Signs can be treated differently. Some people are skeptical about even the most convincing of them, while others turn around at the sight of a black cat. But no one can deny that wedding signs by month are quite interesting.
When deciding which month to have a wedding, few people consider signs and beliefs as the main guideline. More often these are arguments such as a beautiful background for photographs, the cost of outfits, the workload of registry offices and restaurants, etc.
But still, from time immemorial, it has been customary for us to live with an eye on traditions. And this can hardly be called a bad habit, because they are nothing more than the centuries-old experience of the Russian people .
What month is best to get married?
It is undesirable to start a family in January, because, according to popular superstitions, there is a high probability of becoming a widow.
February marks a very favorable period for marriage. A family created in February promises to be strong, peace and harmony will reign between the spouses.
Our grandmothers believed that a girl who got married in March would leave for a foreign land.
It is believed that getting married in April will not make the spouses happy for a long time, so it is better not to choose this month.
They say that getting married in May means toiling all your life, so it’s better to skip this month too.
Getting married in June is one of the most suitable options; the couple’s honeymoon will last the entire time.
A wedding in July promises an alternation of happy and not so happy periods of family life.
August is a great month to start a family. The spouses will not only be loved ones, but also true friends.
A family created in September will be strong, and life with your husband will be calm and smooth.
October is not the best month for a wedding; family life will be burdened with difficulties, so you should not get married this month.
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A married couple created in November will live in happiness and wealth; this is a very good month for marriage.
December promises a long life in love and harmony.
What year is best to get married?
There is an opinion that if you celebrate your wedding on a leap year, it means dooming your marriage to collapse. Many people believe that leap years are unlucky. But if you look at history, you can see a completely opposite picture.
Do you think that in leap years young people did not get married, the matchmakers rested and there was no pre-wedding bustle in the brides' houses? There is one interesting feature: during a leap year... girls went to get married. It turns out that leap year was the year of brides who could choose their own groom! Moreover, the bride could be refused matchmaking only in the most rare and justified cases. So if your loved one is delaying the engagement and wedding, girls, don’t get confused and, in accordance with a long-standing tradition, feel free to propose your hand and heart to your betrothed.
At what age is it better to get married?
The age at which it is advisable to start a family is determined individually for each girl. There is no general rule here. You just need to get acquainted with the psychological characteristics of women at different ages, compare them with your personal opinion about a happy marriage, and then decide for yourself what age is best to get married.
18 years is the age of majority
This is a great age to start something new. But starting a family at 18 is a little early. At this age, girls want to get rid of parental care as quickly as possible and gain freedom and independence. But family is, among other things, also a great responsibility. Therefore, quite often at this age, young spouses begin to have disagreements and problems. 18 years old is not the age at which you should start your adult life.
20 years – age of students
This age is also not very suitable for starting a family. A girl should devote maximum attention to studying and obtaining a specialty, and combining this with the beginning of family life and caring for her husband is very difficult. Such marriages often break up without giving the girl the opportunity to explore the positive aspects of marriage.
23 -25 years – period of growing up
This is a very suitable age to start a family. By this time, studies have usually already been completed, there is a job that makes it possible to enter the family finances.
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In addition, by this time the girl’s body is completely ready for a possible pregnancy and the instinct of motherhood has been formed. According to statistics, girls who start a family at this age are happy in marriage and satisfied with their family.
Choosing the right month for marriage
We have more or less decided on the leap year, now let's move on to the next stage. Select the desired month. There are also plenty of signs here, but let’s try to figure it out:
- January is a completely unlucky month for marriage. In the old days they used to say, “wolves get married in January.” For a husband, it foretells imminent health problems; for a woman, early widowhood. Whatever one may say, marriage does not last.
- February. Ideal time for a wedding. Promises a long, happy life, fidelity and love of a husband, healthy offspring.
- March. Not a very favorable month, as it predicts separation from their native land for a long time for the young, possible lack of their own housing, children will be born in a foreign land.
- April. Suitable for those who love a quiet and unstable life. Constant alternations, now ups - now downs, now empty - now dense, now peace and harmony - now quarrels and disagreements. It’s not for nothing that April is called a changeable month due to the instability of the weather.
- May - if you get married in the month of May (or are born), you will miss your whole life. Absolutely well said.
- June. Perfect month. Promises young people a long and sweet life.
- July is similar in appearance to April. It portends constantly alternating black and white stripes, continuous crises and reconciliations. You definitely won't be bored.
- August. The best and most harmonious period for marriage. The family will have mutual understanding between all members, love and support for the husband for life.
- September. Promises peace and serenity for many years.
- October. Not recommended at all. Continuous failures throughout my life.
- November. Marriage promises a financially stable and independent family life, prosperity, understanding and complete mincemeat.
- December. Favorable period. Love, prosperity and mutual understanding will always reign in the family for many years.
It turns out that there are quite enough good months for a wedding ceremony.
Best time to get married
25-30 – period of self-determination
This age is also very favorable for marriage. At 25-30 years old, the girl decided exactly whether she needed to get married and whether she could combine work with household responsibilities. Girls of this age find it easier to find a common language with men and know how to find compromises in communicating with people.
30-40 years – the heyday
At this age, a woman experiences the peak of attractiveness and sexuality. This allows her to look perfect and enjoy the attention of men. Often, women of this age decide to marry a man somewhat younger than themselves. This encourages them to constantly take care of themselves, stay in good shape and look fit and attractive. But you don’t need to get married just because it’s time. You should make sure that next to you is exactly the man with whom you are ready to stay forever.
40-50 years – the age of wisdom
At this age it is very difficult to get married. Years lived alone form certain habits in a woman, and not everyone agrees to change them. But this does not mean that there is no need to get married at the age of over 40. Time spent next to your loved one will bring a lot of happy and joyful moments into the life of a woman of any age.
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Leap year: folk signs
Indeed, leap years have gained a bad reputation. Our ancestors also noticed that various unfavorable incidents happened this year, either the harvest failed, or a series of failures in everything, and for those who decided to get married, life did not go well. So, why can't you get married on a leap year? Does this belief have significant grounds for such a statement? Or maybe we should just ignore them?
Popular signs say that a wedding taking place on a leap year will be unsuccessful. Unfortunately, no real evidence of this has yet been discovered.
But earlier, in Rus', the leap year was the year of the bride, and the girls independently chose their betrothed, and the chosen ones, in turn, practically did not resist and accepted the proposal. If you are brave, creative and not inclined to believe in omens, you can become the patroness of your own destiny.
And for those who unquestioningly believe in folk omens, it would not hurt to remind once again that after the leap year comes the year of the widow, and then the widower. It turns out that the favorable period occurs only in one year out of four. So, should you believe all this?
What is the best date to get married?
When determining the wedding date, you need to take into account the requirements of the church calendar and familiarize yourself with astrological forecasts.
In 2022, the most favorable dates will be:
- January 7th and 18th;
- February 8th and 10th;
- March 8th and 10th;
- April 7th, 19th;
- May 10th and 19th;
- June 16th and 17th;
- July 8th and 14th;
- August 5th;
- September 1st, 6th and 13th;
- October 4th and 11th;
- November 8th and 10th;
- December 1st, 2nd and 8th.
Signs for a successful marriage
To smooth out future nuances and troubles due to marriage in a leap year, you should familiarize yourself with some signs for a successful marriage:
- the bride's wedding dress should not be short;
- the ring does not need to be put on the glove;
- throw a coin into each shoe in advance;
- do not allow you to try on your wedding dress;
- for every wedding anniversary for three years, lay a wedding tablecloth on the table, save the newlywed’s spoon from the wedding table and let him use it on the 3rd, 7th and 40th days after registration of the marriage;
- Don’t forget to sprinkle some wheat or rice grains (suitable for any year) when leaving the newlyweds’ house.
Recommendations from astrologers and churches
According to astrologers, it is best to get married on the waxing Moon, but this should not be done during the eclipse phase of the Moon. The fourth, fifth, seventh and tenth months from birth are considered successful for marriage. Professional astrologers can make a detailed astrological forecast of your family life.
According to church canons, it is forbidden to get married during Lent: during the Nativity Fast (late November - early January), during Great Lent (from Maslenitsa to Easter), during Peter the Great's Lent (late June - mid-July), during the Assumption Lent (second half August).
You cannot marry on church holidays, on memorial Saturdays, during mourning and throughout the whole year. More detailed information is available in church calendars.
Beautiful dates for a wedding
Many couples, when choosing a wedding date, focus on “beautiful” repeating numbers. Particular attention is paid to the number two, which is a symbol of harmony, mutual love and strong relationships.
And 2022 for newlyweds will be rich in such beautiful combinations, especially in February, where you can find a combination of five and six twos in the date:
02.02.2022;
10.02.2022;
12.02.2022;
21.02.2022;
22.02.2022.
In addition to the repeating “beautiful” numbers of February, you can choose:
combinations of the same numbers in January, October, November, December (01/11/2022, 01/22/2022, 11/11/2022, 11/22/2022, 12/22/2022);
mirror dates (12 and 21 mirror in any month);
days where the date and month are duplicated (03/03/2022, 07/07/2022, 12/12/2022).
When is the best time to get married?
There is a stereotype in society: the sooner you get married, the better. But you shouldn’t always rush into making this very important and responsible decision. A Zakon.kz correspondent visited the “Wedding Extravaganza 2019” exhibition and found out when is the most ideal time of year and age for a wedding.
When to get married?
Perhaps one of the most frequently asked questions to girls who have not yet found their soulmate. And guys who are actively searching after 25 years also hear questions about starting a family.
The organizer of the exhibition, Evgenia Preimane-Evstegneeva, recommends starting a family at the age when a person feels that he has really found the partner of his dreams and is ready to sacrifice something, including his own interests, for the sake of the happiness of the family.
– It’s better to be more or less successful in your career, because life is unpredictable. This applies not only to grooms, but also to brides. You never know what can happen, the girl must be able to support her family financially in case of unforeseen circumstances. The physiological and social age of a person are different things. Some are already ready for marriage, others need to grow into it. Everything is very personal, it doesn’t depend on age in any way,” says Evgenia Preimane-Evstegneeva.
The bride Gulnur Maukenova agrees with her.
– Age is not important. There must be an inner feeling that this is your person. Now we have a stereotypical society, unfortunately, many people believe that if you are 25 and not married, then your train has left. I believe that you need to go out when you are ready for it and have found your person. Marriage is not a toy, but a partnership and responsibility above all. And if you don’t find it, wait,” the girl noted.
Arthur and Karina Gabbasova got married 5 years after they met. Moreover, at the time of the first meeting she was 16, he was 25. Maria Fridman is more than 25 years old, she understands that it’s “like it’s time.” But so far he is not very eager to tie the knot.
-Probably, the younger you get married, the better. “You haven’t yet realized that, in principle, you can develop very well without getting married,” the girl believes.
Even such a cursory survey showed that there is no ideal age to start a family. It is important to develop yourself as a person and not be shy to show your feelings. After all, this is the only way we can understand whether we have met our person or not.
Time of year: when is the best time to organize a celebration?
Let's say we have found our love, and it's time to get married. What date should it be scheduled for? Are superstitions strong? As practice shows, a good wedding can be arranged at any time of the year, but it also has its own characteristics. For example, during Oraza, for obvious reasons, celebrations are not held, and on round dates such as 19.09.19, 09.09.19, applications for organizing weddings on these dates are submitted six months, or even a year in advance. It is believed that when the numbers coincide, the wedding will be special, memorable, and the marriage will be happy.
– I recommend getting married in May. People have a prejudice that supposedly if you get married in May, the marriage will be unsuccessful, and the newlyweds will “suffer” all their lives. It is precisely because people set themselves up this way that all the good cool wedding vendors are available, they can be booked, perhaps even at a discount. In addition, in May the nature is incredibly photogenic, everything is in bloom, you can have an outdoor ceremony in nature, in a blossoming apple orchard or other fruit tree, and the birth of a new family at the same time when the birth of life in nature occurs, this is a very good sign. In addition, it is not so hot in the hall, and the cortege festivities, which our newlyweds love, will also take place in a comfortable environment,” Evgenia Preimane-Evstegneeva shared her professional opinion.
Many people choose autumn for their celebration. At this time, nature pleases with extraordinary colors, everything is very beautiful, bright, magical. But most often weddings take place in spring and summer.
-At this time of year it’s warm, beautiful, you can take photos and videos outside. Summer terraces, open areas. Almost no one does weddings in early January, right after the new year. Since February, something starts and swings normally,” said Alesya Geidt, a participant in one of the Almaty show ballets.
Magnificent or modest?
Wedding agencies, decorators, florists, salons, banquet venues, hosts, confectionery shops, stylists... Creating a new family today cannot be done without the services of an entire industry. And today, the newlyweds themselves and their parents can only draw up a list of guests and decide whether the wedding will be magnificent, or whether everything will be quiet and family-like.
-My wedding has already passed. We held two celebrations. One was a wedding for relatives, the second for friends, small, for 70 people, where there were parents and closest people,” said Malika Omarova.
–I already had a wedding here, next year there will be a wedding. I would like to invite my very close friends to the islands. Stylish, just like now – I’m in a wedding dress and sneakers. What kind of wedding there will be will be decided by the husband's side. I’m ready for a curvy one, but in my heart I want one more,” shared Gulnur Maukenova.
Nowadays opportunities make it possible to realize any wishes of newlyweds and their parents. And creating the perfect wedding for yourself is not very difficult.
– An ideal wedding is a good restaurant, a chic interior so that the seating arrangement matches the number of guests, a host who will speak the languages that are necessary for that audience, a live music band and a minimal show program: a show ballet and a bright star , says presenter Daniel James.
According to statistics, both large and intimate weddings take place in Kazakhstan. They are united by the fact that the celebration should not only be fun and memorable for a lifetime, but also carry elements of romance.
–They order waltzes in wedding dresses, interactive sessions with guests, flash mobs. The newlyweds ask to choreograph a dance for them, we accompany them, we dance around them, they are in the center. Most often they ask to learn how to dance the classic Viennese waltz,” said Alesya Geidt.
Conclusion
Whatever the wedding, the main thing is that the newlyweds create a family of love. People love each other, get married, get married, this is happiness, and celebration helps to share this happiness with relatives, friends, and preserve these emotions for centuries.
Albert Akhmetov
Favorable months for a wedding according to zodiac signs
The meaning and understanding of stellar influence on life will help you avoid mistakes, build and maintain strong relationships. Astrologers believe that not all zodiac signs are suitable for each other. The coming year 2022 will also make its own adjustments, which will be subordinate to the Water Tiger - an emotional, sensitive animal, striving for compromise and harmony.
When choosing a wedding day, you should use an individual approach based on your date of birth and zodiac sign:
Aries is recommended to plan a wedding in May, October, November. From February to April, stars advise to refrain from wedding hassle.
For Taurus, the summer months will be successful for starting a family, as the relationship between the couple will be strong and long-lasting.
Geminis are advised to refrain from marriage, as the year of the Tiger will not bring happiness to the new family. Or plan a wedding for the last month of autumn or December.
Cancer – March, April, May and June will be favorable for weddings. A marriage concluded in July can quickly exhaust itself.
Leos should abstain from marriage from January to March. A good time to start a family will be April, May, June.
Virgo – April and May will be unfavorable for weddings, as serious financial losses in the family are possible. Marriage should be planned for the summer.
The stars advise Libra to postpone marriage until next year.
Scorpios – October, November and December are ideal months for starting a family. And marriages entered into in the spring will become unhappy.
For Sagittarius, the stars predict a strong marriage in November and December. But the alliance concluded in October threatens financial losses.
Capricorns in 2022 should choose January for their wedding, as well as any summer month.
Aquarius should refrain from a wedding ceremony from April to July. Favorable times will be February and all three months of autumn.
Pisces - a trip to the registry office should be planned for the end of the year. A marriage concluded from April to June can become unhappy.
Tips from practice
According to our ancestors, the best time for a wedding is the beginning of autumn, a time rich in harvest. There is abundance on the tables, the harvest has been harvested - it’s time to have a wedding feast, so weddings were celebrated almost every day.
Nowadays, a large number of weddings take place at the end of summer and the first half of autumn. But there are also pros and cons here. On the one hand: beautiful photographs against the backdrop of golden autumn, warm sunny days, an abundance of vegetables and fruits, etc. On the other hand: increased demand for wedding services: restaurant reservations, photographer, videographer, toastmaster, wedding planner, etc.
When planning a wedding ceremony, take into account all the details and little things, use the advice and recommendations of experts, and perhaps, if you are very superstitious, you should seek help from people of certain qualifications in this matter. But the main thing is not the date of the upcoming wedding, but the union of two loving hearts with the sacred bonds of marriage.
Of course, there are a huge variety of wedding signs. However, in what year, month or on what day of the week to get married is up to the future newlyweds to decide. And there is no need to get hung up on this, because the power of thought is enormous, and each person is the creator of his own family happiness. So, “Advice and love to you”!
