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The custom of giving gifts to the groom's parents has its roots in ancient times. The Slavs have always given gifts to their parents on the eve of their wedding. In those days, the best gifts for the groom's parents were considered to be pieces of silk and woolen fabrics, as well as various kitchen utensils, but much has changed since those times, including holiday gifts from the bride to the groom's parents. If you want to give an interesting and useful gift to the groom's parents, then talk about this with your lover. He will tell you about all the hobbies and desires of his parents, and perhaps you will think together about the question of what to give his parents.

Thinking about the question of what to give to the groom's parents, let's look at gift options separately for the father and separately for the mother of your groom.

Classic gifts for both parties

You will never go wrong if you give desired and necessary gifts or things that will benefit their owner. This category includes new furniture, household appliances, accessories and decorative items, everything for the interior, items directly related to the recipient’s hobbies. The main thing is to choose financially equivalent gifts for both families, so that it doesn’t occur to anyone to compare or be offended. Your significant other will tell you what exactly is missing in your parents’ house.

Bread maker.
Multicooker.
Air fryer.
Dishwasher.
Automatic washing machine.
Clothes dryer.
Robot vacuum cleaner.
Microwave.
Double boiler.
Dryer for fruits and vegetables.
Food processor.

Electric kebab maker.
Auger juicer.
Electric meat grinder.
Household vacuum degasser.
Steam generator.
Coffee maker with coffee grinder or coffee machine.
Air conditioning with a certificate for its installation.
New plasma TV.
Computer or laptop.
Home cinema.
Refrigerator or freezer.
Waffle iron, sandwich maker, ice cream maker, yogurt maker, toaster.
Electric kettle.
Convenient computer corner.
New sofa or kitchen corner.
Electronic window cleaner.

Humidifier.
Heater or decorative bio-fireplace.
High-quality orthopedic mattress with a set of pillows.
Decorative figurine.
An original wall painting of a piggy bank for wine corks.
Floor lamp.
Limited gift edition of classic books.
Massager.
Table porcelain.
Silver plate.

What to give to the bride's parents

The groom, taking his young wife from the parental home, must give his mother-in-law and father-in-law good memorable gifts. Any piece of household appliance that makes housekeeping easier will look symbolic. For example, when giving a robot vacuum cleaner or a dishwasher, a guy can say that he is giving it in return for the assistant he is taking away from his parents. To give a useful gift, the groom will have to “interrogate” his beloved and find out what exactly they lack for complete happiness. They may not have a digital camera, a cordless phone with multiple handsets, a printer for printing family portraits, a humidifier, a good heater, or a microwave oven. If the groom has the desire and opportunity to give his newly-made relatives an expensive gift, then he can buy a summer cottage for them, and at the wedding, solemnly present a large photograph of their new property, enclosed in a beautiful frame. If your beloved’s parents have everything, then it’s worth buying them a ticket to a weekend tour or a long trip. As inexpensive gifts, paired cups or T-shirts with themed inscriptions and drawings look good.

Unusual ideas and surprises

Most parents, as soon as they talk about the wedding of their beloved child, begin to look forward to their grandchildren. In this regard, the young people can present them with an orange tree. It symbolizes family comfort and continuity of generations. The gift can be accompanied by a playful promise that, just as an orange tree is covered with fruits (and it bears fruit all year round), so your parents will be surrounded by grandchildren.

However, if the couple is very young, and their parents want them to finish their studies and have a successful career first, such a gift may scare them.

Medals, cups, and certificates presented to parents will be original. The main thing is to truthfully and at the same time sincerely determine the nomination for each of the parents. In this case, it is better to reserve a special place in the holiday scenario for the gift-giving ceremony. The bride can say words of gratitude to her parents and explain the meaning of the nomination, and the groom can solemnly present the award. Then he thanks his family in the same way, and the bride is in charge of presenting medals or cups.

Bouquets of sweets and fruits look original. The main thing is that they are not opened or damaged. It is unlikely that parents will start tasting an unusual gift at a banquet, where there are already a lot of treats. But they will be able to take it home and try it 2-3 days after the wedding.

For the bride

First of all, the bride received a bouquet - you can attach a box of her favorite chocolates or a basket of fruit to it.

Another gift was a ring that was ceremonially placed on the finger. When choosing a ring, pay attention to the jewelry that the woman is already wearing.

The bride receives a gold chain from her future mother-in-law - this is a traditional option, but you may well choose something else.

The custom of passing on a family heirloom is also often practiced - it could be an old icon, jewelry, or even an embroidered towel.

The rest of the participants in the process also present the woman with small, memorable items. These can be various souvenir figurines, flowers in pots, sweets and much more.

Gifts for the groom's parents

A gift to the parents of your future husband is not just a sign of attention, but also an expression of gratitude, so your choice should be taken seriously. You shouldn’t give too expensive things, but you shouldn’t try to get away with a cheap souvenir either. It will be great if the gift is personal, taking into account the interests or hobbies of the mother-in-law and father-in-law. They will certainly appreciate such a sign of attention.

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A good option would also be some practical things that will always be useful in everyday life. This could be something from technology, for example, a slow cooker, blender, bread maker. Or bedding: a blanket, beautiful bed linen or a large warm blanket.

The best option would be to approach the gift creatively. For example, compiling and beautifully designing a genealogical book. Such a thing will only become more valuable over the years and may even become a family heirloom over time, which also has historical value for the family. You can also give a large photo album, which will also preserve the family history and be passed down from generation to generation. It will be nice to take it out for your golden wedding and nostalgically look back on the path traveled. Now there are kits that allow you to design an album yourself, so the gift will be not only meaningful, but also unique.

Additional gift ideas:

For those parents who care about their appearance, we recommend purchasing jewelry and accessories. The husband's mother will love a ring, pendant or earrings in a classic design. And for your father-in-law, you can buy silver cufflinks or a beautiful ring. Do not forget to find out the desired size of the jewelry in advance, with the support of your husband.
Even if you marry a wealthy man, and his parents have no shortage of household items and jewelry, you can surprise the couple. Give an indoor fountain or an aquarium with exotic fish. Such gifts will not only brighten up the loneliness of lovers, but will also help maintain their health. After all, water therapy is an effective remedy for nervous tension and stress.

Tip: When talking about health gifts, we can’t help but mention a visit to the pool. If the husband's parents are full of strength and energy, then most likely they will appreciate an annual subscription to the pool for two. If they love to dance, then give them a subscription to a dance school, where they will learn the basics of classical ballroom dancing. If, despite their age, parents lead an active lifestyle, then they will enjoy moving to catchy Latin American tunes.

Today, more and more often, children give their parents poems of their own composition or songs in their honor. If you are not afraid to speak in front of an audience, and even have creative inclinations, then such a gift will cause a flurry of positive emotions and tears of tenderness.

Tip: For a gift to last forever for a married couple, it needs to be a surprise. Of course, you can sing a song at a wedding celebration, but the element of surprise is lost in this case. On the eve of the wedding, we recommend going to karaoke with your parents, setting a verse to the melody of their favorite song in advance. And then, together with your future husband, boldly go on stage and express your gratitude for your son and their concern for the future of your family.

A modular painting made from a photo will also be a memorable gift for the people who raised your loved one. To do this, a few weeks before the planned event, ask your future husband to quietly take out the best photo of your parents from a photo album. Also, consult with your lover or together choose a worthy frame for the picture. Consider the style of your husband’s parents’ home. A wooden frame made of natural wood will fit perfectly into a living room decorated in a classic style. If parents prefer modern interiors, then a metal or glass frame will look harmonious in a high-tech interior.

Please your husband's loved ones is not an easy task. But thanks to the help of your chosen one and the lion's share of imagination, you will surprise your new parents by touching the finest strings of the soul. And do not forget that the best gift for them will be the happiness and well-being of the children’s union.

Some tips for choosing gifts

It would seem that what could be simpler than making a gift? It's actually not that simple. Let's look at some tips for choosing gifts for newlyweds.

Don’t be shy to ask other guests what they are going to give as gifts. After all, you must admit that it will not look very good if, in addition to your gift, there are several more of the same kind. Bright packaging with a postcard inside will also be pleasant for young people. Buy a gift as close to the wedding date as possible and keep the receipts - if it turns out that the gift is due to marriage, the newlyweds can easily change it. Don’t be greedy, this is a wedding gift, but before giving it to the newlyweds, remove the price tag. You can also ask the bride and groom themselves what they need. It happens that something inexpensive will be much more in demand than an expensive, but absolutely unnecessary thing.

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Some surprises need to be presented in private. The best ideas for them are often the following:

A medallion with a lock of a girl's hair and her photo. The silver or gold frame should be engraved with the wedding date and the words that the bride gives her love and devotion to the best man.
Robes made of the same material with individual embroidery.
Bedding with photographs of the spouses.
A heart made of gold, leather or shaped like a soft toy. It is necessary to put words of love and devotion on it, indicating the name of the future husband.
A tablecloth with an image of Peter and Fevronia embroidered on it.
A pair of dolls made in folk craft workshops. They hold hands and symbolize the inviolability of marriage bonds. They are surrounded by a ribbon with romantic words or vows.
Esoteric map of the desires of future spouses.
A typographically executed perpetual power of attorney for the possession of the soul and body of the young wife;
A volume of love poetry.
Family coat of arms with mention of the spouse's illustrious ancestors. It needs to be decorated with a courageous motto.

Gifts for a young couple from guests

It is believed that it is much more difficult for guests to choose gifts. A wedding surprise from friends should benefit the new family and provide lifelong memories. Most people, of course, use trivial ideas. In order to stand out, something original and unusual is invented. These gifts are remembered for a long time.

Gifts with humor

Comic gifts will help cheer up and amuse the newlyweds. Before presenting a gift, you need to rehearse your speech, since laughing while presenting a comic surprise is not recommended. Speech must be clear. There are several original and funny ideas.

Personalized clothes. T-shirts with the names of the bride and groom would be a good gift. For variety, you can add funny inscriptions or photographs. There are also alternative options in the form of pillows, mugs and souvenirs with original prints.
Certificates. They are sold in stores. You can take a more original approach: download diplomas and certificates from the Internet. This could be a diploma for the best wife or groom. One of the guests makes rights to manage the house. Instead of certificates, medals are often used.
Cartoon. An ordinary portrait is considered beautiful, but not such an original gift. A cartoon would be an excellent option. By this concept it is customary to understand the outline of the face, but at the same time add a good-natured and humorous image to the picture.
Raffle for newlyweds and guests. For example, guests purchase a fake wedding cake in advance. During take-out, ask the staff to turn off the lights. Then the table and the cake accidentally tip over onto the floor. All the guests, the bride and groom, will be in a stupor. However, after 10-15 seconds the real cake comes out. This is where everyone will be surprised and emotional. This prank should only be used if you are confident in the emotional stability of the bride and groom.
Give a comic first aid kit. Relatives or friends give the newlyweds medicine with a wish inside. For example, give effervescent Aspirin to make life seem burning. Or give a bandage so that there are no offenses.

You can choose other gifts, for example:

a box containing exotic butterflies;
hot air balloon ride;
wedding portrait;
quest;
calendar with photos of newlyweds.

If guests communicate closely with the bride and groom, then you can prepare several unusual gifts in the form of:

a subscription to the spa;
a dinner subscription to an expensive restaurant;
skydiving;
oriental dances;
hiking in the mountains;
performances by a children's group.

Most guests prefer not to bother and give money in an envelope. Finances will never be superfluous, and will allow you to recoup some of the expenses for the wedding.

What not to give to young people

In order not to spoil the holiday, study the list of unwanted gifts in advance. This “rider” was compiled over more than one generation and is considered the quintessence of folk wisdom.

Watch. They count down the moments until a certain event. Until divorce or death of one of the spouses.
Mirrors. Both antique and in heavy plaster frames. These are portals to parallel worlds that are unfriendly to us. This thing will bring a sweet taste of nightmare into family life in the form of quarrels and hysterics.
Vases are a symbol of childlessness. Therefore, when the idea of giving such an item has not disappeared, fill it with: decorative beads, stones, coins.
They have long ceased to be just a source of light. They are chosen as a gift. But not for a wedding. Because the marriage will last until the wick burns out.

New customs at Russian weddings

Giving gifts to invited guests is a new custom that came to us from the West. There, in the Middle Ages, sweets were packed in miniature chests made of gold or silver, inlaid with stones.

These gifts were given only to a select few, for example to the king who attended the wedding celebration. Of course, only rich people could afford this.

What gifts do newlyweds give to wedding guests these days? The gift doesn't have to be very expensive. It can be symbolic, as a pleasant sign of attention.

Take care of beautiful design

You can put small cards with warm words in the bonbonnieres. Bonbonnieres usually look like:

small, beautifully decorated chests;
beautiful bags tied with a satin ribbon;
miniature wicker baskets;
tiny boxes.

Bonbonnieres with sweets

Usually guests are given beautifully packaged sweets, nuts or any other sweets. Relatives and friends will be pleased to open the box and see:

candies,
figured chocolate,
candied fruits,
mixture of candied nuts,
In summer you can add fresh strawberries.

What else can you fill the boxes with?

You can give not only sweets. It is advisable to make presentations original. It is important that the contents fit into the box. There are the following ideas:

You can pre-order exclusive handmade soaps with different scents;
Small bottles of alcohol are always relevant: whiskey, champagne, cognac.

When to give gifts?

These are good options:

You can put the boxes on the table near the plates. The names of the guests on the bonbonnieres will help to seat everyone in their places.
Everyone finds their own bonbonniere. Place the wrapped gifts separately and announce that a small pleasant surprise awaits your dear guests.

Charming little bonbonnieres will delight friends and family and help them remember this celebration. There is no clear answer to the question of what kind of gifts the newlyweds should give to their guests. Everything depends solely on the imagination of the young.

Gifts for relatives

Gifts to relatives for a wedding today are also not a mandatory custom, however, the bride and groom may voluntarily wish to express gratitude to their relatives, the family of the future spouse, thanks to whom they found their happiness.

Today, gifts to relatives of the bride and groom are, as a rule, funny, cool souvenirs. These can be items with wedding symbols, engravings, inscriptions related to this memorable day. They will not only please relatives, but will also preserve the memory of this solemn event.

Identical gifts

So that none of the parents are offended, you can buy similar items for all four or make the same gifts for moms and dads. For an economical option, wedding medals “Best Dad” and “Best Mom” are suitable, and for a more expensive memorable gift, you can buy a watch and have a commemorative engraving on it. Good umbrellas will be not very expensive, but useful gifts - you can buy one umbrella for walking together for each married couple or give each an automatic umbrella. An excellent gift idea for parents is an electronic photo frame, in which photographs from the wedding celebration will most likely be displayed for a long time. As a nice addition to any gift, you can give your relatives four tickets to a theater or concert - this will help them quickly find a common language and strengthen family ties.

Unusual traditional gifts

When leaving for another country, carefully study the local traditions so as not to find yourself in an awkward position when choosing a gift for an important event. Here are examples of what is allowed to be given on a wedding day in different parts of the world:

The Japanese believe that a wonderful way to thank the newlyweds for the invitation is with crisp bills. They make a fan out of them, fan the couple and wish them wealth and prosperity.
The Poles also do not lag behind the inhabitants of the east. Guests throw change at the bride to fill her veil.
The French give a box of chocolates with almonds as a wish for prosperity. The tradition goes back to the times when only wealthy people could afford such a delicacy;
The Chinese wrap all gifts in red paper. In ancient times, this pigment was expensive, so it was regarded as the highest degree of respect. Residents of the Celestial Empire present a figurine of the god of fertility, wealth or longevity.
For a wedding, Georgians always give the new family a protective talisman, chigardani, which is carved from wood.
In Vietnam, the bride is always given a pile of watermelon seeds - to add to the family. And in Malaysia, this function is performed by a hard-boiled egg.

A wedding is an important ritual in a person’s life. The bride and groom, when they open their hearts to each other, become vulnerable to evil spirits. This led to the emergence of so many prohibitions and rules. When thinking about what to give for a wedding, do not rely on folk wisdom alone. Choose a gift with love and put positive thoughts into the process. Then it will benefit the future family.

What to give the bride to the groom for the wedding

The tradition of newlyweds giving each other wedding gifts has a centuries-old history.

It has long been customary that the groom gives the bride a wedding dress and jewelry, and the bride gives things sewn or embroidered with her own hands.

Today this tradition has been somewhat transformed and is not understood so literally. However, modern grooms also give their beloved an engagement ring. And brides are required to present their betrothed with a shirt.

But this option is common and not very interesting. Many brides want to give their chosen one an original gift that would tell him about her feelings better than any words. And this is where you should show all your imagination.

Examples of gifts that a bride can give her groom:

DIY gift. If the newlywed knows how to knit, then you can knit a sweater or scarf for your loved one. If the bride can sew, then you can sew the same shirt and embroider the groom's initials on it. Such a gift will be original and individual; it can carry the warmth of the hands and a piece of the soul of the newlywed.
Expensive gift. If the bride has the financial means, then she can give her lover a gift that will be useful for the future family. It could be a computer or laptop, a digital camera or camera, a TV or mobile phone, or maybe even a car.
Decorations. The bride can give her beloved a gold chain or signet, cufflinks with his or her initials. If the newlyweds do not believe in the signs that it is not recommended to give a watch for a wedding, then they can give a good wristwatch, maybe even a gold one. In order for the watch to remind you of this memorable day, an engraving can be applied to its case.
Unique and original gifts. In order to surprise and hit the groom to the heart, the bride can show her creative abilities and come up with some unusual gift. If the bride sings well, then you can record a song dedicated to your loved one. Or write a poem, if the bride has the ability to write poetry. You can make a video in which you tell the love story of a couple or the relationship of the bride to her loved one. You can make a sculptural composition from plaster, stone or wood that would convey the feelings of the newlyweds.

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This is not a complete list of gift options for the bride to the groom. You can give anything you want. The main thing is that the gift reflects the newlywed’s feelings for her chosen one and remains a reminder of this significant date for many years.

December 13, 2013

Gift ideas for girlfriends from the bride

Another tradition is a bachelorette party on the eve of the wedding . At a party with her friends, a girl says goodbye to her young life and prepares to start a family.

Perhaps family life will become a whirlwind in a series of events, so meetings with friends will occur much less frequently

Gifts for bridesmaids are intended to leave memories of their youthful years of girlhood. This could be jewelry, souvenirs, cosmetic items. A precious gift with hande-made elements. For example, hand-decorated jewelry boxes , vases, candles, handmade soap, perfume sets.

Hande-made box as a gift for a friend

thank her friends for their help in organizing the celebration: a set for embroidery, beading, knitting accessories, a cookbook.

It is not forbidden to give sweet sets, small bottles of alcohol, fruits and berries with funny notes to your girlfriends.

Giving gifts is no less pleasant than receiving. A gift to loved ones, made from the bottom of the heart, will add positive energy to the celebration and lay the foundation for good-hearted relationships - watch the video of the bride presenting a gift at a wedding:

Despite the pre-wedding efforts, dear brides, do not forget to give gifts in return to the groom's parents and best friends.

And yet about traditions: wedding gifts for parents

Any tradition or sign, including wedding ones, has historical roots. A mandatory wedding ritual in Ancient Rus' was the presentation of gifts to parents from the bride and groom. With such gifts they thanked new relatives for raising their son or daughter.

The tradition of bride ransom is also known. The groom was obliged to present sometimes a rich bride price as a gift for his wife. Such rituals are especially relevant in the eastern and southern regions.

The ransom ritual has survived to this day, but it is carried out more in a playful manner, without implying expensive gifts.

But the tradition of thanking parents is becoming more and more relevant. The only thing is that the ancient ritual performed on the second day of the wedding has now become part of the festive program of the first, and sometimes the only wedding day. Particularly interesting are the ritual actions that are still preserved in villages, where parents are rewarded not only by children, but also by mummers. They are handed things that are humorous and sometimes with erotic overtones, and are driven in a cart or cart through the entire village with songs, dances and jokes.

Roughly speaking, the second day of the wedding, which has disappeared from modern interpretations of wedding ceremonies, was entirely dedicated to the parents of the newlyweds.

Today, the attitude towards gifts for parents is not clear. Especially when children have certain disagreements with their mothers and fathers or the relationship is rather cold. Therefore, it is impossible to say unequivocally that it is necessary to give gifts to parents.

It is necessary to focus on existing relationships, views, as well as financial capabilities.

If you don’t have money, you shouldn’t buy some trinkets for the sake of tradition. Such a gift may simply offend parents. It’s better to just say words of gratitude or prepare a song as a gift.