Marriage is an important and exciting moment in life for every person. But some people want to celebrate it on a grand scale, while others just need to come and sign at the registry office and live happily ever after. Today, many couples refuse lavish celebrations with limousines, suits, bouquets, boutonnieres and banquets. A private wedding is much less expensive and takes place with a minimum number of guests.
Photo in the registry office
How does it work and how much does it cost to register a marriage without a ceremony?
To begin with, it must be said that there may be a lot of reasons prompting people to refuse formal registration, but the main ones are the following:
- A long life together before deciding to get married. In this case, it's just a formality.
- Girl's pregnancy.
- The young couple decided to make do with a simple painting at the registry office in order to save the girl from unnecessary worries.
- Saving money. Let’s say that with the money donated by their parents, the bride and groom go on a trip or buy something needed for the house.
- Reluctance to organize a mass celebration when you just want to chat with loved ones and friends in the silence of a family evening.
After the application has been submitted and the day has been set, the bride and groom will be informed of what is needed for the non-solemn registration of the marriage. The bride and groom must take with them:
- Passports without covers.
- Wedding rings.
Photos of a wedding without a celebration
Gold ring with diamonds;
gold ring, all SL (prices via links) Usually, a man and a woman were given 1 month to think about their decision. The registration day was scheduled after this period. sign at the registry office without a celebration on the day of filing the application in a number of cases:
- If the couple already has a child together or the woman’s pregnancy is confirmed by a gynecological certificate.
- The groom's documented conscription for military service .
- One of the partners is leaving on a long business trip.
- The life of one of the partners is at risk due to a serious illness .
Many people wonder where painting takes place without a ceremony and how.
To begin with, when submitting an application, the registry office employee must be informed that there will be no ceremony
Registration lasts no more than half an hour and takes place, as a rule, on weekdays, because weekends are reserved for magnificent, solemn ceremonies. The procedure is simple:
- young people are invited to the office of a registry office employee;
- the employee examines the presented passports and makes appropriate entries in the registration books;
Photo of beautiful newlyweds in the registry office
- the registering person makes a solemn speech , which is much shorter than in a traditional ceremony, but in meaning they are the same;
- the bride and groom are asked a question about their voluntary consent to marriage; if both parties answer positively, stamps are placed in the passports of the couple;
- then the newlyweds sign the corresponding columns in the registration book.
Only after this are the man and woman declared husband and wife. At the end of the procedure, they receive a marriage certificate
The cost of painting without a celebration is no different from the usual one. To do this, you need to pay the appropriate state registration fees. You can submit an application to the registry office in any city, regardless of your place of registration. The application form can be filled out at the registry office, downloaded from the Internet , printed and completed at home. However, it is signed only in the presence of an employee of the institution by both parties. In this case, a note must be made about what surname the couple will have after the wedding.
Photo of the bride and groom after the registry office
As mentioned above, after submitting an application to the registry office officially, you need to wait at least a month. For those who are planning a ceremony or want to get married on a specific date , you will have to book a time. In this case, you will have to visit the registry office several times for approval. For those who do not care about time and date, a day is set in accordance with the legislative rules of the Russian Federation.
How much time to submit an application is up to everyone to decide. If we take the deadline established by law - 30 days , then it is quite possible to calculate the approximate registration time.
Solemn registration of marriage: how does it differ from non-solemn registration?
The ceremonial registration of marriage, in contrast to the non-ceremonial one, takes place in a festive hall with music and a long introductory speech for the newlyweds . In addition, wedding organizers should know what to take to the registry office for the wedding ceremony. In addition to the passports of the bride and groom and wedding rings, the list of necessary things is large:
- wedding towel,
- loaf,
- glasses for newlyweds and guests,
- champagne,
- candies,
- mineral and sparkling water,
- light snacks.
Think through everything to the smallest detail and make a list in advance of what you need to take with you
For the solemn ceremony, a different wedding scenario is implied:
- The bride and groom are invited to the reception hall to the sounds of Mendelssohn's waltz.
- Guests follow them.
- The young people stand in the center of the hall in front of the registry office employee.
- An employee of the institution makes a solemn speech, at the end of which he is interested in the consent of both parties regarding voluntary marriage.
- The bride and groom exchange rings.
- They are given a pen to sign and sign in the registration book.
- The registry office employee declares the newlyweds husband and wife.
- The groom kisses the bride.
- The newlyweds are given a marriage certificate.
The newlyweds are sprinkled with rose petals when leaving the registry office.
Guests and relatives congratulate the newlyweds on their legal marriage.
The newlyweds are sprinkled with rice, money, sweets, and rose petals when leaving the registry office. They sprinkle the bride and groom with change and rice at the entrance to the banquet hall, symbolizing the prosperity, sweet and comfortable life that those present wish them. The first thing the bride and groom must do before the start of the banquet is to dance the wedding waltz of the newlyweds. Only after this does the feast begin. The difference between a solemn and non-solemn wedding ceremony is significant. Firstly, the surroundings and scope, and secondly, the traditional wedding costumes of the newlyweds and a large number of guests, gifts, a motorcade, a banquet hall. However, the price in Russia for submitting an application and registering both one and the other ceremony is the same - 350 rubles .
Photo of the outfit for a non-celebratory marriage registration
Photographer for registration at the registry office
At a wedding ceremony, the need for the presence of a professional photographer is not discussed. However, some people getting married in a non-celebratory setting doubt that the services of this specialist are mandatory. Therefore, you need to understand that in a few years the details of this happy moment will be erased from memory , and beautiful professional photographs will remind you of an unforgettable day.
A professional photographer will take high-quality photographs and, if desired, a wedding photo album. He always has a lot of ideas for photos in the registry office and when leaving it. In addition, you won’t have to ask someone you know to take photos of you, calling into question the quality of the resulting photos, and thereby your shared memories.
Photo idea in the registry office
Which side of the groom is the bride on?
During the wedding ceremony in the registry office, the bride should stand to the left of the groom . According to legend, a woman should always be on the left of a man, so that with his right hand he can always protect his beloved from danger.
Until recently, registry office employees insisted that the groom stand on the left and the bride on the right. Only in the case where the groom was a military man was the reverse situation allowed. Because the newlywed had to salute with his right hand.
Photo of non-celebratory marriage registration
Basic moments
Russian legislation recognizes as legally valid only the marriage that was concluded in the registry office. Mutual agreement is confirmed by joint submission of a written statement and verbal affirmative responses during the ceremony procedure.
Future spouses, at the same time as submitting the application, discuss with the registry office employees the date, time and conditions of the event that is significant for them. In particular, it is possible to register a marriage without a ceremony.
How should the bride and groom go to the registry office?
Every action and decision at a wedding celebration corresponds to a certain order, laws or ancient traditions. It just so happened that the bride and groom go to the registry office in different cars, and return back in one. This order can be explained by the fact that before the wedding ceremony they were separate from each other, and after it they were united together.
However, this is not a law, but rather recommendations for those who hold a wedding with special pomp and solemnity
After all, when celebrating such events, a lot of signs and beliefs are taken into account, which is not necessary to do at a non-celebratory ceremony. In this case, the bride and groom can come to the wedding ceremony even together, even by tram .
Need for witnesses
Previously, witnesses were required to sign registration documents. Currently, such a measure is not required. There is a nuance to both forms of ceremony. If the parties nevertheless decide to call witnesses, then it is necessary to remember the following points:
- ribbons with the word “witness” are acceptable but not required;
- The bride's witness must be female, and the groom's must be male;
- Not only relatives, but also third parties have the right to be witnesses.
Witnesses are not subject to any legally significant duties. If the procedure is simplified, then they are often assigned the role of photographers, assistants and drivers.
Do parents go to the registry office and can they attend the painting?
Returning to the topic of wedding superstitions and omens, we can answer the question of why parents cannot be present at the wedding of their children at the registry office. It would seem that on such a significant day all mothers and fathers want to be close to their children, support them and share their happiness. However, for those who honor traditions, this is undesirable for a number of reasons.
Parents do not go to the registry office, but greet the bride and groom with a loaf of bread
According to signs, parents do not go to the registry office, because this should be done by the godmothers and fathers of the bride and groom , who at one time assumed obligations for them before people and God. Natural parents do not go to the registry office because they must greet the newlyweds at the entrance to the house with bread and salt.
However, for the most part, this sign is not taken into account when organizing a wedding. If previously parents stayed at home to prepare everything necessary for the arrival of guests , now banquets are held in cafes and restaurants, where competent organizers will do everything for the mother and father of the bride and groom.
Therefore, parents are among the first to congratulate the newlyweds on their legal marriage.
Then, when the cortege goes for a walk, the parents go home, where they greet the newlyweds with all honors.
Pushchino
A preserve of Soviet modernism near Moscow, the city of Pushchino began to be built in 1963 as an “administrative unit” under the control of the Academy of Sciences.
Pushchino can be called an amazing example of the implementation of strip planning and strip zoning. It looks like this: adjacent to the Oka River is a recreational area (estate park, forest, beaches), followed by a residential area. Cars go around it along the upper and lower roads, and the central highway remains exclusively pedestrian.
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Public buildings are grouped inside the residential area: the post office, the House of Scientists, the Pushchino boarding house, and the House of Public Services. The latter houses the registry office with a staircase and massive propylaea at the entrance. Not long ago the building was renovated and covered with panels.
What signature does the bride put?
In order to register a marriage, and it has entered into legal force, the bride and groom must put their signatures in the registration book. This is where the question arises for the bridegroom: which painting to sign - the old one or the new one based on the husband’s last name?
The bride signs her signature in the marriage registration book
At the time of registration at the registry office, the bride has an old passport in her hands, which is valid for another month after the wedding. Therefore, you need to sign with the same signature that appears on your old passport.
To draw an analogy and understand the difference between an informal and a magnificent wedding, it is worth watching a video of the ceremonial registration of the wedding ceremony at the registry office.
Submitting an application
According to the law, documents for registration will be considered after submission within one month. Only after this time will your ceremony take place. There are a number of reasons why you can count on faster registration, even on the day the papers are presented:
- if the girl is pregnant , especially in the later stages or a child has already been born. It is necessary to present a certificate;
- if the guy received a summons from the military registration and enlistment office , which must be brought to the registry office to speed up the registration process;
- if one of their future spouses is seriously ill . You also need a doctor's certificate;
- someone is sent on a long business trip . Bring proof from your place of work.
But remember that in this case the ceremony is unlikely to be solemn.
