What to wear to a wedding in the fall

Couples in love get married not only in the summer months, but throughout the year, as life circumstances vary. Having received an invitation in their hands, relatives and friends ask a logical question: “what to wear to a wedding in the fall?”

Unlike hot summer days, the autumn months do not offer good weather, so when preparing for the holiday it is necessary to consider options with damp, piercing wind, cold drizzle or the first snow. At the same time, guests want to look fashionable and presentable, so as not to lose face. How to combine all the requirements for an outfit? Based on the advice of fashion designers and fashion designers, everyone will find the best outfit for themselves.

Rules of good manners

Even if the newlyweds did not voice any requirements for their outfit in the invitation or during a personal meeting, there are generally accepted rules that should not be violated.

White and its shades are the time-honored and traditional colors of the bride. Even if the wedding format calls for a completely different shade of the wedding dress, wearing a white dress for the guest is bad form.
At a colored wedding, you should not choose the same shade as the bride’s dress, unless there is such a requirement in the invitation.
Coming in openly vulgar clothes, with a short skirt, revealing cutouts or transparent fabric is bad manners. It is also unacceptable to hang yourself with decorations, like a Christmas tree with garlands, overshadowing all the ladies present, including the newlywed herself.
Too bright, acidic colors, colorful animal prints, sequins, and solid rhinestone decor are prohibited.
In Russia, a black dress is associated with mourning, unlike in the United States, so you shouldn’t take risks by choosing the “black widow” look.
Free youth, sports or beach styles are also unofficially prohibited.

However, there is one big “but”. If the newlyweds expressed a desire to see their guests in white, black or super-glamorous, and asked to wear loose, comfortable clothes for an informal party, then the guests should choose exactly these options. In recent years, strict boundaries and boundaries have expanded significantly. They perform not only classic weddings, but also in different themes, including national or historical productions, holidays at sea or in the mountains, on board a ship. Therefore, it is worth checking with the organizers which style will be preferable.

An image with a corset element

Recently, many of us have actively begun to introduce corsets into our wardrobes.
This technique is, of course, not new. If we talk about a relatively recent period, then in the sensational 90s and 2000s, celebrities were very fond of such images. We bet you're seeing looks like these a lot on your Instagram feed these days. Popular fashion influencers, one after another, demonstrate how to wear corset-type dresses, and also simply mix the usual corsets with trousers or a chintz skirt.

It all looks quite organic, and very stylish. Just what you need for a wedding. You can complement this look with elegant jewelry, shoes or sandals and a blazer.

Author: Anastasia Kurta

Features of a wedding in autumn

Autumn weather is unstable and capricious. In the morning the sun may shine, and in the afternoon it may rain or sleet. That is why experienced people recommend preparing several layers of clothing that can be taken off or put on again, depending on the weather. So, what to wear to a wedding in the fall?

At the beginning of September you can still catch warm days and enjoy the golden Indian summer. In such weather, it is enough to throw a jacket or jacket over your shoulders, put on a warm woolen sweater or cardigan, or a leather jacket. In late autumn, when the air temperature drops to 0-100, you cannot do without a coat or trench coat (raincoat).

In order not to increase spending on a holiday outfit, you should choose stylish classic items that are perfect for everyday wear, for work and for going out. The coat is complemented by closed shoes made of suede or leather, long over-the-knee boots of interesting colors, and matching accessories. The festive look is complemented by a handbag or clutch that is obligatory for ladies.

September

In the first month of autumn, the weather is pleasant, so you can afford to choose lighter things, preferably with long sleeves or ¾ sleeves, to make it more comfortable.

A jumpsuit made of velvet or satin will create an unforgettable, elegantly delicate look.
An evening dress looks great when paired with a fur cape, a stole made of silk or high-quality fine wool.
For autumn weddings, fashion designers offer original options for combined outfits. So, for cool weather, chiffon blouses with a leather skirt or a dress with a satin bodice and iridescent lace at the bottom are ideal.

Light clothes are appropriate in warm rooms. If the wedding will be held outdoors or the scenario includes long walks, you need to take care of warm things - a cardigan, jacket, blazer.

October

In October, the trees are strewn with gold and crimson. Fallen leaves rustle mysteriously underfoot, and the approaching cold is felt in the air. Exquisitely colorful, full of slight sadness and warm summer memories, the landscapes are a wonderful backdrop for colorful photographs. However, in pursuit of bright shots, you should not forget about your own health. Light, summer outfits may look stunning, but wearing them outside in October is at least uncomfortable. For this period choose:

noble, refined velvet;
dense corset satin, possibly with embroidery;
leather items, knitwear containing wool;
stretch velor, gabardine;
taffeta, barbie and crepe.

For this outfit, select a few, but quite massive jewelry - a brooch, necklace or ring with large stones. A jacket or a light flared demi-season coat with knitted sleeves and a collar is thrown on top. Subsequently, in this outfit it is quite possible to go to a restaurant or to the theater.

November

The last month of autumn in temperate climates is the threshold of winter. The foliage has already fallen off, and the bare branches scratch the gray, leaden sky. It often snows wet and ice forms. And the wind pierces right through. In this weather, being outside in a light suit or airy dress is a direct path to catching a cold. And light outfits look out of place indoors. Therefore, it is worth choosing an option according to the season:

knee- or mid-calf-length dress, pantsuit made of thick fabric;
knitted dresses, outfits made from fabrics containing wool.

To make it more comfortable, they throw a bolero or a beautiful cardigan over their shoulders, put on jackets, and wrap themselves in warm Orenburg shawls and stoles.

When going outside, be sure to wear a warm demi-season coat with lining or a trench coat. Today you can find elegant, pretty models with turn-down collars, knitted sleeves, fitted or straight, with an A-line silhouette. In extreme cold or wind, you will also need a hat or a deep, comfortable hood. In order not to disturb the overall style of the festive outfit, it can be a flirty hat made of felt, a woolen or fur beret. You definitely need thick tights or stockings to prevent your feet from freezing.

In slushy, damp weather, it is better to abandon suede shoes in favor of leather low shoes and boots with neat heels.

How to insulate yourself?

Autumn weather loves to present unpleasant surprises. If the sun is shining in the morning, this does not mean at all that it will not rain and snow in the afternoon. In this case, even a thick trouser suit with a jacket will not save you from hypothermia. What can you take with you “just in case”?

In early autumn, a warm knitted sweater or angora cardigan will go well with a dress or skirt with a blouse. You can choose a jacket that matches the color and style, or a wide, warm stole.
In mid-autumn you can’t do without a light jacket or raincoat.
In November, they insulate themselves more seriously: they wear warm drape or knitted coats with lining, fur coats and short fur coats.

Leather biker jackets are universal. Despite fashion trends, they are appreciated and loved by ladies of all ages. They go perfectly with a dress, a skirt, or a trouser suit. And they protect from piercing wind and rain better than knitted coats or ponchos.

Signs and traditions

The good news is that in Rus', getting married in November was considered a good omen for the start of family life. Our ancestors believed that a couple who got married in November would live their lives in prosperity, because autumn is a rich time.

By November, the harvest is already over, and there is not as much housework as in the summer, so many couples got married in this month. There is no fasting in November, which means the newlyweds could get married in church and not limit themselves to anything during the wedding feast.

There are signs related to a wedding in November:

The bride is recommended to wear gold and discreetly pin a pin on her clothes. It is believed that this will protect her from the evil eye;
a coin placed in the bride’s shoe promises prosperity for the couple;
a man who gets married in November acquires a faithful companion who will care for and cherish him for the rest of his life;
If it starts snowing the night before the wedding, the bride must walk through the freshly fallen snow. Thus, she will become the only woman for her husband for the rest of her life;
Before the wedding, the groom must go outside with an autumn leaf and a rowan branch in his hands. He must give one of these items to the first person he meets: if the groom meets a woman, she will receive a leaf from him, and this will guarantee the fidelity of the young wife. If a man meets first, he must take a rowan branch from the groom, and then the family will never know the need.

Here's what the weather meant on the wedding day:

frost is a good sign for the young, promising them the birth of a healthy heir;
snow promises happiness to the newlyweds, and rain promises material wealth;
thunder is a bad omen, promising instability and problems for the marriage;
wind on a wedding day means that one of the spouses will be unfaithful to his other half.

You should not take omens too seriously, especially not focus on bad omens. How the marriage turns out depends mainly on the young people themselves.

Shoes for weddings

A particularly careful, thoughtful approach is required when choosing shoes. Autumn is a controversial time. If at the beginning it is quite comfortable in shoes or open heeled sandals, then by the end of September the weather can suddenly deteriorate. In this case, you should take care of ankle boots or ankle boots. Well, in November your feet will feel comfortable in warm, comfortable over the knee boots or full-length knee-high boots.

For a banquet hall, celebration in an apartment or other premises, take with you second shoes that match the outfit and style of the wedding: light high-heeled shoes, sandals, transparent ankle boots with lace tops. Sometimes the organizers ask you to wear the same boots for colorful photos with a certain plot, but in this case the dress code is negotiated separately, or the newlyweds provide their own props for the photo shoot.

The best days for a celebration

According to the Chinese horoscope, 2022 is the year of the White Metal Ox, and its corresponding digital symbol is 5, a sign of fertility and abundance. This means that the entire year 2022 is favorable for the creation of a new unit of society. At the same time, it is best to hold a wedding not on the weekend, but on Friday, because on this day the stars are ruled by Venus, which provides protection to lovers.

Thus, the most favorable dates for marriage are all Fridays in November, which in 2022 fall on the 5th and 12th, as well as the 19th and 26th. A marriage concluded on these dates promises to be happy and prosperous.

It is not advisable to get married during the new moon and full moon that fall on November 11th and 25th.

It is best to celebrate the wedding during those time periods when Venus is in the sign of Libra. In November these are the periods from 9 to 15 and from 28 to 30. However, do not forget that fasting begins on November 28, and at this time the newlyweds can no longer get married.

Thus, the most suitable day for a wedding in November 2021 is November 13th. Many people consider “thirteenth” a bad number, but from an astrological point of view, this particular date is very favorable for creating a new family.

Which fabric to choose?

At the beginning of autumn, when the days are little different from summer, and only in the evenings does it get cool, an outfit can be sewn from light, flying and flowing materials:

airy poplin;
glossy satin;
natural or artificial silk;
delicately romantic lace and guipure;
weightless chiffon;
staple, georgette;
knitted oil, Niagara.

For cold days, choose dense fabrics:

jacquard, velvet;
smooth satin, shantung;
taffeta, velor;
suit crepe;
gabardine, barbie.

Knitted wool dresses look stylish.

What to wear to a wedding in the fall for a girl

What should a girl wear to a wedding in the fall to be fashionable, beautiful and comfortable?

Evening dress, floor length

A long, elegant dress is the height of elegance. It emphasizes the femininity and charm of the guest, creating an aura of aristocracy. This outfit fits perfectly into the format of classic wedding celebrations. Plus, it's versatile. Suitable for young girls and mature matrons, pregnant women. With short stature, an evening dress visually makes a girl taller, which helps with high-heeled shoes.

For plump ladies with too full hips, this option is one of the most optimal. A long hem hides insufficiently long or slender legs. If your waist is far from ideal or your pregnancy is clearly visible, you should choose a model with a belt under the bust - the flowing, loose fabric perfectly disguises them.

Excessively plump hands are covered with a stole, cape or bolero. For older ladies, sleeves up to the elbow are required. If a lady is completely satisfied with her appearance, then dresses with straps, missing or very short sleeves, and a provocative thigh-high slit will suit her.

Cocktail option

A short dress without sleeves and a collar, but with a full skirt, is another trend that does not go out of fashion. Suitable for guests with perfect figures and long, straight legs.

Classic little dress

Mademoiselle Coco Chanel gave the world a little black dress, which you can wear to any special event, including a wedding. It is appropriate anytime and anywhere, looks elegant and impeccable. Today, jacket dresses and crepe wrap dresses are in fashion. You can choose a feminine option with a jacket or combine it with a sweater.

Asymmetrical cut

Models with a shorter front and longer rear panel are a great option for young people. For the October and November holidays, models are selected from jersey, knitwear, and satin. And on the warm days of Indian summer, it is quite possible to appear in a light dress made of airy chiffon and lace.

Sheath dress

One of the most versatile options for holidays and every day. One-piece dresses are chosen according to the figure, or they leave a little air, making the silhouette freer. With their help, it is easy to emphasize the advantages of a figure and hide existing flaws. The length is not limited, it is chosen taking into account convenience. There are models with different cutouts:

square, round;
V-shaped, boat.

There are also dresses with small stand-up collars. It is also recommended to ensure that there are three-quarter sleeves or to the wrist.

Jacket dress

The fashion trend of recent years, spectacular and elegant, has become the favorite of many girls and women. A jacket that increases the shoulder line emphasizes the waist, making it thinner and more graceful. As a rule, such models are sewn from thick fabrics, with sleeves, which is optimal for the autumn season.

Costume

The times when a wedding guest had to wear a dress have long since sunk into oblivion. Today, beautiful ladies have a huge range of elegant, fashionable trouser suits. For the holiday choose:

products with straight or flared trousers, of different lengths;
with lace inserts or peplum;
with an oversized jacket;
models with a skirt, “three-piece” with a vest, with a jacket instead of a jacket.

The option of light trousers with a tunic or an elongated jacket is also appropriate.

Color of wedding dress for guests

Typically, dresses and suits are selected according to several criteria:

personal color preferences;
features of figure and physique;
hair color and skin color type;
compatibility with other wardrobe items and accessories;
season.

However, for guests invited to the wedding, there are also rules that must be followed:

dress code established by the newlyweds;
the need to avoid too variegated and too gloomy, dull colors.

In order to comply with the rules of decency and look not only beautiful but also fashionable at a wedding, you should choose shades that vividly reflect the charm of autumn nature:

crimson colors - red, burgundy, orange;
soft, cozy-warm brown-chocolate, beige colors;
magnificent golden, positive yellow, discreet mustard or sand.

Terracotta, amber and lilac are also suitable.

Summary

Weddings in November are usually ideas inspired by nature. You can plan the celebration yourself or enlist the help of a professional. This wedding will definitely not be like the others, which means it will give vivid impressions and will remain in the memory of all those invited for a long time. Remember that there are no forbidden months for a wedding: the main thing is to organize it wisely and use all the opportunities given by nature!