Many young couples want to make their holiday unforgettable, unique, memorable. An idea like a fairytale-style wedding is suitable for this. However, this event is not easy to organize, because it will require a carefully thought-out script. Involve your imaginative friends in this creative process. Then preparation will turn into an exciting activity and you won’t need the help of a fairy godmother or a magic wand, because all the magic lies in the hearts of lovers.
How to organize a wedding in a fairytale style
To organize a fairytale style wedding you need:
- decide on the concept, that is, choose a certain fairy tale;
- make invitation cards whose design will refer the guest to the chosen style;
- choose a venue for a banquet or wedding ceremony, think through the interior decor in a fairytale style;
- decide on the groom’s suit, the bride’s outfit, and the dress code for fairy-tale style wedding guests;
- think over the roles that relatives and friends will play at a fairy-tale wedding;
- choose the appropriate transport for a walk, a trip to the registry office for a fairy-tale style wedding;
- make sure that the celebration of fairy-tale style is captured by cameramen and photographers.
A fairy tale is a whole world that can be different. This theme has hundreds of embodiments, it is simply limitless! Among the fabulous celebrations, the most interesting are:
- “Alice in Wonderland” - in the morning the bride and groom go on a journey through the looking glass when the heroes of the fairy tale come to their home. Various transformations, practical jokes, and surprises await those invited to the venue of the celebration. You can issue invitations in the form of a flash drive or a disk with a video recorded: a fairy-tale style invitation to a tea party in the county of the Cheshire Cat.
- An elven wedding is an airy, tender, fairy-tale story of two hearts in love. The wedding should be decorated in pastel colors. The bride appears to the guests from a huge flower, a fantastic wedding ceremony takes place, where the guests are dressed in elf costumes, and their queen conducts the registration. This fairy tale story looks very beautiful.
- “Cinderella” - the groom in the role of a handsome prince comes in an old carriage with white horses to pick up his beloved. At a fairytale wedding, guests are greeted by the king and various nobles. The event program includes dancing (polka, minuet), surprises and magic tricks. The hosts play the role of a good fairy and an evil stepmother, entertaining guests with sparkling jokes and unexpected twists in the script.
- Oriental fairy tale - draping the room with airy fabrics, candles, lamps, carpets, and various magical objects will help you organize such a wedding. The newlyweds and guests must be dressed appropriately.
- A fairy tale of medieval style - the surroundings of a castle-style hotel will be an excellent setting. Shields, swords, knightly symbols, and a candlelit feast will help create a romantic old-time image.
- Russian fairytale wedding - a mix of famous folk tales is compiled with the participation of a variety of heroes, which depends on the time of year and space. The groom can undergo tests instead of ransom, fighting with evil spirits. He finds a casket containing the key to his beloved's heart. A goldfish at a fairy-tale style celebration can fulfill the wishes of guests.
- A Wizard of Oz-themed wedding is suitable for any season. The main colors of the celebration are gold, crimson and emerald. A fairy tale style wedding is a journey to the land of Oz, where the newlyweds will find happiness. Venue: fashionable loft, castle, estate, classic restaurant. For decor, combine retro and fairy-tale details, for example, magic shoes, magical star dust, jars of potion. To entertain guests, there is a soap bubble show, predictions from an astrologer, and a performance by an illusionist.
- A wedding in the style of “Sleeping Beauty” - the bride wakes up from the kiss of her beloved prince. This is where the celebration begins. The main attributes of a wedding are thrones for the newlyweds, red poisonous apples, multi-colored light bulbs, and candlesticks. For a photo shoot, you should choose a picturesque landscape.
All these scenarios are based on fairy-tale plots with a set of magical elements, characteristic characters, and a special atmosphere. Once the concept has been chosen, it is worth thinking about the venue. Find a picturesque corner, for example, a beautiful pond, a forest edge. For the warm season, the ideal solution is a fairy-tale style wedding in nature. For colder weather, choose ancient estates, castles, palaces. Find the place that will reflect the idea of your fairy-tale action:
- For a Russian folk tale, a rustic setting, a folk-style cafe, or a forest landscape with a river or lake are suitable.
- To organize an oriental-style wedding, choose an Arabic restaurant, a picturesque corner in nature, where you will need to build stylized tents.
- The bright palace style hall is suitable for any fairytale wedding. During the day it should be permeated with light, and in the evening it should shine with the reflections of a luxurious chandelier. Candles, lanterns, and garlands will help recreate a special atmosphere.
Give me the carriage
What is a fairy tale without a luxurious means of transportation, or even a real white or gold carriage drawn by graceful horses? When ordering a carriage, consider the time of year. In cold or rainy seasons, it is better to give preference to closed structures. Be sure to test drive the wedding float before placing your order. Many couples, having decided on a “fairytale” wedding, choose a photo session in the form of a horseback ride. Photos with these noble animals really look amazingly fabulous, although they require additional effort, like all photography with animals. For example, horses do not like the smell of perfume and are frightened of brides in huge ball gowns, even if they have already met the bride in advance. Be sure to consult with a photographer and trainer about these and other nuances.
Image of the bride and groom
Choosing outfits for a fairy-tale style wedding leaves a lot of room for imagination. If you are a creative person, then enthusiastically start watching your favorite fairy tales, cartoons, and leafing through your favorite book plots. You can sketch out a sketch and go to a tailor to implement it. Depending on the chosen theme, the bride can become for one day:
- a Russian princess in a kokoshnik and an embroidered sundress;
- an exquisite European princess in a snow-white fluffy dress with a crinoline, open shoulders, a crown, a veil with a tiara;
- an oriental beauty in natural silks, organza, brocade with gems;
- a medieval lady in a long dress made of dark luxurious fabric.
The spouse will also need to decide on the image:
- for an Arabian fairy tale, order a two-piece European costume, made with oriental luxury;
- for a medieval theme, a velvet elegant camisole is suitable;
- tailcoat and bow tie - for the groom in the European fairytale style.
Choose your story
Before global preparations for the holiday begin, ask yourself the question - what kind of fairy tale heroine do you want to be? Where is your princess from? The answers to these questions will help you build a concept for the future holiday - from the princess’s outfit to the dishes of the festive table. Don't deviate from the main idea, trying to collect as many fairy-tale elements as possible. With this approach, you risk turning a romantic story into a hodgepodge of Russian-folk sundresses and Cinderella’s shiny shoes.
Guest attire
The outfits of wedding guests should correspond to the theme of the celebration. Mostly girls prefer lush, beautiful dresses and jewelry with precious stones. You can definitely decorate your hair with beautiful hair clips. Men can choose elegant tuxedos, tailcoats, and black classic suits. But in general, the dress code for each fairy tale theme is individual. Discuss your wedding style with the heroes of the occasion: they may suggest you dress up as certain characters.
Dress code for guests
If your celebration requires a specific dress code, make this known to guests in your winter wedding invitations. Send them in early so that you have time to find outfits.
It will be great if you can prepare boutonnieres for all male guests and small bracelets with flowers/twigs for beautiful ladies, and for the photo shoot everyone can bring scarves and mittens in the same color scheme.
Advice! If you move away from the classic style, you can invite the groom's friends to come in cozy knitted sweaters.
Wedding decoration in fairytale style
When you have decided on the venue for a fairytale wedding, think about making every guest who comes to the celebration feel like they are at a magical celebration. To do this, you will need to appropriately decorate the room where the ceremony will take place. Style is created by details, so choose garlands with shimmering figures, translucent curtains, unusual lighting, and magical music. Use your imagination, and then an ordinary dining room can become a fabulous corner.
Winter weddings are especially fun to decorate. Decorative snowflakes, garlands of silver balls, pearl stars, spectacular compositions made using snow-covered tree branches, thoughtful lighting - such details will make guests gasp with delight when they find themselves in a real winter fairy tale. Watch films on the chosen topic and try to recreate the same atmosphere at the holiday that is captured in the footage.
Peculiarities
Before you decide to exchange rings in winter, you need to carefully weigh the pros and cons.
The objective advantages of a winter wedding are:
- the ability to organize an event in the shortest possible time;
- prices for all services, from restaurant rental to dress rental, are significantly lower than in summer (with the exception of New Year holidays);
- there is no crazy queue to register a marriage at the registry office;
- the presence of beautiful landscapes for a fabulous photo shoot, especially if the photo walk on your wedding day is in a winter forest;
- the opportunity to enjoy unique competitions and winter activities: snowball fights, skating rink;
- a wide selection of decor for the banquet hall, taking into account the theme of the celebration;
- originality and beauty of the bride's outfit using interesting accessories: a fur coat and muff, for example.
On the other side of the scale are the disadvantages of holding a wedding in winter:
- unpredictability of weather, which can ruin plans for a photo shoot;
- the likelihood of getting sick after the event (or before it), if it occurs at the height of a seasonal epidemic;
- the impossibility of a long photo walk through memorable places;
- the risk of getting faded photographs due to the merging of the bride’s white dress with the snow if the photographer is poorly chosen;
- unavailability of some vegetables and fruits.
If you take into account the problems associated with bad weather and look for solutions in advance, it is obvious that there are many more benefits.
Invitations for guests
When the fabulous wedding scenario acquires new details, and the main line is already clearly visible, it is worth thinking about such little things as invitations. Guests will understand where you are calling them, not only from the text. Everyone who receives it will be happy to keep the original invitation as a keepsake. Introduce your guests into your fairy tale in a special way - use different forms of cards, paper, fonts. Choose invitations that will echo the theme of the wedding.
Entertainment examples
When choosing entertainment, you should start from the given theme.
An example for a winter wedding in the “Winter’s Tale” style: act out the story of the struggle between good and evil in an open area near a restaurant or in the forest (if you rented a mansion). To do this, all guests are divided into two teams and begin a snowball fight. And when good wins (it always wins), the groom launches fabulous fireworks.
If a photo walk in the park before the banquet is planned together with the guests, you can arrange a slide or ice skating.
There are also universal ideas for entertaining those gathered: on the second day, a friendly group can go to the forest on skis or to the mountains to enjoy snowboarding and skiing.
Banquet hall decoration
The decoration of the wedding hall should fully correspond to the main idea. An important role is played by details that create a mood in tune with the holiday. Choose carefully the materials for decorating the wedding hall, for example, transparent, flowing fabrics - silk, satin, brocade. Unusual souvenirs, wedding decor items, and antiques will ideally complement the design. Consider mysterious, romantic lighting, such as a night sky projector, glass fairy lights, or candles.
Carefully consider the arrangement of small wedding decor items: where the magic wand and the fairy-tale spindle from Sleeping Beauty will lie, the pumpkin carriage and Cinderella’s crystal slipper, the red boots of the cat and the mouse, the magic mirror and the poisoned apple. It’s easy to choose accessories; for this, the main thing is to read a fairy tale. In general, light airy fabrics for drapery, an abundance of flowers, and candlesticks are suitable for the wedding atmosphere.
Theme and colors
A winter wedding can be held in one of the following styles:
- rustic : room in a rustic style, classic outfits with a retro twist;
- Russian style : log house in the forest, folk festivals, musicians, drinking tea from a samovar and other original details;
- wedding “Winter's Tale” : based on the scenario of a fairy tale story. For example, Koschey kidnaps a beautiful bride, and a good fellow (groom) must go through serious tests to save her (other fairy-tale characters - witnesses and guests - help him);
- New Year/Christmas wedding , if the event is planned for the appropriate dates: in the room - a fireplace, a tree and socks for gifts, in the images of the newlyweds - an abundance of red, in the bouquet - fir cones and pine branches.
When choosing the color scheme for your celebration, rely on your own taste or use one of the popular trends today :
- a combination of green (pine branches) with red (balloons, tinsel, berries);
- main white color with silver accents;
- a combination of silver and blue symbolizing winter.
Important! The colors of a winter wedding can be any, but with the ones listed above it is easier to maintain suitable stylistic formats.
Holiday table decor
Place flower arrangements, candles, and vases with sweets on the tables. Lace tablecloths will perfectly complement the festive fairy-tale atmosphere. It is better to choose classic cutlery: crystal and porcelain will ideally emphasize the fairy-tale nature of the wedding. Remember that in fairy tales they throw a feast for the whole world. To make the banquet look like a feast of kings, refer to the dishes mentioned in the tales. Cups of wine, roasted quail, beautiful table settings - it all depends on the fairy tale that served as the inspiration for your fairytale-style wedding.
Find your castle
If for a wedding in a real castle the services of a decorator are unlikely to be needed, then a celebration in an urban environment will require some effort in decoration. The more the venue resembles the story of your fairy tale, the less effort (and investment) it will take. When choosing a restaurant for a banquet, give preference to halls with columns. It will be great if stone and noble wood are used in the decoration of the room. When it comes to decorations, it’s hard to think of anything better than flowers for a fairytale wedding. Garlands and bouquets, flower arrangements of different heights will ideally highlight the style of your holiday. Instead of vases, you can use cups and bowls that will create the right mood. The newlyweds' table is one of the main wedding areas that definitely needs to add some magic. Replace ordinary chairs with a fairy-tale throne, add chiffon, roses and pearls to the design. A special place in the decoration of fairy-tale weddings is given to candles and lanterns. They will help you create a unique atmosphere of a distant kingdom where there was no electricity!
Use bows and lace to decorate tables and chairs. The latter in ancient times was a symbol of luxury and wealth.
The bride's bouquet
A fabulous bridal bouquet should be shiny, colorful and bright. To compose it, use strings of pearls, feathers, rhinestones, ribbons, braid, lace, and decorative insects. You can choose any flowers, but the main thing is that the shape of the bouquet and the color scheme are correct. The palette of colors depends on the style of the wedding. For Snow White's bouquet, choose wild and forest flowers; for the composition of the delicate Cinderella from the fairy tale of the same name - light lilac orchids, blue roses; The Snow Queen will be decorated with a bouquet of beautiful white roses.
A wedding cake
The pearl of the table, its main decoration, is a fairy-tale style wedding cake. Guests should be amazed by the masterpiece of confectionery art, which can be decorated in the form of a carriage or a castle. If you prefer more traditional types of baking, then the wedding cake can be large and multi-tiered, but not voluminous, and its top will be decorated with figurines of a fairy-tale prince and princess. The main task of the pastry chef is to combine beauty and fabulous taste, for which meringues and nuts, various light creams and mastic are used in cakes of this type.
Wedding procession in fairytale style
No fairy tale is complete without magical means of transport. The task of the newlyweds is to impress the guests with an unusual motorcade for transportation. It is unlikely that you will be able to find a wedding magic carpet, but carriages and horse-drawn carriages are at your disposal. The bride and groom can get to the registry office, ride around the city, take pictures inside a luxurious fairy-tale motorcade drawn by magnificent horses.
Cinderella
You can have a wedding based on Cinderella. The shoe will become the main item for wedding competitions. For example, let's offer this one. Several pairs are selected. Women sit on chairs, take off one shoe and put it in a large box. The men are blindfolded, and they must find the shoe of their beloved in a box among many pairs of shoes, and in addition, put it on the foot of the chosen one (to do this, you need to recognize it again by touch). Both the guests and the participants themselves will probably laugh until they cry.
Video: holding a wedding in the style of a fairy tale
As a child, each of us loved fairy tales, imagining ourselves as a magical hero, inventing our own wonderful world. A fairytale style wedding is a holiday filled with special magic, where everyone can realize their fantasies. The celebration presented in the video is the embodiment of the dream of any girl who for a moment dreamed of becoming a princess, finding herself in a beautiful castle, twirling with the prince to the sounds of a waltz. This theme was taken as the basis for the wedding. On-site registration, magnificent decor, an interesting program and a fabulous photo shoot - everything was executed perfectly:
Themed wedding photo shoot
A fairytale wedding photo shoot is always conceptual and requires the heroes to play. If you have a creative side, then filming will allow you to express it. It is not necessary to accurately reproduce the plot of the chosen fairy tale, but it is worth acting out the most recognizable moments. However, don’t overdo it, don’t let the fairy-tale component overshadow those tender feelings with which the young are burning. The props can be a rejuvenating apple, a magic key, a scarlet flower - it all depends on the basis of the plot.
Advice from a couple
- • Remember the most important thing: there are no rules in a wedding! You can structure this day the way you want - end the evening with a dance, organize a ceremony in the light of the moon, refuse the banal garter toss and do it your own way. You can do anything! As Walt Disney said, all our dreams can come true if we have the courage to follow them to the end.
- • Even if you have more than just young people at your wedding, don’t be afraid of active and unusual entertainment. For example, the archery tournament was very popular among the older generation, while our friends were poring over the creation of the mermaid fever potion and the Chernomor drink.
- • Trust yourself and believe in yourself. We did a lot of things with our own hands. Firstly, this way you save a lot, and secondly, it makes the process “yours” and expands the range of your skills and knowledge.
- • Think through negative scenarios and your approximate actions in advance. You should always be prepared for something to go wrong, but that's okay! You have the closest people nearby who will always help. In addition, it is precisely deviations from the script that will later become funny and vivid moments imprinted in your memory.
- • Be sure to discuss all the smallest details with the selected team. Believe me, there are a lot of nuances, and in order not to spoil the impression of the wedding, it is better to discuss everything in advance.
- • Organize your wedding day separately from the registry office and spend it at one location - this will save time and nerves, you won’t have to travel far and be afraid of “not being on time.”
- • You should be comfortable in your outfit, and your hairstyle with lots of pins should not make you feel lobotomized. Remember: you should enjoy your wedding day!
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