Congratulations on your engagement in your own words

It’s great that you decided to start a family! A little more and we will have great fun at your magnificent wedding, and we wish you to enjoy every minute of preparation for this unforgettable day!

Our dears! Congratulations on such an important decision to link your hearts for life and create a wonderful family. We wish you to walk hand in hand with pure intentions and good thoughts!

Congratulations to a beautiful harmonious couple on an important life event with their engagement! We wish you marital happiness, love and fidelity, mutual understanding and harmony.

Beautiful and funny congratulations on the engagement (happy engagement day) to the newlyweds,

You're engaged now, congratulations! Let your family be strong, I wish you well-being and the best wonderful good.

Let tenderness illuminate you, May success follow you. Let love warm you, Let nothing interfere.

Let the wedding be beautiful, Only your feelings will grow stronger, I wish you happiness and tenderness, Don’t take your eyes off in love.

Take care of your responsiveness, understanding, kindness. Let our hearts give each other only tenderness and warmth.

Congratulations on your engagement, We are looking forward to the wedding. Let your eyes shine with happiness, Let love burn with fire in your hearts.

We wish you love and goodness, Let life be like in a fairy tale, After all, fate blesses you, For a long and happy journey!

Congratulations on this amazing and beautiful day itself. May your engagement be the first joyful ray.

Further, let it be even more wonderful, And life will be more magical, The main thing from now on is together, Rejoice and love!

Your hearts have gotten married and are burning with crazy fire! I wish you to go to the end, you are now together forever!

May adversity or sorrow never occur to you, May you always shine with happiness and love be read in your eyes!

We cannot fail to celebrate the long-awaited engagement. Happy holiday today. Congratulations to you, friends!

This is an important decision. This is the main step before the wedding. This means that you have firmly decided: There is no way to live without each other.

Soon you will become a family before God and people. Well, we congratulate you and wish you only love.

I wish you never experience disagreements, even though in life, perhaps, you can’t live without it! And if a quarrel suddenly happens, forgive quickly: With love in your heart, everything around is nothing!

Among hundreds and thousands, they found each other, two halves were able to meet.

With an engagement, like a thread, you tied destinies, I wish that you do not break this thread.

You go to the wedding Dear alone, To become a Happy family in the future.

Finally, you decided to consolidate the feeling with an engagement, two hearts united and fell into a mousetrap.

There is no turning back now, Love and happiness are ahead. I wish you many years and never be separated!

Congratulations on your engagement now, our dear, dear friends! We sincerely wish you great happiness, so that you never know grief.

Let your union only grow stronger, Let assorted smiles shine. May you have so much love that even two of you cannot endure it.

Congratulations on your engagement, we wish you general happiness! Let the fire of your feelings sparkle and never fade.

You have taken an important step towards family life, it’s magical! Successful wedding preparations, You are now the bride and groom!

A special day, today, for you We congratulate you on your engagement now, Be happy, always loved, Keep the feeling, yours, through the years!

Be devoted to your relationship, Go together to joint decisions. Life of happy, beautiful moments, Always the best and best impressions!

My dears, today I am happy, happiness has finally happened to you. Congratulations on your engagement day, Everyone was waiting for this, and it happened.

I only wish you eternal love, a wedding and the birth of children. Spend the best time with each other with care and tenderness!

Today, one friend, you promised to create a Family together soon. We wish you to live without melancholy and sadness, to fly and shine with wondrous happiness!

Happy engagement! And let this good date be the beginning of a long journey, So that you, our dear guys, can always walk side by side through life!

You stepped towards each other, Fate brought you together. To fall in love. You decided to build a hearth, you announced your wedding

Let your love light your way, Now you are the bride and groom. And may Faith and wonderful hope live with you in your heart.

Congratulations on your engagement! This is a very important step. We wish you consent to keep your hearth warm.

Play a loud wedding, relax at resorts. You love each other very much. Shelter your love from the snowstorm.

Congratulations on your engagement, dears! You are so happy. Always be joyful and never quarrel.

Goodness and understanding to you, Prosperous relationships, Bright and beautiful days, May your life be more fun!

Congratulations on your engagement, and the wedding is coming soon! I wish you to live amicably, without quarrels, scandals, disputes.

Let everything be like in a fairy tale: Love, wealth, children. To live in peace, affection, happier than anyone in the world!

Congratulations on your engagement. You made a big decision: She said yes to him! and agreed to such a tempting offer.

Congratulations on your engagement, we wish you happiness and all the best. It was not easy to decide, we know, to take this important step.

Even though you are not married yet, take care of each other. May the date come quickly when you will be called spouses.

My dear, beloved, I congratulate you on your engagement. Today, my dear ones, I wish you great love. I wish you to remain forever in love, beautiful, as tender, passionate, and as if vulnerable as children!

Happy engagement day, I congratulate you on a wonderful couple. This day is important and responsible in your life.

Today you made your choice And now you go on your own Dear.

I wish that She will be smooth for you and lead your couple to a happy wedding.

Two pairs of happy eyes are sparkling, Today is a special day for you. You have sealed your relationship with an engagement, having voluntarily made such a decision!

We congratulate you on this event, we always wish you to be the happiest. Appreciate: love, your strong feelings, So that every minute you love everything sweeter!

Timidly, quietly, serenely, 2 hearts gathered, Unite into 1 Heart To build a family!

We wish you a wedding that is magnificent, beautiful, bright and full of love, as sweet and naive, so that it can be carried through the years.

May your family be strong, may your life be cheerful and bright, and no “brawl” can destroy your happiness!

You're engaged beautifully! Congratulations on this. Beautiful, tender, clear feelings, May everything be classy for you.

Let life be, we wish, Like a magical sweet dream, Let love not fade away, Let hearts beat in unison.

You have decided to get married, This is a wise decision, We congratulate you on your engagement and wish you inspiration!

Preparing for the wedding will be Easy, quick and simple. Be happy, dear ones, Love and peace await you.

Congratulations on your engagement Ruffles! Let their eyes burn with love, Let a good union develop, And let the fact of family ties be pleasant.

Grow and strive for your dreams, Have a successful journey to new shores, Understanding, respect, Keep, Give birth to desired children, happy ones!

I congratulate you on your engagement. A little more and you will become a family. I wish that your light does not go out, that everything you dream about comes true.

I wish you an easy family life, so that you are always, always nearby, so that everything goes smoothly in your marriage, and the rings warm your hearts!

Let everyone remember this time, The engagement has already begun. I wish the young people unbridled happiness, so that every dream they have comes true.

Congratulations on your engagement, our dears! You have now opened the door to a new world. You brought the desired wedding day closer, You gave your hearts to each other.

Now live without parting, May your days be full of love only. And now we are taking a promise from you, That soon we will shout at your wedding: “bitter!”

Engagement is your promise And a sure farewell to your past life. Now you must live for each other: And trust, and love faithfully!

I wish you a long, happy life, May you work faithfully like bees, Always try to understand each other And remain so young!

So that happiness does not fade from strife, and everything is resolved peacefully in conversations. May God bless you with patience and live with you in the warmth of home!

Congratulations on your engagement. This is a very important event! It will bring development to your fairy-tale novel.

Everything is just beginning, Everything will be again for you. Oh, how many Doors are opening for you now!

Congratulations for this bold step! Let's leave instructions, Bless your marriage!

This is an important decision in life: Promise to love until the end. We wish you your vow Never, never forget!

Let everything work out and come together. You look forward boldly. Well, if there are any troubles, then let it heal before the wedding!

You may not be a family yet, but you will become one very soon. Therefore, I wish you to always keep and cherish each other!

May warmth live forever in your hearts, And may happiness in your soul never smolder, But if suddenly something goes wrong, May love always reconcile and warm you!

You made a vow today, Do not break it over the years, May your Path be illuminated by light, An angel will always be behind you!

Please accept congratulations on your engagement, Your long-awaited day has come, Your heart is trembling with happiness, A whole century is ahead - so long-awaited!

You will live it together, friends, be patient and wise, so that life is beautiful, and difficulties rarely arise!

The rhythms of your hearts have united, the soul has found its soul mate. Even if you haven’t gotten married yet, you’ve already stepped onto the same path.

We congratulate you on your engagement, friends. Sincere smiles, family warmth! We wish you a lot of joy and happiness. And may love live with you all your life!

Solemnly you made promises to love, respect and honor each other. The moment of acquaintance and dating has passed. Now we will wait for the wedding.

The guests hope to gather again at the wedding reception. On the occasion of today's engagement, we wish you love and understanding!

Soon you will be standing next to the registry office, Soon the guests will rush in in festive attire.

In anticipation of the celebrations, we will all raise a toast in your honor on your engagement day and shout “bitterly”!

Congratulations on the wedding of a friend

Well, friend, hurray! You're a wife! And even though you are now deprived of freedom, But how much happiness is in your heart, You and your husband are now together forever! We wish you not to know troubles and grief, To always receive positive things from marriage, So that your romance does not fade away with everyday life, So that everything in life goes like clockwork! Lots of smiles for you, more children, and don’t forget about old friends!

Love to you - the purest, Family to you - the strongest. Let the sun be radiant, Let the birds sing on the branches. Today - still a bride, And tomorrow - already a wife. I wish you to always be together, love and respect each other. I also wish you the most beautiful children. I feel... No, I know you will be a good mother. I wish you harmony in the family, flowers every day from your spouse and much, much happiness. With love, your friend.

My dear friend! Today I want to share your joy with you. After all, today is the most important day for you - you are starting a new life. Let there be room only for joy, love and mutual understanding. Let your feelings grow stronger day by day. I wish you to be surrounded by care, affection and warmth. And, of course, lovely children. Be happy in your marriage, my friend!

You're married now, friend. I would like to wish you that your life will bloom with your spouse, but don’t forget about your friends. I wish you many happy years. Well, more kids! Health, happiness and wealth, Only good news in life!

You and I have known each other for a long time, You have become close and dear to me, like a sister. Dear, dear friend, I congratulate you on your marriage! May life in marriage be wonderful: Full of devotion, affection and love. And sometimes tender, and sometimes passionate! Let the sparkle fill your eyes with happiness.

Friend, it’s no secret that getting married How to live life is not a field to cross. Already a wife, and soon you will become a mother, But don’t sit locked up, dear! Please don’t forget your girlfriends: When you’re bored, call quickly. I always look forward to visiting, both alone and with my husband, After all, you are closer to me than my numerous relatives. I wish you charming children, warmth of soul and tenderness of avalanches. May your life be like paradise, May there be abundance of happiness and love. Be a faithful, devoted wife to your husband, Be a sensitive mother, loved by your children. Try to feel and understand each other and remain close people.

Congratulations, my friend, And remember that the most important thing in life is family. I wish you comfort, warmth, so that your love will be eternal. And now, as they say everywhere, keep your husband with a tight rein. Friend in the arc, don’t doubt it one bit, rather try with the kids there. I wish you bright sunshine, I wish you happiness, Be yourself, my dear. Live without quarrels, be a friendly family, so that we all have a golden walk at the wedding!

My dear friend, congratulations on your wedding. I sincerely wish you great and unearthly love and happiness, beautiful, very warm days, hot and sleepless nights. So that the smell of coffee and a bouquet of roses will always be waiting for you when you wake up! So that your most tender and beloved one carries you in his arms, And your union, your whole life would be protected by the Lord. May God send many children, may happiness measure out in a cup, and may your home be covered with a white angel’s wing all the time!

Happy wedding day, friend, I congratulate you and wish you happiness in your married life. May this bright day be remembered by you, And the flame of love not dim over the years. I also wish you more patience, and for your husband - admiration for your wife. I wish my friend to be proud of her husband and strive for the same goals together. And if there are problems, then withstand it steadfastly. Hurray for the young! Let's say cheerfully: “Bitter!”

On your wedding day, my friend, I want to wish you great happiness. So that your husband is a lover, a spouse, and can become a good friend to you. So that he respects and admires you, and appreciates all your merits. So that he remains alone with you forever and only loves you alone!

Mendelssohn's march plays, The rings sparkle with gold, The eyes glow with happiness, Like turquoise in the sun. I'm happy for you, friend, Respect each other, Take care and appreciate, Adore and love. You will be a good wife, You will have more wonderful days. Tender, sweet nights and healthy children.

Congratulate you on your engagement in your own words. Engagement wishes in prose, congratulations in your own words

Finally, a wonderful day has come, Happy, it is the beginning of all beginnings. On the day of matchmaking, mutual understanding, For the young - success and attention. May this day bring light to life, And preserve love for many years.

So, they got the bride, Everyone decided to have a wedding. I wish you, dear ones, to truly, truly love.

Let everything turn out as it should, In your young life, I wish that the fire in the heart of Passion does not go out.

There will be two families rejoicing together, The groom came today to woo the bride.

The embarrassed bride gives consent - This means the matter is leading us to the wedding.

The bride and groom are sitting, smiling happily, happily matchmaking, hugging each other.

I congratulate everyone on successful matchmaking, I invite you to be guests at the wedding.

Your matchmaking today, this, brothers, is an important step, in the life of a bachelor today you have raised a white flag.

I tenderly congratulate you on this wonderful event, Let your young family be strong and happy.

Congratulations on your matchmaking - everything was done as it should be! And we excitedly wish you a magnificent wedding ahead!

Special wishes for matchmaking, After all, this is the beginning of all other beginnings - Let the relationship always be good, So that everyone always respects each other.

Congratulations on your matchmaking! Everyone is happy: the bride and groom, And the relatives look at them with tenderness and great joy!

Let this couple be happy, And putting aside false boasting, Let us be proud of the young, because it’s not for nothing that this matchmaking went well!

Your matchmaking is today, Congratulations, young people, I wish that you will always be a faithful couple.

The decision has already been made, the wedding is just around the corner, may the grace of heaven be Forever, guys, with you.

Let love be endless, Live in peace only, richly! We wish you extraordinary feelings, only a positive charge!

Congratulations on your engagement. Let this step be the beginning of a great era for your family. I wish you to live your whole life as lovebirds, I wish you to turn every day into a holiday of love and happiness for each other.

Competent preparation for matchmaking

This ritual has always been a sign of respect for the parents of the chosen one. In order to properly prepare for the event, you should carefully consider how matchmaking takes place on the part of the groom and what is done first.

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Preparation highlights

The entire initiative is initially in the hands of the young man. After proposing marriage to the beloved and receiving her consent, preparations begin for a visit to the house of the bride’s parents.

Despite the dramatic changes in ancient traditions, preparation for the upcoming celebration begins with the choice:

matchmakers;
matchmaking dates;
gifts.

In order to please the bride's parents and convince them of the worthiness of the candidate, the choice of all of the above should be taken responsibly. Each of the points has its own nuances and requires detailed consideration.

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Selecting matchmakers according to the rules

The main role of matchmakers is to extol the merits of the groom to the betrothed's parents. These people should be cheerful and open by nature, talkative and friendly. It’s good if they have had similar experience and know how to conduct matchmaking on the part of the groom. According to tradition, candidates must be approved by the boy's parents.

Relatives, godparents, a respected family friend, or a professional matchmaker are usually chosen as matchmakers. Sometimes the parents themselves become matchmakers. There are many cases where the groom takes on this important role. Still, the role of matchmakers is invaluable; they will always help, defuse the situation, or even save the situation.

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Features of determining the date for the ceremony

Modern matchmaking does not involve unexpected visits. Such an important event takes place in the bride’s house, so the date must be agreed upon with her parents. When choosing a date, you should also take into account the traditions and wisdom of your ancestors, who know exactly how to carry out matchmaking competently. They believed that the right choice of date contributes to the success of the event.

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Selection of gifts for the bride's parents

Before the event, a young man buys flowers. For your beloved - flowers symbolizing tenderness, for your future mother-in-law - denoting respect and honor. If the bride’s grandmother or married sister will be present at the celebration, then you should take care of bouquets for them.

In order to properly conduct matchmaking and please with gifts, it would be useful to consult with the bride. You can buy good alcohol, an expensive pen or wallet as a gift for your future father-in-law. Mother-in-law - an original carved candle, a talisman for the home, a beautiful scarf, household items.

According to tradition, the groom buys his beloved a ring with a stone, his mother a gold chain. Giving gifts is desirable, but not necessary, it all depends on desire and material well-being. Matchmakers can also bring gifts: deli meats, sweets, a fruit basket, alcohol.

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Nowadays, there are no clear rules on how matchmaking takes place, but there are certain points that should be adhered to.

On the appointed day, the groom and his matchmakers come to the parents of his beloved.
From the doorway, the matchmakers talk about the purpose of their visit and talk about the merits of the young man.
The groom then talks about his feelings and intentions towards his beloved. He promises to protect and take care of her, to be a good husband and father.
The bride's parents confirm their consent to the marriage. The father joins the hands of the young people, and the mother invites everyone to the table.
Next, the groom gives flowers and gifts. The rest of the guests also do not lag behind with congratulations and gifts.
During the ceremonial feast, questions about the upcoming marriage are resolved.

In order for the matchmaking ceremony to be carried out correctly and not turn into a boring and uninteresting formality, you should draw up a script, write all the speeches, words, and prepare all sorts of proverbs and sayings. The groom should also think about his attire. Traditionally, you should wear a classic suit.

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Congratulations on your engagement in your own words. Congratulations on your engagement in prose

The more original and funny your toasts are at the matchmaking ceremony, the less tense the atmosphere will reign at your meeting. Smile and speak from the heart.

Matchmaking toasts can be quite short and concise. If it is difficult for you to remember long congratulations, try to fit your wish into a couple of lines.

Congratulations on your engagement, may you always be happy! Carry your feelings, passion and happiness through the years!

Congratulations, young people, today we drink to the dregs! Let there be so much love that there is no time to sleep!

Congratulations on your engagement! Now all that’s left to do is hold a magnificent wedding! Congratulations to the newlyweds on their new status as bride and groom!

Matchmaking wishes in your own words

Our dears! Congratulations on such an important decision - to link your hearts for life and create a wonderful family. We wish you to walk hand in hand with pure intentions and good thoughts!

It’s great that you decided to start a family! A little more - and we will have great fun at your magnificent wedding, and we wish you to enjoy every minute of preparation for this unforgettable day!

Our dears, very soon you will become husband and wife, but for now we wish you to enjoy your new status as bride and groom! Hooray!

You took a step towards each other, Fate brought you together. Loved it. You decided to build a hearth together, and announced your wedding.

Let your love illuminate your path, Now you are the bride and groom. And may Faith and wonderful hope live with you in your heart.

Your hearts are engaged, And they burn with crazy fire! I wish you to go to the end, you are now together forever!

May adversity or sorrow never occur to you, May you always shine with happiness and love be read in your eyes!

Congratulations on your wedding - you're engaged, yay! May a tsunami of happiness and goodness fall upon you. You are an ideal couple, Let everything remain like this, More joy, good luck, Less sorrows, losses!

Live as long as possible, so that there will be even more benefits, and in fact, may God grant you health, which is more valuable than anything else, stronger strength, the love of friends, and many bright, warm days!

Congratulations on your engagement, guys! Let everything be as you want. Let love be endless, And listen to these words:

We will soon celebrate the wedding together, Let's drink to the happiness of the newlyweds. You need to take care of each other, There are no others like you.

So let love and happiness overwhelm everything around. They will save you from bad weather, troubles, insults, quarrels and separations!

Happy engagement to you! We wish you much happiness. How wonderful it is that love burns in hearts. Let the entire road together be as beautiful as an alley covered in flowers.

Let the relationship grow three times stronger, like a tree’s roots, and go deep. We wish you to live longer on Earth, And may your feelings never die.

And promise to cherish each other, not to leave each other in happiness or in trouble. And never violate this, Do not betray your union anywhere.

We congratulate you on your engagement today, You have confirmed your decision, That you will be together: always and now, Thank you for letting us know.

There is only one step left towards the family, Let this step be cheerful. It’s called a wedding, otherwise it’s a marriage. Don’t laugh, it’s a good word!

So let your union be happy, And we sincerely wish that there will be no grief and painful ties. Let's have a walk at the wedding now!

I wish you a long, happy life, May you work devotedly like bees, Always try to understand each other And remain so young!

So that happiness does not fade from strife, and everything is resolved peacefully in conversations. May God bless you with patience and live with you in a warm home!

Congratulations on your engagement, You have found each other cleverly, Live just as cleverly And die together one day!

Did it really all happen, did it all come true, did you fall in love with each other so much that it took until the wedding!

Congratulations on your engagement, And we will come to the celebration, We will congratulate you brightly and loudly, We will drink sweet wine!

May you live a very long life, in prosperity, happiness and love, May your feelings sound loud, and may your dreams come true!

We cannot fail to celebrate the long-awaited engagement. Happy holiday today. Congratulations to you, friends!

Soon you will become a family before God and people. Well, we congratulate you and wish you only love.

Our Bride is modest, the Groom is serious and silent. Congratulations on your engagement! With a lot of effort, see you at your wedding! And then - then, friends, we would like to take a walk like this, so that all the relatives will remember!

Our beloved friends, We wish you to become family, We wish you to love to the end and be together in this world. No matter how life turns, you just don’t lose each other. Friends, be together forever and let the blizzard rest.

I will never leave you, I will always be by your side. I congratulate you on your engagement and I want you to be mine!

Since a wedding is a fun and fiery holiday, comic toasts at a fun wedding are almost always received by guests with a bang!

I wish you to remember every minute that you are together. Do everything together: your common decisions will be correct, and common problems will be solved faster, as a result, joy will become limitless! Love to you!

One husband had a dream that he was young and single and asked for his wife’s hand in marriage. She refused him and he woke up happy.

One glorious ruler was asked how he managed to maintain peace among the inhabitants of the kingdom for many years. He replied:

It's all about balance: when I'm angry, my people try to remain calm. When they are angry, I am calm.

The great Honore De Balzac said that in order to preserve love and find lasting family happiness, you need to be in search all the time - look for outstanding qualities in your soul mate.

Soon you will become a family, I wish you to enter a new life with positivity, a sea of joy and love.

Congratulations on your engagement. A very important step has been taken. Let your guys have a wonderful and reliable marriage.

Let the wedding be beautiful, Only your feelings will grow stronger, I wish you happiness and tenderness, Don’t take your eyes off in love.

Take care of your sensitivity, understanding, kindness. Let our hearts give each other only tenderness and warmth.

We congratulate you on your engagement and look forward to your wedding. Let your eyes shine with happiness, Let love burn with fire in your hearts.

We wish you love and goodness, Let life be like in a fairy tale, After all, fate blesses you, For a long and happy journey!

Congratulations on this wonderful and beautiful day. May your engagement be the first joyful ray.

Among hundreds and thousands, they found each other, two halves were able to meet.

With an engagement, like a thread, you tied the destinies, I wish that you do not break this thread.

You go to the wedding Dear alone, So that in the future you can become a Happy family.

Finally, you decided to consolidate your feelings with an engagement, two hearts united and fell into a mousetrap.

There is no turning back now, Love and happiness are ahead. I wish you long years and never be separated!

Today you have taken only the first step towards a long and happy life together! I want to wish you all earthly blessings, strong love, mutual and beautiful!

I wish you never experience disagreements, even though in life, apparently, you can’t live without it! And if a quarrel suddenly, quickly forgive: With love in the heart, everything around is a trifle!

Congratulations on this wonderful and beautiful day. May your engagement be the first joyful ray. Then let it be even more wonderful, And life will be more magical, The main thing is from now on, together, Rejoice and love!

Engagement - poems, wishes

the first step and wonderful.
Love good luck together, kind happy tears.You found that you are not smoldering, I wish you a familySoon the guests will rush For the wedding happen Let the love be brightFor life together friend always a friend, news and happyI’ll press you to your lips, I was looking for give sincere joy of events, sincere joy a ring as a keepsake, This is the main thing in so suddenly something So that flowers are prepared nearby, Remember your engagement. here! Long and beautiful

I want to wish you care. and eternal love. An armful of roses, and fate. will go, you always, always, Festive speeches, years of life to you all the best on earth, Engagement is an important Congratulations on an important decision tender look.

And today in May you love So that everything works out And the cakes confession are ordered The groom is serious, silent. We wish. Strong love, mutual step, and an event in I love you, let honor of engagement

always reconciles And colored candles.Only strengthen the chosen ones Congratulations on your engagement May your life be beautiful!Fate gives you a happy life - with to cry... These lines are about warms! the marriage is smooth, In anticipation of the celebrations

union, you! flows like a river, I wish you discord a sign. on the day of engagement. I wish And with all my soul This is important in life And the rings warmed All of us Increase the charm of youth With a lot of effort,Without knowing any not knowing,We are from the heart happily continue the hug you started. A wedding is not a decision - our hearts! , I wish And the singing of sparrows

just around the corner Promise to the end Congratulations on your long-awaited engagement! Let's raise a toast to the wedding! ", The best love is nearby. You are the door in your honor Be faithful friend And then with your head, no way! we wish. harmony and peace,

And the sweetness of words, Prince We wish you a new world now And let's shout to your friend you are doomed! , so that in what you say,I tenderly opened your oath. “Bitter!” Engagement for the first friends,Two halves into one suddenly, quickly forgive: like a fairy tale, prosperity reigned in the house And the happiness of the days and comfort, I wish spring May, From those gathered to forget! brought the desired one closer, we are engaged to you! , prosperity and That dear - persons. Let everything work outYour hearts friend You have confirmed the decision,Friends, decided together Remember so that all and beautiful your trifle!Let there be joy, good luck. you are with me Let love come together - given to a friend. That you will be together: You two destinies are related! life, peace, success is just around the corner! With all my heart I create….

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Congratulations to the newlyweds on their engagement

You gave each other your word, swore love forever, and with your engagement you made us all happy again! And now we are looking forward to the wedding, and we want to convey the blessings of our relatives to you!

On this beautiful, glorious day, you decided it was time! And they set the main day, It will come soon, hurray! We congratulate you on your engagement. We are very happy for you, and with all our hearts we wish you great love now!

Today you gave Declarations of Love! And together you are going to go through life! We are happy to congratulate you on this wonderful day! And no matter what happens, you remember him!

Wishes to the groom's parents

The groom's parents take an active part in matchmaking. Initially, his closest relatives were sent as assistants to the groom. At the same time, the parents remained at home.

If the bride's answer was positive, the parents went to visit in person. Currently, the situation has changed dramatically. It is the parents and siblings who go to matchmaking.

The man is the head of the family. Therefore, it is extremely important to raise a strong, purposeful and courageous guy. The parents of our groom, Nikolai, managed to do this. I would like to congratulate them on this happy day. Your son made a balanced and thoughtful decision. He took responsibility for the entire family. Thank you for such a strong-willed young man. We congratulate you on your matchmaking day and wish you to continue to enjoy the fruits of your upbringing and rejoice for the family of your beloved son.
Today the first serious step in the life of a new family was taken. I would like to congratulate not only them, but also the parents, thanks to whom everything happened. Thanks to the groom's parents for helping the children find each other and unite their union with official ties. Thanks to your instructions and upbringing, the children were able to make the right choice, setting life priorities.
Notice how the young people's eyes glow with happiness. But if you look at other married couples, you may encounter an even brighter light. Parents who have invested a lot in raising their child are much happier for you. Thanks to their parents, children have become full-fledged individuals. And now they can only sincerely rejoice and glow with happiness.

How does matchmaking happen?

Since the father and mother did not mind giving their daughter to the groom, they treated the guests to a pie, and often greeted them with a loaf of bread. A joint meal meant that an engagement would soon take place.
if they wanted to refuse a guy, they returned the whole loaf to him.
The most successful day for matchmaking is Pokrov (October 14).
It is not customary to get married on Wednesday, Friday or the 13th day of the month.
negotiations were carried out standing, as if on the move, so that the marriage would take place as quickly as possible.
On the way to the bride's house they remained silent, and left after sunset, fearing the evil eye.

There are no clear rules for conducting matchmaking on the part of the groom, but it can take place in two versions: the first, when only matchmakers come from the groom, the second, when the groom also participates in the ceremony

The bride's parents appreciate the attention of the groom; it is customary to give them small gifts. The groom must bring flowers to the mother of the bride and the girl herself.

It is customary to give the father expensive cigars, tobacco or alcohol. If he has no bad habits at all, it is better to check the gift options with his beloved. And she may well ask her father directly. This will not be considered shameful.

Both ancient and modern versions of matchmaking on the part of the groom imply that the conversation is conducted by the matchmakers. The groom must remain silent and answer questions from the bride’s parents. According to tradition, matchmaking begins with the words: “We have a product, you have a merchant...”, that is, guests from the threshold inform about the purpose of arrival. When they have already entered the house, the matchmakers praise the groom, talk about his qualities, education, skills, successes and prosperity. Then the bride's parents talk about her. The young man is asked questions about his plans for life, his fiancee, his attitude towards children, religion, if this is a critical question. Very often, topics are discussed that the bride and groom have not even touched upon. And if all is well, the matchmaking ends with a positive decision from the parents.

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Then they already agree on the viewing, when the bride and her parents come to the groom’s house. And there is already a discussion of issues directly related to the wedding day: budget, guests, date and much more.

If you still want matchmaking to be in a folk style, then do not forget that matchmakers should be fiery, talkative and without complexes, so that the tradition does not turn into a boring duty. Everything could go something like this:

The groom arrives at the bride's house along with his matchmakers. Seeing him, the guests and bridesmaids exclaim: “Matchmakers! The matchmakers are coming! " The girls sing folk songs about love, which are certainly joyful. Funny, catchy ditties are also suitable for this.

Upon entering the house, the groom presents flowers and gifts to the parents and the bride. If it is the first time meeting the parents, then the father is given a gift first. It would be nice to bring a real loaf of bread into the house.

After that, guests are asked to go to the festive table.

The groom's matchmakers report that it would be nice to bring the bride, saying: “You have goods, but we have a merchant!”

The bride's parents praise their daughter, all her virtues and skills.

Next, the groom will communicate his feelings and intentions towards the bride and asks her parents for her hand in marriage. It would be very nice if it was in poetic form.

If consent is received, then the father of the bride joins the hands of the newlyweds and the parents bless them for the union.

Today, matchmaking remains only a tribute to tradition. But this ritual is very important from the point of view that it allows us to clarify many issues in advance. Indeed, at this moment, the elders seem to share their experience with the young, finding out those details that the young may not think about due to their age. And it is much better if life together begins with the consent of all parties.

You can see one example of matchmaking on the part of the groom in the video:

Matchmaking scenario from the groom's side - how to conduct the ceremony

Matchmaking by the groom is a unique folk tradition that has gone through many transformations, but is still present in modern reality. As social foundations and conventions changed, matchmaking underwent certain changes and acquired new forms.

If in the old days a matchmaker came to the bride’s parents and brought the matter to a close, today the groom comes to them to inform them together with the bride about the decision to get married.