compare the average age of marriage in different countries, Russia in recent years will be closer to those who marry later. There is a tendency that the more stable a country’s economy, the higher the average age of newlyweds. Here's what the statistics say:
- The oldest newlyweds are in Europe. Residents of Great Britain, France, Holland, Norway and Italy enter into their first marriage at an average age of 32.
- Almost behind them are the USA and Spain - here first marriages usually take place at 28 and 29 years old, respectively.
- Also, 29 years is the approximate age of a newlywed in Japan. A little less - 27 years - in China.
- The average age of marriage in Russia is about 25 years.
- In different Latin American countries, this age varies from 19 to 23 years.
The earliest marriages take place in the countries of the Middle East - where the average age of newlyweds is about 17 years, despite the fact that girls are often married off before reaching 14 years of age.
Deferment from the army
The conditions for deferment from conscription service for a spouse and cohabitant are generally similar. Federal Law of March 28, 1998 No. 53-FZ “On Military Duty and Military Service”. But for the first one, one child and a wife with a pregnancy of at least 22 weeks are enough. And the second one already needs to have two children. The difference is about 20 weeks.
What are the disadvantages
None.
How to resolve the issue without registering a marriage
There are other ways to settle relations with the military registration and enlistment office. For example, entering graduate school is a less pleasant process than everything that precedes pregnancy. But candidates of science are no longer entitled to a deferment, but an exemption from conscription, Federal Law of March 28, 1998 No. 53-FZ “On Military Duty and Military Service.”
Midi dresses
10. Laconic sheath dress
BUY 11. Dress with rose sleeves.
BUY 12. Short sleeve shift dress
BUY 13. Summer dress with unusual trim
BUY 14. Formal dress with lace
BUY 15. Light dress with decorative sleeves
BUY 16. One-shoulder dress
BUY 17. Snow-white shirt dress
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18. Dress with a full skirt
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19. Dress with a frill at the hem
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20. White wrap dress
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Accommodation without temporary registration
If a person lives in another region for more than 90 days and has not completed temporary registration, he may be fined. But this does not apply to those who are staying in an apartment that belongs to his close relative, and the owner himself is registered in it. If you cohabitate, a fine of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation, Article 19.15.1 “Residence of a citizen of the Russian Federation at the place of stay or at the place of residence in a residential building without registration” cannot be avoided.
What are the disadvantages
None.
Short dresses for painting in the registry office without a celebration
1.White dress with puff sleeves.
BUY 2. White striped pleated dress.
BUY 3. Light dress for hot weather.
BUY 4. Elegant white dress with thin straps.
BUY 5. Tight dress with flounced sleeves.
BUY 6. Delicate dress with lace inserts.
BUY 7. White sundress with buttons.
BUY 8. Chanel style dress.
SHOP 9. Sleeveless dress with lace trim.
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How to choose an outfit for the bride and groom
It is unacceptable for newlyweds to appear in a sloppy, careless manner. If you want to emphasize the formality and everyday life of a situation, this can be done in an original and beautiful way. For example, “family look” - clothes in the same style (jeans, leather) or in the same color scheme will look impressive and make the couple stand out from the crowd.
It is not forbidden to wear a wedding dress, but it is unlikely to be appropriate. If you are planning a photo shoot and a restaurant, then laconic wedding dresses (without meter-long trains and tuxedos) will come in handy. In this case, accessories create the image one hundred percent: an elegant hat, a beautiful hair clip, short gloves, cufflinks, a bow tie, suspenders - this is what you need.
To feel comfortable and at the same time pay tribute to the important event, the bride can wear a stylish and well-fitting dress (evening or cocktail dress - depending on the weather and time of day), and the groom can wear a suitable suit or shirt and trousers. Hair styling, makeup, bouquet will complete the festive look.
If for newlyweds changing their status to family status is a simple formality (and in fact it is), there is no point in buying bulky wedding dresses. But it is quite appropriate to acquire simply high-quality things that will serve in everyday life.
For example, a silk shirt for the groom or an elegant dress for the bride will never be out of place in the wardrobe.
