Competition “Distribution of Responsibilities” at a wedding: popular scenarios for the bride and groom to decide who will do what in family life

Wedding competitions for newlyweds are small tests to prepare for their future life together. With their help, you can check your knowledge about each other, as well as make sure of your common plans for the future. Wedding competitions should be light, relaxed, fun and create a good mood for both participants and spectators. The “Distribution of Responsibilities” competition at a wedding meets all these criteria.

Essence and props

The main idea of this competition is to distribute responsibilities within a young family, so that it is fun and interesting for both the newlyweds and guests. There are several options for carrying it out. Depending on which option the presenter offers, the newlyweds either determine their responsibilities in the family themselves, or chance does it for them.
The competition will fit perfectly into the entertainment program for a small wedding.
To conduct this you may need one or another props. You will also have to prepare a text for the presenter and select music. Important! You should not completely rely on the tastes of the host or DJ in choosing wedding music, as their preferences may not coincide with yours.
Props for the competition “Distribution of family responsibilities”:

balls with pieces of paper on which responsibilities are written, and needles;
objects symbolizing some kind of duty (for example, a frying pan or a hammer), and a rope;
cards with text, tray or jar;
homemade chamomile;
spinning top with an arrow, envelopes with questions.

Wedding competition: Get to know me, darling

Bride's Leg

Props:

1. Scarf for eyes.
2. Stockings.

The ladies, including the bride, sit on the chairs, 4-5 people. They show the groom that his wife is sitting among them. The groom is blindfolded. At this moment, all the women change seats, and among them (for color) 1-2 men sit down. At this time, the bride is replaced by another girl. Everyone bares one leg (just above the knees) and lets the groom in with a bandage. He is squatting, touching everyone's bare leg with his hands in turn, and must recognize his wife. Men can wear stockings to hide hairiness. There are many options.

Bride's hand

Several women come out, preferably of different ages, from girls to grandmothers. They remove all the jewelry from the hand. The groom must guess his betrothed while blindfolded.

Kiss the Bride

Recognize the bride by a kiss (the groom is seated on a chair, three girls are called, he is blindfolded; only the bride always kisses).

Ideas

You can distribute the following responsibilities of young people in the competition:

provide for family;
to take out the trash;
rest;
iron clothes;
do makeovers;
change children's diapers;
lift someone else's spirits;
paint your nails;
have a romantic dinner;
call your parents to find out how they are doing;
let go for walks with friends;
be responsible for the family budget;
delight your spouse with pleasant surprises;
support your spouse;
be in love;
value;
give gifts;
carry in your arms.

Wedding competition: Guess me, my love!

Groom's ear

The bride is blindfolded. You need to recognize the groom by his earlobe or nose (five men).

Find out by voice

Props:

1. Balloon filled with helium.

Take a balloon filled with helium. First, the bride is blindfolded or turns away. Then several men should come out and take turns saying “I love you” to the bride, changing their voice with a balloon. Among these men is her husband. The bride must guess the voice of her lover.

Scripts for young people

Surprise inside

This scenario uses balloons. To carry out it is necessary:

Prepare notes in advance on which responsibilities are written:
put one note in each ball;
inflate the balloons.

Important! Family responsibilities in this scenario are distributed by chance.

The newlyweds take turns choosing one of the balloons, popping it and reading out the dropped note.

Before reading the note, you can say:

Darling! I'm ready for you...
My only one! For the sake of your smile, I agree...
My only one! I love you so much that I'm ready...
My dear! No matter what, I'm ready...

For "The Surprise Inside" you need the following props:

balloons;
notes;
needles.

Association

This version of the competition involves the use of things and objects that symbolize one or another duty.
For example:

frying pan - who cooks the food;
iron - who irons things;
children's book - who raises children;
skewer - who cooks kebabs;
garbage bag - who gets the privilege of throwing out garbage;
a spool of thread - who will have to sew up socks;
mop - who cleans the house;
diaper - who changes children's diapers;
plate - who washes the dishes;
car keys - who controls the car;
travel magazine – who plans and chooses places to travel;
knitting needles - who knits socks.

Advice! To carry out it is necessary to select items in advance (in approximately equal quantities for the bride and groom) and hang them on a rope.

The newlyweds are blindfolded and brought into the hall with a rope with objects previously hung on it. The bride and groom cut off half of the items that hang on the rope. After this, their eyes are untied, and a cheerful distribution of responsibilities begins - everyone puts on their shoulders what the things from the pile are associated with.

Props:

objects;
rope;
2 scissors;
2 scarves for blindfolding.

I will

This version of the competition is the simplest. Its preparation requires a minimum of time and materials. All you need is:

write on paper various actions and activities that most people do in everyday life;
fold the pieces of paper so that what is written is not visible;
place them on a tray or put them in a beautiful jar.

The bride and groom take turns taking out folded pieces of paper, unfolding them and reading what is written on them. Every time before reading the content they must say: “I will...”.

For example, “I will...”:

...cook soups;
…repair the car;
…taking out the trash;
...put the children to bed;
...laugh at your jokes;
...bring breakfast in bed;
...to treat you when you are sick;
...make you smile;
...give you a massage;
...kiss you in the morning.

Props:

pieces of paper with responsibilities;
tray or jar.

Who will do what?

It is necessary to prepare envelopes in advance with questions that can be of a different nature and belong to certain areas of knowledge. It is worth choosing questions from the school curriculum so that the competition does not tire the guests.

Envelopes are laid out in a circle on the table, and in the center is a spinning top with an arrow. The host names some duty and the newlyweds spin the spinning top. She then stops and points to the envelope with the question. The presenter reads out the question, and the responsibility that the presenter named goes to the one who was the first to answer the question.

For this option you need:

spinning top with arrow;
envelopes with questions.

Yours/mine/ours

The competition will show whether the young people discussed their future life and were able to agree on who will do certain household chores. The newlyweds independently determine what responsibilities:

will be performed by everyone;
what the spouse will do;
and what they will do together.

Advice! A list of questions that the presenter will ask must be prepared in advance.

The host calls the newlyweds forward. He places two chairs with their backs facing each other and invites the young people to sit down and take off their shoes. After this, the groom must give the bride one of his shoes, and the bride must give the groom one of her shoes. The newlyweds sit with their backs to each other so as not to see their spouse’s answers (it will be more fun this way).

After exchanging shoes, the host asks questions beginning with the words “Who will be in your house”:

...cook pancakes;
...waking up at night when the child cries;
...buy sweets for home;
...make jokes wittier;
...laugh louder at your own jokes;
…solve problems;
...wash socks;
...bargain on the market;
...ask parents for money;
…tolerate your spouse’s antics;
...be the first to make peace?

And for each question, the bride and groom must:

pick up their shoes - if they themselves do it;
spouse's shoes - if he should do it;
two at once if they think they will do it together.

Advice! Shoes can be replaced with other items, for example, a ladle (feminine attribute) and a hammer (male attribute).

For the “Yours/Mine/Ours” competition you need:

list of questions for the presenter;
shoes of young people or other male and female attributes.

Distribution of responsibilities in the family

Family responsibilities. Option 1.

The host brings pieces of paper with responsibilities written on them that may fall to the bride or groom. Each piece of paper is folded so that what is written is not visible to anyone, and placed on a tray.

The young people must take turns taking pieces of paper and reading out what fate is in store for them. Moreover, each duty is accompanied by the words: “I will...”, and what is written will become a continuation of the phrase.

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Family responsibilities. Option 2.

Various things are hung on a rope to symbolize different responsibilities.

For example:

frying pan - who will have to cook food;
empty beer bottle - who should drink beer;
iron - who will do the ironing;
a pack of washing powder - who will do the laundry;
children's book - who will raise the children;
wallet - who will become the money earner;
skewer - who will go to the barbecue;
spool of thread - who will mend clothes and darn socks, etc.

The bride and groom are blindfolded, after which the presenter explains that each of them will need to remove six items. After this is done, the bride and groom are untied.

The presenter, taking each of the removed objects in his hands in turn, explains their meaning, starting with the words: “The husband will…”, “The wife will…”.

Family responsibilities. Option 3.

The toastmaster says to the bride and groom: Dear newlyweds! In life you will have to perform many household responsibilities, and let fate now distribute them among you. Magic balls will help us in this competition. 10 balls and 2 pins are brought out.

The bride and groom take turns choosing and popping balloons, and reading out the responsibilities that fall to them.

Before reading the text of the card, it is advisable for the bride and groom to say the following:

To the groom: My only one! For the sake of your smile, I am ready... To the bride: My dear! I love you so much that I agree... Phrases for cards:

Making money - I can do that.
Cook cabbage soup, or maybe borscht - I’m not averse to doing this.
Playing sports in the morning - This suits me, brothers.
My job is to relax, lying on the ottoman to read.
Play in the casino until nightfall - I love this job very much.
I will go shopping, so be it.
I will wash, and do laundry, and clean the apartment.
Mushrooms, fishing and hunting - That, friends, is my job.
I will bake pies only on holidays.
There is no more beautiful job - making compotes for the winter.
I will take the children to the circus, to the cinema, to the theater, to the museum.
I say in front of everyone, friends, I will tinker with the children.
Digging a garden at the dacha I will, but how else?
I'll serve you coffee in the morning in your bed.
Pouring yourself in a bathhouse with sweat - This is a wonderful job.
I will eat the harvest in the garden, everything is fine here.
I'm not too lazy to make my bed in the morning, even every day.
Throwing trash out of the house - I am familiar with this matter.
Giving gifts and flowers You will be in our house.
I can fix the bell or the door, believe me.
I can nail a shelf to the wall. I can do that quite well.
I’ll go on vacation at the seaside, no need to argue.
Dressing only according to fashion is something I can do, I think.
Repairing the car in the garage - I will, of course.
Travel the world - I will, how sweet it is.
Renovating an apartment - I will be wonderfully different.

At the end, the presenter says: Family responsibilities are distributed, but I am sure that you will help each other in difficult family work.

Props:

1. Dolls (Ken and Barbie) - 2 pairs.

The bride and groom stand with their backs to each other, each holding a pair of dolls that symbolize the bride and groom. The presenter names different family responsibilities. The newlyweds raise those dolls that should do this.

The competition is very interesting not only for the guests, but, first of all, for the bride and groom.

Wedding competition-raffle: Question-Answer

Props:

1. Cards of the bride and groom.

Make cards for the bride and groom (separately). Everyone draws out a question, reads it out, and then draws out and reads out the answer.

Questions for the bride.

Will you call your mother-in-law mom?
Do you want to have three children?
Are you into the Kama Sutra?
Will you look at other men?
Are you going to feed your husband a three-course meal?

Bride's answers.

I wouldn’t mind, but I’m afraid of the team’s condemnation.
This is my secret passion.
As a rule, I want more.
Yes, I consider myself quite prepared in this matter!
I'm scared to even think about it.

Questions for the groom.

Are you capable of spending your honeymoon without leaving your bedroom?
Will you give your wife expensive gifts?
Are you going to take your wife on vacation to the Bahamas?
Will you look at other women?
Do you want to have many children?

Groom's answers.

It all depends on how many dollars are in your pocket.
This is great, but comes with some risks.
Only with proper nutrition.
Just for the sake of great love.
I dream about this at night.

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Distribution of responsibilities at a wedding: both jokingly and seriously.

In order for the wedding celebrations to be fun and memorable for the guests, you need to come up with a good script. In addition to traditional rituals that symbolize the strength of marriage bonds and future happiness, there are many interesting games, quizzes and competitions that present worldly wisdom in an entertaining way. Distribution of responsibilities at a wedding is a fun game for newlyweds that will entertain guests of the celebration.

Compliments

A delicious compliment

The host asks the bride the names of the dishes that she will prepare for her beloved for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

For each dish, the groom must tell his wife an affectionate word beginning with the same letter as the dish:
Potatoes are my beauty, cutlets are my kitten, salad is my sexy...

Wedding game - Compliment (19 RUR)

Affectionate hedgehog

Props:

1.Apple.
2.Toothpicks.

Stick more matches into a big beautiful apple. The newlyweds should take turns pulling out these matches and saying sweet words. Whoever has the most matches wins.

I am always with you

Props:

1. Sheets of paper with inscriptions.

This game involves the bride and groom.
Its essence is that on a large sheet of paper the sentence “I am always with you, beloved” is written in a line. The paper is cut into strips, each of which corresponds to one of the letters of the inscription. The bride and groom take turns tearing off strips of paper and choosing affectionate words for each other that begin with the letters that make up the phrase.

Wedding competition: Choosing the head of the family

The newlyweds must break the bagel. Whose half is larger is the head of the family.
The two of you break a loaf of bread. Whose half is greater is the head of the family.
There is a coin hidden in a loaf of bread, whoever finds it first is the master of the house.
Two glasses, one filled with vodka, the other with water. Whoever chooses a glass of vodka will be the head.
A strip of paper with a penny stuck in the middle. The newlyweds take the strip by the edges and, at the command of the host, tear it. Whoever has a coin left on the piece of paper will earn money for the family.

Wedding fortune telling for a boy-girl

Kindergarten

Props:

1.Children's toys.
2. Scarf for eyes.

Children's toys are laid out on a tray - those that belong to girls - a doll, knitting needles, some kind of decoration, and those that belong to boys - cars, pistols, etc. The groom is blindfolded and asked to take a toy at random from the tray. On this subject they wonder who will be first.

You can let the bride take part in fortune telling. Then the newlyweds, blindfolded, take turns sorting out the toys and, based on the last toy, determine who will be the first to be born in the young family.