Bonbonnieres are needed to express your gratitude to family and friends present at the wedding for their desire to share memorable moments with the bride and groom. Instead of ordinary boxes or bags, you can use an original option - bonbonniere jars with jam, brewed with love especially for the day of celebration.
This solution is good because the gift will definitely be useful to guests in practice, and will not just take its place on a shelf next to other souvenirs. Bonbonnieres “Jars with jam” for a wedding can be ordered from an organization that produces wedding accessories, or you can make it yourself.
Peculiarities
Bonbonnieres began to be used in Europe to show gratitude to guests for coming to a wedding. Gradually, this tradition was adopted in other countries, since this is another romantic detail that decorates a wedding and makes it warmer and more comfortable. Jars of jam as small gifts for guests further complement this atmosphere, therefore they are considered one of the best options.
This solution is best suited for an autumn or winter wedding, since it is at this time of year that many people take out jam from the cellars for evening tea. In addition, guests will have no doubt that the bonbonniere was made specifically for a wedding, since the berry season has passed not so long ago.
Homemade jam is much tastier and healthier than store-bought jam, so it is recommended to make it yourself. If the bride has not done this kind of cooking before, she can ask her mother, grandmother or friend for help. Cooking together will not only be a good experience for the girl, but will also allow her to spend quality time in pre-wedding conversations.
The finished jam is poured into sterilized jars, covered with a lid and decorated in the chosen way. To do this, you can use paper, cardboard, fabric, lace, ribbons and any other decorative elements. To each bonbonniere you will need to attach a tag with the guest’s name and surname, as well as a sticker with the designation of the jam, the wedding date and words of gratitude.
Interesting! If you decide that your gift for guests will be edible, there is a simpler option - chocolate bonbonnieres.
“Jam” bonbonnieres can be placed on each guest’s plate in advance to set up a cozy atmosphere for family and friends from the very beginning.
Another option is to arrange them in a pyramid on a separate table so that everyone can take their gift when it is convenient. Also, the bride and groom can give jam to friends and family at the end of the evening during farewell. This will be a manifestation of good manners and respect for guests.
How to give
The way a gift is given is no less important than the gift itself. So, you can present your jam to guests in the following situations:
- During competitions, this is how you prepare the guests, and everything will be fun and relaxed. Organize, for example, a game: who can find their soul mate the fastest. To do this, prepare cards in advance with the names of famous lovers: Romeo and Juliet, Adam and Eve and distribute them to the guests. Those who find their soul mates will receive a prize - a jar of sweets.
- You can present a prepared surprise when guests give a gift to the newlyweds. You will present yours in response.
- The traditional way is to place gifts for guests near their plates. Then, when they leave, they can take them with them.
- The tradition of organizing a “candy bar”, where various sweets are laid out, has become fashionable. Here you can beautifully arrange jars of sweets and announce to guests that they can pick them up when it is convenient for them. And the table can be decorated with candles or flowers.
- You can pleasantly surprise everyone at the end of the celebration, when everyone starts going home. This method is more suitable for small weddings. After all, the bride and groom will have to do everything personally. The main thing here is not to miss anyone and give everyone a little attention; the guests will be so pleased.
The method of delivery must be thought out in advance. The main thing is to prepare your guests and make sure that no one leaves empty-handed.
Combination with celebration style
While jam jars are a tempting option for many newlyweds due to their uniqueness and cost-effectiveness, they may not suit every style of wedding. At a classic wedding in the autumn or winter, such bonbonnieres will look appropriate if the design is not particularly solemn and elegant.
As for wedding themes, jars of jam are ideal for Russian folk style in combination with bread, bagels, crackers or gingerbread.
Boxes of candy
Metal boxes with individual design. Choice of mints or sugar drops. Price 200 rubles per joke.
Bridesmaid
Using openwork napkins, fabric of a suitable color and twine, you can create an original design for bonbonnieres, and all that remains is to attach stickers and tags. Christina
Sweet bonbonnieres are also suitable for a classic wedding, made in a certain color, for example, raspberry, cherry, peach or plum. In this case, guests are presented with jam from the appropriate berries and fruits.
Bonbonnieres for a “Jam” wedding will look appropriate at a celebration in which the decoration includes berries or fruits (for example, a citrus or cherry wedding), especially if the celebration takes place outdoors.
Interesting! This option will look original at a celebration in a rustic or Provence style, especially if you additionally decorate the jar with dried field plants. The same solution can be applied to country or retro themes.
You should not use jam jars at weddings that involve a formal and formal style. For example, this option is not suitable for a vintage celebration, Tiffany, shabby chic or Chanel theme. For suitable styles, consistency with the overall design is achieved using the characteristic decorative elements of the jar.
M&M's
These sweets have a huge number of fans. In stores we are used to seeing m&m's with chocolate and peanuts. To prevent peanut lovers from getting a bonbonniere with chocolate, divide them into different containers, or pour them in half into each box. You can also make such a bonbonniere more original by placing not a bunch of multi-colored candies in a jar, but selecting 2 or 3 colors that combine with each other. You can also choose original colors, inscriptions and designs on the dragees themselves. Contact us and we will help you make your wish come true.
Useful video: master class on decoration
The first video tutorial tells not only about decorating a ready-made sweet accessory, but also about creating its base. Plums are used in the master class, but any other berries and fruits can be used instead.
When making jam yourself, it is worth considering that the difference will only be in the amount of sugar added, because all crops require different amounts. When the jam is ready, the jars are sterilized and filled with sweet mass. After cooling, you can start decorating.
Interesting video: second decor option
If the jars of jam have been ready for a long time, but you want to decorate them in a special way, you can show your imagination by being inspired by the ideas from the master class presented below. It tells how you can make decor for jars of jam using paper, napkins, fabric, mesh used for decorating bouquets, and other materials.
After reading the master class, the bride just has to choose a material suitable in style and color and secure it to the lid with twine, ribbon or a regular rubber band. A card is glued to the jar itself indicating the fruit from which the jam is made and the wedding date.
Decoration of wedding bonbonnieres
There are certain templates for wedding bonbonnieres; it is customary to indicate the wedding date on gifts and express gratitude to the guests.
You can present wedding bonbonnieres to guests at the very beginning of the ceremony, simply by placing the gifts on the table, next to each plate, or already during the celebration, putting them in one basket so that everyone can take them. Or you can give a gift at the end of the celebration, seeing off the guests.
Additional Tips
Creating bonbonnieres in the form of jars of jam is a simple and exciting process that does not require a lot of time and money. If the bride, groom or their parents have a garden plot where they can collect suitable berries or fruits, all that remains is to buy suitable containers and materials for decoration.
When creating such bonbonnieres, it is recommended to take into account the following nuances.
- If you decide to buy ready-made jam rather than make it yourself, then it is advisable to remove all labels indicating the manufacturer. It will be more pleasant for guests to think that the bride and groom themselves were involved in creating bonbonnieres;
- Guests may be allergic to certain fruits or berries; such features must be taken into account in advance so that the gift is truly pleasant. For diabetics, jam is made without sugar using acceptable substitutes;
- All containers for jam should be the same volume, optimally 100-200 ml;
- For bonbonnieres, it is recommended to use only fresh jam, prepared in the last summer before the wedding. Last year's sweets can ruin the whole experience;
- Using jam jars as wedding bonbonnieres is a winning option.
The best ideas for bonbonnieres for guests
For convenience, we will divide bonbonnieres by type and provide original ideas for their implementation. Almost all of them are quite budget-friendly and so simple that you can even make bonbonnieres with your own hands. You can also order them from private craftsmen if you don’t have time or don’t know how to do handicrafts.
Sweets
Jars and original boxes with unusual non-perishable desserts (macarons, cakes, cake pops) will appeal to many guests. You can even use popcorn or nuts - it will be unusual and tasty!
Alcoholic drinks
The easiest, but not the cheapest way to get complimentary gifts is to order small bottles of any alcohol. This could be champagne or sparkling wine, or something stronger. Even ordinary “chekushki” with vodka will do, just replace the labels on them and attach some decor.
Jam, honey or other preserves
Such bonbonnieres in small jars will look charming and appetizing. Along with jam, gifts with honey are also popular.
And some go even further and give guests jars or bottles of sauce or even canned cucumbers! The main thing is the theme and presentation so that it looks beautiful in the photo. Such bonbonnieres will ideally fit into an eco-style wedding, a picnic, etc.
Aromatherapy
Give your guests anything that smells good. These can be mini diffusers, sachets with dried flowers or filler soaked in aroma oils, as well as handmade scented soap.
Handmade bath bombs and scented candles are very popular in the West. The former, complete with soap, will provide a day of relaxation with SPA treatments in your own bathroom, and the latter will decorate the room and create a cozy atmosphere.
Hot drinks
We do not suggest handing out glasses of coffee or hot tea to guests, because our task is to offer bonbonnieres for guests, and not refreshments for the buffet table. Therefore, it is worth giving drinks in dry form: loose tea, ground coffee or straight beans. You can give them in bags and glass containers. And tea in test tubes and coffee bonbonniere jars for guests will delight even the most fastidious!
Also don't forget about cocoa. To make the gift more interesting, take a ready-made Nesquik-type instant drink, distribute cookies and marshmallows into bags and place it in mugs. No one will remain indifferent to such a bonbonniere!
Spices
Spices and all kinds of mixtures can be given as independent compliments, or they can be used to complement other gifts. For example, add a sachet of mulled wine mixture to a mini bottle of wine or dried mint, lemon balm and thyme to tea. Or you can mix various spices, put them in a jar, and this will be enough for a full-fledged bonbonniere. Here’s another interesting idea for you with aromatic oil: put a sprig of rosemary and thyme in a bottle, pour in olive oil and let it brew a little.
Eco gifts
This is an ideal option for a wedding in eco, boho or rustic style, where compliments will be made from environmentally friendly materials. For example, dried fruits or fresh fruits and berries without preservatives or other additives. By the way, it is better to store fresh food in the refrigerator and give it as a gift at the end of the evening. Useful gifts made of wood are also popular: coasters, combs, etc.
Eco-products can also include bath accessories made from plant materials, for example, luffa washcloths, pumice stones, etc. To minimize the consumption of plastic bags, give your guests shopping bags, and to make this world even more beautiful and greener - flower seeds or even seedlings miniature trees.
Plants
Continuing the plant theme, we can’t help but talk about charming succulents. You can make these bonbonnieres with your own hands - buy plants and plant them in beautiful pots.
In addition to bonbonnieres made of succulents, you can also give any other living plants, but preferably small ones so that they are comfortable to carry. Compositions with stabilized flowers and dried flowers are also interesting. Even though they will perform a purely decorative function, they look very beautiful.
Gifts with care
If the weather at your wedding is going to be too hot, cold or rainy, bonbonnieres for your guests can be helpful. Sunglasses, inexpensive simple umbrellas, warm blankets - it’s not difficult for you, it’s pleasant for your guests.
Also, don’t forget about hats so that the sun doesn’t hit your head. And if at your cozy intimate celebration it is uncomfortable for guests to dance in elegant shoes, offer them comfortable slippers.
Summary
The bride will once again be able to demonstrate her thriftiness and hard work, while saving on expensive materials, and family and friends will go home with their favorite sweet for tea. But do not forget about the specificity of such a gift - it will not be appropriate at every wedding, and some guests may not like it. Every girl can make bonbonnieres “Jars of Jam” with her own hands. Guests will certainly appreciate such a gift.
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Simple recipes
We can recommend several jam recipes if you want to make a surprise yourself:
- From heavenly apples. For 1 kg of apples you need 1.3 kg of sugar and 2 glasses of water. The apples are washed, keeping the tails (they will make the jam viscous and give it an unusual taste). Pour in the prepared syrup and leave for a day. Then the syrup is drained, brought to a boil, and the apples are poured again. This is done again a day later. Then the jam is boiled over low heat, collecting the foam, until it thickens.
- From melon and watermelon. You will need 1 kg of melons, 1.2 kg of sugar, lemon and a glass of water. The peeled pulp of watermelon and seedless melon is cut into small cubes and sprinkled with 400 g of sugar. Leave in the cold for 2 hours. Then add lemon cut into strips. A syrup is boiled from the remaining sugar and water and added to the candied pulp. Cook until thickened.
