Wedding is the most long-awaited day in the life of any girl. A lace veil, a luxurious dress, the attention of everyone around – on this day any girl feels like a real princess. But sometimes a lot of time passes between the marriage proposal and marriage. But I really want to bring this bright holiday closer, which will forever unite the two loving hearts! In this article we will tell you whether you can wear wedding rings before your wedding or whether you shouldn’t.
Should we even believe in omens regarding rings?
Statistics show that quite a lot of people do not exactly believe in wedding superstitions associated with weddings, but still prefer to do the “right thing” in accordance with various signs, including those associated with wedding rings. Some people do this because of their own convictions, while others take the advice of their grandparents. Ultimately, it's up to you personally. If you admit that signs influence our lives, it is better to behave accordingly. If you don’t believe it, nothing bad will happen to you. And our task is to tell you in as much detail as possible about the signs with wedding rings for a wedding.
- Signs about wedding rings
Bottom line
According to established tradition, newlyweds exchange wedding symbols for the first time during the official registration of their family.
For them, this is a joyful and welcome moment, regardless of what kind of wedding ceremony they chose - a solemn one with a large number of invited guests or an ordinary one with witnesses.
By putting on the rings ahead of time, the couple deprives themselves of a very touching moment. If the relationship in a civil marriage does not work out, then the fact of violation of the signs will become another reason for worry. But in any case, the final choice is yours to make. We wish you a lifetime of happy marriage!
How to properly wear rings during the ceremony?
A close relative or male friend who is younger than the groom should present jewelry to the registry office employee or the newlyweds. Ideal if it is a teenager or child. After the rings are taken, the young man must take the box or pillow for himself, and the newlyweds must no longer touch it.
Rings should be placed on the ring finger of the right hand, since it was previously believed that a vein leading directly to the heart passes through this finger. At the same time, there should be no other rings on the right hand of the bride and groom, otherwise the newlyweds will not pay enough attention to each other. It is important that the bride does not wear gloves; the ring must touch the skin, otherwise there will be no sincerity in the relationship.
Wedding rings on a pillow
Ring finger of the right hand for the ring
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How to choose stones to wear on your fingers
A very interesting and extremely important question - someone decides to decorate themselves in accordance with the signs of the zodiac, more practical people are guided by the current value of a gemstone and the prospects for its growth in price, others want to sparkle with stones every day, but corporate ethics does not allow expensive stones.
If you constantly remember all the restrictions, you can be left without jewelry at all. Of course, diamond rings are not the most affordable pleasure, but if you look, you can always find stones of good quality and at an affordable price
Especially if you pay attention to discounts in Key to Success stores.
The best option is to have several rings in your box for a variety of occasions. Diamonds and corundums for evening events and celebrations, semi-precious topazes, amethysts and similar inserts are perfect for meeting friends and informal gatherings. Gems can be worn every day: they are modest, purchased at a low cost, and affording a set of several rings with different stones is not at all burdensome on the budget.
Is it possible to remove the engagement ring after the wedding?
If the wedding jewelry was worn once at the wedding ceremony, it cannot be removed subsequently. According to the superstition, every removal of the ring after the wedding takes away love and mutual trust. But is it possible to risk your own health if, for example, wearing a ring contradicts safety precautions at work for your husband or wife? It’s definitely not possible, so common sense is more important in this regard. If the ring has become large or small, it can be reduced or enlarged in a jewelry workshop. If this is technically impossible, it is better to hang the jewelry on a chain and always carry it with you, rather than accidentally losing it somewhere.
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Myth or reality
We figured out why you can't wear wedding rings before the wedding. Signs and beliefs do not allow every person to relax. This is especially true for women. They are the ones who listen to different beliefs, without even knowing whether it is a myth or reality.
In fact, according to psychologists, what happens is exactly what a person believes. If you think that omens are a myth, then they definitely won’t affect you. However, there are girls who firmly believe in them. They believe that trouble will definitely come if they don’t listen to something. Then all kinds of troubles happen to such girls.
The human subconscious is a great force. It attracts both negativity and positivity. Therefore, if you want to live long, happily and be one, then set yourself up only for positive emotions. Your future depends on you.
Wedding signs for the bride are varied. They talk not only about trouble, but also about joy. How can one believe that if an unmarried girl washes with her hands and soaks her hem, her husband will be an alcoholic? Or what does a girl’s insomnia say about an eccentric child? Therefore, you should not religiously believe in all signs. Undoubtedly, there are real beliefs, but in fact there are very few of them. So sometimes you need to listen to them.
Can a wife wear her husband's wedding ring?
The same question applies to the wife. Each spouse has their own personal jewelry, so that’s what they should wear. If one of the couple cannot wear his ring even on a chain, it is worth keeping it at home in a box. A wife can wear her husband's jewelry only in one case: if he is not alive, and only on a chain around her neck. But keep in mind that such a “pendant” is a “talisman” against new relationships. And if the widow is ready to move on, it is better to remove the late husband’s ring and simply keep it as a memory.
Don't take off your wedding ring
Ring on a chain
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Family heirloom
Typically, wedding rings are prized by married couples. After all, almost every person believes in miracles. For some reason, many people believe that the more expensive and rich the jewelry looks, the better. However, experts say the opposite. After all, it doesn’t matter how much your ring costs, what stones are in it, the main thing is feelings and relationships.
Over time, the couple will pass the jewelry on to their children or grandchildren. As a result, it turns out that wedding rings become family heirlooms. Especially if their owners were happily married.
What to do if your wedding decoration is lost?
If one of the spouses lost their wedding ring after the wedding, this is a bad omen. You can deal with this problem in the following way: put the second spouse’s ring in a box and put it away, and then buy a new pair. Next, you need to ask for blessings from your parents or contact a priest. The next stage is the repeated exchange of vows and rings. And if the ring was lost at home and then found, this is a good omen that promises wealth and prosperity.
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The magic of the golden rim
Since ancient times, wedding rings have been attributed with magical meaning:
- There was such a ritual: a person put on a gold ring without any stones and went out to wash himself with rainwater. It was believed that this promised health, strength and wealth.
- Our ancestors were very worried about the slightest damage to this object. It was believed that scratches and dents did not bode well.
- And if the bride or groom happened to make a mistake before or during the ceremony, there was simply no worse omen. This foreshadowed either betrayal of the spouse or imminent death.
Based on all this, it is quite clear that the question arises of what to do if you have lost your wedding ring.
The ring has disappeared - what does that mean?
Among many peoples who generally use such symbols of love and fidelity, the loss of a sacred object is considered, if not entirely a bad omen, then at least a cause for concern.
Superstitious people believe that if you lose your wedding ring, it portends:
- divorce;
- betrayal of a spouse;
- large financial expenses;
- imminent health problems.
Is it really?
Signs are a complex phenomenon. Psychologists are still debating what exactly happens when something bad happens:
- higher powers send people a sign that something terrible will happen;
- people who know what sign is what, begin to expect consequences, thereby bringing these consequences closer.
What to do if your wife has lost her wedding ring?
Quite often the situation looks like this:
The wife firmly believes that loss means her husband is cheating. He starts thinking about it sometimes. The husband feels that his wife is communicating with him somehow differently. He notices questioning glances and unusual intonations. He doesn’t like that his wife suspects him of something, even if she is smart and doesn’t express it out loud. He begins to pay attention to other women, with whom he feels calmer. In the end, it comes to betrayal, or even divorce.
My husband lost his wedding ring - what should I do?
Men lose rings just as often as their wives
And it doesn’t matter at all whose hand no longer has the jewelry dear to the heart. This gold rim is so unreliable - it is completely smooth, it always tries to slip or roll somewhere if you take it off while cleaning
In any case, there is no need to panic. It is best to immediately try to find the jewelry. The house will have to be cleaned again, especially if there are a lot of things in the apartment. Don't be surprised if you need to move a cabinet or refrigerator. The small object will find a place to roll so that the owners will bother.
However, there’s no need to worry too much, you’ll still find it at home – of course, if it doesn’t occur to your baby to flush it down the toilet.
To speed up the process, it would be a good idea to act this way:
- Remember where the person who lost the ring was and what he was doing.
- Go through all the corners he was in.
- Check all items touched.
The naughty brownie
Have you looked everywhere, but to no avail? Try to appease your Brownie. For example, like this: “Brownie, Brownie, play and give it back!” You can put a saucer with milk in the corner, and put sweets next to it - they say brownies love such treats.
If it wasn't at home
It’s worse if you don’t know where exactly you managed to lose your ring. But you shouldn’t think that there are only scoundrels living around who are just waiting for an expensive item to fall into their hands in order to pocket it. It is possible, of course, that this is so, but try it anyway:
- contact local media - especially those with lost-and-found tables;
- look into online communities - it is possible that someone there has already advertised an interesting find;
- write a message to the most popular of communities asking for the return of an artifact that is dear to you.
Basically, there are exactly the same people around you who can also lose something dear to them and understand you perfectly. And it is completely possible that someone will give you your ring even without a reward or for a box of juice.
